I've made a mistake...

All these Cancer posts had me thinking about my old Cancer friend..so I decided to text him tonight. I just texting him "Are you still mad?" I didn't really know what to say. But, he didn't answer so now I'm just feeling worse...*deep sigh*

Funny! I got a text like this from my Gemini ex (we broke up in 1998 and I got his text in 2010) and I didn't reply to it either. I mean what's the point in answering it. I do not want to start having a convo over something that has ended. At this point, I'm concern more for me and mine (which not include him).

Posted by mgmtlove
All these Cancer posts had me thinking about my old Cancer friend..so I decided to text him tonight. I just texting him "Are you still mad?" I didn't really know what to say. But, he didn't answer so now I'm just feeling worse...*deep sigh*

Yeah, I know you feel worse by him not responding but don't feel bad. You are taking the right steps in bringing your feelings out in the open which is the first step in healing. It's better this way than bottling it up inside.

Like Hagrid said to Ron in Harry Potter's movie, "It's better out than in."

Posted by Arielle83
Maybe he's changed his number and never got it.

Good point!

How long has it been since you saw or talked to him? You two end on good terms? Depending on that it could look like you were bored and decided to stroll thro.

The last time we talked was march 19..I brought up something I felt was a problem and he didn't agree and cut me off. I actually tried texting him several times after that but he never answered. He said he wasn't mad..just annoyed that I said he didn't care. I pretty much apologized because I didn't feel like arguing. We're supposed to hang out thursday,we'll see.

So the cancer in questiond did reply— Good!!!! Be aware that some inmature cancers tent to say they are not mad or hurt but i will take that with care... If you apologize do it with honesty because they will sense you didnt do it for the right reasons, hope all go well with you

Yes, he answered. And I wasn't sorry about what I said but I was sorry about the way the friendship ended. Thanks 🙂

Yay!

Well i will suggest to think about what are you going to tell him... Hopefully he is one of those forgiving ones... And he value your friendship to sort things out...

Is funny... I re-read your post about why he got upset and it remained me that i said that same thing to my cancer friend on an argument and she took it also pretty wrong too...

But who are we supposed to know, i go by actions and some cancers (mine as exibith a) said one thing and do another... And in my situation her actions at the time make me feel like she didn't care... **deep sigh**

Good luck, i dont know you but Im all for happy endings for everybody 🙂

fullwaterpisces yes..he has told me he cares about me and I can talk to him "whenever" but when it came down to his actions, that wasn't really the case. I decided to bring it up and he got SO offended. Also I'm sorry things didn't go well with your friend. 😢 I honestly hopee he just doesn't bring it up