how long did it take you to get over ex.

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by mac101 on Saturday, December 25, 2010 and has 24 replies.

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@mac101
15 Years

cancers, how long (or if you still haven't). Or if you dated one and you know or know or a crab. They say it takes forever for you crabs.

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Posted by mac101
cancers, how long (or if you still haven't). Or if you dated one and you know or know or a crab. They say it takes forever for you crabs.

My ex is a crab and we were together for four years. She married a psychopath Capricorn on the rebound some eight months after we broke up. Two years after our breakup and I still occasionally have nightmares about her.

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@mac101
15 Years

thats brutal man. they ready need to have someone and feel loved huh.

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@Cancer1986LeoCusp
16 Years

good deep relationship takes forever to fade...bad ones we do not even want to think for a second

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Posted by mac101
thats brutal man. they ready need to have someone and feel loved huh.

Ya. She went berserk and defied her whole family to marry that POS. Totally nuts. Her mom was really upset at her over this because he was so mean to her!!!

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@mac101
15 Years

true. i agree. but i think there are also some trends in peoples signs.

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@mac101
15 Years

Taurus. cant had a hard break up with a cancer girl.

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Posted by virgodreamz
CancerLeo I wish u would get back together with her. Life is so short, might as well spend it on people you love —

Yeah, Virgo is right.

You should call her, Cancer!

If you don't call her, then things might not work out and you will be sad for a LONG, LONG time in that event.

The loss of a Pisces-Cancer relationship is extremely difficult to overcome.

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let go of the obsessive, possessive part of it and think of her from a position of unconditional love. then you'll know

i'm talking to myself here too

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Posted by shellshocker
let go of the obsessive, possessive part of it and think of her from a position of unconditional love. then you'll know

i'm talking to myself here too

Have you ever been in a deep, spiritual relationship with a Pisces, Shellshocker?

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Posted by Scubafish

Posted by shellshocker
let go of the obsessive, possessive part of it and think of her from a position of unconditional love. then you'll know

i'm talking to myself here too

Have you ever been in a deep, spiritual relationship with a Pisces, Shellshocker?

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i'm in the middle of one... or is it only the beginning?

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Posted by shellshocker

Posted by Scubafish

Posted by shellshocker
let go of the obsessive, possessive part of it and think of her from a position of unconditional love. then you'll know

i'm talking to myself here too

Have you ever been in a deep, spiritual relationship with a Pisces, Shellshocker?

i'm in the middle of one... or is it only the beginning?

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I see.

How long have ya'll been together, and how did you spend the holidays?

Visit with each other's families?

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Guys I think that CancerLeo is still with this lovely Fish girl, they havent split!

I guess he was referring to past experiences...
As regards me, my first boyfriend was a Crab...we met at the age of 17, we dated for 5 years, he got very clingy and possessive to the point that I wasnt able to split with hiim even though I was no longer in love...it took him a long time to let me go, and to do so, I even had to study abroad to get away from him since there was no other way for him to leave me alone!

Recently he found me in facebook, he is married with two kids now but still PMed me and said I had left a mark on fire in his heart...I guess they do cling.

Im at present dating a Crab..he is not that clingy and i prefer it that way!

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Posted by PiscesArgie
Guys I think that CancerLeo is still with this lovely Fish girl, they havent split!

I guess he was referring to past experiences...
As regards me, my first boyfriend was a Crab...we met at the age of 17, we dated for 5 years, he got very clingy and possessive to the point that I wasnt able to split with hiim even though I was no longer in love...it took him a long time to let me go, and to do so, I even had to study abroad to get away from him since there was no other way for him to leave me alone!

Recently he found me in facebook, he is married with two kids now but still PMed me and said I had left a mark on fire in his heart...I guess they do cling.

Im at present dating a Crab..he is not that clingy and i prefer it that way!

Sorry to hear about your break-up.

How long did you need to recover from that 5 year relationship?

Also, what sign did he marry?

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Oh dont worry, that breakup was when I was 21 (15 years ago)...
to be honest, I didn't need time to get over it, I was over him when we broke up. I'm a Fish, not a Crab remember. I elaborated the breakup in my mind long before it actually happened. I stopped having feelings for him some months before the end of it. I didn't suffer or miss him to be honest. I guess Fish (or at least me) don't cling to past relationships. We go forward, swim to the future with no looking back.
He was way too clingy and possessive and obsessive. My first real love anyhow.
I wanted some fresh air as i was so young and the world was unfolding to me.

I have no idea which sign he married, I never admitted him to my FB really and he just has a couple of photos of his kids. He doesn't mention anybody in his status..guess Crabs can be private.

I hope he is happy though...

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@cheeky14u
19 Years

Picesargie

Can I ask you a question?

I am hung up on a crab that I have never dated.....the last communication with him was from me on New Years Eve, I simply wished him Happy New Year, have not heard anything back from him and he has not responded to a phone msg left two weeks earlier.....

What advice do you have to give......anything you would do or would you just leave it be?

A curious Aries, thanks for your assistance and Happy New Year 🙂

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@mac101
15 Years

crabs are all fucking mind games and the world seems to revolve around them form my experience. forget him. (im just being bitter 😉

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Posted by cheeky14u
Picesargie

Can I ask you a question?

I am hung up on a crab that I have never dated.....the last communication with him was from me on New Years Eve, I simply wished him Happy New Year, have not heard anything back from him and he has not responded to a phone msg left two weeks earlier.....

What advice do you have to give......anything you would do or would you just leave it be?

A curious Aries, thanks for your assistance and Happy New Year 🙂

Hey there!
Well, if you ask me, If I had taken the time to greet somebody and they wouldnt have replied, I wouldnt initiate anything, now it is his turn. If you phoned him and also failed to get an answer I guess let him be. I wouldn't pursue a person who is indifferent..guess it is hard when this happens, so sorry to hear this, but you are a Fire girl and Im sure you will soon move on....
Crabs are slow and very challenging for a fire sign..and fire gets put out by water...don't lose that fire!!!

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@mac101
15 Years

crabs....ill tell ya. ya just never know what your gona get