b**ches be hooked on rudescorp when they need to be hooked on phonics...tisk
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LMAO & SMH!!!! # fix it jesus
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LMAO & SMH!!!! # fix it jesus
Posted by ShadowAbsorberPosted by rudescorpscorp01
"the OP is just trying to gain you as a cheerleader on her side"
"She sees that you're a Cancer man, so she believes she can work some power over you."
"Remember your deeper values"
Honey, you need to stay faithful to your alleged "soul mate."
You make yourself look so stupid.
You don't even give me responses with logic or substance. Just gifs.click to expand
Posted by Plato
continued...******.
Either she only wants him because she cant have him or she never truly loved him at all. Which is it? It will eat at him forever, if he truly loved you. But he doesn't know...and most likely will never get an answer.
7) The Cancer man still loves the Scorpio woman, and everything she has to offer, but the longer this "dance" continues the more he starts to resent her. He sees her inability to express her emotions verbally and reassure him of her love as a major character flaw. The attempts of reconciliation, subtle or overt, only add to his doubts and skepticism. He could still love her incredibly deeply but the fact her manipulative actions to get him back insinuate that he could break his loyalty to his current woman, that loves and supports him, and of whom he trusts, for the one that broke his heart, only infuriates him. The Cancer man loathes unnecessary conflict, but when his family, security, or heart is threatened he will not back down...he will not break his principles, and certainly won't be pushed into leaving his current woman.
Take what you will from this. Much of it is generalizations, as other placements and circumstances obviously drastically alter fate. This is also not a reflection on what I have always known the true potential of Scorpio energy to be.
Often my heart and intuition has confused the potential, soul, or true self of a person, as opposed to more practical measures of analyzing their actions and who they were at the moment. I don't really regret those errors, since it's an inevitable product of maintaining an open heart.
The pattern above is a common trend I've experienced and witnessed....time and time again. I've been in relationships with many Scorpio women, however, what I've written above is a reflection of the ones that were immature, had endured traumatic events, OR were just overwhelmed by a chart full of Scorpionic placements. Unfortunately, that comprises a lot (*cough* majority) of them. I've also known many more mature women that didn't display these behavior patterns...
If the man you speak of has all the positive traits you spoke about, I don't think you have a chance. But then again, its your life and you know the situation much better than I. It always baffles me when such such definitive and harsh claims about someone's personal life are made, especially when th
Plato:
"It always baffles me when such such definitive and harsh claims about someone's personal life are made, especially when they come to this site vulnerable and looking for advice, and from such little context people feel the need to dissect and attack."
Ok....not that serious. They're so moralllll but can't utilize what their mommas told them since they were 5..if you don't have something nice to say don't say it at all...I'm not massa and trying to name them Toby, nor do they own this board it's public...No one is forcing them to click & read about my disgustinggggg ways.
"He sees her inability to express her emotions verbally and reassure him of her love as a major character flaw."
What I hate is that they don't see that about themselves as a flaw. If they are not getting what they want they "shut down" rather than come forward about their confusion & hurt...EVEN AFTER one opens up.
"He could still love her incredibly deeply but the fact her manipulative actions to get him back insinuate that he could break his loyalty to his current woman, that loves and supports him, and of whom he trusts, for the one that broke his heart, only infuriates him."
Wowwww. I never would have thought of that. Could u elaborate on this fury they feel— Like mad at themselves b/c we knocked their confidence in their gut/intuition for choosing who's right for themselves?
Furious at me for being a party involved in making him not live of to his moral code?
What u wrote about 99.999999 reflects everything I went through I so appreciate your help thanks so much!!!!!!
"It always baffles me when such such definitive and harsh claims about someone's personal life are made, especially when they come to this site vulnerable and looking for advice, and from such little context people feel the need to dissect and attack."
Ok....not that serious. They're so moralllll but can't utilize what their mommas told them since they were 5..if you don't have something nice to say don't say it at all...I'm not massa and trying to name them Toby, nor do they own this board it's public...No one is forcing them to click & read about my disgustinggggg ways.
"He sees her inability to express her emotions verbally and reassure him of her love as a major character flaw."
What I hate is that they don't see that about themselves as a flaw. If they are not getting what they want they "shut down" rather than come forward about their confusion & hurt...EVEN AFTER one opens up.
"He could still love her incredibly deeply but the fact her manipulative actions to get him back insinuate that he could break his loyalty to his current woman, that loves and supports him, and of whom he trusts, for the one that broke his heart, only infuriates him."
Wowwww. I never would have thought of that. Could u elaborate on this fury they feel— Like mad at themselves b/c we knocked their confidence in their gut/intuition for choosing who's right for themselves?
Furious at me for being a party involved in making him not live of to his moral code?
What u wrote about 99.999999 reflects everything I went through I so appreciate your help thanks so much!!!!!!
Posted by Rowan
Ok, from my experience & that of my close Cancer friends (including my Scorpio best friend's Cancer man), things Cancers may like & dislike that Scorpios can be prone to:
Likes:
- being made to feel special
- the way Scorpios look at you
- dedication/determination
- good sense of humor
- sharing music or other interests
- being a little mysterious & intriguing but not to the point of playing games or not letting us in
- sexiness while seeming like they aren't even trying
- magnetism
- strength
Dislikes:
- jealousy, (this is a big turn off, Scorps can at least try to keep their jealousy to themselves & will come across as more confident that way)
- hacking down other people, (this comes from a place of insecurity & wouldn't you not want to appear so insecure? Scorps like to appear confident & powerful right?)
- holding grudges
- being distant/silent or hot & cold, (we can take this personally & not understandwhy you're doing it even if you think it's clear)
- angry outbursts
- saying things you don't mean or haven't thought through
The hot cold distant thing is sooooo true & frustrating. Especially when they do it when they're hurt so I just match their actions. I don't see how Im being wrong for respecting his space. If he doesn't want silence from me he shouldnt be silent himself when he has an issue.
Communication (when he gets scary/overwhelmed) is definitely our biggest & maybe only issue.
Do they see a distinction between jealousy & possessiveness? I thought as clingy as they are they'd appreciate it when their S/O makes a fuss over them. Its weird it's like they wanna be possessive over their mate but we can't.I know I can be possessive & protective.. but jealous? No.
How do unblur those lines w/ them?
Thanks!
Posted by fullwaterpisces
Ladies ladies calm down... At the end of the day she can bitch and winne and post 3000 gif comebacks...
While cancer boy is giving his love and attention to taurus girl... Bum!!! Im out!!!
with your scary loser a $ $
Posted by rudescorpscorp01
this girl still talking like I'm reading anything she cracking her keys over
maybe you should start reading what she says...or what 90% of the people in this thread say...
Posted by CluelessCancer
Arielle i'm disappointed in you. She thinks you guys have something in common, when he wasn't even committed to the other girl when you met your man. Stop stringing this girl along and acting like she's in her right mind.
she sounds psychotic.
sheet at this point even a Capricorn is looking better than a crazy Scorpio chick.
LOL...girl shut up
#8
PETTY AF....smh!
Posted by mzPosted by rudescorpscorp01
this girl still talking like I'm reading anything she cracking her keys over
maybe you should start reading what she says...or what 90% of the people in this thread say...click to expand
Posted by taupixie
If you truly like the guy, present yourself in a favourable way to appeal to him. I believe any guy, not just a cancer guy, would appreciate a lady who is respectful. Confidence is nice but there really is no need to disparage his current gf, even if he himself is speaking ill of her. After all, he is with her & must have had a reason choosing to be with her. Any ill comments towards the gf are bound to also 'reflect' on him. Whether he will in the end break up with his current gf or not should not be catalysed by you. Things will take its course if it's meant to be.. & the guy should own up to his own whatever he himself want in the end
so true that to some degree speaking negatively of her is to do the same of him. I always make sure not to go innnnn on the girl lol....thx for your words sweetie!
Posted by blackphase
It's gotta be bad if I am saying something nasty to someone on here.. But girl you have got the ugliest personality I have ever come across.. If he leaves his lady for you.. there is something wrong with him :/
What kind of fellow is going to want to be with someone as rude and conniving as yourself?? Give your head a shake.
And you are giving the rest of us Scorps a bad name.. Go find some decency.
"Us scorps"? Trick u ain't no damn scorpion u wish we would acknowledge your weak soft weird as $ as one of our own.
Having a planet here or there does not make u a scorp, u wannabe. Go get claimed by the angry birds clucking on here, scorps, we'll never acknowledge ur basic a $ $ as our own.
Goodbye & goodnight awkward reject
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/why-are-pisces-so-jealous-and-insecure-around-scor-1995410/
"I have Pisces saying mean things to me without provocation., It's like they think that Scorpios are stealing their thunder. I don't know if they're jealous because we get all of the attention without even trying and are considered stronger than them.It seems like Pisces are intimidated by Scorpios' power and strong character- something which they are lacking. Pisces seem to feel very inadequate around Scorpios."
"I have Pisces saying mean things to me without provocation., It's like they think that Scorpios are stealing their thunder. I don't know if they're jealous because we get all of the attention without even trying and are considered stronger than them.It seems like Pisces are intimidated by Scorpios' power and strong character- something which they are lacking. Pisces seem to feel very inadequate around Scorpios."
Posted by rudescorpscorp01Posted by mzPosted by rudescorpscorp01
this girl still talking like I'm reading anything she cracking her keys over
maybe you should start reading what she says...or what 90% of the people in this thread say...
click to expand
great...then why did you come here for their advice—
Posted by mzPosted by rudescorpscorp01Posted by mzPosted by rudescorpscorp01
this girl still talking like I'm reading anything she cracking her keys over
maybe you should start reading what she says...or what 90% of the people in this thread say...
great...then why did you come here for their advice—click to expand
The elusive scorpieunne doesn't do interviews with the help dahhling... Be a dear & be on your way now

This thread has proceeded with useless nonsense for three days.
@Rudescorp...
How about I call you on your bluff...
Stop typing.
Stop uploading senseless pics.
...And see if you can actually take this Taurus' man.
@Rudescorp...
How about I call you on your bluff...
Stop typing.
Stop uploading senseless pics.
...And see if you can actually take this Taurus' man.
Posted by Arielle83
These women in the memes are ALL scary as shit.
Why do they think they are so important when they aren't?
They're all sag & aries.... Mostly sag lol
Posted by rudescorpscorp01
The hot cold distant thing is sooooo true & frustrating. Especially when they do it when they're hurt so I just match their actions. I don't see how Im being wrong for respecting his space. If he doesn't want silence from me he shouldnt be silent himself when he has an issue.
Communication (when he gets scary/overwhelmed) is definitely our biggest & maybe only issue.
Do they see a distinction between jealousy & possessiveness? I thought as clingy as they are they'd appreciate it when their S/O makes a fuss over them. Its weird it's like they wanna be possessive over their mate but we can't.I know I can be possessive & protective.. but jealous? No.
How do unblur those lines w/ them?
Thanks!
I don't mean that Cancers mind when you're just respecting our space, but if you are giving us the Scorpio silent treatment, disappearing act, or cold glares, that hurts & confuses us. Also, sometimes you might think a Cancer wants to be left alone when they don't.
Maybe jealousy was the wrong word, since jealousy is an emotion. Appearing jealous, insecure or too possessive maybe. If you are, for example, bashing other women/people like you have been doing in this thread, regardless of what you think your reasons are, that is not attractive. My Scorpio friend hides this aspect of herself from her man very well, he would not tolerate it. If you are possessive to the point of telling him what he can't/can't do, forbidding him to talk to other ladies, getting mad at him for women smiling at him, etc, that is also a turn-off. You can show him he's special & that you care, would do anything for him & want him to be yours alone in much more subtle ways that still make you appear confident & trusting. My friend's Cancer man is not very possessive of her because he is evolved, confident & secure in the relationship. I do know if Cancers feel insecure some of us can be possessive though. You can do things to make him feel more secure if you don't want him to be so possessive.
Stop worrying about what is fair or doing things because you perceive the other person is doing them & you don't like it when they do it. Scorpios can have a tendency to see it as a game to win, & they are very good at games, but "winning" in these kind of games usually means hurting the person you love & driving them away.
Posted by blackphasePosted by rudescorpscorp01Posted by blackphase
It's gotta be bad if I am saying something nasty to someone on here.. But girl you have got the ugliest personality I have ever come across.. If he leaves his lady for you.. there is something wrong with him :/
What kind of fellow is going to want to be with someone as rude and conniving as yourself?? Give your head a shake.
And you are giving the rest of us Scorps a bad name.. Go find some decency.
"Us scorps"? Trick u ain't no damn scorpion u wish we would acknowledge your weak soft weird as $ as one of our own.
Having a planet here or there does not make u a scorp, u wannabe. Go get claimed by the angry birds clucking on here, scorps, we'll never acknowledge ur basic a $ $ as our own.
Goodbye & goodnight awkward reject
LOL @ you!! Proud awkward reject here :3 Go on, try and shove some more of us in the dirt to make your complacent spastic self feel better. Pretty sure you're the reject here.. Have to let your gif's speak for you because you can't even appear to form a proper sentence. SMH
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Posted by RowanPosted by rudescorpscorp01
The hot cold distant thing is sooooo true & frustrating. Especially when they do it when they're hurt so I just match their actions. I don't see how Im being wrong for respecting his space. If he doesn't want silence from me he shouldnt be silent himself when he has an issue.
Communication (when he gets scary/overwhelmed) is definitely our biggest & maybe only issue.
Do they see a distinction between jealousy & possessiveness? I thought as clingy as they are they'd appreciate it when their S/O makes a fuss over them. Its weird it's like they wanna be possessive over their mate but we can't.I know I can be possessive & protective.. but jealous? No.
How do unblur those lines w/ them?
Thanks!click to expand
I don't mean that Cancers mind when you're just respecting our space, but if you are giving us the Scorpio silent treatment, disappearing act, or cold glares, that hurts & confuses us. Also, sometimes you might think a Cancer wants to be left alone when they don't.
Maybe jealousy was the wrong word, since jealousy is an emotion. Appearing jealous, insecure or too possessive maybe. If you are, for example, bashing other women/people like you have been doing in this thread, regardless of what you think your reasons are, that is not attractive. My Scorpio friend hides this aspect of herself from her man very well, he would not tolerate it. If you are possessive to the point of telling him what he can't/can't do, forbidding him to talk to other ladies, getting mad at him for women smiling at him, etc, that is also a turn-off. You can show him he's special & that you care, would do anything for him & want him to be yours alone in much more subtle ways that still make you appear confident & trusting. My friend's Cancer man is not very possessive of her because he is evolved, confident & secure in the relationship. I do know if Cancers feel insecure some of us can be possessive though. You can do things to make him feel more secure if you don't want him to be so possessive.
Stop worrying about what is fair or doing things because you perceive the other person is doing them & you don't like it when they do it. Scorpios can have a tendency to see it as a game to win, & they are very good at games, but "winning" in these kind of games usuall
Rowan -
"You can show him he's special & that you care, would do anything for him & want him to be yours alone in much more subtle ways that still make you appear confident & trusting."
How so? And also, how do I make him feel more secure. His problem was I was initiating enough. I love him, but how do I explain to him that as a woman, & woman who had a life/plans/things I want to accomplish for myself (im in my mid 20's, him 30's) I'm not about to be texting/calling a man everyday or every other day....that the phone works two ways & even though Im very smart & capable of utilizing my great intuition I shouldn't have to add mind reader as another responsibility in these short 24 hr days...w/o being brash & hurting his feelings...
Also...I only "bad mouth" that girl after things he told me. I genuinely agree he should be and can be getting better so I thought of that as a way of supporting him, & connecting to him, as most others are just so naive and don't even acknowledge the ways he's hurting/not into the girl like that. It would separate me from , put me ahead of the pack.
He's also very intelligent so I feel like by holding my tongue he'd since me being fake. You'd say more often than not a Cancer man would rather u be fake let them vent and go on about your day, than engage in a dialogue about their problems?
"You can show him he's special & that you care, would do anything for him & want him to be yours alone in much more subtle ways that still make you appear confident & trusting."
How so? And also, how do I make him feel more secure. His problem was I was initiating enough. I love him, but how do I explain to him that as a woman, & woman who had a life/plans/things I want to accomplish for myself (im in my mid 20's, him 30's) I'm not about to be texting/calling a man everyday or every other day....that the phone works two ways & even though Im very smart & capable of utilizing my great intuition I shouldn't have to add mind reader as another responsibility in these short 24 hr days...w/o being brash & hurting his feelings...
Also...I only "bad mouth" that girl after things he told me. I genuinely agree he should be and can be getting better so I thought of that as a way of supporting him, & connecting to him, as most others are just so naive and don't even acknowledge the ways he's hurting/not into the girl like that. It would separate me from , put me ahead of the pack.
He's also very intelligent so I feel like by holding my tongue he'd since me being fake. You'd say more often than not a Cancer man would rather u be fake let them vent and go on about your day, than engage in a dialogue about their problems?
Posted by TaurusBull1977
This thread has proceeded with useless nonsense for three days.
@Rudescorp...
How about I call you on your bluff...
Stop typing.
Stop uploading senseless pics.
...And see if you can actually take this Taurus' man.
if she could, she would do exactly that....she came here in the hope of some "tricks" because she actually doesn't have the resources to make it happen...
Posted by TaurusBull1977
This thread has proceeded with useless nonsense for three days.
@Rudescorp...
How about I call you on your bluff...
Stop typing.
Stop uploading senseless pics.
...And see if you can actually take this Taurus' man.
Hi, uhmmmm.... Do I know you—?
Posted by mzPosted by TaurusBull1977
This thread has proceeded with useless nonsense for three days.
@Rudescorp...
How about I call you on your bluff...
Stop typing.
Stop uploading senseless pics.
...And see if you can actually take this Taurus' man.
if she could, she would do exactly that....she came here in the hope of some "tricks" because she actually doesn't have the resources to make it happen...click to expand
Posted by StarChild63
In this order--good coomunication and good laughs and consistency and good sex and lots of affection and tenderness and intelligent moves and adventurous and interesting dates.
What do you mean by intelligent moves?
Posted by rudescorpscorp01
How so? And also, how do I make him feel more secure. His problem was I was initiating enough. I love him, but how do I explain to him that as a woman, & woman who had a life/plans/things I want to accomplish for myself (im in my mid 20's, him 30's) I'm not about to be texting/calling a man everyday or every other day....that the phone works two ways & even though Im very smart & capable of utilizing my great intuition I shouldn't have to add mind reader as another responsibility in these short 24 hr days...w/o being brash & hurting his feelings...
Also...I only "bad mouth" that girl after things he told me. I genuinely agree he should be and can be getting better so I thought of that as a way of supporting him, & connecting to him, as most others are just so naive and don't even acknowledge the ways he's hurting/not into the girl like that. It would separate me from , put me ahead of the pack.
He's also very intelligent so I feel like by holding my tongue he'd since me being fake. You'd say more often than not a Cancer man would rather u be fake let them vent and go on about your day, than engage in a dialogue about their problems?
It's tough since he is currently in another relationship & you need to be respectful of that. He should break up with her because he truly wants to, not because you forced it. Then you will also be less worried that another woman could do that once you & he are in a relationship. Some things will have to wait until you are actually together. I think with Cancers/Scorpios both people DO have to practically be mind readers. We Cancers often say, "Do Scorpios expect us to be mind readers?" Yes, yes you do. Both signs are very intuitive, we just have to learn how to tap into it & separate our true intuition from our insecurities. As for daily texting, when I start expecting that is when the other person does that & then suddenly stops - I am left wondering why. So if you don't get into a habit of constant communication & then take it away it should be ok I think.
I don't think bad-mouthing his girlfriend puts you ahead of the pack. As someone said, it comes across as insulting his judgment. Holding our tongues doesn't make us "fake." We don't need to tell everyone everything that goes through our heads all the time. Engaging in a dialogue can be you listening & asking him how he feels about things if
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he brings it up, as opposed to bashing his gf.
he brings it up, as opposed to bashing his gf.
thank u SO MUCHHH for everything Rowan!!! MUAH MUAH MUAHHH!!!!!
bump
Posted by Gemican01fixed
she must be doing something really mediocre for him to be texting u & lusting over u.

why would you want to? lol. all i have to say is be careful what you ask for.
please be careful. and watch out for that stalker lady called karma. she will get you every time.
please be careful. and watch out for that stalker lady called karma. she will get you every time.

i sense total foolishness.
scenario: i have a dog with fleas, worms, and he shits everywhere, bites and growls at me, and won't fetch my paper or protect my house. i know another dog that is clean, flea free, smart, loyal, and does right by me. i tell the good dog just how bad the other one is. the good dog is willing to be mine. but i turn around and go home to the nasty one. sometimes i call the good dog, pet it and feed it snacks when the bad dog isn't looking. yet i remain with my fleabag while saying i deserve a better dog. smart right? -_-
he's spinning the both of you. if she is that bad, he would have left her to go get the better that he says he deserves. he says that to rile you up and make you think that you have a chance at him. really, he wants you to fuss over him so he can feel special. what bitch behavior.
he's dishonoring her by talking behind her back to you like he wants to leave, but then going home to her and staying. he can lust over you all he wants, but until he leaves her and is with you, you're just a sucker falling for his lines. and she is too. any man that can bad mouth his woman to another woman is a sack of crap.
scenario: i have a dog with fleas, worms, and he shits everywhere, bites and growls at me, and won't fetch my paper or protect my house. i know another dog that is clean, flea free, smart, loyal, and does right by me. i tell the good dog just how bad the other one is. the good dog is willing to be mine. but i turn around and go home to the nasty one. sometimes i call the good dog, pet it and feed it snacks when the bad dog isn't looking. yet i remain with my fleabag while saying i deserve a better dog. smart right? -_-
he's spinning the both of you. if she is that bad, he would have left her to go get the better that he says he deserves. he says that to rile you up and make you think that you have a chance at him. really, he wants you to fuss over him so he can feel special. what bitch behavior.
he's dishonoring her by talking behind her back to you like he wants to leave, but then going home to her and staying. he can lust over you all he wants, but until he leaves her and is with you, you're just a sucker falling for his lines. and she is too. any man that can bad mouth his woman to another woman is a sack of crap.

I won't even bother reading through this thread, as I'm pretty sure everyone will have the same thoughts. Just don't go there! Why would you want to wreck a relationship? Why would you want someone else's leftovers? I mean regardless if you think you're better woman or not. Pretty messed up. I won't insult you, but if you truly love this person, better to wait it out until the relationship desolved by itself rather than being a negative force ending, incuring some pretty bad a $ $ karma for you both.
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