getting over heart break

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by lovely77 on Saturday, January 23, 2016 and has 14 replies.

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@lovely77
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I dont like falling 4 ppl. Cancers are the worst with letting go. U can treat us bad we still hold on. Im learning to detach myself

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@Crabra
10 Years1,000+ Posts

The cliché time response is very true, and I'm sure you're probably hoping for a different response. I can say that while waiting for time to pass, I would look up healthy distractions from your pain. It is actually one of the best times to do so, because the energy from emotional pain is very powerful and self sustaining. If you use it towards something beneficial, it accomplishes amazing things. This in turn ignites the reward centers of the brain, and you'll find that you just went a really long time without thinking about your mending heart.

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@cema
10 Years

Im doing yoga and crossfit and its doing eff all! :/ if you find a remedy let me know! im the same but im a taurus!! it takes me ages to move on and im so damn sentimental!! everything has a memory attached!!! i gots to harden up!! ha :/

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@lovely77
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Yes this person isnt right 4 me right now in their life. I love them but getting taking advantage of not treated fairly etc alot going on. I dont want not be with this person its not fair 4 me we have to be on the same page and where not etc @scruffles

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@Greentea
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Unfortunately just.gotta let time and new experiences ride this one out. Focus on yourself like short/lomg term goals, getting your hair done or get some new make up, spending some time.with friends, little thomgd like that can help. Treat yourself well and with love. Try to turn the hurt around. After some crying cause you gotta let it out too, but try not to stay the for too long.

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@KittenLaRouge
12 Years1,000+ Posts

if the person wanted you, they would be with you. why pine over them when they are probably out enjoying life, not with you. i'ts just not worth it