Serial monogamist

Been seeing too many crabs with this problem lately. I'm wondering what is the difference between a serial monogamist and a w****?
A wild woman who owns her sexuality and has sex for fun doesn't bother me. If she tells no lies and makes no excuses, more power to her.
When I see a woman who is in a new "relationship" every few months and says she's in love and sexually active in each? I think she is desperate skank who hides behind "relationship" and "love" to make herself look and feel like less of a w****. As if telling everyone you're in love with the guy you fucked after meeting four weeks ago is going to make them forget you said the same shit about the guy you fucked four months?

Wow! That's a way of putting it. Serial Monogamist: Desperate to find her soul mate and she may not even know she's trying to force it by pursuing these relationships(or is too frightened to be single for a certain period of time). If she's "treetrunking" guys(never heard that one before)every month or few months, maybe she's trying to figure out who she is and what she wants out of a relationship first? I was a victim of this type of woman once. And yes! Strangely enough she was a Cancer. Idk. Crab ladies are weird sometimes. No offense. But that was a long time ago. Whore: She won't stay with a guy for very long(month? I don't think so) just to get sex. Whore moves on quicker than that.

I don't know where that last sentence came from, but what it was meant to say was: Just likes to move on quicker than that(weeks).

Emotionally unsettled and looking for love in all the wrong places. I have been trying to tell her for years that Love begins with self.
One of my three best friends of over 40 years has been doing the same thing for nearly 40 years...lol.
At 48 years old she just settled with a guy and finally thinks he just maybe the ONE. I, on the other hand, knowing her track record...don't see it yet. She falls in and out love faster than you can change your underwear and misery is her first name. She constantly talks about the mirror affect, but apparently she doesn't look in her own mirror because she doesn't see the pattern she's been in over and over. She gets angry with me when she asks me for my advice and I don't tell her what she wants to hear. Just shakes my dayum head cause I love her anyway and will always be here for her, but she makes me dizzy most of the time; yet, I'm called the indecisive wishy washy one
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Posted by Kim31
Been seeing too many crabs with this problem lately. I'm wondering what is the difference between a serial monogamist and a w****?
A wild woman who owns her sexuality and has sex for fun doesn't bother me. If she tells no lies and makes no excuses, more power to her.
When I see a woman who is in a new "relationship" every few months and says she's in love and sexually active in each? I think she is desperate skank who hides behind "relationship" and "love" to make herself look and feel like less of a w****. As if telling everyone you're in love with the guy you fucked after meeting four weeks ago is going to make them forget you said the same shit about the guy you fucked four months?

A wild woman = a desperate slut/whore who can't keep her legs closed and chooses to show how low her self value and self esteem is by fucking every tom, dick and harry who comes her way..... I guess I'd choose to be a serial monogamist any day then a whore.
If being a slut bag works for you, kim... To each its own 😉

I think its quite hilarious how women who are so deeply broken and do not love themselves, try to justify whoreish behavior has being justified and OK. LMMFAO

I am so glad there are uplifting Cancer women in this world who take pride in the power of their "flower" and actually know their worth....

Just sad... 😢

Its the profanity filter! F***** is "treetrunking", and "just like me" is is edited to w****. I wonder if those are the words Duncan's kids use when they want to cuss.

Posted by aquavita2
it is not desperation it is determination

it isn't determination if it is fake! determination would be dating a lot of men or women looking for their mate. not saying their in love and in a relationship with every man they date and have sex with.
I wouldn't strip or experiment with crazy sex stuff with new people, but there are women who do that for themselves. Some would think they're w****. I wouldn't though because to me a w**** is selling a lie for a gain. Calling every man she date her "boyfriend", saying she loves him,doesn't distract from behavior. Especially, when there's four different men to be named in four months? All year every year? Wtf? Spreading your legs for everybody isn't going to get her a husband!

Whoops! Sentence was cut....
And that's why the serial monogamist is the w**** if ever it is appropriate to use the word.😄

Oh they exist! I wish I could post the pics I was looking at when the thought came to me. There's a timeline of photos and while everyone is posting congratulation messages, they lose track of who the guy is in the photos with the crab!

Yeah Kim, I know what "treetrunking" means. I just never heard of it referred to like that before. But thanks for the heads up on the auto-editing this site does. "Spreading your legs for everybody isn't going to get her a husband!" Heh. You got that right sister. If a woman has a long list, a man ISN'T going to want to want her. "And that's why the serial monogamist is the w**** if ever it is appropriate to use the word." That's cold. But it's a heck of a way to put it. But I still believe(or like to believe) that the hypothetical woman is just trying to figure out what it is she wants in life. But that maybe me just romanticizing it.

The last photo is probably the best. Not just because its beautiful but also the comment beneath-"i don't remember ***** being so tall." The picture before has her kissing a guy a good four inches shorter.
A lot of women can't go without mate for more than a few weeks. I'm noticing this with crabs lately.

Lol far from it!

It is weird but makes sense. Crabs want just one. So for the desperate ones who haven't found the one, they try to create it over and over. Missing out on the intimacy!
the one who I was referring to should wait for the older man. But she doesn't listen to me.

How come I can't see some of your messages?

Double posts! Cellphone...

Huh... No Kidding.

Some are actually ok with not being a wife. However intimacy is important especially since intimacy and Sex are two different things.

Kim31 I would think that whores have NO standards, sleep with multiple men whenever they want whether theyre in a relationship or not. Now the terminology "serial monogamist" has the word monogamist so therefore the difference between a whore and serial monogamist would be MONOGAMY. 🙂 I dont think their intentions on jumping in a relationship for a month to just have sex with ONE person, just so they can break up and repeat the cycle all over again with someone else. Whores dont have time nor the patience for anything like that. For the most part we all want love, to love and to be loved and go about different ways in our search to obtain it. Cancers usually have an all or nothing attitude or a go hard or stay home type of passion when we are highly attracted to someone. Some what possessive. 🙂

I agree.

I wish the abuse of the word love would stop. Makes things more complicated for the rest of us. Don't break up with a guy 2minutes and 2seconds ago then screw two other men three weeks later still screaming I LOVE YOU!!! That sort of behavior can make a woman go crazy. Crazier? Whichever.

Anyway, it isn't a crab trait. I have notice this more amongst cancers because bad crabs irk me.

If one is truly in love, should one have sex with multiple people because they're having a tantrum over not getting the one they want?

If your heart belongs to another, are you not a monogamist in waiting? 🙂

AQUAVITA!!!
Me's thinkin when you finally get your hands on some crab meat, we will never hear from you again!!!

Posted by Kim31
If one is truly in love, should one have sex with multiple people because they're having a tantrum over not getting the one they want?

If your heart belongs to another, are you not a monogamist in waiting? 🙂

To answer your first question, I have to ask you are you referring to a whore or is that how you "view" serial monogamist— lol and to answer your second, yes! 🙂 keep in mind another difference between whores and serial monogamist is that whores dont use much logic or get their hearts involved in any shape form or fashion.

Ah ha! But is their heart really involved? Just because they said it is? I think serial monogamist hide behind the word to avoid being viewed as a whore. That's where you and I disagree!

Posted by Kim31
Ah ha! But is their heart really involved? Just because they said it is? I think serial monogamist hide behind the word to avoid being viewed as a whore. That's where you and I disagree!

Yes! We are if not one of the most caring of the signs, no where near shallow. So when relationships are made with people whether its family friends or lovers our hearts are ALWAYS involved. Sometimes shielded but never the less involved, willing and ready to expose it when we feel the person is worthy. Never the less we ALWAYS care, even when it seems like we dont. It takes a great deal of deceit disloyalty for us to not care, and even then we feel empathy for that heartless person. WHORES dont care or love. Somewhere I believe that caring and loving has similarities. Maybe it would be more appropriate if the person says theyre in care or in like? 🙂

Some cancers only appear to fit the description. If any crab fits either description then they're a poor representative of our sign. Same goes for any sign of course.
A genuine woman/crab would never do any of that so they wouldn't meet the definition to begin with, right?

Posted by Kim31
Some cancers only appear to fit the description. If any crab fits either description then they're a poor representative of our sign. Same goes for any sign of course.
A genuine woman/crab would never do any of that so they wouldn't meet the definition to begin with, right?

One bad crab apple shouldnt spoil a bunch! 🙂 "appear"

Well, I'll say this for you: You Cancer ladies sure are deep, caring and thought-provoking women.

Posted by aquavita2

Posted by Kim31
AQUAVITA!!!
Me's thinkin when you finally get your hands on some crab meat, we will never hear from you again!!!

I am trying to stay quiet Kim 19! ... 😄

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LOL

Thank you MissGem!

I do believe your crab is doing that with you without realizing it

😢 if you apply what you just said to your own situation, then...

Posted by aquavita2
why can nit we just have a simple life.... draw on the streets play raise our children in commutes raise fires song all night sleep when we have to enjoy the moon and the stars. so much has chaos. I wish we just build nice wooden and glass structures or use whatever built by now and live in peace and harmony .

when you find such a place, take me with you!!!