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Posted by MoonArtistThat gut feeling/intuition should be listened to! I know Cancerians are blessed with getting answers this way, and are rarely wrong when it comes to it. I wish mine worked better lol!Posted by JkatsWell, gut feelings and intuition go a long way in helping follow clues, sometimes, and when there's an inkling of something being off, it's an easy thing to set up some well placed traps to see if the inkling is right or not. Also, I rarely forget things. I pretty much mentally catalog everything someone says/does, etc. and that's used for getting to know someone better, for doing nice things for them, and for knowing when they're lying.Posted by MoonArtistOh you Cancers lol! Would you mind giving me a couple of examples of your "methods to your madness" please?
A lot of things make me tick, and sometimes they seem contradictory. There's a method to my madness, though.
An example is me getting an inkling my supposed best friend wasn't trustworthy while I was planning my divorce. I couldn't quite locate the why of it all, just lots of little things that made me go on high alert with her, made me purposely lie to her so she would be in the dark and clueless about my divorce plans (I was keeping it a secret from nearly everyone but those closest because I couldn't risk my then husband finding out before I got away). After I left him she made it clear who's side she was on (his) even while she tried to play the loving/caring/concerned best friend to me. I hadn't confronted her, hadn't given her a reason to suspect that I knew she had betrayed me (she's been having an affair with my husband for years), so I posted a very vague thing on facebook about how much it hurts to have someone you love betray you. I didn't name names, and I didn't specify what the betrayal was. I could have been talking about my husband for anyone knew. It didn't take long before she texted me demanding to know why I posted on fb that she had betrayed me. I played innocent and asked why she thought that she was the target. She started dodging the question and refusing to give an answer, other than to keep demanding to know why I posted that about her. Obviously she was guilty or she would have never thought that was about her. No one else thought it was about themselves. lolclick to expand
And Wooooow, what a story! I'm sorry you had to go through that. I admit to cheating on my ex fiance (long story), and for that I am wrong, wrong, wrong. No one deserves that, that's why, no matter how much he wants me back, I won't let myself, because I never want to break his heart again, plus i'm not in love with him anymore. But i'm glad you're in a better place in your
@Jkats yep it's messed up, but I'm better off without either of them. My wish for them is that they eventually get married, and he abuses her the way he abused me (she knew about the abuse, too, by the way), and I hope neither has the guts to leave the other. I want them to fully destroy each other, slowly, painfully, but especially on a soul level.
She's tried to play the "confused and hurt" friend who can't understand why I ditched her. He gets insanely protective of her and upset if I say anything bad about her, so of course I use that little tidbit to manipulate them both when he's trying to play games with me in regards to our kids. I've also used my deep understanding of her insecurities and weaknesses to help undermine her mentally, through him, when I know she's texting for him to me (in disputes regarding the kids). I know both of them long enough to know the style of writing they both have, the differences, so it's not hard to tell when she's taking over the argument for him.
Basically, I'm proof that crabs are wonderfully loyal and loving, probably to a fault, but if we're ever betrayed by people we love it will be bad for the betrayer. Cold and cruel, and completely willing to exploit the weaknesses, because crabs will know everything about anyone we're interested in, both the good and the bad, the strengths and the weaknesses. I do it without trying, without even really thinking about it. I simply absorb the info and retain it.
She's tried to play the "confused and hurt" friend who can't understand why I ditched her. He gets insanely protective of her and upset if I say anything bad about her, so of course I use that little tidbit to manipulate them both when he's trying to play games with me in regards to our kids. I've also used my deep understanding of her insecurities and weaknesses to help undermine her mentally, through him, when I know she's texting for him to me (in disputes regarding the kids). I know both of them long enough to know the style of writing they both have, the differences, so it's not hard to tell when she's taking over the argument for him.
Basically, I'm proof that crabs are wonderfully loyal and loving, probably to a fault, but if we're ever betrayed by people we love it will be bad for the betrayer. Cold and cruel, and completely willing to exploit the weaknesses, because crabs will know everything about anyone we're interested in, both the good and the bad, the strengths and the weaknesses. I do it without trying, without even really thinking about it. I simply absorb the info and retain it.
Posted by MoonArtistDaaayum, I wouldn't want to be on your bad side lol! Virgos (I am a Virgo) can be the exact same way, but most of the time, I try to keep my life drama free. My ex ex did me wrong in so many ways, but i've chosen to rise above exposing his secrets, mostly because of my daughter. As long as he stays out of my hair and doesn't give me shit, i'm good.
@Jkats yep it's messed up, but I'm better off without either of them. My wish for them is that they eventually get married, and he abuses her the way he abused me (she knew about the abuse, too, by the way), and I hope neither has the guts to leave the other. I want them to fully destroy each other, slowly, painfully, but especially on a soul level.
She's tried to play the "confused and hurt" friend who can't understand why I ditched her. He gets insanely protective of her and upset if I say anything bad about her, so of course I use that little tidbit to manipulate them both when he's trying to play games with me in regards to our kids. I've also used my deep understanding of her insecurities and weaknesses to help undermine her mentally, through him, when I know she's texting for him to me (in disputes regarding the kids). I know both of them long enough to know the style of writing they both have, the differences, so it's not hard to tell when she's taking over the argument for him.
Basically, I'm proof that crabs are wonderfully loyal and loving, probably to a fault, but if we're ever betrayed by people we love it will be bad for the betrayer. Cold and cruel, and completely willing to exploit the weaknesses, because crabs will know everything about anyone we're interested in, both the good and the bad, the strengths and the weaknesses. I do it without trying, without even really thinking about it. I simply absorb the info and retain it.
You are master detective, I applaud you. The saying that karma is a bitch is very true, maybe that's what i'm experiencing right now for cheating on my ex fiance, and if it is, I deserve it no doubt.
Posted by JkatsI'm usually content to just burn the bridge with my enemy on it and walk away, but since my ex and ex friend won't leave things alone, and since they want to do things the hard way, I'm playing hardball with them and they don't like it. They can stop it at any time, all they have to do is stop messing with my kids, the custody, etc. and I'll ignore their existence as much as possible. For my children I would die and kill to protect them, and for the ex and ex friend to use my kids as pawns.....well, that's unforgivable in my book, and they will regret it. As soon as they stop the games I'll leave them alone.Posted by MoonArtistDaaayum, I wouldn't want to be on your bad side lol! Virgos (I am a Virgo) can be the exact same way, but most of the time, I try to keep my life drama free. My ex ex did me wrong in so many ways, but i've chosen to rise above exposing his secrets, mostly because of my daughter. As long as he stays out of my hair and doesn't give me shit, i'm good.
@Jkats yep it's messed up, but I'm better off without either of them. My wish for them is that they eventually get married, and he abuses her the way he abused me (she knew about the abuse, too, by the way), and I hope neither has the guts to leave the other. I want them to fully destroy each other, slowly, painfully, but especially on a soul level.
She's tried to play the "confused and hurt" friend who can't understand why I ditched her. He gets insanely protective of her and upset if I say anything bad about her, so of course I use that little tidbit to manipulate them both when he's trying to play games with me in regards to our kids. I've also used my deep understanding of her insecurities and weaknesses to help undermine her mentally, through him, when I know she's texting for him to me (in disputes regarding the kids). I know both of them long enough to know the style of writing they both have, the differences, so it's not hard to tell when she's taking over the argument for him.
Basically, I'm proof that crabs are wonderfully loyal and loving, probably to a fault, but if we're ever betrayed by people we love it will be bad for the betrayer. Cold and cruel, and completely willing to exploit the weaknesses, because crabs will know everything about anyone we're interested in, both the good and the bad, the strengths and the weaknesses. I do it without trying, without even really thinking about it. I simply absorb the info and retain it.
You are master detective, I applaud you. The saying that karma is a bitch is very true, maybe that's what i'm experiencing right now for cheating on my ex fiance, and if it is, I deserve it no doubt.click to expand
An open relationship? Oh hell no! It never was! Neither of us ever discussed such an arrangement nor agreed to it. I found out he was cheating with a coworker while we were married. I found out he was also fucking my supposed best friend shortly after I left him. She's married, so they're both pretending they're not doing anything and that it's perfectly normal for her to be all up in his business all the time without me in the picture (she's weaseled herself into being besties with my ex sister in law who is married to ex's brother). My kids are 11 and 8.
WTF!!!!! DXP is acting up. This is for MoonArtist.
Touche! You're awesome momma bear, you do what you gotta do, no judgement here. I hope all this gets put to rest soon, so that you can have some peace of mind. XO
Touche! You're awesome momma bear, you do what you gotta do, no judgement here. I hope all this gets put to rest soon, so that you can have some peace of mind. XO
@ramparts is so spot on!! Seriously..
Posted by JkatsThanks! 🙂
WTF!!!!! DXP is acting up. This is for MoonArtist.
Touche! You're awesome momma bear, you do what you gotta do, no judgement here. I hope all this gets put to rest soon, so that you can have some peace of mind. XO
As for dxp, it has a limit on how many letters can be in one post, so it will cut you short if it exceeds it.
Posted by SensitiveBluesLol, I thought the open relationship was for me, and I was like "nooooooooo, that never happened". No, they're not worth anything, but as long as they can't leave the custody and my kids out of things I'm going to undermine them and use everything I know about them, even their weaknesses, against them. People really shouldn't get close to a crab if they have bad intentions.Posted by MoonArtistI find this jakts character odd and full of it! I asked her four times now and she won't answer why she chose to have an open relationship!
An open relationship? Oh hell no! It never was! Neither of us ever discussed such an arrangement nor agreed to it. I found out he was cheating with a coworker while we were married. I found out he was also fucking my supposed best friend shortly after I left him. She's married, so they're both pretending they're not doing anything and that it's perfectly normal for her to be all up in his business all the time without me in the picture (she's weaseled herself into being besties with my ex sister in law who is married to ex's brother). My kids are 11 and 8.
Anyways fuk your sister in law her husband, your ex, and pathetic weak Virgo ex friend!
They're not important! Don't think about them! Just do you and protect your kids!
Anybody that befriend a Virgo is an idiot! I'm the end they're all for themselves!click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesOh, I had to laugh because that's exactly how jealous and petty she is! She's always wanted to be blonde and blue eyed, could never see her own worth or beauty (and she's ruined it with her shitty character), so she's progressively gotten more blonde streaks in her hair, especially after I left him. A week ago the ex was trying to argue with me via text about the xmas schedule and I could tell immediately when she took over and started texting for him, as if he was still texting me. So I went ahead and told him to tell her that I thought it was a shame her lipo wasn't working anymore, and how well the blonde look suited her since she's always wanted to be blonde. I went on to say that I was surprised she hadn't started taking art lessons so she could be even more like me, but it's a good thing she didn't since she'd probably struggle making stick figures. The texts stopped. lol
She's trying to take your place that's all theyre good at! Can't make their own happiness happen! Jealous and envious individuals!
They always think others got it better! They're never satisfied!
Instead of leaving her Leo husband she's cheating with your ex and trying to be your kids mom!
I mean these ppl are pathetic.
Can't make their own had happiness. Always jealous
Posted by SensitiveBluesWe're still dealing with the temporary custody because he's dragged his feet and has been doing all in his power to try to get full custody. This has resulted in several court ordered mediation sessions, which has resulted in a currently ongoing court ordered 730 psych evaluation, which isn't going in his favor and now he's trying to throw a tantrum with the court, is threatening to make this go to trail and is demanding he be allowed to choose a different evaluator (even though he picked and pushed for the current evaluator who doesn't like me). Despite the current evaluator not liking me the process is still going in my favor. Why? Because the evaluator is picking up on the fact that the ex is manipulating the kids against me, plus all of his psych tests, including his MMPI, have been deemed inconclusive and invalid, that he's trying to answer the test to paint himself in a good light. All of my tests have been deemed valid. Next court date is early Feb. As I said, I've given him more chances to do this the easy way and just agree to a 50/50 but he refuses to play nice. Fine! I don't want to hear him whine because it costs so much and it's stressful and it's destroying his family. FPosted by MoonArtistLooooool I bow to you! Awesome sauce!Posted by SensitiveBluesOh, I had to laugh because that's exactly how jealous and petty she is! She's always wanted to be blonde and blue eyed, could never see her own worth or beauty (and she's ruined it with her shitty character), so she's progressively gotten more blonde streaks in her hair, especially after I left him. A week ago the ex was trying to argue with me via text about the xmas schedule and I could tell immediately when she took over and started texting for him, as if he was still texting me. So I went ahead and told him to tell her that I thought it was a shame her lipo wasn't working anymore, and how well the blonde look suited her since she's always wanted to be blonde. I went on to say that I was surprised she hadn't started taking art lessons so she could be even more like me, but it's a good thing she didn't since she'd probably struggle making stick figures. The texts stopped. lol
She's trying to take your place that's all theyre good at! Can't make their own happiness happen! Jealous and envious individuals!
They always think others got it better! They're never satisfied!
Instead of leaving her Leo husband she's cheating with your ex and trying to be your kids mom!
I mean these ppl are pathetic.
Can't make their own had happiness. Always jealous
Omg that's just great!
Is it half custody?click to expand
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