@CleoZ
12 Years
Cancer and Scorpio love
Do yourself a favor and walk away, or you'll be spending a lot of time being angry and confused and wasting your life on nothing.
Posted by Arielle83
You shouldnt be the priority. He's expecting a kid for fucks sake. If he plans on supporting his kid you will have 2 grow used to the baby mama around. Dont you want him 2 be honourable and care about what he created? And ya i bet he was helping her out those days when she was sick. Well i'd hope he was
He can be honorable, but he's not suppose to throw her under the bus.
A courtesy call of him telling her he is really tied up would have been thoughtful.
I still don't like the age difference though.
And him dating while having a kid by another woman has too much of an ick factor to me.
OP should really think about what she is getting into. I couldn't do it. I need a free man.
Dude ain't free, still tied up with a pregnant ex-girlfriend.
Posted by Arielle83
You shouldnt be the priority. He's expecting a kid for fucks sake. If he plans on supporting his kid you will have 2 grow used to the baby mama around. Dont you want him 2 be honourable and care about what he created? And ya i bet he was helping her out those days when she was sick. Well i'd hope he wasHe can be honorable, but he's not suppose to throw her under the bus.
A courtesy call of him telling her he is really tied up would have been thoughtful.
I still don't like the age difference though.
And him dating while having a kid by another woman has too much of an ick factor to me.OP should really think about what she is getting into. I couldn't do it. I need a free man.
Dude ain't free, still tied up with a pregnant ex-girlfriend.click to expand
True, he isnt such a free man. At my age i shouldnt even be dealing with such. Deep down i know very well what i have to do. Rather say goodbye now than later, hopefully with less heartbreak.
Posted by Wynter
Do yourself a favor and walk away, or you'll be spending a lot of time being angry and confused and wasting your life on nothing.
Hahahah...If im getting confused now, while its still so new im definitely gonna be cracking my brain 6 months down the line. But what if its worth it? We will go through things together, overcome it and live happily ever after!!! But then again what if its really not worth it. He has his baby, reconnects with the mother, and im left heartbroken. Hmmmm this is tough
Posted by Wynter
Do yourself a favor and walk away, or you'll be spending a lot of time being angry and confused and wasting your life on nothing.
+1
I would also encourage the "baby mama" to slap his ass with child support payments due each month.
Unless of course the same stupid assholes on this board who are encouraging her to stay with him would also suggest that he ditch financial responsibilities to the mother of his child.
Either way, fuck you to anyone who suggests this poor young Cancer girl entwine her life with such needless and unoriginal drama.
At 19, your life should be the most drama free zone in the world, kid.
Why dump drama on top of it for no reason?
You should be planning a trip to Paris for after college graduation.
Not hanging around some loser and his personal disasters.
Posted by Wynter
Do yourself a favor and walk away, or you'll be spending a lot of time being angry and confused and wasting your life on nothing.Hahahah...If im getting confused now, while its still so new im definitely gonna be cracking my brain 6 months down the line. But what if its worth it? We will go through things together, overcome it and live happily ever after!!! But then again what if its really not worth it. He has his baby, reconnects with the mother, and im left heartbroken. Hmmmm this is tough
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Hmmmm....
5 years from now, would the wiser financial investment be a summer in Europe, college degree and a decent car....
....Or propping up some loser who will ultimately use you as some kind of ATM?
Decisions, decisions!!!
Posted by Arielle83
She must have had a good reason 2 dump him while pregnant with his kid.
according to her, they broke up because their families didn't approve.
which is still kind of odd to me.
Personally I stopped reading at "expecting". Such a horrible word :-/
just did it...Pheew!!! He took it badly, he was all emotional, and had teary eyes. But i stood firm, even though it was hard. sad but will get through it!!!
Posted by Rabbit
The use of the term "Baby mama" is an indicator of exactly where this relationship is headed...
aint that the fuckin truth
Posted by Wynter
Do yourself a favor and walk away, or you'll be spending a lot of time being angry and confused and wasting your life on nothing.+1
I would also encourage the "baby mama" to slap his ass with child support payments due each month.
Unless of course the same stupid assholes on this board who are encouraging her to stay with him would also suggest that he ditch financial responsibilities to the mother of his child.
Either way, fuck you to anyone who suggests this poor young Cancer girl entwine her life with such needless and unoriginal drama.
At 19, your life should be the most drama free zone in the world, kid.
Why dump drama on top of it for no reason?
You should be planning a trip to Paris for after college graduation.
Not hanging around some loser and his personal disasters.
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+100
Posted by CleoZ
just did it...Pheew!!! He took it badly, he was all emotional, and had teary eyes. But i stood firm, even though it was hard. sad but will get through it!!!
? So all of a sudden he just re-appeared?
Did this really happen, or is it just in your head
Posted by CleoZ
just did it...Pheew!!! He took it badly, he was all emotional, and had teary eyes. But i stood firm, even though it was hard. sad but will get through it!!!? So all of a sudden he just re-appeared?
Did this really happen, or is it just in your head
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it does sound a bit bs.
especially the part of him saying he can't be with his baby momma due to the family.
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Im a female cancer. Ive been dating my scorpio man for 2 months.
I am 19 and he is 26. This is my first "real" relationship. He let me know from the beginning that he was expecting a daughter from his ex, and they broke up because their families didnt approve.
From the day we met
we have just been calling and textig each other multiple times EVERY single day. So we got really serious from the beginning. I have met all of his friends, see him almost every day. He says he loves me and i have said it back. He has opened up to me about his life, work, dreams, family etc. So he has made me feel like he is my man. Recently he disapeared for two days, after his baby mama was sick. I am insecure about the baby mama, cause another friend mentioned that they were still together. No calls, no returning of my calls, no text, NOTHING. Ussually wake up to his calls, texts and more calls during the day and evening. Im just confused. What does this mean? Im angry that he would just disapear like that.