Disclaimer: Another crab bashing story

i had been sorta dating a cancer guy for awhile. we had such a good time when we were together but things got sour when he lied to me (more than once). i don't handle liars very well so everytime we hung out after that, i had cutting remarks until it just got worse and worse and worse to the point where we were fighting all the time about him lying and not caring. i really cared for him, but every time he had got mad at me he would go back to this girl he used to hook up with and give her updates on how our "relationship" was going. he told me that they were just friends and that they just talk about stuff like that. i know she talks to him about who she is seeing. seeing as he already lied to me, of course i couldn't believe that. just seemed too sketchy for me. although i miss the good things about him (we had many things in common, same sense of humor, very cuddly and sweet, his cooking..blah blah blah), i told him that we need to say our goodbyes. he said "ok, if that's what you want" and i thought that it would be over. well he texted me last night saying he was drunk and how he hoped work was going well for me. i get the feeling he was justing using being drunk as an excuse to have texted me. what i don't understand about it is if he would tell the other girl involved about how bad it had been with us fighting and whatnot...why he just isn't happy i ended it. it seemed like he wanted it to end. i feel i had a right to be mad when i did, but i don't know if he was getting me back for being mad at him by telling her about it or if he is just trying to make her jealous.

can someone else analyze this behavior for me? haha i just don't understand why he still wants to touch base with me when his behavior showed that he didn't care for me that much

who knows? usually cancers are pretty clear about when we like or don't like someone. Maybe a better option fell through and you were next best lol...a cancer is CERTAINLY capable of THAT...ROTF.

maybe so

i mean he's told me he cares for me more than most of the girls in his life and that he had felt the most comfortable around me. we've been hanging out a little over a year. plenty of factors though aren't getting us to move further because he's moving to start his career and he's done the long distance relationship a few times and it never worked out...

anywhoo...haha

always good times with cancers