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@ crabbycrab76
if you choose to take a stranger's opinion on a forum so seriously to the point where you are greatly offended, then perhaps the internet and especially this site is not for you. it's obvious that i was giving acknowledgement to the decent cancers and i called out negative ones. i meant every word i said about both parties. i shared my trials about crabs who refused to grow up. and i showed love to crabs who are problem free. even a child can understand that. i had to let it be known that i dont have a problem with all cancers because if i didn't, bombardment of 'we're not all bad' or 'you hate us' nonsense would spew. it's sad that i even have to break things this far down instead of you getting what i'm saying. but you go on ahead and keep on believing your 'two different people' paranoia. whatever helps you. your trust was not requested nor does it mean anything in the first place. you say that as if it holds any weight lol. we're strangers on a forum. maybe you like validation from strangers over the net. i myself can do without. carry on being suspicious instead of finding better things to do. some people are time/energy wasters. live and let live.
Posted by KsamCancer
I think people become clingy(sometimes obsessed) to us and we need our personal space sometimes
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Clingy is definitely more Cancer than anyone else.
The truth is incontrovertible. Malice may attack it, ignorance may deride it, but in the end, there it is. The truth hurts. Many people get mad at another person's experiences because they recognize the ugliness inside themselves and they dont want it uncovered. never have i seen so many people pretend so hard to be angels. but the second you disagree here comes the demons.
you're not all good. let's face it. no sign has all good. never was it said that you're all bad either. but of course, focus on the part addressing negative crabs, totally ignoring the good ones being addressed. then take it and run with it, just to give you an excuse to bitch about something. be honest, you saw the darkness inside yourselves and became angry that someone dared to point it out. that pattern has been seen countless of times on this board. denial is so thick it can be cut with a knife. notice the pattern of all the threads about problematic unions with this sign. but of course, anyone who complains is just being hateful and mean. delusions are strong here.
enlighten me, if you will. what good reason is there to get so angry or emotional because a person shares something bad that they've been through with a cancer? why does that equal uproar? and why the hell get so personally hurt because a few bad cancers' actions that were called out? or are you so daft that you follow that 'say something bad about one of us,you attack us all' mentality? really, another person's trials have nothing - absolutely nothing - to do with you. do you not see that, or are you just willingly ignorant? inquiring minds want to know. really, give insight instead of feeling people are picking on you.
cancer placements are super sweet, i notice. so loving and caring, unless with harder aspects and harshness.
but will fuck you up if they have placements that will fuck you up.
Tyson:
Posted by LadyYin
@ crabbycrab76if you choose to take a stranger's opinion on a forum so seriously to the point where you are greatly offended, then perhaps the internet and especially this site is not for you. it's obvious that i was giving acknowledgement to the decent cancers and i called out negative ones. i meant every word i said about both parties. i shared my trials about crabs who refused to grow up. and i showed love to crabs who are problem free. even a child can understand that. i had to let it be known that i dont have a problem with all cancers because if i didn't, bombardment of 'we're not all bad' or 'you hate us' nonsense would spew. it's sad that i even have to break things this far down instead of you getting what i'm saying. but you go on ahead and keep on believing your 'two different people' paranoia. whatever helps you. your trust was not requested nor does it mean anything in the first place. you say that as if it holds any weight lol. we're strangers on a forum. maybe you like validation from strangers over the net. i myself can do without. carry on being suspicious instead of finding better things to do. some people are time/energy wasters. live and let live.
Thanks for verifying my suspicion of you. You take care now and have fun with that. 😉
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Thanks for verifying my suspicion of you. You take care now and have fun with that. 😉
you're welcome for the validation, toots. enjoy your paranoia.
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There is this particular cancer lady, she look really sweet and approachable.. But what she did during the 3 times I met her just puts me off... Like, she has no respect for the boundaries of a relationship. I understand that she might still have lingering feeling for him (because they were dating previously) but how about respecting the girlfriend of the guy whom she decidedly openly hug? Why not say hello, be civil? Instead of just staring and giving side eyes... I don't want to hate her, we don't have to be friends if she doesn't want too but how about being civil, polite and curteous? Don't appreciate her bitching about me to my boyfriend either man. And I haven't said much other than hi, and what are you studying... Be the sweet person you are, be the nice person you are, but don't have to put in so much effort to show me you hate me. And if you wanna cry about something ... Like cry but don't involve my boyfriend.. I can see through your smile and tears even if he can't, but bitch watch your limit.
I'll admit I'm jealous, but I have limits.. She initiates physical contact with my boyfriend and bitch about me. I don't think I have to like her. I
that is disrespectful. no you dont have to like her. dont be afraid to put her in her place.
was that a joke? or a sad glimpse into your immaturity?
whatever helps you feel adequate, Gem. and here is the instigator, right on time. really, too predictable, arielle.
Posted by KsamCancer
I think people become clingy(sometimes obsessed) to us and we need our personal space sometimesHAHAHQHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHWHAHWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Clingy is definitely more Cancer than anyone else.
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No way!
Posted by LadyYin
whatever helps you feel adequate, Gem. and here is the instigator, right on time. really, too predictable, arielle.Wow your really taking this all to heart aren't you? Poor thing.
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you really dont know how to read people, do you? lol. wishful thinking on your part. it's okay. you'll learn one day.
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Got to be honest, I drink a bit now and again and it's purely an escape.
Not a clingy crab here either - I'm sure that's a myth.
Every time someone gets hooked on my love, they are the ones who become clingy, I then see that as a weakness in them and it turns me off completely, I start retreating, they cling more and I retreat faster before ending it.
Quite a vicious circle, the only one it hasnt happened with is the sting in the tail Scorpio, that was a self destructive relationship that I ended bluntly.