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Posted by thinktoomuch
Nah man. I tried everything. I dated him exclusively for 9 months, but he never made me his official girlfriend. Then he accused me of some things. Then I tried everything for several years.If this guy is telling her to meet other guys, and she has very very strong feelings for him, so much that it hurts to be around him as a friend, she most def. is allowed to take a break. If he is a friend, he will understand. You can´t play that card in this situation or with mine. Years ago I made on "will he be back", and then the rest of it was just pure "I don´t understand this" meaning his behaviour. Just like the OP is talking about, how she can not understand his behaviour really.
See I like this: she has very very strong feelings for him, so much that it hurts to be around him as a friend, she most def. is allowed to take a break. If he is a friend, he will understand.
Same thing with me however he got mad that I told him we couldn't be friends right now (he's not looking for a relationship and I do) I need a break and when I'm ready we can be friends ... he said: maybe when that time comes I don't want to be your friend! Don't get it.
I would definitely cut ties ... I want to be able to see that persons face and not feel a THING!!!!
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If you gave it your all and its not satisfying your needs then leave. Cut and dry really.