In despair - blocked without reason by Cancerian girl. (Page 2)

Posted by shelovesDee
😄 what a confusing huh... She will return to you, but if she hasnt dated any other guy yet.. Its her moody things

Yeah, she is "broken" from past love. Has been hurt badly. She has not dated anyone else, she actually only tried to stay friends with me as well just so she would not push me away and instead get to know me over time because she has been very honest about the pushing away when she fells in love. She actually told me that if she falls in love she runs in the opposite direction. And now she has blocked me out all of the sudden. I'll just see what happens. I still care so much and she is still the only one, but I will not tolerate everything.

Cancer will delete everything, even you, but shes not taurus nor scorp, she will return to you sooner or later, just be patient, 🙂
Staying friend yet blocking, acting like she doesnt want you, hmmm
But from my experience with cancerian, if you screw up "their friendship", its kinda like fatality, a total turnoff..

Get ready to move on, if you can't stand the way she connect to her "friends"

If you can, be strong 😄

Posted by shelovesDee
Cancer will delete everything, even you, but shes not taurus nor scorp, she will return to you sooner or later, just be patient, 🙂
Staying friend yet blocking, acting like she doesnt want you, hmmm
But from my experience with cancerian, if you screw up "their friendship", its kinda like fatality, a total turnoff..

Get ready to move on, if you can't stand the way she connect to her "friends"

If you can, be strong 😄

Yes, she's been difficult and sending extremely mixed signals from the beginning. Every time she got distant, she came back. Even after a fight we had where she said that she doesn't want to see me, that I was about to loose her and a lot of other things. She still came back, but this time I don't know because it came out of nowhere, and it feels like she's trying so hard to "hate" me and finding wrong things about me that I'm a bad person who can't be trusted, especially after things were great. But when they are great she tells me what a good person I am and shows her true kindness and how she cares. Thank you, I think I will just continue my life in the most normal way I can and if she returns, I'll still be there. I'm not forgetting about her that easily, I can't.

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Be strong then
She will do this often,
Am as taurean, having rlationship with cancer is kinda like hell as they just made you feel good today and to feel bad a day after,

Deep inside me it tear appart my soul, i ache for stabl love life,
My cancer ex, he even deleted our wedding pics from his social media and his phone,
Thanks God i get over him pretty fast

Do not wait for her, do not get false hopes...i did this. Huge mistake. She doesn't deserve your love after what she's done.....ppl don't get infinite chances...you aren't her whipping boy...it hurts like HELL but its best to remove this toxin from your life. I guarantee you will find someone who treats you better, I did. 🙂

Posted by shelovesDee
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Be strong then
She will do this often,
Am as taurean, having rlationship with cancer is kinda like hell as they just made you feel good today and to feel bad a day after,

Deep inside me it tear appart my soul, i ache for stabl love life,
My cancer ex, he even deleted our wedding pics from his social media and his phone,
Thanks God i get over him pretty fast

Yeah, that's how I feel with her as well. Good one day, horrible next day. He did that? Wow, that's no good. After you broke up?Can I ask you if you still mean it is worth it? I see that you two are not together anymore, but you still mean that this girl can be worth it? I have been so strong but she just keeps on pushing more and more, making it harder. I still care for her so much.

Posted by boxcarmirnta
Do not wait for her, do not get false hopes...i did this. Huge mistake. She doesn't deserve your love after what she's done.....ppl don't get infinite chances...you aren't her whipping boy...it hurts like HELL but its best to remove this toxin from your life. I guarantee you will find someone who treats you better, I did. 🙂

You did the waiting? I'm sad to hear but very glad that you found someone who treats you good 🙂 Maybe you are right. As you probably can see I am very splitted as to what to do right now, but at this moment she has cut contact anyway so there is nothing else for me to do. I should maybe use this time to think very hard about what is the best and right thing to do if she comes back.

Posted by Leo123_

Posted by boxcarmirnta
Do not wait for her, do not get false hopes...i did this. Huge mistake. She doesn't deserve your love after what she's done.....ppl don't get infinite chances...you aren't her whipping boy...it hurts like HELL but its best to remove this toxin from your life. I guarantee you will find someone who treats you better, I did. 🙂

You did the waiting? I'm sad to hear but very glad that you found someone who treats you good 🙂 Maybe you are right. As you probably can see I am very splitted as to what to do right now, but at this moment she has cut contact anyway so there is nothing else for me to do. I should maybe use this time to think very hard about what is the best and right thing to do if she comes back.

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I did the waiting and all I got was venom spewed at me when I tried to be loving and kind for months...he accused me of bs I never did. The asshole just wanted me out of his life altho I'd done nothing to him..these ppl are fucked up and selfish. Our best interest never enters their minds. I will never speak to him again cuz he doesn't deserve me. By the time she comes back you may not even want her anymore...focus on loving you and the outrage at being treated with such disrespect and selfishness. She doesn't deserve you. And you deserve better.

It tAkes time to let go 🙂 be patient
He deleted it after we had some small arguement, when we were still ok,, he even got mad at me as hell without reason and told me he wud divorce me,
I couldnt bear it any longer, its not worth it (i think),

If you still want to hold on, then do it

she seems still likes you

Posted by leo16
Well, Cancers a tend to suffer from mood swings, and they are also pessimistic and will give up hope completely if they feel that they will fail or if they do. She might have a fear of being hurt again or even rejection. Cancers wear their heart on their sleeves as well so they have an underbelly characteristic.The similarities between this sign and its symbol continue because both have extremely soft underbellies. It's no secret that Cancers are easily hurt; and their wounds take a very long time to heal.

Pessimistic? No, we are cardinals for a reason.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
Do not wait for her, do not get false hopes...i did this. Huge mistake. She doesn't deserve your love after what she's done.....ppl don't get infinite chances...you aren't her whipping boy...it hurts like HELL but its best to remove this toxin from your life. I guarantee you will find someone who treats you better, I did. 🙂

You did the waiting? I'm sad to hear but very glad that you found someone who treats you good 🙂 Maybe you are right. As you probably can see I am very splitted as to what to do right now, but at this moment she has cut contact anyway so there is nothing else for me to do. I should maybe use this time to think very hard about what is the best and right thing to do if she comes back.

I did the waiting and all I got was venom spewed at me when I tried to be loving and kind for months...he accused me of bs I never did. The asshole just wanted me out of his life altho I'd done nothing to him..these ppl are fucked up and selfish. Our best interest never enters their minds. I will never speak to him again cuz he doesn't deserve me. By the time she comes back you may not even want her anymore...focus on loving you and the outrage at being treated with such disrespect and selfishness. She doesn't deserve you. And you deserve better.

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That's horrible to hear. He did that? Where you together and he did this all of the sudden? That's exactly what she does right now, but she won't even tell me what I "have done" and I know for a fact that I have not done anything wrong. She wants me to think that I did something bad, to justify she suddenly pushes me out of her life with no hesitation. Yeah, you are right there, he does not deserve you. Thank you.

Posted by shelovesDee
It tAkes time to let go 🙂 be patient
He deleted it after we had some small arguement, when we were still ok,, he even got mad at me as hell without reason and told me he wud divorce me,
I couldnt bear it any longer, its not worth it (i think),

If you still want to hold on, then do it

she seems still likes you

I can't believe someone would do that, just delete memories like that. I think you are right, I just think I have to try to work on letting go over time because If I keep hopes up, it will only take me so much longer time to get over her if she doesn't come back and if she comes back I don't even know what I would do after this. These last days she is doing one thing each day to hurt me more, but not all at once, for example blocking one and one of my family, deleting one and one picture and making other people she knows block me little by little. It is so hard to realize that the person you thought were the most kind and good person suddenly does something like this out of nowhere. She really wants to hurt me, and she knows how to do so as well. I was and are 100% sure that she likes me so much, more than she was planning in her mind and that she somehow punishes me for all the times she has opened herself to me, that she let herself fall for me, that I did not back off after her "warnings" and that she turns it all into hate instead of something good. I hope she will regret this one day.

Ahuh,
Its coincidence or what
I just knew today my sis daughter whos still 11 years old been blocked by that man on instagram
Maybe its their way to show they dont care, or maybe they are replacing us, who knows
I texted him this afternoon"this war is just between you and me, don't need to offend my whole family, don't need to show us how stupid you are, shes just a little girl"

Posted by shelovesDee
Ahuh,
Its coincidence or what
I just knew today my sis daughter whos still 11 years old been blocked by that man on instagram
Maybe its their way to show they dont care, or maybe they are replacing us, who knows
I texted him this afternoon"this war is just between you and me, don't need to offend my whole family, don't need to show us how stupid you are, shes just a little girl"

What? He blocked an 11 year old girl? How is it even possible? Crazy, cruel and insanely childish. I think it's their way of showing, or trying to show : I don't care and get out of my life. But I don't know, it's just such a childish way to react. I just know that this girl is doing it little by little to try and hurt me the most.

Check if your nieces being blocked by her,, lol

I dont have idea why they are all childish,

im sure that your family won't like her anymore,
Just forget her and set yourself free from being craz thinking of her,

Posted by shelovesDee
Check if your nieces being blocked by her,, lol

I dont have idea why they are all childish,

im sure that your family won't like her anymore,
Just forget her and set yourself free from being craz thinking of her,

Yeah, me neither. I guess she made her decision, and I am at least starting to realize that I cannot do anything about it and why should I try to anyway anymore? If this is what she chooses it's her loss, and it won't surprise me if she regrets it later when she starts thinking about all I did for her and how happy she became around me. From depression and so much sad thoughts to happiness and positive thinking. And then she suddenly runs away and nearly hates me? No, that's not how you treat other people.

Posted by GC01
If she wants to be left alone then leave the girl alone. If you are as good as you say you are then someone else will appreciate you.

Im sure he is as good as he says

Posted by Leo123_

Posted by shelovesDee
Check if your nieces being blocked by her,, lol

I dont have idea why they are all childish,

im sure that your family won't like her anymore,
Just forget her and set yourself free from being craz thinking of her,

Yeah, me neither. I guess she made her decision, and I am at least starting to realize that I cannot do anything about it and why should I try to anyway anymore? If this is what she chooses it's her loss, and it won't surprise me if she regrets it later when she starts thinking about all I did for her and how happy she became around me. From depression and so much sad thoughts to happiness and positive thinking. And then she suddenly runs away and nearly hates me? No, that's not how you treat other people.

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She will defs regret
Time to move forward.. Looking back is useless

Posted by shelovesDee

Posted by GC01
If she wants to be left alone then leave the girl alone. If you are as good as you say you are then someone else will appreciate you.

Im sure he is as good as he says

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I'm a girl🙂 And yes, I am maybe too good sometimes and I do not have troubles finding people who appreciate me, my biggest problem is when I fall in love, I fall deeply in love.

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Posted by shelovesDee
Check if your nieces being blocked by her,, lol

I dont have idea why they are all childish,

im sure that your family won't like her anymore,
Just forget her and set yourself free from being craz thinking of her,

Yeah, me neither. I guess she made her decision, and I am at least starting to realize that I cannot do anything about it and why should I try to anyway anymore? If this is what she chooses it's her loss, and it won't surprise me if she regrets it later when she starts thinking about all I did for her and how happy she became around me. From depression and so much sad thoughts to happiness and positive thinking. And then she suddenly runs away and nearly hates me? No, that's not how you treat other people.

She will defs regret
Time to move forward.. Looking back is useless

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I guess you are right, thank you🙂

Posted by GC01
If she wants to be left alone then leave the girl alone. If you are as good as you say you are then someone else will appreciate you.

I have no choice, she just hurt me really bad and I miss her everyday but she can't handle me and got more and more manipulative, controlling and jealous the more time we spent together even if she was aware that I only have eyes for her. She just can't take that I'm a social, happy person who somehow attracts a lot of people to me and she tried to bring me down and control me little by little. I don't even know if this all is a game right now because she changed so fast. I am also a girl, and when I fall for someone it isn't a fling, it's real. But I have to let her go.

Posted by GC01
@leo123_ As a Leo Venus I completely understand that the heart wants what the heart wants, but you have to know when it's time to walk away.

Yes, I know. And to think about everything she did to me I should be grateful that it ends now, and not later because she can't take my happiness and positive spirit. I just thought this I what she fell for about me but after we got close she changed scarely fast.

I would by the way like to just say thanks a lot to everyone who posted in my thread here, it has helped me a lot during the last week after it all happened and it actually helps me every single day now, thank you guys so much.

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Posted by GC01
If she wants to be left alone then leave the girl alone. If you are as good as you say you are then someone else will appreciate you.

Im sure he is as good as he says

I'm a girl🙂 And yes, I am maybe too good sometimes and I do not have troubles finding people who appreciate me, my biggest problem is when I fall in love, I fall deeply in love.

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Uh oh... Sorry, thought youre a guy ..

We just had a fight. That's all nothing major. She isn't grateful for you and all you've done. People like that care about themselves and what they can get from ppl, they dont actually care about YOU. Full on selfish narcissists. That's how they can toss you aside like a pair of old socks. The world revolves around them. You need something reciprocal. Fuck her.

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Posted by GC01
If she wants to be left alone then leave the girl alone. If you are as good as you say you are then someone else will appreciate you.

Im sure he is as good as he says

I'm a girl🙂 And yes, I am maybe too good sometimes and I do not have troubles finding people who appreciate me, my biggest problem is when I fall in love, I fall deeply in love.

Uh oh... Sorry, thought youre a guy ..

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Nothing to say sorry for, I think I just mentioned it one place here in the whole thread and it has become a long one so no wonder🙂

Posted by boxcarmirnta
We just had a fight. That's all nothing major. She isn't grateful for you and all you've done. People like that care about themselves and what they can get from ppl, they dont actually care about YOU. Full on selfish narcissists. That's how they can toss you aside like a pair of old socks. The world revolves around them. You need something reciprocal. Fuck her.

You are right, thank you so much. I am glad you saw that you deserve better, I am actually finally starting to see it for myself as well. I am starting to see her game, all these little things she does to keep me there, still, even when she has blocked me, just because she can't let me go completely, but she will not be with me because she can't - I will not wait for her in the way she wants me to way, even if I care so much for her. If she can't handle it, it's her loss and I do not deserve this when I have only been sweet to her, listened to her, given her all the attention she is craving for, made her laugh every single day when she had a hard time and finally gave my heart to her, and this is what I get in return? No. I will get over her and hopefully quick. She lost me, I did not loose her.

You are just too good to be true for her and thinks that it can't and won't last and so she has sabotaged the whole relationship herself. Some young cancers don't want you to be sweet and nice to them, because they think that's their job. They like to be dominated or treated like a child/baby, reprimanded, shout at etc. She's still young and she still has to learn that it's actually very hard to find someone like you, but they take it for granted and think you are one out of many. Thinking that the grass is greener on the other side. The cancer I was involved with liked bitchy and difficult women. I'm not like that at all. Now that I know that that is what triggers her, than I can feel at peace. I'm not going to change myself into something 'evil' to match what she desires. She will at the long run understand that those kind of relationships are toxic, even though they seem exciting in the beginning.

She will come back if you stay silent. Maybe not now, but maybe in the next few months. You need to think on how you want to cope with that.

This is so weird for me to read because that is exactly what someone in my family said to me just today when I explained the whole situation. She can't believe in it and she won't take my love even if that is all she wants, so I have to respect her and I really do, but I still do not accept someone treating me this way and I even think she feels it's crazy that I have not screamed at her for it, I have only showed her in an adult firm way that this is not ok, I do not accept it or appreciate and that's it. Really? She liked difficult women? So it is maybe some of the same story then. This is twisted and I know that some of her ex girlfriends are kind of crazy so she has no respect for them at all and, but she still treated me different than she does with a lot of other girls and she saw me as an adult, she treated me with respect and talked to me in a complete different way than others, I just think that in the end it got too much for her so she couldn't handle it and fell right back into all her bad habits and the person she does not want to be when she likes someone. These days she tries absolutely everything to make me pissed off at her, feeling sorry for her, trying to make me believe that I did something when I did not and I do not even know. Just a lot of things to play games with my mind and she changes her game all the time. I did not see it before but I see it more and more clearly from day to day. Do you really think she will come back if I stay silent? That is just unbelievable if she does and I actually have no idea how to cope with that if it happens. On one hand I only want to be nice to her, to be in her life but on the other hand I won't take games, I could of course have stayed friends with her and got to know her over time without rushing anything just like she showed that she wanted but as long as she cannot cope with that either then what am I suppos

I could of course have stayed friends with her and got to know her over time without rushing anything just like she showed that she wanted but as long as she cannot cope with that either then what am I suppose to do. I have no idea. It is not my problem that she can't handle her feelings but I still care deeply for her.