So? what to do? or better not do anything? I mean what do you all expect, how do you think the other person will…
Before I begin my story, let's go over the synastry aspects that I know of. I don't have his exact time of birth so im not sure about his houses or Asc,sorry. His birthday is Nov,11,1983 and I was born July,12,1987 at 11:48pm in Nj. I'm a cancer sun and…
I am currently not attending only one university but two. I need to catch up due to issues my original university gave me. I truly believe it was meant to be. My Public communication (speech) professor is SO insightful. She has both a Cancer sun and…
this maybe the first time someone talks about this subject ... if i can count 10 cancers i would say that i can only tolerate 2 out of them. i feel like i wanna throw up when a cancer talks to me their feelings... or when they act like an…
I've had to see a Cancer who worries a little too much about the person they love to the point that it's smothering. Like seriously she worries a little too much on me to the point it scares me sometimes and makes me and some other people not want to be…
...is making me feel like I want to disappear to my damn shell and never come out! HaHa!! I haven't had this feeling in a long time. In recent past, many, many cancers have given valiant effort in trying to explain our feelings and behaviours to…
I find that when I love somebody I feel scared a lot :/..because I'm afraid of getting hurt. Is it normal for a cancer to be scared to…
I was thinking about the Pluto issue between me and my sister. Then I thought let me google 8th house in Cancer. The result was amazing alone in the first sentence: "You likely seek power/influence through your ability to nurture and protect…
Poof! Vanish.....? Been with mine 5 mos..rocky..blah blah don't feel like giving a back story..lets just say I thought we were doing well and slowly moving toward something really great..he back tracks as usual. I expect not to hear from him again. I…
To start off, I'm a Sagittarius and he's a Cancer. I already know that this is not a great combination, but weirdly he's not the first Cancer I've been involved with, and I wonder if I somehow attract them... Now, I'm going to try to put everything…
It's a really long story, I'll try & get it all in a nutshell. Basically, I've known this guy for about 5 years. I'd see him out at bars/clubs/party buses with friends. We always kinda gravitated towards each other, but nothing serious. We'd talk about drinking, partying etc. I always found him attractive, different, quiet, kinda mysterious. I liked him (but I was married). He's 5 years younger than me (I just turned 31, he just turned 26).
Last November, I saw him out a bar, which was kinda out of the ordinary. Every time I see him, I know he's going to be there because it's a gathering of mutual friends. Anyway, he looked good. Before he left the bar, I hugged/kissed his cheek (never did that before). I saw him out on a mutual friends birthday a few weeks later. He was all over me, kissing my hand like a princess, telling me all he he could see was me and I was the only girl that mattered to him on the bus. I saw him again a few weeks after that and got his phone number. We began texting every day, all day. Nothing serious, just getting to know each other on a deeper level. I made several advances towards him (I REALLLY wanted something physical, not a relationship, as I was just getting out of one) but he never really picked up my advances. Every time I'd make a flirty comment, he'd tip toe around it, but consistently text me? Obviously, I was super confused and had friends telling me, he was gay, a virgin, or REALLY liked me and didn't just want sex.
After about 3 months of texting and hanging out (with a large group of mutual friends) we FINALLY had sex and it was amazing. We pillow talked and cuddled and all that. It was just sweet and fun. Things got a little more serious. We starting seeing each other every weekend, both Friday & Saturday. He started opening up a little more. I started falling for him. Told him I wanted a relationship. He gave me a million reasons why he didn't, but made it very clear and obvious he didn't want anyone else but me. I trusted him and was kinda satisfied with that. Things got really serious and I started spending the night at his place about 4-5 times during the week and weekends. Some weekends he'd come to my place for a night.
Things were going ok, but I still wanted a relationship and felt like I really was in love with him. I told this to him. He said it was too early for me to feel this way and that he didn't think I loved him. He asked me WHY I loved HIM. Which made me feel really bad, as if he felt he wasn't worthy of my love? I would flip out once in a while about him not wanting a relationship, or not feeling as deeply for me as I do for him, but he always handled it very well, even though he told me time and time again he HATED emotional conversations and never had them with anyone the way he had them with me.