Can cancerians have emotionless sex

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by cappygirl11 on Wednesday, October 28, 2015 and has 26 replies.

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12 Years

Could a cancerian man have emotionless sex. Like with someone who means nothing to him and he doesn't care about. Is that possible?

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@fullwaterpisces
11 Years1,000+ Posts

is just this stupid idea that all cancer (pisces and scorpio) are fragile flowers... that are always getting emotionally attached to everything they interact with.... which not they are not fragile princesses and princes.... they can be mean if they want to be... like every other human being...

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11 Years500+ PostsGemini

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Then why do all articles on Cancer men say differently? That they usually do not have one night stands and how do most of you know this? Unless you're a Cancer Male who has done so?

The keyword in here is "usually" every cancer guy (sun or moon) I've met has told me of one night stands and going through there "slut phase" or how they have done some fucked up shit to some girl or 2 at one point. For me they have never wanted to sleep with me to fast because they were emotionaly attached to me and didn't want to rush. That's when you know they like you and your not just some hole to stick their dick into.

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OK same for me...didn't happen too fast with the Canceren I know

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10 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by britneybabe26
Then why do all articles on Cancer men say differently? That they usually do not have one night stands and how do most of you know this? Unless you're a Cancer Male who has done so?

My ex was a total man slut before I met him (and maybe after too). He said that he would hook up with girls he had zero interest in BUT in order for him to get off, he would have to get into some freaky shit with them...he said with me, he could get off by having "normal", romantic sex without all the bells and whistles and toys and role playing (although we did that too) and he said that was the first time that's been the case for him because he wasn't in love with any of the other broads.

Does that make sense? It did to me at the time.

You aren't getting the whole emotional aspect out of the sex, but you still want the sex so you delve into deeper means of sexual satisfaction to compensate for the lack of depth in the emotions department.

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Absolutely, I've known 2. One of them was cheating on a long term GF, that I found out about later. and the other cheated on his ex before I met him. I don't believe that something like that has anything to do with astrology, and I don't mean to imply that they'll all cheat either, it was just my experience.

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Posted by britneybabe26

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You know astrology has screwed you up badly when you start thinking and asking such silly questions. It's time you take a break from astrology.

Then why the hell are we all in this forum? Lmao

In this forum or website?

In general the zoodiac sign message boards

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It's not there to attribute human needs to astrology. That's like saying "Which sign doesn't like sex?" "Which sign lies?" "Which sign sleeps at night?" Do you get it now?

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You notice a lot of the reply's are from non-cancers. They all seem to be experts. Maybe they were burned by one in the past. As a Cancer myself, I'll say that it has always been hard to have emotionless sex, if not impossible. Without some form of emotional attachment, there is no attraction at all. Sometimes I'll force an emotional attraction on flimsy pretenses just to lay the groundwork for the physical attraction, but it never lasts after the first time. If it's not real, it doesn't last.

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ha. Cappygirl, If you have that cancer man and have sex with him and it seems he is not attached to his emotion then he might not love you.
I find cancer men are very attached to their emotion even just talking with them. These men are wearing their heart on their sleeve.
I have cancer man bf even small talks with him does matter and he take it seriously. They are deep thinkers like any water element ( pisces and scorpio).
I suggest you need to talk with him.

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Posted by kalin

Posted by domanb
You notice a lot of the reply's are from non-cancers. They all seem to be experts. Maybe they were burned by one in the past. As a Cancer myself, I'll say that it has always been hard to have emotionless sex, if not impossible. Without some form of emotional attachment, there is no attraction at all. Sometimes I'll force an emotional attraction on flimsy pretenses just to lay the groundwork for the physical attraction, but it never lasts after the first time. If it's not real, it doesn't last.

A married Cancer man who is a friend's friend who I barely know tried to convince me to let him give me oral sex. Speaking of emotion? Lmao

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omg.That is horrible.

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Posted by domanb
You notice a lot of the reply's are from non-cancers. They all seem to be experts. Maybe they were burned by one in the past. As a Cancer myself, I'll say that it has always been hard to have emotionless sex, if not impossible. Without some form of emotional attachment, there is no attraction at all. Sometimes I'll force an emotional attraction on flimsy pretenses just to lay the groundwork for the physical attraction, but it never lasts after the first time. If it's not real, it doesn't last.

A married Cancer man who is a friend's friend who I barely know tried to convince me to let him give me oral sex. Speaking of emotion? Lmao

omg.That is horrible.

It WAS horrible and freaking awkward.

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yes. You are Scorpio too. Maybe he feels something about you.

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Posted by domanb
You notice a lot of the reply's are from non-cancers. They all seem to be experts. Maybe they were burned by one in the past. As a Cancer myself, I'll say that it has always been hard to have emotionless sex, if not impossible. Without some form of emotional attachment, there is no attraction at all. Sometimes I'll force an emotional attraction on flimsy pretenses just to lay the groundwork for the physical attraction, but it never lasts after the first time. If it's not real, it doesn't last.

A married Cancer man who is a friend's friend who I barely know tried to convince me to let him give me oral sex. Speaking of emotion? Lmao

omg.That is horrible.

It WAS horrible and freaking awkward.

He stayed in our apartment because the next day was our mutual friend's graduation ceremony and the mutual friend was my roommate. He just knocked on my door after our friend went to bed. It was unbelievably fucked up.

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wow. The thrill is killing me. But I know Scorpio women don't just lie down in bed and have sex like robot 😆

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Posted by domanb
You notice a lot of the reply's are from non-cancers. They all seem to be experts. Maybe they were burned by one in the past. As a Cancer myself, I'll say that it has always been hard to have emotionless sex, if not impossible. Without some form of emotional attachment, there is no attraction at all. Sometimes I'll force an emotional attraction on flimsy pretenses just to lay the groundwork for the physical attraction, but it never lasts after the first time. If it's not real, it doesn't last.

A married Cancer man who is a friend's friend who I barely know tried to convince me to let him give me oral sex. Speaking of emotion? Lmao

omg.That is horrible.

It WAS horrible and freaking awkward.

He stayed in our apartment because the next day was our mutual friend's graduation ceremony and the mutual friend was my roommate. He just knocked on my door after our friend went to bed. It was unbelievably fucked up.

wow. The thrill is killing me. But I know Scorpio women don't just lie down in bed and have sex like robot 😆

No, unless he looks like Chris Hemsworth 😆

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I agree with that.

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I heard porn and came running lol. I'm sorry but I know as humans we can but for me as a Taurus I can never have meaningless sex! My emotions have to be in it and I feel it's the same for cancers. Km sure they can fuck without emotions we all can but they will be disgusted afterwards. Cancers feel too much for that. Imo

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Posted by cappygirl11
Could a cancerian man have emotionless sex. Like with someone who means nothing to him and he doesn't care about. Is that possible?

You realize that someone's sun sign (in this case cancer) is not the end all be all for someone's personality?

He could be a cancer but have many of his other planets in air signs and therefore behave more like a Gemini when it comes to relationships and sex than a cancer.

Kind of impossible to predict how someone is just based off of their sun sign is all I'm saying...

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11 Years500+ PostsGemini

Posted by domanb
You notice a lot of the reply's are from non-cancers. They all seem to be experts. Maybe they were burned by one in the past. As a Cancer myself, I'll say that it has always been hard to have emotionless sex, if not impossible. Without some form of emotional attachment, there is no attraction at all. Sometimes I'll force an emotional attraction on flimsy pretenses just to lay the groundwork for the physical attraction, but it never lasts after the first time. If it's not real, it doesn't last.

Thank you!

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Posted by domanb
You notice a lot of the reply's are from non-cancers. They all seem to be experts. Maybe they were burned by one in the past. As a Cancer myself, I'll say that it has always been hard to have emotionless sex, if not impossible. Without some form of emotional attachment, there is no attraction at all. Sometimes I'll force an emotional attraction on flimsy pretenses just to lay the groundwork for the physical attraction, but it never lasts after the first time. If it's not real, it doesn't last.

If you have to force an "emotional attachment" , it's not real anyways. So the answer to OPs question is Yes. Any sign can and sun sign isn't the end all be all like the other poster said. I know a few Cancers( and other signs) that had multiple girls rotated.