Do Cancer men like for women to call them or do they get annoyed by it. I've noticed that he rarely calls people unless it is business. Sometimes I just want to hear his voice and see how things are going with him. He calls me but not as often as I would like. I just don't want to be a pest.... but I don't want him to think that I am not thinking of him. Guess that is how the female mind works...if someone calls... they were thinking about you..
Do Cancer men like the attention... or do they just tolerate it so as not to hurt our feelings? And what things do Cancer men do to show their feelings. I get an "I love you" out of him once in a while... and when I visit... he treats me like a queen. But how in the heck do I find out where I stand with this man that I have loved for 4 years?
Mines always tells me to call him.... LOL! I hate that to Pat because it makes me feel desperate and needy deep down inside. I have tried to explain to him that I feel uncomfortable calling him because I feel like I am invading in on his private life. I would prefer he call me and he will but I believe so he does not feel like he is rejected or not wanted, he wants you to call him.
I'm interested in the answer to this one myself lol. When my cancer guy thought he was going to lose me... he would call every morning. But men can become complacent when you answer every time they call. It could be that.. then another thing that I've observed, because I have a bunch of Cancer friends both male and female... is that quality is more important than quantity to them.
So say for instance, if he calls you and have a deep conversation... that will be more satisfying to him than a bunch of surface conversations throughout the week. But then again, I would like to read the answers to this question as well. lol
When my cancer guy thought he was going to lose me... he would call every morning.
CM I experienced the exact same thing. A call every morning for about a week and then he cut the calling out. I did not call back because I don't want him to feel I am attention seeking but I would like the answer to this question along with you ladies.
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Do Cancer men like the attention... or do they just tolerate it so as not to hurt our feelings? And what things do Cancer men do to show their feelings. I get an "I love you" out of him once in a while... and when I visit... he treats me like a queen. But how in the heck do I find out where I stand with this man that I have loved for 4 years?