So we went out with the cancer,was seeing for first time after talking to him for 2 weeks, the date was amazing ,he is such a gentleman,sweet yet very shy.He gives the best hugs, never been hugged like that before his muscles covered me we fitted like a…
So I've been talking to this Cancer guy for about a week now.But I haven't met him in person, we only planning to go on a date next week. Hes good looking ,he goes to gym take good care of himself.converrsation flows ,like I can safely say we click.…
I tend to have a rough and uncaring personality and hurt my cancer man enough to the point where he actually broke up with me.. I basically cried my ass off which i typically never do and asked him to be back with me. He did but he is much colder of…
So I have been casually seeing a cancer guy for a couple of months now. We are not serious or dating we just basically hang out ever now and then or I’ll give him a ride to his friends or to work stuff like that. We didn’t really have sexual intercourse…
This cancer guy slid into my DM a few weeks ago and we decided to meet up for a bite to eat. Really sweet, had a bit of nervous energy but I appreciated it as he seemed really genuine. Texting convo is great and really consistent. Last two dates were…
Things has been going good lately, till his phone went off last Thursday. Then on Saturday, i got an email from him asking me for my phone number. He called and told me that he went to jail for two days but now he got released on bail but still has to…
Cancer man said "we would marry, you'll move here, then we build a business together and raising 3 girls", on the phone. Does he really mean it? Do you guys really mean it when you're talking about that kind of…
Haven’t posted in a while.... but I NEED help because I haven’t dated in a while and this has new to me.... So I’ve known this Cancer guy for maybe 5 years and we were just friends... I recently split from my husband.... 10 months now (yay!) and now…
in front of you or just crying to you over the phone. Is that a common cancer man…
It happened . . I flew to see him As I usually do but I had a sketchy intuition. . I snoop his phone ( I know this shows I have issues). I found out he’s cheating . I’m suppose to be here for another week . Now what ? What do I do ? I know the…
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I would be most grateful for an advice from any cancers or cancer men out there. I am a libra, who has fallen in love madly with a cancer man. Let me tell you the story first..I am married with 2 small children. My husband (Aries) I have been with for 13 years is suffocating me for years with his arrogance, ignorance and vulgar behaviour. He has been mentally abusing towards me for years, always trying to put me down..I live in a different country of my origin, hence I alway stuck with him to avoid being without family and completely on my own, when I finally wanted to break free I got pregnant with my first child, I found out he was cheating on me and that made me insecure and again I was worried to be alone and on the top of that with a child. I have “forgiven”him but never forgot. 3 years ago our second child was born. Relationship is hard, I am always alone with the children, doing things with them on my own...
A friend of mine asked me to stArt going to an outdoor gym with her every morning to get more fit plus relax and uplift my mood as I am always stressed out. At this gym I have met a guy..he is not my typical type, more of an opposite of what I fancy normally...we just start casually talking, he was sitting on a grass watching me for weeks, talking to me about what my likes are and dislikes, I told him I’m going to a park everyday after school with my kids and he started going there too, just to observe me from distance..then one day when we were chatting he asked me if I was single and whether he could have my number. I was shacking as I liked him a lot at this stage and I said:”yes and no” (I was scared to loose his interest) he asked for the number anyway and I gave it to him. He texted me right away and we were in contact for couple of days until he met me outside of the gym and we were talking and hugging and kissing each other. I was in love straight away, flying sky high and thought I found what I was looking for and was missing in my life...he told me he has got 2 kids from previous relationship (one of them is not his a disabled child) and he broke up with his ex due to her cheating on him...I felt really bad so I told him about my situation, that I live with father of my kids but our relationship is dead for years..I’m with him only because of the kids and I asked him whether he wants me under there circumstances...he agreed as he also felt we have some special bond..but after we have met for the second time (which was also amazing)we were just hugging and kissing again he suddenly changed. On the last date he asked me whether we can do something together, like going out on a real date and I said i will figure something out...but later on we were just texting and he was cold..didn’t want to be affectionate, he was answering less frequently, but always answered..I told him that I have actually fallen in love with him and that I am confused and don’t know what to do...he told me he is afraid of getting hurt..after i was pushing and having a tantrum over him speaking less frequently he suddenly told me he had a one night stand with an old gf 2 months ago and she is pregnant..and he thinks he got trapped..I don’t know what that means really..he said he has to sort these things out because he is in a deep depression...the woman agreed on an abortion but later on changed her mind and he closed himself In his shell...he doesn’t want to tell me more, I agreed I will stop texting him, he said he cares about me very much and he feels strongly for me also but in his head he is afraid of getting hurt and he can’t concentrate..so I told him to contact me when he is ready and told him I will wait for him...he told
Me:”thanks for understanding, I will find a way out of the black hole soon. I will speak real soon. Bear with me.”
I told him ok, I will and since then it’s been a week and he hasn’t texted me...I’m falling into depression, I’m sad, I know I can’t text him. He is always on WhatsApp but he doesn’t text me...
My question is: does he want to stop contacting me all together? Why did he say bear with me if he didn’t want to be with me anymore? I’m very much in love with him and I told him, I wasn’t afraid of being open about it..but did he get scared? Is he going to contact me again? How long should I wait? I’m devastated...I need an advice..this is first time I’m dealing with a cancerian in my life...
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