@Kim31
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Feeling overwhelmed or obsessive in love can be linked to Cancer, the zodiac sign represented by the crab. It suggests strong emotional reactions and sensitivity. Recognizing these patterns can help you understand your feelings and manage them better.
You really don't expect an honest answer to this, do you?
Why not? The freaking internet! Like I'll ever see these people.
TELL THE TRUTH!
Posted by WarAngel1
Yes, right now actually. 😢
Hmmm, I don't remember reading anything about it... what happened?
Posted by Impulsv
Nope not yet.
*whips out To Do list* "I-m-p-u-l..."
Mmmm... yes, I guess to an extent, not all in that order, at the same time, or that intense lol 😄
As a crab, I've lost my marbles over a woman, but is it real, is it them affecting us or do we just create passion in our own mind, do we create our own illusions?
IMHO, it takes one or more times of being "burned" to erase the latter, not sign dependent.
Even in those cases where one spends the rest of his/her life with their first one true love, I've seen more instances of them separating only to find each other after life has helped them grow rather than being in it for the long haul.
Posted by Koniucha
You guys just love hearing how people are so crazy for you, lol
Not exactly. What I'm thinking of is our reputation for doing things I see other signs do.
Posted by Koniucha
You guys just love hearing how people are so crazy for you, lolNot exactly. What I'm thinking of is our reputation for doing things I see other signs do.
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I think Cancer tends to be a mirror to a lot of people.
What you are describing is projection.
Huh—
Y'all are being silly. This is suppose to be a thread for serious students of astrology...
Posted by Kim31
Y'all are being silly. This is suppose to be a thread for serious students of astrology...* taking copious notes " how to lose one's marbles to a crab"
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lmao Our first gold star of the night!
Posted by xMoonMan
As a crab, I've lost my marbles over a woman, but is it real, is it them affecting us or do we just create passion in our own mind, do we create our own illusions?IMHO, it takes one or more times of being "burned" to erase the latter, not sign dependent.
Being burned dissolves ones illusions?
Depends what is meant by ..being burned..click to expand
I think burned can temper them.
Maybe a better term is disappointment--that first time where you feel someone gives you wings and you feel like you're soaring, this is IT, the ONE, and you end up like Icarus.
You get carried away with the illusion, rather than paying attention to reality. More often than not due to self-absorption.
I think its worse in Western culture, where from youth we get bombarded with ideals, and the illusion is built upon those ideals. Then when flaws or just base incompatibility raises its ugly face, its like a baseball bat to the side of the head.
That's some creepy shit
Both of my hands are raised!
Posted by Kim31
go cray cray? Like really flip your sh**. Act as nutty and obsessed over love? Whine, cling and fret the way you say we do over you?
Does ripping my hair out count? check then...
Obsessed over love? check.
Whine, cling and fret? check, check and check.
I do have a scorpio moon though and on that rare "emotional" day that I have, he better not move a muscle and/or have any plan at all for the day. 😄
Since we're married now, I'm all mellow out but his cancer shitty tendency is still there ofc but not as annoying as before.
Yes and it was three fold because I am a cancer too
I haven't lost my marbles to a crab, but I'm sure some would insist I've made them lose their marbles. 😛
Posted by MoonArtist
I haven't lost my marbles to a crab, but I'm sure some would insist I've made them lose their marbles. 😛
Guilty!!!!
We should start a club.
Posted by MoonArtist
We should start a club.
I use clubs to break into crab shells.
Oh, not that kind of club?
Yeah, not that kind of club. 😛
Happening as I type! Lol
Posted by WarAngel1
Anybody on this board have advice to gently pull a Cancer female out of her shell? I'm a Scorpion by the way and we were in deep many times over the past two years. Pulling and pushing on both ends! Stuck in silent to one word reply mode.
Is this the Crab who's married to a Leo?
Posted by Koniucha
You guys just love hearing how people are so crazy for you, lol
LMAO! Seriously!!!
Posted by Koniucha
You guys just love hearing how people are so crazy for you, lolLMAO! Seriously!!!
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nope, not at all. no one likes us. according to polls, we're one of the least desirable and blah blah blah.
and yet another one completely misses the point of the thread.
This post had me lmaoooo. I am SOOOOO there right now. My crab, if he's still"my crab" had driven me INSANE
Posted by Koniucha
You guys just love hearing how people are so crazy for you, lolLMAO! Seriously!!!
nope, not at all. no one likes us.
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What's there to like?
Posted by xMoonMan
I'm sure there are plenty of guys (and girls) who have lost their marbles over a Crab.As a crab, I've lost my marbles over a woman, but is it real, is it them affecting us or do we just create passion in our own mind, do we create our own illusions?
I think we do at times create passion in our mind because we crave it sooooo much! Ugh its a lot of soulless people in this world. smh One thing about all my exes, once the smoke is gone, they ALL realize they loss a good person, they learned valuable lessons and either A. become a better man for the next or B. try and come back.....well B never happens because I have yet to meet someone I would want to go back to.
To answer the OP: Yes! Whiny? No. Clingy? Fret? Yes!!!
Posted by Koniucha
You guys just love hearing how people are so crazy for you, lolLMAO! Seriously!!!
nope, not at all. no one likes us.
What's there to like?
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Now you're catching on!
Posted by Koniucha
You guys just love hearing how people are so crazy for you, lolLMAO! Seriously!!!
nope, not at all. no one likes us.
What's there to like?
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well, damn. you should know!
Posted by Koniucha
You guys just love hearing how people are so crazy for you, lolLMAO! Seriously!!!
nope, not at all. no one likes us.
What's there to like?
well, damn. you should know!
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I should?
*dumps pot out, shoves ingredients in refrigerator*
that's it. NO SOUP FOR YOU, MISTER!
Posted by Kim31
*dumps pot out, shoves ingredients in refrigerator*
that's it. NO SOUP FOR YOU, MISTER!
Damn what happened?
FWP....continue to refer back to advice concerning how much of a user jerk your cancer friend is. Do this until it sinks in and then you won't be addicted. Until then, CA meetings are twice a week, cookies are provided, and we hope the program helps.
This seems like it ought to be a Leo thread 😆
Posted by MoonArtist
FWP....continue to refer back to advice concerning how much of a user jerk your cancer friend is. Do this until it sinks in and then you won't be addicted. Until then, CA meetings are twice a week, cookies are provided, and we hope the program helps.
I know, I know you warned me so many times, you did, I remember every single word you wrote about this, that's my pisces dreamer and water sensitivity that makes me believe (stupidly) that all people have a heart and will I know and I'm going to start believing that my mom drop me and i hit my head as a kid because I don't seem to get it.
it hurts, I know I should run away, swing away, kill that person in my mind and not give it a single thought... and here I am stuck... deeply deeply stuck...
Posted by fullwaterpisces
Hi my name is FWP a crazy fish as people like to call us around here... And i must confess that I'm officially been made by a crab...Im addicted to cancers ways!!! Intense emotions and affection.... And like all addictions can kill...
I got a moment of weakness in order to get back to the good old times... I begged my cancer friend for an opportunity... I've ruined my progress... I've felt again... I've begged!!!!!!!! A "strong" independent woman reduced to a beggar 😢
And got no mercy, non compassion, more rejection and back to square minus 1000... I hate to see myself as a victim but I have felt victim of my own vice... :-/ i have no remedy...
Im sincerely considering getting some "professional" help i got stabbed right in the heart... Ill do whatever to get this away!!!
Don't judge i was weak
I'm need a Pisces friend for SURE! So sensitive, I love it!
I need*
Yes the only man ever who has drive me crazy. I'm good a reading people usually but I can't get a honest read on him. He's all over the place and had some great excuses
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go cray cray? Like really flip your sh**. Act as nutty and obsessed over love? Whine, cling and fret the way you say we do over you?