LadyNeptune
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Dating a cancer
Oh boy...
If you both let clear you wanted a serious rl and the he acts like this, he's an asshole, and why ask for commitment to an asshole?
If he didn't tell you he wanted commitment, is not his fault and you made a mistake by assuming sth.
Nobody can make sb want a serious relationship if that person doesn't want it. You'll have to accept that.
I don't think you made a mistake by having sex with him, sex is not sth a woman has to deny just for hook sb, like a prize a man has to "earn" lol; if you ejoyed it, good for you!
Just don't push things with him and be honest.
If he didn't tell you he wanted commitment, is not his fault and you made a mistake by assuming sth.
Nobody can make sb want a serious relationship if that person doesn't want it. You'll have to accept that.
I don't think you made a mistake by having sex with him, sex is not sth a woman has to deny just for hook sb, like a prize a man has to "earn" lol; if you ejoyed it, good for you!
Just don't push things with him and be honest.
Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, I think you will help me out if I explain you w a little more of details, The first night We were suppose to go out, but as he does not drive He asked me to meet up at his house, cuz he lives close to the train station so we could just go out nearby, he asked me if he could of buy some beers for when I get there, which i agreed, when I got there I asked him if we werent suppose to go out then he said we'd rather stay in, so we watch the game and had beers, and laugh and talked all night. When I told him It was time for me to leave, then He begged me to stay over... so I ended up staying, He got me one of his shirts, when He tried to touch me I told him He wasnt allowed. so he said ok, good nite, hugged me and we felt asleep..
It's too late. He wanted Netflix and chill and you went for it. Your firmly in the bootycall zone now. Why would he take you out and pay for a meal when he can call you to come over and you bring the pussy straight to his bed.
Dont go to some randoms house the first time your meeting a stranger off the internet. Common sense please.
I left to work in the morning, he texted me asking if I got home safe, after that we kept texting normally, we made some jokes about that night..couple of days after... the second time he invited me, I was honestly bored at home and it was very cold outside, so he asked me that as I was bored if I wanted to come and hang out with him at his house. that nite we watch a movie, we joke around... Its been another month since that night, and he has invited me again but I have been busy and unable to go and I have actually been waiting for him to say something about us dating, but he doesnt talk about his personal life too much, we still text each other here and there at any time of the day....I know they take time to open up...and actually his text msgs has become more often and longer. So do you really think Im late?
Posted by BlackburnYes, before meeting each other He asked me what I was looking for.. he said he was looking for the same thing.... also the first nite he invited me, I was suppose to be off the next day and he knew, but then I was called out to work... He got upset cuz apparently he wanted me to stay with him all day long. and kept telling me over and over that I have told him I was off work. I told him I was sorry But i was called out to work that I can see when I was going to be able to stay.. and he answered, we can figure out a day.
If you both let clear you wanted a serious rl and the he acts like this, he's an asshole, and why ask for commitment to an asshole?
If he didn't tell you he wanted commitment, is not his fault and you made a mistake by assuming sth.
Nobody can make sb want a serious relationship if that person doesn't want it. You'll have to accept that.
I don't think you made a mistake by having sex with him, sex is not sth a woman has to deny just for hook sb, like a prize a man has to "earn" lol; if you ejoyed it, good for you!
Just don't push things with him and be honest.
Posted by leowwwPosted by xshizzera
I met this cancer online, we met in person after 1 month talking, the first night we meet he was trying to have sex but I told him I didnt want, but he still asked me to stay over so i did, we cuddled for a little bit... but we couldnt stay all night.. for some obvious reasons lol... On the second time I saw him, again he invited me to his house and we watch a movie and had sex.. we still talk, but he has never taken me out, I told him one night I was going out w my friends that me and him should of go out on a real date too... he just LOL, yeah.. I really like him, I havent see him for a couple of weeks, but we still text each other here and there. I havent ask him to get off that website cuz I believe that we are not yet fully dating...
How to I get this cancer man takes me serious. ?
Not fully dating?
The GUY LOLed...
at the idea of taking you out on a date..
You've never made it past his place and you guys haven't seen each other in weeks..
How to be taken serious... I dunno.. at this point sounds like he doesn't already.
We havent see each other in weeks, not because he hasn't ask to see me, I had some personal things to do that didnt allow me to see him.
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Posted by xshizzeraHe LOL... bc of the way I told him.... We joke a lot about a lot of things.! cuz at that moment we were not really having a serious convo... i was just telling him some crazy stories about me going out w my girlfriends.! Im feeling like if I have to screenshot all my conversations with him word by word. come on!Posted by leowwwPosted by xshizzera
I met this cancer online, we met in person after 1 month talking, the first night we meet he was trying to have sex but I told him I didnt want, but he still asked me to stay over so i did, we cuddled for a little bit... but we couldnt stay all night.. for some obvious reasons lol... On the second time I saw him, again he invited me to his house and we watch a movie and had sex.. we still talk, but he has never taken me out, I told him one night I was going out w my friends that me and him should of go out on a real date too... he just LOL, yeah.. I really like him, I havent see him for a couple of weeks, but we still text each other here and there. I havent ask him to get off that website cuz I believe that we are not yet fully dating...
How to I get this cancer man takes me serious. ?
Not fully dating?
The GUY LOLed...
at the idea of taking you out on a date..
You've never made it past his place and you guys haven't seen each other in weeks..
How to be taken serious... I dunno.. at this point sounds like he doesn't already.
We havent see each other in weeks, not because he hasn't ask to see me, I had some personal things to do that didnt allow me to see him.
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Posted by xshizzeraBait and switch. He doesn't drive but lives next to the train station, i.e he has access to public transportation and could've met you at a resteraunt or bar. Instead he uses the excuse of not driving to get you to come to him and surprise surprise you never ended up using that train to go out...Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, I think you will help me out if I explain you w a little more of details, The first night We were suppose to go out, but as he does not drive He asked me to meet up at his house, cuz he lives close to the train station so we could just go out nearby, he asked me if he could of buy some beers for when I get there, which i agreed, when I got there I asked him if we werent suppose to go out then he said we'd rather stay in, so we watch the game and had beers, and laugh and talked all night. When I told him It was time for me to leave, then He begged me to stay over... so I ended up staying, He got me one of his shirts, when He tried to touch me I told him He wasnt allowed. so he said ok, good nite, hugged me and we felt asleep..
It's too late. He wanted Netflix and chill and you went for it. Your firmly in the bootycall zone now. Why would he take you out and pay for a meal when he can call you to come over and you bring the pussy straight to his bed.
Dont go to some randoms house the first time your meeting a stranger off the internet. Common sense please.
I left to work in the morning, he texted me asking if I got home safe, after that we kept texting normally, we made some jokes about that night..couple of days after... the second time he invited me, I was honestly bored at home and it was very cold outside, so he asked me that as I was bored if I wanted to come and hang out with him at his house. that nite we watch a movie, we joke around... Its been another month since that night, and he has invited me again but I have been busy and unable to go and I have actually been waiting for him to say something about us dating, but he doesnt talk about his personal life too much, we still text each other here and there at any time of the day....I know they take time to open up...and actually his text msgs has become more often and longer. So do you really think Im late?click to expand
First mistake, meeting a random at his home instead of out in public with witnesses. If things had turned out differently he could've been wearing your skin.
Second mistake, you did all the work. You travelled to him. You spent the night. You brought the pussy to him and offered it up on a silver platter for his convenience.
3rd mistake, only now deciding you want to date/pursue something serious with him. You only get one chance to make a first impression. The impression you've given is that your fine with a casual hookup.
Posted by lovinglioness1115You have a universally attractive beauty.Posted by DivaCanLeoThank you! I appreciate the compliment. 🙂 And maybe ands doesn't find my type of beauty attractive, lol. Who knows?Posted by lovinglioness1115you're prettyPosted by DivaCanLeoAs funny as this is, it's kind of rude. 😛
op what's your sign? besides EASY that is
i am shocked ands hasn't found you yet.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunei didnt intimate with him the first nite we meet, I intimated with him a month after meeting him in person.... Secondable, we were talking to each other for over a month previous to meeting, and we had already agreed that we were both looking for the same thing.Posted by xshizzeraBait and switch. He doesn't drive but lives next to the train station, i.e he has access to public transportation and could've met you at a resteraunt or bar. Instead he uses the excuse of not driving to get you to come to him and surprise surprise you never ended up using that train to go out...Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, I think you will help me out if I explain you w a little more of details, The first night We were suppose to go out, but as he does not drive He asked me to meet up at his house, cuz he lives close to the train station so we could just go out nearby, he asked me if he could of buy some beers for when I get there, which i agreed, when I got there I asked him if we werent suppose to go out then he said we'd rather stay in, so we watch the game and had beers, and laugh and talked all night. When I told him It was time for me to leave, then He begged me to stay over... so I ended up staying, He got me one of his shirts, when He tried to touch me I told him He wasnt allowed. so he said ok, good nite, hugged me and we felt asleep..
It's too late. He wanted Netflix and chill and you went for it. Your firmly in the bootycall zone now. Why would he take you out and pay for a meal when he can call you to come over and you bring the pussy straight to his bed.
Dont go to some randoms house the first time your meeting a stranger off the internet. Common sense please.
I left to work in the morning, he texted me asking if I got home safe, after that we kept texting normally, we made some jokes about that night..couple of days after... the second time he invited me, I was honestly bored at home and it was very cold outside, so he asked me that as I was bored if I wanted to come and hang out with him at his house. that nite we watch a movie, we joke around... Its been another month since that night, and he has invited me again but I have been busy and unable to go and I have actually been waiting for him to say something about us dating, but he doesnt talk about his personal life too much, we still text each other here and there at any time of the day....I know they take time to open up...and actually his text msgs has become more often and longer. So do you really think Im late?
First mistake, meeting a random at his home instead of out in public with witnesses. If things had turned out differently he could've been wearing your skin.
Second mistake, you did all the work. You travelled to him. You spent the night. You brought the pussy to him and offered it up on a silver platter for his convenience.
3rd mistake, only now deciding you want to date/pursue something serious with him. You only get one chance to make a first impression. The impression you've given is that your fine with a casual hookup.
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Posted by xshizzeraHe asked you first and you told him what you were looking for. THEN he told you what his expectations were after he had heard yours.
Yes, before meeting each other He asked me what I was looking for.. he said he was looking for the same thing....
His answer was changeable dependent on what yours was.
It would be more believable if he had come out unprompted and said he was looking for something serious WITHOUT mimicking what you had said.
Posted by DivaCanLeoI am aquarius... and not a typical one... I will actually not give a damn if he just wanted to be just a hook up... as long as he would of be up front or had make that clear in all the time Ive been talking to him, but thats not the case....We spoke that we were both looking for a serious relationship, but a serious relationship doesnt happen in one day..!!!
op what's your sign? besides EASY that is
I dont know how to take things slow, for me its either we do this or we dont... If I tell you since the beginning what im looking for... and u go for it.. im gna get in ur ass. cuz For me theres not need to repeat what I already made clear.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by xshizzeraHe asked you first and you told him what you were looking for. THEN he told you what his expectations were after he had heard yours.
Yes, before meeting each other He asked me what I was looking for.. he said he was looking for the same thing....
His answer was changeable dependent on what yours was.
It would be more believable if he had come out unprompted and said he was looking for something serious WITHOUT mimicking what you had said.click to expand
Well, before we get to that point I kind of joke with him about guys on that website looking for sex, which he made me clear he wasnt... and he also asked me to stop making him feel that way cuz he wasnt.. then thats when he asked me what I was looking for...when I answered him, then he told me he was looking for the same.
Posted by xshizzeraPosted by BlackburnYes, before meeting each other He asked me what I was looking for.. he said he was looking for the same thing.... also the first nite he invited me, I was suppose to be off the next day and he knew, but then I was called out to work... He got upset cuz apparently he wanted me to stay with him all day long. and kept telling me over and over that I have told him I was off work. I told him I was sorry But i was called out to work that I can see when I was going to be able to stay.. and he answered, we can figure out a day.
If you both let clear you wanted a serious rl and the he acts like this, he's an asshole, and why ask for commitment to an asshole?
If he didn't tell you he wanted commitment, is not his fault and you made a mistake by assuming sth.
Nobody can make sb want a serious relationship if that person doesn't want it. You'll have to accept that.
I don't think you made a mistake by having sex with him, sex is not sth a woman has to deny just for hook sb, like a prize a man has to "earn" lol; if you ejoyed it, good for you!
Just don't push things with him and be honest.click to expand
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Then you should wait, and as I say don't push things. But if you notice he's not serius I would end things with him (for lying), or keep having sex, but letting clear you're not a fool and know what he's doing.
He looks "clingy" and wanting to be with you but the thing about not wanting to hang out with your friends (withour rational explanation?) is suspicious.
And I repeat you don't have to give any excuses about your sex life, you are a free person
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by xshizzeraBait and switch. He doesn't drive but lives next to the train station, i.e he has access to public transportation and could've met you at a resteraunt or bar. Instead he uses the excuse of not driving to get you to come to him and surprise surprise you never ended up using that train to go out...Posted by LadyNeptuneWell, I think you will help me out if I explain you w a little more of details, The first night We were suppose to go out, but as he does not drive He asked me to meet up at his house, cuz he lives close to the train station so we could just go out nearby, he asked me if he could of buy some beers for when I get there, which i agreed, when I got there I asked him if we werent suppose to go out then he said we'd rather stay in, so we watch the game and had beers, and laugh and talked all night. When I told him It was time for me to leave, then He begged me to stay over... so I ended up staying, He got me one of his shirts, when He tried to touch me I told him He wasnt allowed. so he said ok, good nite, hugged me and we felt asleep..
It's too late. He wanted Netflix and chill and you went for it. Your firmly in the bootycall zone now. Why would he take you out and pay for a meal when he can call you to come over and you bring the pussy straight to his bed.
Dont go to some randoms house the first time your meeting a stranger off the internet. Common sense please.
I left to work in the morning, he texted me asking if I got home safe, after that we kept texting normally, we made some jokes about that night..couple of days after... the second time he invited me, I was honestly bored at home and it was very cold outside, so he asked me that as I was bored if I wanted to come and hang out with him at his house. that nite we watch a movie, we joke around... Its been another month since that night, and he has invited me again but I have been busy and unable to go and I have actually been waiting for him to say something about us dating, but he doesnt talk about his personal life too much, we still text each other here and there at any time of the day....I know they take time to open up...and actually his text msgs has become more often and longer. So do you really think Im late?
First mistake, meeting a random at his home instead of out in public with witnesses. If things had turned out differently he could've been wearing your skin.
Second mistake, you did all the work. You travelled to him. You spent the night. You brought the pussy to him and offered it up on a silver platter for his convenience.
3rd mistake, only now deciding you want to date/pursue something serious with him. You only get one chance to make a first impression. The impression you've given is that your fine with a casual hookup.
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Ive been meeting people online since a long time ago and honestly most of my actual friends were from online chats and social media, I had a previous experience where I went to his house knowing we were not going out, and it turned out to be so serious that I met his family that same night.
Posted by BlackburnPosted by xshizzeraPosted by BlackburnYes, before meeting each other He asked me what I was looking for.. he said he was looking for the same thing.... also the first nite he invited me, I was suppose to be off the next day and he knew, but then I was called out to work... He got upset cuz apparently he wanted me to stay with him all day long. and kept telling me over and over that I have told him I was off work. I told him I was sorry But i was called out to work that I can see when I was going to be able to stay.. and he answered, we can figure out a day.
If you both let clear you wanted a serious rl and the he acts like this, he's an asshole, and why ask for commitment to an asshole?
If he didn't tell you he wanted commitment, is not his fault and you made a mistake by assuming sth.
Nobody can make sb want a serious relationship if that person doesn't want it. You'll have to accept that.
I don't think you made a mistake by having sex with him, sex is not sth a woman has to deny just for hook sb, like a prize a man has to "earn" lol; if you ejoyed it, good for you!
Just don't push things with him and be honest.
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Then you should wait, and as I say don't push things. But if you notice he's not serius I would end things with him (for lying), or keep having sex, but letting clear you're not a fool and know what he's doing.
He looks "clingy" and wanting to be with you but the thing about not wanting to hang out with your friends (withour rational explanation?) is suspicious.
And I repeat you don't have to give any excuses about your sex life, you are a free person
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I didnt ask him to go out with my friends, I think if it was his desicion I would be going to him everyday..! He asked me to see him but I had plans with my friends....And I will not make him my priority unless im his priority.. so I left with my friends... and didnt text him back until the next day when he asked me if I had fun.
As my previous experiences, a man that is just looking for sex and gets it, does not keep texting you on a daily basis... Im not a person who likes going out frequently and apparently he doesnt go out often either cuz most of the time we text each other we both home just watching tv or relaxing. I wouldnt care not going out at all... but if a man just wants to hook up with you... I dont think taking you out makes a different..! so just bc a man takes u out on the first date he is serious..>??!! I need some people here need to grow up a little. lol
Posted by lovinglioness1115Ive been into a lot of relationships and believe me, sex does not define a relationship..! My longest relationship lasted 3 years, and we had sex 30 min after meeting each other... another one I made him wait 3 months, and as soon as we had sex he sent me a letter telling me he wasnt ready for a relationship..!
He got what he wanted from you too quickly, which indicates that you didn't stand your ground, which translates into a lack of strength. No one likes that; this isn't a concept to understand based on signs.
Sex for people over 30 is kind of irrelevant.! lmao!
Posted by DonJohn
this was routine for me when i was dating.
the cat's out of the bag. your chance to get him to commit is next to 0. i have never asked a girl out after i slept with her easily.
it's an insecurity in the cancer man's mind that you could be a sloot. so there's no way he's going to wife you. sorry.
How is having sex after 2 months being easy??!!
Posted by MagicMona
....aaaaand facepalm.
you gave me the goodies already. why would i now want to put in all the extra work spending money, taking you out, and getting to know you? i knew the part of you i wanted to know already.
it's like giving a kid dessert first then expecting them to eat veggies. LOL. doesn't work that way.
Ok so base on your experience... How long should I have waited to do it..??!!
Posted by xshizzeraPosted by BlackburnPosted by xshizzeraPosted by BlackburnYes, before meeting each other He asked me what I was looking for.. he said he was looking for the same thing.... also the first nite he invited me, I was suppose to be off the next day and he knew, but then I was called out to work... He got upset cuz apparently he wanted me to stay with him all day long. and kept telling me over and over that I have told him I was off work. I told him I was sorry But i was called out to work that I can see when I was going to be able to stay.. and he answered, we can figure out a day.
If you both let clear you wanted a serious rl and the he acts like this, he's an asshole, and why ask for commitment to an asshole?
If he didn't tell you he wanted commitment, is not his fault and you made a mistake by assuming sth.
Nobody can make sb want a serious relationship if that person doesn't want it. You'll have to accept that.
I don't think you made a mistake by having sex with him, sex is not sth a woman has to deny just for hook sb, like a prize a man has to "earn" lol; if you ejoyed it, good for you!
Just don't push things with him and be honest.
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Then you should wait, and as I say don't push things. But if you notice he's not serius I would end things with him (for lying), or keep having sex, but letting clear you're not a fool and know what he's doing.
He looks "clingy" and wanting to be with you but the thing about not wanting to hang out with your friends (withour rational explanation?) is suspicious.
And I repeat you don't have to give any excuses about your sex life, you are a free person
I didnt ask him to go out with my friends, I think if it was his desicion I would be going to him everyday..! He asked me to see him but I had plans with my friends....And I will not make him my priority unless im his priority.. so I left with my friends... and didnt text him back until the next day when he asked me if I had fun.
As my previous experiences, a man that is just looking for sex and gets it, does not keep texting you on a daily basis... Im not a person who likes going out frequently and apparently he doesnt go out often either cuz most of the time we text each other we both home just watching tv or relaxing. I wouldnt care not going out at all... but if a man just wants to hook up with you... I dont think taking you out makes a different..! so just bc a man takes u out on the first date he is serious..>??!! I need some people here need to grow up a little. lol
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Then I missunderstood; maybe he's a ghost and just exists withing the four walls of his house? Just theorizing
No, I think everyone is different and think differently, going out or not is just preference,
only time will tell if he's serious or not
luck!
So you're not getting the response you want and everyone else needs to grow up? Funny girl.
Babe, come on.
The only thing that counts is actions. Not texts, not what he says. What he does.
You want advice on how to get more out of him? Ask him out. Don't wait for him to ask you, or LOL when you suggest it. Ask him. Even before the sex and whatnot, a lot of Cancer men have posted they like when the girl takes initiative.
If he says no, or makes one single excuse as to why he can't, you know where you stand, and what your mistake was.
The fact that he doesn't drive, and bought beer to stay in before you got there would be a "no," and a "hell no" for me, but that's me.
Babe, come on.
The only thing that counts is actions. Not texts, not what he says. What he does.
You want advice on how to get more out of him? Ask him out. Don't wait for him to ask you, or LOL when you suggest it. Ask him. Even before the sex and whatnot, a lot of Cancer men have posted they like when the girl takes initiative.
If he says no, or makes one single excuse as to why he can't, you know where you stand, and what your mistake was.
The fact that he doesn't drive, and bought beer to stay in before you got there would be a "no," and a "hell no" for me, but that's me.
Posted by xshizzeraYeah doesn't sound like he wanted sex from you AT ALL. He tricks you into coming to his home under the guise of 'the trains down the street we'll have a few beers and then go out'. Then once your liquored up he puts the moves on you.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by xshizzeraHe asked you first and you told him what you were looking for. THEN he told you what his expectations were after he had heard yours.
Yes, before meeting each other He asked me what I was looking for.. he said he was looking for the same thing....
His answer was changeable dependent on what yours was.
It would be more believable if he had come out unprompted and said he was looking for something serious WITHOUT mimicking what you had said.
Well, before we get to that point I kind of joke with him about guys on that website looking for sex, which he made me clear he wasnt... and he also asked me to stop making him feel that way cuz he wasnt.. then thats when he asked me what I was looking for...when I answered him, then he told me he was looking for the same.
Posted by xshizzera^^^this was the first time you were meeting him^^^
When I told him It was time for me to leave, then He begged me to stay over... so I ended up staying, He got me one of his shirts, when He tried to touch meclick to expand
Are these the actions of a guy who values finding a connection over sex?
You got played. Own it. Be self aware and aware of the game. Guys will say and do literally anything to get their dicks wet. At the very least get dinner and an hour conversation from them first.
Posted by xshizzeraYes, he will hit it and quit it if the sex is bad or if he has better options.
As my previous experiences, a man that is just looking for sex and gets it, does not keep texting you on a daily basis...
He keeps texting you cause he's not done with you yet. Once he gets bored of your pussy he will stop the communication.
Posted by xshizzeraThere is no correct time limit on how long you should wait before having sex. You could fuck a guy on the first night and he could end up marrying you. You could make him wait 3 months and he could still end up being a sleezy cheating liar.Posted by MagicMona
....aaaaand facepalm.
you gave me the goodies already. why would i now want to put in all the extra work spending money, taking you out, and getting to know you? i knew the part of you i wanted to know already.
it's like giving a kid dessert first then expecting them to eat veggies. LOL. doesn't work that way.
Ok so base on your experience... How long should I have waited to do it..??!!
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You are the gate keeper to whom you allow to get close to you. It's up to you to prequalify the men you let into your pussy and your heart.
Your here asking how you should ask this guy whether or not you are dating each other. You feel like you can't ask him to remove his dating profile. You obviously do not have the communication and trust between you two. Therefore you shouldn't have allowed him between your legs with these unanswered questions lingering.
Seems like people always try to make the story sound more favorable to them or the person they like after other people aren't very optimistic in their responses to the original story.
My mind sees a guy who uses romantic overtures to keep a girl around. Maybe he likes having someone he can always fall back on if he isn't in a relationship and he doesn't want to scrounge around for hookers or randoms when he's horny. Might be unseemly to him. Once he gets that far with a girl, he keeps the fish on the hook rather than throwing her back.
My mind sees a guy who uses romantic overtures to keep a girl around. Maybe he likes having someone he can always fall back on if he isn't in a relationship and he doesn't want to scrounge around for hookers or randoms when he's horny. Might be unseemly to him. Once he gets that far with a girl, he keeps the fish on the hook rather than throwing her back.
Posted by xshizzeraYeah he's not on an online dating site to find sex. He's there to find love.
the first night we meet he was trying to have sex but I told him I didnt want, but he still asked me to stay over
Srsly grow up. Naive is not a good look.
Posted by DonJohnIt's a horrible double standard but it is sadly the truth.
this was routine for me when i was dating.
the cat's out of the bag. your chance to get him to commit is next to 0. i have never asked a girl out after i slept with her easily.
it's an insecurity in the cancer man's mind that you could be a sloot. so there's no way he's going to wife you. sorry.
He's thinking, "If it was this easy to get her into bed who else is she fucking?" or more like..."That was easy, too easy. I didn't even have to buy her dinner. Who isn't she fucking."
OP you gave him nothing to strive towards.
Prior to a committed relationship, once a man knows what your banana box feels like, they lose interest in wanting to know you.
I would either accept that you've created the perfect FWB situation and continue to Netflix and chill with him OR cut him off and start at day zero by finding someone who can build toward something with you instead of in you.
Prior to a committed relationship, once a man knows what your banana box feels like, they lose interest in wanting to know you.
I would either accept that you've created the perfect FWB situation and continue to Netflix and chill with him OR cut him off and start at day zero by finding someone who can build toward something with you instead of in you.
Ok guys, I didnt come to this site to get judge of me having sex with a guy.... I put on the post what I considered important so that i could make a question.... Ive had plenty of sex life, and none of you is telling me anything I already know!! I respect your opinions but none of you know me and everybody has had different experiences in their lifes, For me personally sex doesnt make any difference when considering a relationship (AND A FREE MEAL EITHER)...... All of a sudden all of you are perfect...
This is an ASTROLOGICAL WEBSITE and that's what I came looking for.... to know more of cancer personality so I can know how to move forward. or how to make him make a move..
Im aquarius....Im not afraid of calling people out on their bullshit.... Im not here asking you if I should of have sex with him or not.. I just want to know based on ASTROLOGICAL PERSONALITIES...whats the best way to get him make a move... cuz I dont have a filter in my mouth and I dont want to sound Rude and bossy when I talk to him.
I asked how do I get him to take me serious? not because I cant ask him to go off the website or bc we have no confident enough to talk about it... I asked in an astrological based advice.. cuz thats what this website is for.. Right? Most of you havent even tell me what a Cancer man would do or how will he react to certain kinds of actions. so please if you cant stick to that... please dont answer...I dont need any of you telling me how I handle my life.
This is an ASTROLOGICAL WEBSITE and that's what I came looking for.... to know more of cancer personality so I can know how to move forward. or how to make him make a move..
Im aquarius....Im not afraid of calling people out on their bullshit.... Im not here asking you if I should of have sex with him or not.. I just want to know based on ASTROLOGICAL PERSONALITIES...whats the best way to get him make a move... cuz I dont have a filter in my mouth and I dont want to sound Rude and bossy when I talk to him.
I asked how do I get him to take me serious? not because I cant ask him to go off the website or bc we have no confident enough to talk about it... I asked in an astrological based advice.. cuz thats what this website is for.. Right? Most of you havent even tell me what a Cancer man would do or how will he react to certain kinds of actions. so please if you cant stick to that... please dont answer...I dont need any of you telling me how I handle my life.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by xshizzeraYeah doesn't sound like he wanted sex from you AT ALL. He tricks you into coming to his home under the guise of 'the trains down the street we'll have a few beers and then go out'. Then once your liquored up he puts the moves on you.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by xshizzeraHe asked you first and you told him what you were looking for. THEN he told you what his expectations were after he had heard yours.
Yes, before meeting each other He asked me what I was looking for.. he said he was looking for the same thing....
His answer was changeable dependent on what yours was.
It would be more believable if he had come out unprompted and said he was looking for something serious WITHOUT mimicking what you had said.
Well, before we get to that point I kind of joke with him about guys on that website looking for sex, which he made me clear he wasnt... and he also asked me to stop making him feel that way cuz he wasnt.. then thats when he asked me what I was looking for...when I answered him, then he told me he was looking for the same.
Posted by xshizzera^^^this was the first time you were meeting him^^^
When I told him It was time for me to leave, then He begged me to stay over... so I ended up staying, He got me one of his shirts, when He tried to touch me
Are these the actions of a guy who values finding a connection over sex?
You got played. Own it. Be self aware and aware of the game. Guys will say and do literally anything to get their dicks wet. At the very least get dinner and an hour conversation from them first.
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Dear listen, yes, whatever you say.... there is always a way to turn the tables. Im not here asking if I got played or not...Go and live yourself a little bit more... and then when you learn that a dinner and a talk does not makes any difference then you come back and talk to me.. A man will give you the world... and if he wants to play you, he will play you anyways...
One Aqua to another, whom has pretty good knowledge of the crab man... You can't make him do anything. You can't make any man do anything. But especially crab men. They want to have the desire to do it to start with.
As much as I want to encourage you to try to have a relationship, because deep down that's is what you want... He doesn't.
Crabs will deny they test...but they do and that first date was a test. You didn't pass 😢 it's not about when you had sex, it's about it was too easy to break those walls down. I know that is not what you want to hear, but it's true. Crabs place very high value on intamcy. More than we Aquas do.
As much as I want to encourage you to try to have a relationship, because deep down that's is what you want... He doesn't.
Crabs will deny they test...but they do and that first date was a test. You didn't pass 😢 it's not about when you had sex, it's about it was too easy to break those walls down. I know that is not what you want to hear, but it's true. Crabs place very high value on intamcy. More than we Aquas do.
Posted by xshizzeraYour the one asking how to make a cancer man serious. Not me.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by xshizzeraYeah doesn't sound like he wanted sex from you AT ALL. He tricks you into coming to his home under the guise of 'the trains down the street we'll have a few beers and then go out'. Then once your liquored up he puts the moves on you.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by xshizzeraHe asked you first and you told him what you were looking for. THEN he told you what his expectations were after he had heard yours.
Yes, before meeting each other He asked me what I was looking for.. he said he was looking for the same thing....
His answer was changeable dependent on what yours was.
It would be more believable if he had come out unprompted and said he was looking for something serious WITHOUT mimicking what you had said.
Well, before we get to that point I kind of joke with him about guys on that website looking for sex, which he made me clear he wasnt... and he also asked me to stop making him feel that way cuz he wasnt.. then thats when he asked me what I was looking for...when I answered him, then he told me he was looking for the same.
Posted by xshizzera^^^this was the first time you were meeting him^^^
When I told him It was time for me to leave, then He begged me to stay over... so I ended up staying, He got me one of his shirts, when He tried to touch me
Are these the actions of a guy who values finding a connection over sex?
You got played. Own it. Be self aware and aware of the game. Guys will say and do literally anything to get their dicks wet. At the very least get dinner and an hour conversation from them first.
Dear listen, yes, whatever you say.... there is always a way to turn the tables. Im not here asking if I got played or not...Go and live yourself a little bit more... and then when you learn that a dinner and a talk does not makes any difference then you come back and talk to me.. A man will give you the world... and if he wants to play you, he will play you anyways...
If you have all the answers why come to DXP.
Posted by xshizzeraI have a Gemini man locked down. That's big league compared to cancer men lol.
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