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we have not responded cause it is just nice seeing someone else getting bashed for once and not us..lol..

Good, for you Cansir. LOL! You know Leo's we LOVE unwanted attention.

I can say TRUTHFULLY that I have developed some deep connections with some of the non haters on the boards. They know who they are. LOL!

V-Lady this is part of life. If you tell people honest information, you cut and rip through their hearts like a KNIGHT with a sharp sword, but if you LIE, they feed off of the shit, and it is the SAME people who are defensive to every one who gives decent advices posts.

lol Cansir, thats the running consensus so far "it's fun to watch and it's not one of us" lol.

""I will say this..if a person/s goes out of their way, take time out of their schedules to cut and paste in qoutes what someone else said...that person/s need some serious mental/emotional help, if a person/s care that much about someone elses words then this is a true indication that that person or persons have no life and are really unhappy. ""


hahahahahaaaa

The question, "who cares?" has been asked more than once w/in this thread. And yet, you respond a number of times here. lol So clearly, it isn't all *that* irrelevant.

you can all call me insane if you want - I don't care. The simple fact is I DIDN'T go running around cutting and pasting krobe's comments - as I've already stated OTHER PEOPLE sent them to me because they were laughing their asses off at this moron. AND krobe herself ASKED if anyone saw holes in her story - I just happened to have eveidence of sitting in my inbox which I did NOT go tracking down - so I put it out there - I didn't call anyone nasty names or accuse them of having no life etc..... but that is her defense - not that she didn't lie but simply that I must be some crazy hating bitch.

Well very well then - if you are all so happy to let krobe bully you around and not let ANYONE else talk on these boards unless they are agreeing with her - then so be it.

and tiki - your comment about seeing me go out of my way to disagree with people when they make complete sense is bullshit, so do yourself a favor and crawl OUT of krobe's ass.

I'm a lot more sane than the majority of YOU.

lmao Genome why would I lift the seat up anyway...that wasnt me Merc did it!!!

WHAT DA FUK dat's it nah jus kidding... but here is the thing krobe read carefully now she back in my life. I think taurus and cancer know each other well enough to see good and bad snd stick with each othertoo t. BUt as i said i think u like a bit drama in your life AND? what about my posts krobe? HUh u actually keep that? As i said if you are really a mature person none of this should matter but and i say but you should not be passing blame and twisting stories and passing the buck. Hey i aint fronting at least i can admit my wrongs work on it and learn from it. BUt the post should end up in the hole as it is but the point is krobe u can laugh at it but really and truly if the point was to blame men in general for faults and u ur self said u want to control them or give advice on how to control them and ur posts pointed u were being controlled then all in all ur advice without a doubt did not work. SO bury this post in the hole learn from your mistakes krobe... and I will call a spade a spade. Cliche yes . ANd lastly don't make assumptions .Ypou making out cancers as though we paupers,lol. Beggin for money. For a forty year old if your really that age you still sound and act a bit immature.

XF no matter if people sent those qoutes to you or not the very fact that you took time out your day to post a thread about what someone else said means you have issues, your not all their mentally or emotionally, you have some stalker like tendencies going on, be artistic and create a great life, just b/c someone brings you a bone doesn't mean you have to bury it, when a person comes to you with negativity whether you believe it or not doesn't mean you have to repost it, the fact that you did that means you breed negativity and thrive off of it, stop hating and stop worrying about things that have nothing to do with you, Krobe has her life and you have yours, mind your own business because if your minding her business then your not living a good, healthy life and if your minding other peoples business then your not taking care of you, you post your thoughts and no one is calling you a bully, the bully is the person who tries to post a negative thread and welcome all their vulture hating friends to join in.

Your an undercover bully that hate to hear others opinions, no one is digging into your life and posting past words and thoughts you said. You know why? Because no one cares about a grown woman's life style and on top of that your spending your day listening to negativity from other people, the fact that you and other people care is an indication that you and others have low self esteem, if you were a positive minded, healthy minded woman you wouldn't give that mess attention but the very fact that you do let's everyone know your miserable, misery loves company, miserable people don't spend their day, time and energy caring about WORDS and THOUGHTS of someone else, krobe hasn't pushed anyone physically or beat anyone up. Don't you and other people have a life outside of DXP?

So I have crawled out of krobe's ass just enough to point out that your emotionally insecure and the more you talk confirms it.

Either your emotionally not their or very, very immature and if your past 21 then shame on you because you should have better things to do with your life.

cast stones or not, anyone who has so much time to cut and paste paste cosistencies or inconsistencies has issues. Especially in a forum thats for entertainment purposes, the very fact that people care so much what a person says and holds that as truth either means that the person believes everything presented in front of them which is naive or truly doesn't have much of a life.

I don't know any of you, I don't care who you sleep with, who you breathe with, who you hug at night, if you have 3 boyfriends and 5 kids and turn around say oops I only have 2 boyfriends LOL!

We all give our opinions, tell our stories the way we deem and see them to be at any given time, when I feel like someone is being an ass or mean or lying I don't jump down that persons throat and accuse. To each his/her own, I'm not going to check if stories match and then tell everyone look, look what I found, what benefit does that give me? What are people getting out of that?

Let's say XF isn't mental, she still took time out of her busy day which isn't the first time she has done this which begs the question what is she getting out of it?

*yawn*

i think the point of this whole thread is to point out that there are ppl on this board that are not being truthful or honest with ppl but most importantly themselves. you can lie to me or whomever but eventually it all catches up to you cause you can't run away from yourself. so why waste ppl's time giving and receiving advice when it doesn't do anyone any good. we are on here to learn from each other and to help each other out. what good is that when everything someone has written is just a fallacy. if someone wants to use their time differently than you then that is their choice and who are we to judge. we are all different and that is what makes life fun and interesting. so yes these boards are great entertainment but if we can learn something in the process why not..

Cansir: I couldn't have said it better myself! 😉

I haven't personally had any issues with the advice I have been given by krobe and that stands for itself, I have helped other women get on track with their relationships b/c I genuinely care about people and I can say the same for Krobe,

Krobe's personal life has nothing to do with how competent her advice is. Their are people in the real world that have been caught in a so called lies and yet are still deemed credible in other areas of their expertise. Bill Clinton hasn't lost a dime since he got caught with his hands in the cookie jar so I definitely agree with your statement Cansir but again this has been blown out of proportion. A lie is a lie, I will not deny that, I personally could care less if Krobe lied or told the truth, that women has a heart bigger than DXP, she will help anyone that ask for help, you of all people know that.

great post cansir! Forgot to add that 😄

i am not singling out krobe or xangelfishx. i have no problem with either one of them and have come to know them on this board. do i agree with everything they say of course not but i see it for what it is..so i was speaking in general terms. every board on here has ppl that don't agree with one another and that especially holds true for the world we live in. tiki i know you have a bond with krobe and that is apparent with your display of loyalty in defending her..that is great but at the same time that doesn't make xangelfishx a crazy person for posting what she wanted. we all have or opinions and have the right to post them. it is up to the rest of us to decide if we want to respond and get involved in that thread or not. personally i am not one for drama and will not feed into it on a board and in my normal life. so hopefully this is behind us but we can continue to annoy each other in different threads..lol

we can agree to disagree, I personally feel anyone who takes time out of their day to disclaim, defame and participate in negativity with others has emotional issues and I'm not jus talking about XF, that goes for anyone that feels the need to spit hate.

No one person deserves that much attention in a forum, this mess went down a few months ago, whatever was said back then has to be brought up again and that doesn't seem mental to anyone lol! I'm sorry but that's insane okay. These people come off as negative vampires, cutting and pasting and emailing one another for the sole purpose to say to everyone, look see what she said in this post and that post, then on top of that dig into a persons life as if they know her personally. If a person is minding someone else's business then what does that say about that person.

if someone feels the need to lie to a bunch of people they dont know, then ask "does anyone see me lying" then when someone says yes I see you lyin here is the support and that liar, who asked if anyone sees them lyin, begins to spew chains of insults and unnecessary assumptions because that person has taken the time to show them to be a liar, what does that say about that person?

I think both parties contribute to negativity in their own ways. One has a purpose to show someone for what they "really are" (although this seems absurdly vengeful) and the other goes into rants of insults and self idolatry in response, claiming that everyone with a response not in their defense is against them.

Someone said there is no malice, but I strongly disagree..when someone feels the need to call other people flies, haters and any other insult that insinuates inferiority I think there is some malice at work.

Im not saying yea for any one party, but you cant have one without the other...I dont agree with snitches but neither do I agree with the person giving them something to snitch about...I could see if Angel was making false unnecessary charges, but they're only unnecessary not false, and I could see if Krobe was just defending herself or claiming her own actions, but she's defaming other people, name calling, and passing the buck. And although this is just my opinion it is the basis for the responses and posts I have made on this board. I dont feel the need to defend it I just think its better for someone, to admit that there are 2 sides to this insanity. Ladies,I think you should deal with your side of the score and I think that would help put this to rest.

I don't know what anyone is talking about inregards to lies etc, I see a lot of provoking and pushing and I wish everyone would chill the hell out.

XF I apologize if I offended you in any way, I sincerely mean that and I'm done with this whole issue, I do feel you have issues but it doesn't mean your a bad person.

this thread should have never been brought up and people need to chill out, stop taking this board seriously and enjoy themselves.

Something about this, as well on all the boards in here, that really bothers me .. for some unknown reason, people choose to continue in their hypocracy, in complete ignorance of reality. Being a Pisces, this really causes great concern for most every other person, since I'm the one who is suppose to not have a grasp with reality .. yet, there are very few, besides myself who can see what's real, while everybody else remains deluded.

Every person in this world speaks of their views, their opinions on different topics and we do so from experience .. but, that doesn't mean we don't err, or have fallen prey to the exact same things we try to talk to other people about.

We all know that people commit the exact same acts that we try to counsel other people into not doing .. yet, when a person voices this view or opinion, suddenly the deluded mind tries to hold the person speaking above humanity .. How dare they say something they've done themselves? Hello .. that's how they know, they've experienced, lol

The observer of anything in life, is NOT without error .. the observer in life is likely guilty of the same act, otherwise, they wouldn't have experience in it .. yet, the listener believes that the observer should be above human error and has not commited the act. If the observer has not commited the act .. how then do they have life experience to speak of it?

I know details beyond what was qouted/posted by XF and none of it is lies, their is more to her story than what she post on the board of course it would seem inconsistent if one doesn't speak with Krobe on a daily.

"The observer of anything in life, is NOT without error .. the observer in life is likely guilty of the same act, otherwise, they wouldn't have experience in it .. yet, the listener believes that the observer should be above human error and has not commited the act. If the observer has not commited the act .. how then do they have life experience to speak of it?"

Amen P Angel

"If a person is minding someone else's business then what does that say about that person."

I just joined DXP a few weeks back and I haven't been privy to what went on months ago. I am reading this thread and thinking to myself "How old are all these people?" This sounds really juvenile to go back and forth like this. It seems as though the same thing is being repeated. When is it time to just move on from something?

As I see it a large majority of posters here put their own business whether (real or fabricated) on here voluntarily for everyone to see. So if you are posting it here, then presumably you want people to read, think about and comment on it.

No one should have a problem with previous post being read, reread or commented on because that is the purpose of this forum, create new topics, discuss and give feedback on old ones too.

The board is meant to entertain, but serious topics are discussed here as well. There are posters here that use DXP to discuss very personal, intimate details of their lives and sometimes they are looking for honest and helpful feedback.

I think we all just need to be cognizant of the fact that we live in a world where freedom of speech and choice exists and someone else's opinion of your situation oand choices ultimately shouldn't matter to you, THAT IS unless YOU WANT IT TO OR LET IT.

I see what you're saying P-Angel. An experience with something has at least 2 ways to play out. I can have an experience with cheating in which I decide to do it or I can have an experience in which I decide not to do it, based on how the situation plays out I can advise someone to do it or to not do it, mainly based on my perception of whether not what I got from my decision was good or bad. Many people have different experiences with the same thing and even the ones that have the same experience can have different results or just different feelings about the same results. Im not sure different takes on the same experience can be called hypocrisies, because you dont have to do something to think it through to the end (i.e. jumping off a roof will hurt, I dont have to do it to tell someone not to). I apologize if I misunderstood you but this is what I gathered you were trying to say.

I dont think people can assert on an across the board basis whether someone gives good advice or not, all they can really say is "well it didnt work for me or it did" or state their opinion to give the person asking for the advice a different way to look at the situation or the already given advice. And you can't really say you give good advice either, I mean thats like saying "Im trustworthy"..most people do trust themselves, but thats doesnt mean other people can. I think the problem comes in when folks start calling people names or insinuating things about their personality because that person didnt agree with their advice or do what they advise. And I'm seeing that a lot of these boards.

"No one should have a problem with previous post being read, reread or commented on because that is the purpose of this forum, create new topics, discuss and give feedback on old ones too."

That's true Hotgal but if a person decides to post up and say look your a liar then that person better know what they are talking about, when I read the qoutes I knew exactly what XF was talking about and thats just part of the story, how can something be a lie if they don't know the WHOLE story, to get bits and pieces of something and then call someone a liar, well thats a matter of perspective.

It's okay to talk about and analyze old post etc but for one person/s to go out of their way to say look your a liar, well I think that's childish, XF could have easily made this a XF and Krobe issue but she wants to throw the whole board in a frenzy, to me thats childish, she's a grown woman, if she has a beef with someone, be a woman and take it to the head, take it to the source, don't be elementary about it, why does everyone have to know about this kind of issue. What is XF getting from it? Okay let's say she's right, is her ego so big that she has to prove a point, wouldn't it have been easier for her to jus go to Krobe and say hey listen I see some inconsistencies in your story, please explain? Got her answers and then let it go but no she has to confirm that she's right through this method and she hasn't proven anything at all.

*sigh*

Not ANOTHER one.

What is going on in the cosmos these days......

"That's true Hotgal but if a person decides to post up and say look your a liar then that person better know what they are talking about, when I read the qoutes I knew exactly what XF was talking about and thats just part of the story, how can something be a lie if they don't know the WHOLE story, to get bits and pieces of something and then call someone a liar, well thats a matter of perspective. "

That is exactly why they say, ?it is important to watch what you say? and BE MORE careful of ?what you DON'T say?.

Why be on the defensive though; when A) the WHOLE story wasn't presented and is unknown except to a certain few & B) it doesn't make you a liar because of it. Do you really have to prove anything to anyone on here by going back and forth stating what seems to be obvious now?

We don't have to be so malicious with each other over such a trivial issue. We all form our opinions & post responses here based on what is presented to us. We are all guilty of that.

"XF could have easily made this a XF and Krobe issue but she wants to throw the whole board in a frenzy, to me thats childish, she's a grown woman"

You are right XF is a grown woman and so is Krobe, so now comes the all-important question. "Who will be the first to walk away?" It really shouldn't much matter who, because I have read replies from both of them that seem to indicate that neither could care less about the other but they continue to post instead of ignoring it.

Just my thoughts, I'm out!

Peace HG78

I think we should just all stand in the middle of a crowded mall at Christmas time (to make sure we get a really big audience) and bellow out:

"I'm thinking about cheating on my husband, what do all you think?"

Then this bellower can sit back to hug all the people who support her with superficial feelings (which it's a stranger, so the feelings aren't really felt for her) .. and after all the hugging of the phonies who are just trying to "look" good, she can then yell at all the passerbys who had anything negative to say, eventhough if it's truth .. it's not what is wanted to be heard, so it will be called a lie, then call security over and point fingers at all the attackers.


Moral to the story .. if you aire your dirty laundry in PUBLIC and expect strangers who have thier own agenda to hold themselves accountable or responsible for YOUR feelings when you didn't even have the sense to keep silent what is personal in front of these strangers .. then you get what you deserve because enough common sense should have been present to comprehend that the only people who can effect your life are the ones who are in it.

I'll toast to that.

Ok,

Let's look at ALL the Sherlock Holmes here on these boards. XF and whoever else went back as if they had NO life and pulled back texts to call me a LIAR all have emotional issues.

The bottom LINE is...that you all are like maggots that feed on shit. You keep pulling up bits and pieces of posts TRYING to call me a LIAR, but ALL in ALL, I don't see ANY posts up here, which is MISSING the whole point, where I said, IN MY OPINION, you can date other men as long as you are not married...That posts is not posted though.....I have consistently stated that I have a CAP man....and a CANCER FRIEND who I CONSISTENTLY MENTIONED that it involved NO SEXUAL CONTACT....that is not posted here....I have consistently stated that Cap men are good men and I would prefer to be with a Cap, and if I WANT to change my mind tommorrow....I have the human right to do that....That goes back to MY belief of dating two men. I have CONSISTENTLY stated that I don't think dating two men at once cheating....WHY DON'T YOU POST SOME OF THOSE MESSAGES! IN MY OPINION! Now, if I am saying IN MY OPINION who in the hell cares! If you don't agree, IGNORE THE ADVICE!

You know I will really get a good kick out of it if you posted EVERY msgs I put on these boards and analyze them the way YOU want me to think. Just like I stated, it is going back to trying to CONTROL the way I THINK, AND MY OPINION of dating and relationships. When it's all said and done, none of the women on here read any of my msgs anyways. That ALONE tells you who the liars are. LOL!

The TRUTH of the matter is, when I told you ladies IN MY OPINION, don't be cheap acting to men, be there for them IF THEY NEED A HAND OR SUPPORT, hold off on sex, don't constantly call and text men, this gives a MAN alot of control over you, YOU MISSED that WHOLE MSGS and took it to heart. It put you down, I was degrading you, I was degrading your beliefs. I didn't say any direct names. You applied it to your situation and that shit hit your nerves. This is a bitter revenge board and the killing part is, I DON'T GIVE a FUCK if you found inconsistent information. See if I pull up any of your old posts and give you that much attention. You people need to get a life.

well thank you to those who did NOT call me mentally ill - not implying you agree with me, but thank you for not disparaging my mental state.

ive never seen anyone more skilled at dodging an issue. Hit everything but the nail, amazing.

beat it into the ground why don't you? fine, ill have coffee, then go sheesh. some women can't let a man have a break 😢.

ANd its pretty funny some women just don't get it, and that is off my dick with shit on it. Again, get a life, Sweets who don't you understand, I don't OWE you nothing and nobody on these boards. IF you like my advice, if you don't, you don't, who in the FUC cares! I really see who does and thanks for the attention, you know us Leo's love it. ANd you know I am LMOA at you fools.

Fools?

Many people are endeared when others appreciate them for their word. It would seem that most people are appreciative of this. One offers words of advice, or friendship, or counsel, or compassion and when the reciever of these words listen with earnest because they trust your word, trust your judgement, have faith in you .. this makes people feel so valuable, so special because they are trusted.

And then there's the ones who would say, "who in the FUC cares! I really see who does and thanks for the attention, you know us Leo's love it."

It appears that the only appreciation for those who would defend your honor is that of just pure attention and no real sinceriety for going to bat for your integrity .. it would appear that the definition of a person caring would translate into getting attention, without any acknowledgement that there is any concern for the actual person, or the words they used to describe that you are a good person.

Apparantly, this condition of you as a person as it pertains to goodness is of no consequence, nor does it supercede the value placed on you as a person when it comes to you showing appreciation or being loyal to those who would show you trust .. just attention is of value to you.

No thank you's for believing in you, no thanks for knowing and voicing in your defense that you are a good person ..

.. just appreciation for showing your ego some attention ..

superficial .. shallow .. and you're right some people just don't get it. You're right .. you don't owe Sweets anything .. however, you do the people who stood up for your integrity .. they've been overlooked with true sincereity, so you could focus on proving that you actually care more for the people who don't trust you or like you than the people who do trust you or like you because it's to them that you put your energy.

Those people know who they are! How do you know I did not thank them? Are you just assuming? Like I stated, it would be good to get a life and quit swarming around this board trying to figure things you don't KNOW out. I don't owe you and explanation either P. Assume what you want!

"Those people know who they are! How do you know I did not thank them?"

An identification wasn't suggested, and my observation came strickly from your post at 7:25am .. I only know what you post. Why would you think that a person would have information other than what you posted?

lol, very strange ..


You sure are on a defensive .. curious, indeed ..

So, question: At which point does logic prevail over emotions? For, I'm not trying to figure anything out, just making my own observations based off of what you are saying, yet, you believe it to be some kind of de-coding .. what is the paranoia for? Almost as if there is something to hide and a person might unshield what needs to be protected?

Seriously .. I don't even know why you responded to this thread in the first place with a defense .. only guilt would make a person defend, for if there is no guilt, then there is no territory in which is in question unhonorably. If you're integrity isn't in question .. then why respond in the first place?

Every day that I'm in here is another day that I'm proud to be a Pisces, for we would NEVER defend something to which we feel no guilt, for we know that to do so would incriminate the guiltless and there is just too much confidence in our self-worth than to defend something to which we feel no remorse.

Do you not know who you are?

If you actually got off your defensive stance .. you'd realize that I'm not against you in any way, nor jumping on any band-wagon, rather, making my own judegements based off of your words typed in this thread and not addressing anything other than what you said.

How exactly could I address something that has been done in private by you and another person? And yet, you defend a position that you imply is done in private, and then say that I am assuming something .. very curious ..

A Leo, huh? This is very enlightening .. it might explain a lot of which I hadn't understood about Leo's and some of the decisions they make, for I hadn't realized that they are paranoid. This is something that is hidden very well, it appears ..

Hummm, very interesting .... though, I wasn't trying to figure anything out, and epiphany did come .. thank you.

Can I ask what it is you are afraid of?

I do want to add that I understand about pride .. however, I guess where I'm failing to grasp it in this scenerio is wouldn't it be displaying pride to walk away from what is unjustified? And to actually confront it by defending it is actually showing no pride, for it lowers the self to that level?

To me .. that's like jealousy .. I don't get it .. where is the pride in that?

If a person is making their partner jealous by giving another person flirty attention, than what exactly is there to be jealous of?

Jealous that the partner is so disrespectful that they would flirt with another and embarrass? And, I'm suppose to be jealous of not having enough of that kind of person that I'm suppose to fight to keep it?

** scratches head **

There's no comprehension of ignorance ... how does pride play a valid part in this, in where it makes you look self-worthy, rather than silly?

lol exactly P

Krobe, dont do it for me, do it for yourself. This isnt about what you owe anyone or about your advice....I didnt even mention your advice, it wasnt worth mentioning.

"He who tries to be the most transparent, by his own effort draws the most attention". Attention is attention but is it worth it when you seem like a ranting raving weirdo with a self glorifying, victimized guilt conscious?

My younger brother and niece are both Leos and Im not sure but I'm guessing they wouldnt like you blaming it on the sun sign....I'd say Freud probably has a better explanation than Linda Goodman at this point

this thread still goin on,lol.phewww the more the person responds the more they reveal themselvessss. Sweet fatale u looking good as usuaal how u doin