Libra99
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Posted by Arielle83
Why would you test someone for dominance in a relationship?
Why would you give him a task to see if he takes control of something that affects your future?
How long you know this guy?
Because I'm indecisive and I want to know if I can turn to him to make the big decision at the end of the day. I like to think about the future a lot and lets say for an example;
We want to move but there is 2/3 cities we are stuck choosing between would he step up and put his foot down saying this would be the best one for the both of us because of blah blah blah you know.
It's not affecting only my future, I just want to see if this is gonna be a dominant relationship or this is gonna be a 50/50 type of relationship which I know only time will tell. Honestly maybe dominant is the wrong word I'm using.
A year and a half
Posted by LaPetiteEtoile
Cancers want to be dominant in their public life but they want to be on a pedestal in their love life. No leader but they want to feel treasured and looked after.
Okay this is useful information thank you, I've kinda notice that now that you say it
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Libra99Posted by Arielle83
Why would you test someone for dominance in a relationship?
Why would you give him a task to see if he takes control of something that affects your future?
How long you know this guy?
Because I'm indecisive and I want to know if I can turn to him to make the big decision at the end of the day. I like to think about the future a lot and lets say for an example;
We want to move but there is 2/3 cities we are stuck choosing between would he step up and put his foot down saying this would be the best one for the both of us because of blah blah blah you know.
It's not affecting only my future, I just want to see if this is gonna be a dominant relationship or this is gonna be a 50/50 type of relationship which I know only time will tell. Honestly maybe dominant is the wrong word I'm using.
A year and a half
Sounds like you don’t know each otherclick to expand
unfortunately I don't know him as much as I want too because it is a long distance relationship we are taking things slow
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Libra99Posted by Arielle83Posted by Libra99Posted by Arielle83
Why would you test someone for dominance in a relationship?
Why would you give him a task to see if he takes control of something that affects your future?
How long you know this guy?
Because I'm indecisive and I want to know if I can turn to him to make the big decision at the end of the day. I like to think about the future a lot and lets say for an example;
We want to move but there is 2/3 cities we are stuck choosing between would he step up and put his foot down saying this would be the best one for the both of us because of blah blah blah you know.
It's not affecting only my future, I just want to see if this is gonna be a dominant relationship or this is gonna be a 50/50 type of relationship which I know only time will tell. Honestly maybe dominant is the wrong word I'm using.
A year and a half
Sounds like you don’t know each other
unfortunately I don't know him as much as I want too because it is a long distance relationship we are taking things slow
Have u met? Are you similar age?click to expand
Yes I met up with him a couple of times I'm 21 he is 23
Posted by ChicadeePosted by Libra99Posted by Arielle83
Why would you test someone for dominance in a relationship?
Why would you give him a task to see if he takes control of something that affects your future?
How long you know this guy?
Because I'm indecisive and I want to know if I can turn to him to make the big decision at the end of the day. I like to think about the future a lot and lets say for an example;
We want to move but there is 2/3 cities we are stuck choosing between would he step up and put his foot down saying this would be the best one for the both of us because of blah blah blah you know.
It's not affecting only my future, I just want to see if this is gonna be a dominant relationship or this is gonna be a 50/50 type of relationship which I know only time will tell. Honestly maybe dominant is the wrong word I'm using.
A year and a half
If you have to test for that after a year and a half it aint thereclick to expand
I known him that long we recently started taking things more serious we started out as friends tho
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Libra99Posted by Arielle83Posted by Libra99Posted by Arielle83Posted by Libra99Posted by Arielle83
Why would you test someone for dominance in a relationship?
Why would you give him a task to see if he takes control of something that affects your future?
How long you know this guy?
Because I'm indecisive and I want to know if I can turn to him to make the big decision at the end of the day. I like to think about the future a lot and lets say for an example;
We want to move but there is 2/3 cities we are stuck choosing between would he step up and put his foot down saying this would be the best one for the both of us because of blah blah blah you know.
It's not affecting only my future, I just want to see if this is gonna be a dominant relationship or this is gonna be a 50/50 type of relationship which I know only time will tell. Honestly maybe dominant is the wrong word I'm using.
A year and a half
Sounds like you don’t know each other
unfortunately I don't know him as much as I want too because it is a long distance relationship we are taking things slow
Have u met? Are you similar age?
Yes I met up with him a couple of times I'm 21 he is 23
So you’re trying to imagine what the relationship would be like when you’re in same place?click to expand
Yes honestly this quarantine has me over thinking too much, I hate it LOOL
Posted by ChicadeePosted by Libra99Posted by ChicadeePosted by Libra99Posted by Arielle83
Why would you test someone for dominance in a relationship?
Why would you give him a task to see if he takes control of something that affects your future?
How long you know this guy?
Because I'm indecisive and I want to know if I can turn to him to make the big decision at the end of the day. I like to think about the future a lot and lets say for an example;
We want to move but there is 2/3 cities we are stuck choosing between would he step up and put his foot down saying this would be the best one for the both of us because of blah blah blah you know.
It's not affecting only my future, I just want to see if this is gonna be a dominant relationship or this is gonna be a 50/50 type of relationship which I know only time will tell. Honestly maybe dominant is the wrong word I'm using.
A year and a half
If you have to test for that after a year and a half it aint there
I known him that long we recently started taking things more serious we started out as friends tho
Right, what I'm saying is, if he was that type of guy, you'd definitely have known it by now, and wouldn't have to test for it.click to expand
I understand where you are coming from, I shouldn't have test it but he does confuse me when it comes to certain situations. It's hard to really get to know him and how he goes about situations on a daily basis because it is a long distance relationship and he is a cancer man, he is a very tuff shell to crack. When we were in the friend stage to be honest we rarely talked and I barely seen him, I knew I liked him for his looks at that time and his super chill vibe and I still do feel the same way but I'm trying figure out his mind set just so I know how to deal with him and handle certain situations you know. I am the type of person who likes to prepare myself for any and everything, it's a Libra thing... I think or maybe it's just me LOL
21 & 23 is really, really young for a Cancer relationship to turn serious.
The patience required for something serious at this point in life is minimal.
It needs to be refined for the Cancer over many years yet.
I had a relationship with a Libra when I was 23, and she was younger as well. No possible way we could have ended up being together long term. She was too impulsive and un-supportive/flighty, and I had too much insecurity about her.
Looking back now, many years later, I'm very glad that didn't develop into something.
I ran into her at a club several years later, she had half her blond head shaved, and looked like some sort of punk rocker, rebelling against society.
The patience required for something serious at this point in life is minimal.
It needs to be refined for the Cancer over many years yet.
I had a relationship with a Libra when I was 23, and she was younger as well. No possible way we could have ended up being together long term. She was too impulsive and un-supportive/flighty, and I had too much insecurity about her.
Looking back now, many years later, I'm very glad that didn't develop into something.
I ran into her at a club several years later, she had half her blond head shaved, and looked like some sort of punk rocker, rebelling against society.
Posted by Logger
21 & 23 is really, really young for a Cancer relationship to turn serious.
The patience required for something serious at this point in life is minimal.
It needs to be refined for the Cancer over many years yet.
I had a relationship with a Libra when I was 23, and she was younger as well. No possible way we could have ended up being together long term. She was too impulsive and un-supportive/flighty, and I had too much insecurity about her.
Looking back now, many years later, I'm very glad that didn't develop into something.
I ran into her at a club several years later, she had half her blond head shaved, and looked like some sort of punk rocker, rebelling against society.
Oh ma gawd that is hectic, well things happen for a reason they say and I know we are young honestly if we don't work out it would a great lesson and I'm still going to be glad I met him you know. I'm sorry you had such a bad experience with your Libra I'm such a supportive friend well that's what my friends and family say all the time.
Posted by Libra99
For those who know, I am in love with my cancer boofriend I have taken in a lot of consideration on what you've all told me, I took it down a notch which was needed.
Now that I have looked back and reflected our situation I came to the realization that he is teaching me so much, especially with my patience and that is very hard to adapt too because I come from an impatient house hold LOL. He is showing me how to find/reconnect with myself in other words love myself more and reminding me how to live my own life and not be so dependent on him/others. He is also teaching me how to have trust and faith regardless the situation but always keep your eyes open and to live in reality. He is definitely a blessing and he will never be loss to me, he would be a great lesson if we don't workout I'm glad I've met him.
Does the cancer men like be dominant?
He doesn't take charge as much as I thought he would and doesn't like when I try to take charge of certain situations which gets me confused. I'm trying to put his dominance to the test by letting have control of a situation that will affect the future I'm still waiting for his response.
I want to know more about cancer men POSITIVE thoughts maybe like a 1/2 cons but more pros than cons LOL
I truly believe he is a great teacher. Everything is a lesson to me btw.
You're both cardinal signs. Cardinal signs are better matched with fixed signs because fixed signs carry out and initiate. Granted, you admit you like being taught, but eventually, you're lessons learned are going to want to "take off." At this point, there might be two chefs in the kitchen. A cancer might resort to getting cranky and huffy that he taught you and now you're trying to take over and "be better than the teacher," Again, possibly (more than likely).
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I want to know more about cancer men POSITIVE thoughts maybe like a 1/2 cons but more pros than cons LOL
I truly believe he is a great teacher. Everything is a lesson to me btw.