My ex who is a cancer ignores me

He liked me for a while but the relationship wasn't working so he was the one to break up. He started dating another girl and kissed her in front of me, then he broke up with her and came to ask if I was still mad on him. I told him I still liked him but he said he liked someone else. Since that day I always ignored him and he's always making a lot of noise like whistling or singing, everything to get attention. When I talk to him he acts like he doesn't ever hear me but he always stares at me and tries to be where I am.

I really want him back but I'm very confused.. I don't know what his feelings are or what I can do to get back to him. Trying to talk it's not a good idea.. I wanna give him some green lights if he still cares.. He's really insecure and I don't know.. I don't understand him.

"Trying to talk it's not a good idea.. "

That settles it. There's no hope for you. If you can't talk to him how do you expect to move forward? You're done.

damn..? kinda cold anhelfish.. hmm i guess wait it out, he might come around (maybe you should try showing him some of that "attention" or maybe try to force him to talk to you. think small like stealing a pen or something, anything to make HIM engage in a conversion)...

I'm sorry the giants just won the superbowl, so i'll have to get back to you on this... 😄

I'm not being cold - just pointing out that if she's not willing to try to talk to him then what does she expect?

by the way, thanks! YAY GIANTS!!

How can I talk to him if he ignores me?
I don't even know if he still has feelings for me..

that's why you have to talk to him.......walk up to him and ask "can we talk?"

I tried to talk but he will hide in his shell. He gives me signals that he likes me but when I say somethin he makes me feel like I'm invisible.
I just wanna know if he still has feelings.. damn

it sounds like he's trying to get you to make the next move. he might just be saying that he likes someone else because he's trying to get you to tell him how you feel. why did you two break up before and what was it that didn't work. cancer boys are very indirect. the guy i like always sings love songs to me and i usually don't say anything, but he can always get me to smile. i would probably wait it out if i were you. he wants your attention, but wont deal with what the real problem is and that is whatever went wrong with your relationship. if you get a chance to talk to him casually bring up what he thinks about how you were and see what he says. it seems like you both have things you are not willing to bring to the surface and by being honest with him it will most likely make him be honest with you also. plus by talking to him it will show that you really do want to work things out between the two of you and that you can be comfortable and trusting enough to share how you feel.

Listen from one aries girl to another... FORGET the cancer man. Sorry but my last guy I dated was a cap guy and I swear he makes my cappy man look heavenly. As weird as this may sound but I felt pulled in like an undertoe emotionally the first couple weeks we started dating and we werent even exclusive yet. I felt his tie or pull on me and it is frazzling to say the least. Cancers are so subtle you barely realise that he is 'invisibly' tieing on your shackles. Next thing you know you are under his thumb and that does not constitute a real relationship comprised of two equals. Also about the ignoring you bit mine did that to me towards the very end. Heres what I think happens when a strong aries chic and a cancer start out..passion passion passion...but then HE starts to recognize how very strong the aries chic is and how difficult it would be to tame her. Then he starts doing the ignoring or acting like he cant hear you in order to try to implement some control mechanism which he is so sorely losing on. Cancer men are HUGE control freaks. The worst kind. Aw yes they seem so sweet and gentle and feminine loving but I kid you not they want a subserviant partner. Not too mention those weirdo moods they get into. Worse than a woman! They pout.. they sear at you with their penetrating eye contact..I say forget it and find a man that will keep his word. Cancer men are flakeoramas.

Correction... last guy I dated was a cancer guy. Im with a wonderful cap now.

try your vibes...

Aw yes they seem so sweet and gentle and feminine loving but I kid you not they want a subserviant partner. If you ARE subserviant, he will look at you as desperate and run. You have to stand up to him. I think more so if you have CONTROL over YOU and you don't try to control him, he will let you HAVE the control or at least "think" you do.

THEY ARE WONDERFUL PEOPLE.
When u kno the good qualities of a cancer male, it means they love u enuff to be themselves around u. everyone who complains about cancer men, dont even kno who they really are, Because they DONT WANT u to know who they are.
(atleast thats wut i noticed)

''THEY ARE WONDERFUL PEOPLE.
When u kno the good qualities of a cancer male, it means they love u enuff to be themselves around u. everyone who complains about cancer men, dont even kno who they really are, Because they DONT WANT u to know who they are.
(atleast thats wut i noticed)''

You couldn't have put this any better. Right on the dot! I agree.