How does one woo a Cancer moon man?

I'm dealing with a libra sun, cancer moon, leo mars, virgo venus+mercury.

I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus, taurus mercury

I have no clue how to deal with him, but I am intrigued as to how his mind works. He is definitely sensitive, and mad respectful which I love. He likes kids (a plus).

We talk everyday like a checkin but I have a feeling I'm dealing with his outer shell (Libra sun) and have not reached his cancer moon. I know I know it takes time but any tips/experiences with a cancer moon man are appreciated 🙂

Bring up past memories .

Cancer moons live in the past and have great memories.

It makes them feel like they’ve really connected with someone when they openly discuss the past memories. Live in the past with me while we create new memories to live off of.

When you can remember even the tiniest of details it shows that you’re paying attention to the babble

Posted by Wizardz

Don't ask questions and try to work it out. We'd rather just feel than know why . It's better to accept his moods and go with it, rather than try and "help". I think we just want people to feel us, more than understand us

He hasn't been moody as of yet....I did tease him for not moisturizing his face then later gave him a couple recommendations lol

Posted by ImperfectStorm

I have cancer moon, Virgo Venus and Libra stellium including rising.

It takes time and consistency. We are the types that will fall in love with a friend. It takes time for our more permanent bonds to develop, but once we are in, we are in for keeps. The biggest thing is consistency, with all that Gemini in your chart you might be prone to being fickle.

I’d say the fact that you talk everyday is a good thing. Earth Venus are slow to move, so it might take a while but in his case, attachments evolve with time and consistency. His Virgo Venus might frustrate your Aries Venus because he will likely overthink everything and can be timid or hesitant to move fast. (I’m currently involved with an Aries Venus too).

We'll talk then he drops off the face of the earth for the next 13 hrs lmao. Its okay tho. I dealt with a virgo venus before they analyze EVERYTHING lmao.

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Cook for him.

Me cooking for a man has to be earned....I don't do it for every guy I have 2 dates with lol. I think my mercury in taurus makes me somewhat domesticated in my mindset but you gotta be worth it

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I have cancer moon, Virgo Venus and Libra stellium including rising.

It takes time and consistency. We are the types that will fall in love with a friend. It takes time for our more permanent bonds to develop, but once we are in, we are in for keeps. The biggest thing is consistency, with all that Gemini in your chart you might be prone to being fickle.

I’d say the fact that you talk everyday is a good thing. Earth Venus are slow to move, so it might take a while but in his case, attachments evolve with time and consistency. His Virgo Venus might frustrate your Aries Venus because he will likely overthink everything and can be timid or hesitant to move fast. (I’m currently involved with an Aries Venus too).

We'll talk then he drops off the face of the earth for the next 13 hrs lmao. Its okay tho. I dealt with a virgo venus before they analyze EVERYTHING lmao.

The Aries Venus that I’ve been talking to has Virgo moon and I feel like he is the more the type to fall off the face of the earth for several hours 😐 lol which then makes ME overthink why he is distancing himself from me lmao

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Hmm what's his mars, mercury in? The leeb guy has his mars in Leo (this is my second time dealing with a mars in leo). I think he needs to be physically kept occupied or he gets bored as fuck. So I chalk it up to work, gym or hanging out with friends/family or needing downtime since his moon is in a water sign.

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I'm dealing with a libra sun, cancer moon, leo mars, virgo venus+mercury.

I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus, taurus mercury

I have no clue how to deal with him, but I am intrigued as to how his mind works. He is definitely sensitive, and mad respectful which I love. He likes kids (a plus).

We talk everyday like a checkin but I have a feeling I'm dealing with his outer shell (Libra sun) and have not reached his cancer moon. I know I know it takes time but any tips/experiences with a cancer moon man are appreciated 🙂

Based off the info you put out, proceed with caution; he could have violent tendencies; more likely abusive, (provoking tendencies since he’s a libra sun), provoking you to get physical or start screaming first. Your Venus might or might not work; Virgo Venus are mutual and service-oriented. Mentally, there needs to be a lot in common to give it longevity. Being a triple Gemini, I think you’re too lighthearted to give his personality the tender prodding and understanding he needs past the honeymoon stage. Being an Aries Mercury, you’re bound to say something on the fly (down the line) that his negative rut will erupt over time and time again.

But (if you’re into this) he’ll most likely give you good sex (squared types love seedy, dark sex; it burns off all that anger) Being the more leveled one in the relationship

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I'm dealing with a libra sun, cancer moon, leo mars, virgo venus+mercury.

I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus, taurus mercury

I have no clue how to deal with him, but I am intrigued as to how his mind works. He is definitely sensitive, and mad respectful which I love. He likes kids (a plus).

We talk everyday like a checkin but I have a feeling I'm dealing with his outer shell (Libra sun) and have not reached his cancer moon. I know I know it takes time but any tips/experiences with a cancer moon man are appreciated 🙂

Based off the info you put out, proceed with caution; he could have violent tendencies; more likely abusive, (provoking tendencies since he’s a libra sun), provoking you to get physical or start screaming first. Your Venus might or might not work; Virgo Venus are mutual and service-oriented. Mentally, there needs to be a lot in common to give it longevity. Being a triple Gemini, I think you’re too lighthearted to give his personality the tender prodding and understanding he needs past the honeymoon stage. Being an Aries Mercury, you’re bound to say something on the fly (down the line) that his negative rut will erupt over time and time again.

But (if you’re into this) he’ll most likely give you good sex (squared types love seedy, dark sex; it burns off all that anger) Being the more leveled one in the relationship

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um I am taurus mercury....Also what makes you say abusive tendencies—

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Posted by Gem03

I'm dealing with a libra sun, cancer moon, leo mars, virgo venus+mercury.

I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus, taurus mercury

I have no clue how to deal with him, but I am intrigued as to how his mind works. He is definitely sensitive, and mad respectful which I love. He likes kids (a plus).

We talk everyday like a checkin but I have a feeling I'm dealing with his outer shell (Libra sun) and have not reached his cancer moon. I know I know it takes time but any tips/experiences with a cancer moon man are appreciated 🙂

Based off the info you put out, proceed with caution; he could have violent tendencies; more likely abusive, (provoking tendencies since he’s a libra sun), provoking you to get physical or start screaming first. Your Venus might or might not work; Virgo Venus are mutual and service-oriented. Mentally, there needs to be a lot in common to give it longevity. Being a triple Gemini, I think you’re too lighthearted to give his personality the tender prodding and understanding he needs past the honeymoon stage. Being an Aries Mercury, you’re bound to say something on the fly (down the line) that his negative rut will erupt over time and time again.

But (if you’re into this) he’ll most likely give you good sex (squared types love seedy, dark sex; it burns off all that anger) Being the more leveled one in the relationship

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what's a provoking tendency?

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I'm dealing with a libra sun, cancer moon, leo mars, virgo venus+mercury.

I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus, taurus mercury

I have no clue how to deal with him, but I am intrigued as to how his mind works. He is definitely sensitive, and mad respectful which I love. He likes kids (a plus).

We talk everyday like a checkin but I have a feeling I'm dealing with his outer shell (Libra sun) and have not reached his cancer moon. I know I know it takes time but any tips/experiences with a cancer moon man are appreciated 🙂

Based off the info you put out, proceed with caution; he could have violent tendencies; more likely abusive, (provoking tendencies since he’s a libra sun), provoking you to get physical or start screaming first. Your Venus might or might not work; Virgo Venus are mutual and service-oriented. Mentally, there needs to be a lot in common to give it longevity. Being a triple Gemini, I think you’re too lighthearted to give his personality the tender prodding and understanding he needs past the honeymoon stage. Being an Aries Mercury, you’re bound to say something on the fly (down the line) that his negative rut will erupt over time and time again.

But (if you’re into this) he’ll most likely give you good sex (squared types love seedy, dark sex; it burns off all that anger) Being the more leveled one in the relationship

what's a provoking tendency?

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I guess to get someone to be mad at you— Cause arguments and stuff.

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I'm dealing with a libra sun, cancer moon, leo mars, virgo venus+mercury.

I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus, taurus mercury

I have no clue how to deal with him, but I am intrigued as to how his mind works. He is definitely sensitive, and mad respectful which I love. He likes kids (a plus).

We talk everyday like a checkin but I have a feeling I'm dealing with his outer shell (Libra sun) and have not reached his cancer moon. I know I know it takes time but any tips/experiences with a cancer moon man are appreciated 🙂

Based off the info you put out, proceed with caution; he could have violent tendencies; more likely abusive, (provoking tendencies since he’s a libra sun), provoking you to get physical or start screaming first. Your Venus might or might not work; Virgo Venus are mutual and service-oriented. Mentally, there needs to be a lot in common to give it longevity. Being a triple Gemini, I think you’re too lighthearted to give his personality the tender prodding and understanding he needs past the honeymoon stage. Being an Aries Mercury, you’re bound to say something on the fly (down the line) that his negative rut will erupt over time and time again.

But (if you’re into this) he’ll most likely give you good sex (squared types love seedy, dark sex; it burns off all that anger) Being the more leveled one in the relationship

um I am taurus mercury....Also what makes you say abusive tendencies—

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He has a cardinal sign square between his sun and moon.

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I'm dealing with a libra sun, cancer moon, leo mars, virgo venus+mercury.

I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus, taurus mercury

I have no clue how to deal with him, but I am intrigued as to how his mind works. He is definitely sensitive, and mad respectful which I love. He likes kids (a plus).

We talk everyday like a checkin but I have a feeling I'm dealing with his outer shell (Libra sun) and have not reached his cancer moon. I know I know it takes time but any tips/experiences with a cancer moon man are appreciated 🙂

Based off the info you put out, proceed with caution; he could have violent tendencies; more likely abusive, (provoking tendencies since he’s a libra sun), provoking you to get physical or start screaming first. Your Venus might or might not work; Virgo Venus are mutual and service-oriented. Mentally, there needs to be a lot in common to give it longevity. Being a triple Gemini, I think you’re too lighthearted to give his personality the tender prodding and understanding he needs past the honeymoon stage. Being an Aries Mercury, you’re bound to say something on the fly (down the line) that his negative rut will erupt over time and time again.

But (if you’re into this) he’ll most likely give you good sex (squared types love seedy, dark sex; it burns off all that anger) Being the more leveled one in the relationship

what's a provoking tendency?

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Libra hates directly starting fights (as a last, desperate resort they will but it's grueling on them), s when they want to surface an issue to talk about it, they provoke the person in passive-aggressive or indirect ways so that they "bring it up first," and it looks like the other person is unbalanced and lacks inner-harmony. They'll provoke you in public and shame you into starting the fight so they throw in what's bothering them about you.

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I'm dealing with a libra sun, cancer moon, leo mars, virgo venus+mercury.

I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus, taurus mercury

I have no clue how to deal with him, but I am intrigued as to how his mind works. He is definitely sensitive, and mad respectful which I love. He likes kids (a plus).

We talk everyday like a checkin but I have a feeling I'm dealing with his outer shell (Libra sun) and have not reached his cancer moon. I know I know it takes time but any tips/experiences with a cancer moon man are appreciated 🙂

Based off the info you put out, proceed with caution; he could have violent tendencies; more likely abusive, (provoking tendencies since he’s a libra sun), provoking you to get physical or start screaming first. Your Venus might or might not work; Virgo Venus are mutual and service-oriented. Mentally, there needs to be a lot in common to give it longevity. Being a triple Gemini, I think you’re too lighthearted to give his personality the tender prodding and understanding he needs past the honeymoon stage. Being an Aries Mercury, you’re bound to say something on the fly (down the line) that his negative rut will erupt over time and time again.

But (if you’re into this) he’ll most likely give you good sex (squared types love seedy, dark sex; it burns off all that anger) Being the more leveled one in the relationship

what's a provoking tendency?

Libra hates directly starting fights (as a last, desperate resort they will but it's grueling on them), s when they want to surface an issue to talk about it, they provoke the person in passive-aggressive or indirect ways so that they "bring it up first," and it looks like the other person is unbalanced and lacks inner-harmony. They'll provoke you in public and shame you into starting the fight so they throw in what's bothering them about you.

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The leeb man def tries not to come off as opinionated, emotional or passionate. He tries to seem as balanced and calm as possible. But this man has mars leo and moon cancer. It is impossible for him not be those things lmao. I managed to work around it a lil bit. Because I hate superfluous exteriors. I wanna know what makes you tick, what makes you cry, what makes you laugh, what makes you fall asleep, how you grew up, why you have your scars...and so on.

I guess it depends on if the Cancer moon talks about himself or not.

I like Virgo moons and Scorpio moons because I can ask them anything and they answer it. Then they reciprocate. I do not talk about myself much, especially the past. So if a person wants to know they have to ask me.

I like hearing about a persons past because it tells me about their character and how they treat people in their lives. I don't do it to reminisce, I do it to silently judge and see if it's something I would be willing to put up with in my life.

Kind of like gossipy friends and how you can't be surprised if they do it to you.- I listen to everything you say and let you talk and tell it all, while actively listening and remaining neutral about it.

I want to know everything you're willing to tell me about your past and I want to know how you handled problems that came up. I want to know the highs and lows.

He's cardinal sun and moon, so I will say to keep him as a high priority.

Let him ask you out and say yes, more times then no. If no, schedule a different day that works, don't leave him hanging.

Cancer moons want to be a priority and want to know that they are a favorite.

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I'm dealing with a libra sun, cancer moon, leo mars, virgo venus+mercury.

I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus, taurus mercury

I have no clue how to deal with him, but I am intrigued as to how his mind works. He is definitely sensitive, and mad respectful which I love. He likes kids (a plus).

We talk everyday like a checkin but I have a feeling I'm dealing with his outer shell (Libra sun) and have not reached his cancer moon. I know I know it takes time but any tips/experiences with a cancer moon man are appreciated 🙂

Based off the info you put out, proceed with caution; he could have violent tendencies; more likely abusive, (provoking tendencies since he’s a libra sun), provoking you to get physical or start screaming first. Your Venus might or might not work; Virgo Venus are mutual and service-oriented. Mentally, there needs to be a lot in common to give it longevity. Being a triple Gemini, I think you’re too lighthearted to give his personality the tender prodding and understanding he needs past the honeymoon stage. Being an Aries Mercury, you’re bound to say something on the fly (down the line) that his negative rut will erupt over time and time again.

But (if you’re into this) he’ll most likely give you good sex (squared types love seedy, dark sex; it burns off all that anger) Being the more leveled one in the relationship

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Wow, that's kind of scary to think about. Funny that you can tell this type of thing in a chart.

Is the same thing said about the silent murderers? The ones who stay out of arguments but just end up waking up one day and killing a person?

I'm trying hard to connect starting and argument and being argumentative to provoking physical violence and being abusive. I thought this type of thing was a condition of your environment.

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He's cardinal sun and moon, so I will say to keep him as a high priority.

Let him ask you out and say yes, more times then no. If no, schedule a different day that works, don't leave him hanging.

Cancer moons want to be a priority and want to know that they are a favorite.

Yeah everytime he mentions any type of date I give a positive response. I also try not to be the chaser and give him as much space as he needs (its hard having a venus aries lol). He has dominant placement (mars leo), so I let him ask me out. I'm guessing the cancer moon placement makes him a bit traditional in dating? He never lets me pay, holds the door, holds my hand when walking, is respectful.

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I guess it depends on if the Cancer moon talks about himself or not.

I like Virgo moons and Scorpio moons because I can ask them anything and they answer it. Then they reciprocate. I do not talk about myself much, especially the past. So if a person wants to know they have to ask me.

I like hearing about a persons past because it tells me about their character and how they treat people in their lives. I don't do it to reminisce, I do it to silently judge and see if it's something I would be willing to put up with in my life.

Kind of like gossipy friends and how you can't be surprised if they do it to you.- I listen to everything you say and let you talk and tell it all, while actively listening and remaining neutral about it.

I want to know everything you're willing to tell me about your past and I want to know how you handled problems that came up. I want to know the highs and lows.

Virgo moons in my exp are tight lipped about themselves. It aggravates me after like x amount of time. They are mad cynical and guarded. But yeah I'm the same way. I like knowing people's stories.

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He's cardinal sun and moon, so I will say to keep him as a high priority.

Let him ask you out and say yes, more times then no. If no, schedule a different day that works, don't leave him hanging.

Cancer moons want to be a priority and want to know that they are a favorite.

Yeah everytime he mentions any type of date I give a positive response. I also try not to be the chaser and give him as much space as he needs (its hard having a venus aries lol). He has dominant placement (mars leo), so I let him ask me out. I'm guessing the cancer moon placement makes him a bit traditional in dating? He never lets me pay, holds the door, holds my hand when walking, is respectful.

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He has a Leo mars which means if he want's you, he will basically lie and wait. Think a lion trying to catch his prey. They hide out and wait for you to come to them.

We usually are good at getting what we want.

I think Cancer placements in general are pretty traditional and homely. It's always a good idea to show interest but not chase a man.

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I guess it depends on if the Cancer moon talks about himself or not.

I like Virgo moons and Scorpio moons because I can ask them anything and they answer it. Then they reciprocate. I do not talk about myself much, especially the past. So if a person wants to know they have to ask me.

I like hearing about a persons past because it tells me about their character and how they treat people in their lives. I don't do it to reminisce, I do it to silently judge and see if it's something I would be willing to put up with in my life.

Kind of like gossipy friends and how you can't be surprised if they do it to you.- I listen to everything you say and let you talk and tell it all, while actively listening and remaining neutral about it.

I want to know everything you're willing to tell me about your past and I want to know how you handled problems that came up. I want to know the highs and lows.

Virgo moons in my exp are tight lipped about themselves. It aggravates me after like x amount of time. They are mad cynical and guarded. But yeah I'm the same way. I like knowing people's stories.

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I've never had an issue with them for some reason. But my questions are usually innocent enough and not too personal.

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I guess it depends on if the Cancer moon talks about himself or not.

I like Virgo moons and Scorpio moons because I can ask them anything and they answer it. Then they reciprocate. I do not talk about myself much, especially the past. So if a person wants to know they have to ask me.

I like hearing about a persons past because it tells me about their character and how they treat people in their lives. I don't do it to reminisce, I do it to silently judge and see if it's something I would be willing to put up with in my life.

Kind of like gossipy friends and how you can't be surprised if they do it to you.- I listen to everything you say and let you talk and tell it all, while actively listening and remaining neutral about it.

I want to know everything you're willing to tell me about your past and I want to know how you handled problems that came up. I want to know the highs and lows.

Virgo moons in my exp are tight lipped about themselves. It aggravates me after like x amount of time. They are mad cynical and guarded. But yeah I'm the same way. I like knowing people's stories.

I've never had an issue with them for some reason. But my questions are usually innocent enough and not too personal.

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I'm a nosey bitch so I wanna know EVERYTHNG, esp the personal shit so that is probably why

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He's cardinal sun and moon, so I will say to keep him as a high priority.

Let him ask you out and say yes, more times then no. If no, schedule a different day that works, don't leave him hanging.

Cancer moons want to be a priority and want to know that they are a favorite.

Yeah everytime he mentions any type of date I give a positive response. I also try not to be the chaser and give him as much space as he needs (its hard having a venus aries lol). He has dominant placement (mars leo), so I let him ask me out. I'm guessing the cancer moon placement makes him a bit traditional in dating? He never lets me pay, holds the door, holds my hand when walking, is respectful.

He has a Leo mars which means if he want's you, he will basically lie and wait. Think a lion trying to catch his prey. They hide out and wait for you to come to them.

We usually are good at getting what we want.

I think Cancer placements in general are pretty traditional and homely. It's always a good idea to show interest but not chase a man.

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Also when it comes to men I think "if he wanted to he would", if he wants to take me out on a third date then he will. If not welllll

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He's cardinal sun and moon, so I will say to keep him as a high priority.

Let him ask you out and say yes, more times then no. If no, schedule a different day that works, don't leave him hanging.

Cancer moons want to be a priority and want to know that they are a favorite.

Yeah everytime he mentions any type of date I give a positive response. I also try not to be the chaser and give him as much space as he needs (its hard having a venus aries lol). He has dominant placement (mars leo), so I let him ask me out. I'm guessing the cancer moon placement makes him a bit traditional in dating? He never lets me pay, holds the door, holds my hand when walking, is respectful.

He has a Leo mars which means if he want's you, he will basically lie and wait. Think a lion trying to catch his prey. They hide out and wait for you to come to them.

We usually are good at getting what we want.

I think Cancer placements in general are pretty traditional and homely. It's always a good idea to show interest but not chase a man.

Also when it comes to men I think "if he wanted to he would", if he wants to take me out on a third date then he will. If not welllll

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Dating and all things in the beginning of relationships suck. There are so many rules to follow in how you can and can't act, if you're trying to date someone. Its just terrible.

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I'm dealing with a libra sun, cancer moon, leo mars, virgo venus+mercury.

I am Gemini sun+moon+mars with aries venus, taurus mercury

I have no clue how to deal with him, but I am intrigued as to how his mind works. He is definitely sensitive, and mad respectful which I love. He likes kids (a plus).

We talk everyday like a checkin but I have a feeling I'm dealing with his outer shell (Libra sun) and have not reached his cancer moon. I know I know it takes time but any tips/experiences with a cancer moon man are appreciated 🙂

Based off the info you put out, proceed with caution; he could have violent tendencies; more likely abusive, (provoking tendencies since he’s a libra sun), provoking you to get physical or start screaming first. Your Venus might or might not work; Virgo Venus are mutual and service-oriented. Mentally, there needs to be a lot in common to give it longevity. Being a triple Gemini, I think you’re too lighthearted to give his personality the tender prodding and understanding he needs past the honeymoon stage. Being an Aries Mercury, you’re bound to say something on the fly (down the line) that his negative rut will erupt over time and time again.

But (if you’re into this) he’ll most likely give you good sex (squared types love seedy, dark sex; it burns off all that anger) Being the more leveled one in the relationship

what's a provoking tendency?

Libra hates directly starting fights (as a last, desperate resort they will but it's grueling on them), s when they want to surface an issue to talk about it, they provoke the person in passive-aggressive or indirect ways so that they "bring it up first," and it looks like the other person is unbalanced and lacks inner-harmony. They'll provoke you in public and shame you into starting the fight so they throw in what's bothering them about you.

The leeb man def tries not to come off as opinionated, emotional or passionate. He tries to seem as balanced and calm as possible. But this man has mars leo and moon cancer. It is impossible for him not be those things lmao. I managed to work around it a lil bit. Because I hate superfluous exteriors. I wanna know what makes you tick, what makes you cry, what makes you laugh, what makes you fall asleep, how you grew up, why you have your scars...and so on.

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You're absolutely right; moon in cancer and mars in leo *must be* a libra's worst nightmare. Selfishness and being overly emotional are two things libra *hates* those qualities not only are draining on them, but keeps their scales bobbing from side to side from achieving balance. Libras have low self esteem as it is. (The sun (our ego) is exhalted in Aries, and is in detriment in its opposite sign, Libra) Taking a peak at what makes him tick is like opening Pandora's box; what comes out is out; it doesn't close. Also, when Libra gets angry and does something wrong, oftentimes you have to share the blame with them (everything equal). They usually consider it rude if you cant get creative and figure out "something" that you did wrong as well.

@ImperfectStorm Lol, so we went on our third date. He was a lot more transparent which I liked. The following is what he said:

Him: "I'm 6' but if I was 240lbs would you be attracted to me?" Me: "Yes I would, if I like you then I like you"

(I found this kinda weird? idk...I still reassured him)

Him: "I can be a spiteful, idk if you know. I shouldn't tell you this but" Me: "No its okay, tell me, I wanna know. Just be honest" Him: "Well my ex broke up with me for 2nd time and I thought it was done for, but she came back after a week and was like she misses me, I told her that I don't trust her yet and kept her as a friend for 3 months before getting back with her. I slept around with other girls during the 3 months, I didn't tell my ex. But it was out of spite. Its not cheating tho" I replied with "No it isn't". They weren't a couple so likeeee

Me: *telling him about a time when a guy with only-fans asked me to be in his video as our third date and laughing*..

Him: "Thats hilarious, you gotta be one handsome guy to be on only-fans though"

Me: "WELLLL I blocked him and I'm on a date with you, and you are handsome"

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@ImperfectStorm Lol, so we went on our third date. He was a lot more transparent which I liked. The following is what he said:

Him: "I'm 6' but if I was 240lbs would you be attracted to me?" Me: "Yes I would, if I like you then I like you"

(I found this kinda weird? idk...I still reassured him)

Him: "I can be a spiteful, idk if you know. I shouldn't tell you this but" Me: "No its okay, tell me, I wanna know. Just be honest" Him: "Well my ex broke up with me for 2nd time and I thought it was done for, but she came back after a week and was like she misses me, I told her that I don't trust her yet and kept her as a friend for 3 months before getting back with her. I slept around with other girls during the 3 months, I didn't tell my ex. But it was out of spite. Its not cheating tho" I replied with "No it isn't". They weren't a couple so likeeee

Me: *telling him about a time when a guy with only-fans asked me to be in his video as our third date and laughing*..

Him: "Thats hilarious, you gotta be one handsome guy to be on only-fans though"

Me: "WELLLL I blocked him and I'm on a date with you, and you are handsome"

Yeah he has a lot of insecurities, which doesn’t surprise me lol so do I.

It’s good that you reassured him but hopefully that reassurance seeking behavior tapers down on his part, the more that the two of you open up to each other. But yeah he is opening up and telling you about himself.. the good, the bad and the ugly. That’s a good sign that he likes you and is starting to feel comfortable.

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He likes me? I thought he was testing me the entire time. I think I did good while also being honest. I sent him a text today morning "Good Morning have a good day at work. Also thanks for being open and honest on our date. Its appreciated 🙂 "

I feel like with air signs verbal affirmations always good (in doses tho or else its fake) but I guess its true for cancer people as well?

We started talking a month ago, we've been on 4 dates now.... Alsooo

Him: "did you love any of your ex? Been in love?"

Me: "Nope"

Him: *smiles* "Good"

I didn't say anything....But like what? He's had his first love btw (she is out of his life). but like whaaaa

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