How does Cancer man show it

When he's losing interest in a girl?

not everything is based on a person's sign. It's just the same as for any guy of any sign,that being - He'll disappear. Not stay in touch.Cut you out. Not show any interest in your life.

Posted by aquaboy84
yes gia is absolutely right. I lost interest in my Gemini ex but I still loved her but I guess she felt bad I didn't interest her so she cheated, admitted to cheating on me while we was together just last week.. So if you're in a relationship or if ur just dating or not, he can still be interested in you without showing interest. At least that's what I think personally

Interesting.

Loving someone but not showing it reeks of manipulation.

But, OK, thanks, Waterboy. 🙂

Posted by aurora
i have a feeling there's no simple answer to your question.

Well, I think its quite simple that someone I've been seeing for a month now suddenly goes cold on me two days to my birthday. lol

Maybe he's just tired from work too.

He's been acting different.

He calls and then just stays quiet. After about ten minutes not talking, he'll sigh and then say something like he missed me today. I say I missed him too. Then I ask if he's home yet and get one word answers like yes, no.

Okay, so I go quiet too and after a few minutes he'll make some excuse and hang up.

Its weird, but I'm seeing the frustration men talk about having with me when I refuse to talk.

lol

Yeah, he's not called or anything for two days.

Nice time to shell up, I guess.

I think whatever it was blew over already.

🙂

@Aurora, its really hard for me to say things like that too! Its like I'm exposing myself to EVERY emotional predator in the world - not just the person I'm missing. But, sometimes, the need to say it becomes overwhelming so I look for the most intimate time alone when we are together and then I'll say it quietly or something.

lol

If it blew over it is probably over and did not have anything to do with you. It could have been stress over work.

I won't say I miss someone unless I mean it. Maybe he wants you to be more emotionally engaging in the convo.

Posted by rabidtalker
If it blew over it is probably over and did not have anything to do with you. It could have been stress over work.

Lots and lots of stress. Yeah.

What sign are you?

What sign are you?

What sign are you?

Posted by Cheeseburger
Don't think too much about it. We move funny.

LOL Now, ain't that the truth 😆

I think communication is key here, as in most cases.
He might be unsure of how u feel about him, they need alot of reassurance, but not neccesarily giving it in return, leaving you thinking they want space or don't wanna be around you. Like a stuck up princess/diva :p

if he is afraid of getting hurt, which is major crisis to a crab, they'll shy away if the stakes are too high.
Reassure him, tell him how you'd like your mutual future together, compliment him and the touch thing! The physical aspect is crucial as cancers seldom diverts emotions from physical displays of affection.
Some of them require a lot of spontaniety despite their need for security, as they tend to get bored easily after a while. They want love to be forever fresh and exciting, they live off of it, so keeping the flame is important.

When they are not willing to pursue it anymore, it usually stems from lack of attention, both emotional and physical. And then they become distant, ''forgetting'' meetings you have planned together or come up with half-hearted excuses.
The thing about them is that it is easily to pick up on, and in fact easy to deal with.
They're suckers for romance, send him a hand written love note, flowers etc. I have done it, it works 🙂

Good luck, and remember : If it's worth having, it's worth fighting for 🙂

Thank you. 🙂

Though, I doubt he will ask me to be his girlfriend.

037 - every relationship requires equal effort from both parties. If you find yourself catering to his needs and he does not out in the effort to meet yours. Mive out of the parasitic relationship and hope for someone who will meet you head-on!

Posted by aurora
So what happened on your birthday?

It was lovely. He came by for dinner, then he read me a poem as we shared ice cream, champagne and walnuts.

No kisses, no cuddling. But he is so religious, and he needs to resist temptation and apparently I'm too sexy.

lol

Posted by 037

Posted by aurora
So what happened on your birthday?

It was lovely. He came by for dinner, then he read me a poem as we shared ice cream, champagne and walnuts.

No kisses, no cuddling. But he is so religious, and he needs to resist temptation and apparently I'm too sexy.

lol

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Sounds like he likes you a lot, so why do you think he won't ask you to be his gf?

If not cuddling, kissing, then the emotional connection needs to be tight, consistent - can make a very strong bond.

Because he says I'm a big temptation.

When we're together, his iron clad celibacy shakes.

We'll see though

The emotional connection is off the hook.

Instantaneous.

🙂

The relationship cam remain sexually pure and you can still grow close. Lioness and I are sexually charged individuals, but we didn't go there at the start. It is possible 😉. I'm rooting for you two.

So glad you had a great birthday!

That's what I thought too - getting closer without the sex.

But we'll see. Things are still very new.

Thanks for rooting for us. I really, really like him.

Typical cancer.

lol