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Do cancers realise that others also have emotions (Page 2)
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Posted by Arielle83
They rip apart and disappear for a reason. Their victim refused to acknowledge the cancer's emotions in the first place.Exactly. If they ignore how people feel IN a relationship, that's bad and different, but if they run away, there was a very good reason for it.
hmmm i don't know sometimes they run away because they hate confrontation, and sometime is needed to resolve things instead of running away from problems like a little bitch
Sometimes we walk away because there's no point arguing with a stubborn, closed minded person. Why waste the energy when there's more important things going on.
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In that case yeah i would walk away too, discuse with stubborn people is pointless, im stubborn myself but i been getting better since im fully aware of it
@cappygirl... sorry he sounds like an *ss. I'm a cancer and my male bff is a cancer too. we feel too much. we over analyze stuff. ad naseum. sorry. and he knows that you are feeling like crap, but we normally tend to feel guilty long before we do anything, and then once we do it, it's like we already decided and we are done. that's why we nag before we break up. sorry. he realizes you have feelings, and considered them, since you guys lived together, but he probably thinks he "felt" more and for a longer period of time than you and now he's decided and thinks this is the best. we are very traditional so I think if he wanted to miss on xmas... he already dealt with that way before you did.
Posted by janjun
but he probably thinks he "felt" more and for a longer period of time than you and now he's decided and thinks this is the best. we are very traditional so I think if he wanted to miss on xmas... he already dealt with that way before you did.
See this is been my point on and on and on.... i keep pointing this thing all along, because I don't get it, for me this sort of attitudes are unilateral, in the case he decided based on what he thinks he never would be sure if all the result of overanalizing is all in his head... that's why I said before, communication is important even if you guys don't like confrontation, but turn around and walk away forever is not cool... again, I will reiterate that only in cases where the person has not a long track of being a bitch with the cancer in question...
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Yep, I've done that with the ex Taurus, and the ex Virgo friend. It's like beating your head on the wall, an exercise in futility, so when it comes to confrontations I just avoid them with those two. Some people don't really want to fix things, they want to bully you into compliance.