My cancer bf always stares at me when I'm sleeping.

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he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhill
Are Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.


He's hot but he doesn't know it
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You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.
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he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhill
Are Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.


He's hot but he doesn't know it
You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.

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Lol, I'll clarify what i meant. He is extremely cute and charismatic and I think he knows it but he's also never been w a girl ( in his words) as pretty as me. So it could be something dif for him. Hell say cocky things here and there but w me he gets a little insecure.
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he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhill
Are Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.


He's hot but he doesn't know it
You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.


Lol, I'll clarify what i meant. He is extremely cute and charismatic and I think he knows it but he's also never been w a girl ( in his words) as pretty as me. So it could be something dif for him. Hell say cocky things here and there but w me he gets a little insecure.
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Okay, it could be that you're better looking than him. I've known some Cancer men to strategically date women avg. to below avg., no matter how good looking they are (especially when they even know it). Their worst fear is to be rejected or abandoned by their partner, so you can see why they would date the avg. looker. A cancer male with a very attractive woman is a disgusting sight. Oh, the insecurities come to the surface and rear their ugly head.

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he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhill
Are Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.


He's hot but he doesn't know it
You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.


Lol, I'll clarify what i meant. He is extremely cute and charismatic and I think he knows it but he's also never been w a girl ( in his words) as pretty as me. So it could be something dif for him. Hell say cocky things here and there but w me he gets a little insecure.
Okay, it could be that you're better looking than him. I've known some Cancer men to strategically date women avg. to below avg., no matter how good looking they are (especially when they even know it). Their worst fear is to be rejected or abandoned by their partner, so you can see why they would date the avg. looker. A cancer male with a very attractive woman is a disgusting sight. Oh, the insecurities come to the surface and rear their ugly head.

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This makes a lot of sense. His last gf was ugly. Didn't mAke sense to me. How do they act out when the girl is attractive?
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What do his eyes look like, when he does it?

My husband does it as well and whe he does it, he is always smiling and his eyes sparkle. So, I translate it to love.
Like searching my face, sparkling eyes intense
Sounds like he believes it's too good to be true.

Intense feelings and memorizing your face...

Sparkle to me = love

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I could see that
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he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhill
Are Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.


He's hot but he doesn't know it
You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.


Lol, I'll clarify what i meant. He is extremely cute and charismatic and I think he knows it but he's also never been w a girl ( in his words) as pretty as me. So it could be something dif for him. Hell say cocky things here and there but w me he gets a little insecure.
Okay, it could be that you're better looking than him. I've known some Cancer men to strategically date women avg. to below avg., no matter how good looking they are (especially when they even know it). Their worst fear is to be rejected or abandoned by their partner, so you can see why they would date the avg. looker. A cancer male with a very attractive woman is a disgusting sight. Oh, the insecurities come to the surface and rear their ugly head.


This makes a lot of sense. His last gf was ugly. Didn't mAke sense to me. How do they act out when the girl is attractive?
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My aunt, who is a very attractive Sag, was married off to a below avg. Cancer male. She's exotic and just the epitome of beauty. He was nothing in terms of looks standing next to her. At their wedding, he heard comments like the following from his friends and co-workers:

"Wow! Your wife is gorgeous!" "How'd you get her?" "It had to have been arranged. How come we didn't come across her?" "Does she have sisters?" Basically, really rude and condescending comments. The moment they were alone, my uncle says to her "Everyone kept saying you're beautiful, but I don't see it. You're nothing special." This was the prelude to what would later become a very volatile and emotionally abusive relationship. Their entire marriage he destroyed her self-esteem to the point my aunt doesn't believe she's beautiful when someone tells her. Also, my uncle worked for Lever-Brothers. At his work party, his boss asked him if his wife would be willing to be the cover girl of one of the new products they were launching. He declined the offer for her.
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he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhill
Are Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.


He's hot but he doesn't know it
You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.


Lol, I'll clarify what i meant. He is extremely cute and charismatic and I think he knows it but he's also never been w a girl ( in his words) as pretty as me. So it could be something dif for him. Hell say cocky things here and there but w me he gets a little insecure.
Okay, it could be that you're better looking than him. I've known some Cancer men to strategically date women avg. to below avg., no matter how good looking they are (especially when they even know it). Their worst fear is to be rejected or abandoned by their partner, so you can see why they would date the avg. looker. A cancer male with a very attractive woman is a disgusting sight. Oh, the insecurities come to the surface and rear their ugly head.


This makes a lot of sense. His last gf was ugly. Didn't mAke sense to me. How do they act out when the girl is attractive?
My aunt, who is a very attractive Sag, was married off to a below avg. Cancer male. She's exotic and just the epitome of beauty. He was nothing in terms of looks standing next to her. At their wedding, he heard comments like the following from his friends and co-workers:

"Wow! Your wife is gorgeous!" "How'd you get her?" "It had to have been arranged. How come we didn't come across her?" "Does she have sisters?" Basically, really rude and condescending comments. The moment they were alone, my uncle says to her "Everyone kept saying you're beautiful, but I don't see it. You're nothing special." This was the prelude to what would later become a very volatile and emotionally abusive relationship. Their entire marriage he destroyed her self-esteem to the point my aunt doesn't believe she's beautiful when someone tells her. Also, my uncle worked for Lever-Brothers. At his work party, his boss asked him if his wife would be willing to be the cover girl of one of the new products they were launching. He declined the offer for her.

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My ex Aries sun cancer moon did the same thing. He had ppl saying how did he get me? You must be loaded all the time. He started putting me down and competing with me like a woman. It was so strange!
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he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhill
Are Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.


He's hot but he doesn't know it
You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.


Lol, I'll clarify what i meant. He is extremely cute and charismatic and I think he knows it but he's also never been w a girl ( in his words) as pretty as me. So it could be something dif for him. Hell say cocky things here and there but w me he gets a little insecure.
Okay, it could be that you're better looking than him. I've known some Cancer men to strategically date women avg. to below avg., no matter how good looking they are (especially when they even know it). Their worst fear is to be rejected or abandoned by their partner, so you can see why they would date the avg. looker. A cancer male with a very attractive woman is a disgusting sight. Oh, the insecurities come to the surface and rear their ugly head.


This makes a lot of sense. His last gf was ugly. Didn't mAke sense to me. How do they act out when the girl is attractive?
My aunt, who is a very attractive Sag, was married off to a below avg. Cancer male. She's exotic and just the epitome of beauty. He was nothing in terms of looks standing next to her. At their wedding, he heard comments like the following from his friends and co-workers:

"Wow! Your wife is gorgeous!" "How'd you get her?" "It had to have been arranged. How come we didn't come across her?" "Does she have sisters?" Basically, really rude and condescending comments. The moment they were alone, my uncle says to her "Everyone kept saying you're beautiful, but I don't see it. You're nothing special." This was the prelude to what would later become a very volatile and emotionally abusive relationship. Their entire marriage he destroyed her self-esteem to the point my aunt doesn't believe she's beautiful when someone tells her. Also, my uncle worked for Lever-Brothers. At his work party, his boss asked him if his wife would be willing to be the cover girl of one of the new products they were launching. He declined the offer for her.


My ex Aries sun cancer moon did the same thing. He had ppl saying how did he get me? You must be loaded all the time. He started putting me down and competing with me like a woman. It was so strange!
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That's what an insecure man does. They don't have the courage to shut down the people making vile comments. Instead, they come and release their frustration on their women by putting them down or rather punishing them for the pain they felt by those comments.

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he's shocked that you allow him to sleep with you and wondering when it's all going to go downhill
Are Cancers really that insecure? There's no point in me inserting "even the good looking ones" because sometime very good looking individuals are quite insecure.


He's hot but he doesn't know it
You're seeing him with rose colored glasses because you're infatuated with him. I refuse to believe that anyone could be THAT oblivious to their looks. I went from an ugly duckling to pretty and I became aware of my blooming when I started getting all the male attention. So, if he gets a lot of female attention and still doesn't know it, then I hate to say it, he's probably mentally challenged or just very mentally lazy to acknowledge his surrounding, which, again, makes you mentally challenged.


Lol, I'll clarify what i meant. He is extremely cute and charismatic and I think he knows it but he's also never been w a girl ( in his words) as pretty as me. So it could be something dif for him. Hell say cocky things here and there but w me he gets a little insecure.
Okay, it could be that you're better looking than him. I've known some Cancer men to strategically date women avg. to below avg., no matter how good looking they are (especially when they even know it). Their worst fear is to be rejected or abandoned by their partner, so you can see why they would date the avg. looker. A cancer male with a very attractive woman is a disgusting sight. Oh, the insecurities come to the surface and rear their ugly head.


This makes a lot of sense. His last gf was ugly. Didn't mAke sense to me. How do they act out when the girl is attractive?
My aunt, who is a very attractive Sag, was married off to a below avg. Cancer male. She's exotic and just the epitome of beauty. He was nothing in terms of looks standing next to her. At their wedding, he heard comments like the following from his friends and co-workers:

"Wow! Your wife is gorgeous!" "How'd you get her?" "It had to have been arranged. How come we didn't come across her?" "Does she have sisters?" Basically, really rude and condescending comments. The moment they were alone, my uncle says to her "Everyone kept saying you're beautiful, but I don't see it. You're nothing special." This was the prelude to what would later become a very volatile and emotionally abusive relationship. Their entire marriage he destroyed her self-esteem to the point my aunt doesn't believe she's beautiful when someone tells her. Also, my uncle worked for Lever-Brothers. At his work party, his boss asked him if his wife would be willing to be the cover girl of one of the new products they were launching. He declined the offer for her.


My ex Aries sun cancer moon did the same thing. He had ppl saying how did he get me? You must be loaded all the time. He started putting me down and competing with me like a woman. It was so strange!
That's what an insecure man does. They don't have the courage to shut down the people making vile comments. Instead, they come and release their frustration on their women by putting them down or rather punishing them for the pain they felt by those comments.

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It's also rude for ppl to say that to men. It always pissed me off when ppl would say things like that. And it creates tension with the man.
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When I wake up I've caught him staring at me three or four times. I think it's super cute but why does he do this?
Not sure why, my taurus gal used to do this, she'd quickly close her eyes and pretend she wasn't. I'd just put my arm around her and give her a peck then fall back asleep. Try doing that, maybe the "why" will come to you eventually.

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When I wake up I've caught him staring at me three or four times. I think it's super cute but why does he do this?
Not sure why, my taurus gal used to do this, she'd quickly close her eyes and pretend she wasn't. I'd just put my arm around her and give her a peck then fall back asleep. Try doing that, maybe the "why" will come to you eventually.

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Okay I'll try it 🙂
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Cancer men and pretty girls is not a pretty sight. I've had two Cancer males admit this to me when they were telling me about their past and how they didn't entertain the advances of a beautiful woman because they felt unworthy.
not unworthy im sure they dont' want the competition or jealousy or possessiveness that comes with all of that



we prefer money over BYTCHES ...anybody taking us out of our game and can, cause we LOVE HARD is a person that will get in the way of our achievements...

we don't like being RULED BY our HEARTS. It causes us immense STRESS
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Very true. Non-confident men, in general, don't like dating women that cause them jealousy, insecurity. Basically they want to date a woman who doesn't rouse their insecurities. #easylife
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Cancer men and pretty girls is not a pretty sight. I've had two Cancer males admit this to me when they were telling me about their past and how they didn't entertain the advances of a beautiful woman because they felt unworthy.
not unworthy im sure they dont' want the competition or jealousy or possessiveness that comes with all of that



we prefer money over BYTCHES ...anybody taking us out of our game and can, cause we LOVE HARD is a person that will get in the way of our achievements...

we don't like being RULED BY our HEARTS. It causes us immense STRESS
Very true. Non-confident men, in general, don't like dating women that cause them jealousy, insecurity. Basically they want to date a woman who doesn't rouse their insecurities. #easylife


you're a very negative entity

why are you on the CANCER BOARD?

im trying to explain to you about Cancers..and all you keep bringing up is Insecurities

like why don't you go fuk yourself with a metal Pole and FUK OFF our BOARD

you're belittling, im trying to make you understand where cancers come from.



you don't want to learn, just to mock, so go somewhere else where you're needed, cause bytch your negativity is not needed in this SPACE

BYE

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Obviously I hit a nerve. Why are you adamant on denying that all of this (jealousy, fear of loss, possessiveness, competitiveness) stems from insecurities. I guess you don't like acknowledging the truth.
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Cancer men and pretty girls is not a pretty sight. I've had two Cancer males admit this to me when they were telling me about their past and how they didn't entertain the advances of a beautiful woman because they felt unworthy.
not unworthy im sure they dont' want the competition or jealousy or possessiveness that comes with all of that



we prefer money over BYTCHES ...anybody taking us out of our game and can, cause we LOVE HARD is a person that will get in the way of our achievements...

we don't like being RULED BY our HEARTS. It causes us immense STRESS
Very true. Non-confident men, in general, don't like dating women that cause them jealousy, insecurity. Basically they want to date a woman who doesn't rouse their insecurities. #easylife


you're a very negative entity

why are you on the CANCER BOARD?

im trying to explain to you about Cancers..and all you keep bringing up is Insecurities

like why don't you go fuk yourself with a metal Pole and FUK OFF our BOARD

you're belittling, im trying to make you understand where cancers come from.



you don't want to learn, just to mock, so go somewhere else where you're needed, cause bytch your negativity is not needed in this SPACE

BYE


Obviously I hit a nerve. Why are you adamant on denying that all of this (jealousy, fear of loss, possessiveness, competitiveness) stems from insecurities. I guess you don't like acknowledging the truth.


why don't you admit your a cunt and a hater? than i can admit to insecurities.

first you tho

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You are actually a case in point in just how lame this sign can get when it's bad. There's some good examples on here too.

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Cancer men and pretty girls is not a pretty sight. I've had two Cancer males admit this to me when they were telling me about their past and how they didn't entertain the advances of a beautiful woman because they felt unworthy.
not unworthy im sure they dont' want the competition or jealousy or possessiveness that comes with all of that



we prefer money over BYTCHES ...anybody taking us out of our game and can, cause we LOVE HARD is a person that will get in the way of our achievements...

we don't like being RULED BY our HEARTS. It causes us immense STRESS
Very true. Non-confident men, in general, don't like dating women that cause them jealousy, insecurity. Basically they want to date a woman who doesn't rouse their insecurities. #easylife


you're a very negative entity

why are you on the CANCER BOARD?

im trying to explain to you about Cancers..and all you keep bringing up is Insecurities

like why don't you go fuk yourself with a metal Pole and FUK OFF our BOARD

you're belittling, im trying to make you understand where cancers come from.



you don't want to learn, just to mock, so go somewhere else where you're needed, cause bytch your negativity is not needed in this SPACE

BYE


Obviously I hit a nerve. Why are you adamant on denying that all of this (jealousy, fear of loss, possessiveness, competitiveness) stems from insecurities. I guess you don't like acknowledging the truth.


why don't you admit your a cunt and a hater? than i can admit to insecurities.

first you tho


You are actually a case in point in just how lame this sign can get when it's bad. There's some good examples on here too.


You're a prime example of a bytch who can't get a crab to love her so comes in our thread to sheet on us

you actually remind me of an Aqua cunt who used to the same thing all the time, just live on our boards to subtly hate on crab men...but act like she was our friend.

i bet you're her, but Aquas have this drive to punish Crabs, for us not wanting your LOVE

it's okay DUDE

move on
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Ha! Don't flatter yourself. I'm indifferent to this whole thing until you exploded.