@Kim31
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Competition
Posted by Arielle83
say 'hi, im arielle' and grab my new guys butt as i introduce myself to the flirt
Nice.
Posted by Arielle83
say 'hi, im arielle' and grab my new guys butt as i introduce myself to the flirt
that's what im talking about.. a real woman indeed.
The way my cancer man expresses it, he takes it as a compliment that other dudes want me or find me attractive. He also seems to think this occurs way more often than it does in real life lol.
I leave it up to him to handle, I couldn't care less about her and if he doesn't step up and put her in her place then he's not man enough for me. She isn't worth my energy plus they feel stupid when you don't give them the attention they're so desperately looking for.
Posted by jeannegrey
It's not a competition, he either wants me and no one else or he doesn't. If he is going to cheat, then he is a dog and he can get to steppin'. If he wants to go with her??_ then I say go. I don't get huffy or jealous publicly. Its beneath me. Maybe its a scorp thing??_.It is a Scorp thing.
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Maybe it's a Taurus/Scorpio thing because I do the same.
Maybe it's a Cancer thing too because I do that too.
Hmm. I am the worry type, I tend to overthink. Sometimes it manifests in me asking so many questions.
I could say keep cool and pretend competition doesn't exist. BUT. If my woman will make it a big deal (keep mentioning it to me), then I'll walk away. If she really wanted me, she won't bother with him.
Posted by kissmygrits
Maybe it's a Cancer thing too because I do that too.
It's an "any woman with self respect" thing.
🙂
For some, what they say and what they do are two different things. That is what inspired the thread.
Posted by Kim31
For some, what they say and what they do are two different things. That is what inspired the thread.
For many.
Add alcohol and the numbers increase.
LoL
What happened?
Posted by Kim31
For some, what they say and what they do are two different things. That is what inspired the thread.For many.
Add alcohol and the numbers increase.
LoL
What happened?
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Two nutty crab girls talking a bunch of crap about how they would never chase a man/compete. One was dumb enough to cheat on her Taurus. Really dumb. The man is a class act and did everything to try to please her. She got bored because he wasn't "passionate". After he finds a new woman, a beautiful blonde creature, crab girl tries to win him back over a secret lunch date. (Secret because she swore she didn't want him and would never go back but then begged for the date without telling us.) He was happy to have the chance to reunite with his wife! Only she cringed when he tried to kiss her. That led to huge scene. He walked out of the restaurant leaving her behind crying and hysterical. Now she's afraid of being alone.
The competitive part stuck out to me because it was an ongoing theme of the relationship. That's how they met. She has a habit of seeking the guy every other girl wants. She is a short, fuzzy dark haired Puerto Rican. Her Taurus was always attracted to tall, thin blondes. Other than myself and one other girl, all of her friends meet her exhusband's fantasyexpectations. She competes with them on everything, primarily for the attention of men
Kim, I take it there's a whole story and history here that must have happened before I got on here...
Hm I am a Taurus with Cancer rising. Hm the Taurus and Cancer side would be extremely observant and I would over think it abit. And if that situation would really come about, I won't say a word, but I would put that to the test. In the end he will pass or fail.
I would just be extremely hurt if my solid relationship wasn't solid as I thought and the guy left me for another women. But at the same time I have detachable emotions and get over it quickly. And I just think I am glad I didn't marry him.
Because really if a women flaunts or flirts in front of you while with a guy. The girl that will try and do it. They are home wreckers. They are out there just waiting for something to happen. Especially if they feel they have something better to offer for free. Which is sex and attention they aren't getting elsewhere.
My Taurus side would crush them. No snooping unless you give me a reason. And once the jealousy plays I will lose will power and my temper. Because I trusted you in the first place. Or I haven't been in the relationship long enough and the hurdles begin and just see.
Unless its a guy that he would introduce you to them. Then I won't trip at all. He has respect and can be trusted. Cause he is coming to me at the end of the day with all these competitions out there. Or he's cheating and you pick the red flags and lies.
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If while in a budding or established relationship another woman/man puts the moves on your love, how do you respond? Do you shell up in a huff? Walk away from the situation feeding yourself a bunch of shit to make yourself feel better? Keep cool and go on with pursuit as if the competition doesn't exist? Panic?