@FearlessScorpio
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How old are you Fearless?
I agree with Reincarnation. There must be something in the story although, why she got so distant, because we are secretive, but treat people nicely even tho they not always do the same with us.
I agree with CC, you came on too strong and she crawled back in her shell...only cooling off the chase and see if she contacts you and you will know.
Posted by cancerdreamer9
You DO realize she is probably going around telling all her friends about her stalker now,right?
I wanna laugh but that's just mean
Posted by Reincarnation
I thought Crabs enjoyed being chased.I guess that works better with Pisces women.
Cancer women love being chased.
She's probably not unevolved enough to date a Scorpio guy.
Posted by CluelessCancer
I wonder if it's my LEO placements and yes I CAPITALIZED LEO. EAT my SHorts ScorpioDick >-----------ReincarnatedIt's interesting to me cause i have fixed ideas, all the crab ladies are trying to place all the blame on the OP, or trying to have him pursue a chick who is showing very little interest.
that's crazy to me. Nobody ignores that many txts from someone unless they just didn't care.
let her be.
Considering we don't know what is really going on between them;
I was trying to help him come up with different strategies to get through to her because she is dealing with a lot. School and a sick aunt.
And we know how we can be when we become overwhelmed, crawl into our shell.
I think he failed to do something very important in the beginning, gain her trust as someone whom she could confide in.
But backing off seems like the best strategy for now.
Posted by Reincarnation
I thought Crabs enjoyed being chased.I guess that works better with Pisces women.
She's probably not unevolved enough to date a Scorpio guy.
What does that mean?
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Carnal urges vs career as a doctor?
I'll just give my own experiences on this as a Cancer chic...I like subtle courting, as in the guy should keep eye on the prize, but it is a MARATHON so you best have the endurance and good intentions. Once you win your beloved's heart, you will hopelessly fall for her as well and there will be no need for chasing anymore.
Posted by Reincarnation
I thought Crabs enjoyed being chased.I guess that works better with Pisces women.
She's probably not unevolved enough to date a Scorpio guy.
What does that mean?
Carnal urges vs career as a doctor?
Oh - so you support her apathy.
That's no excuse. I still made time for other things when I was pre-med.
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Making time for what things?
What worked for you, may not work for someone else.
We are talking about her becoming sexually involved with what is clear to be a man who will want a chunk of her time to be devoted to their relationship.
Some people just can't do both.
Posted by LunarMaiden
How old are you Fearless?
23.
"Do you want me to stop contacting you? Just be open and honest with me. As a Scorpio man, I can be overly determined, but I don't want to make you uncomfortable if I don't have a chance with you."
"No I'm so sorry. My cell phone broke a while ago and I wasn't able to answer texts. Only phone calls. I wasn't able to get it fixed until today s"
"ince I just got a new phone. I would have texted you earlier to apologize but I lost all my numbers."
Those are the texts. My Aquarius friend knows I'm crazy about her but he said why do you want to be with a liar. She is lying to you.
She invited me to an event on Sunday with her room mates, but I refused because I want to meet her alone.
Posted by Reincarnation
I thought Crabs enjoyed being chased.I guess that works better with Pisces women.
She's probably not unevolved enough to date a Scorpio guy.
What does that mean?
Carnal urges vs career as a doctor?
Oh - so you support her apathy.
That's no excuse. I still made time for other things when I was pre-med.
Making time for what things?
What worked for you, may not work for someone else.
We are talking about her becoming sexually involved with what is clear to be a man who will want a chunk of her time to be devoted to their relationship.
Some people just can't do both.click to expand
I don't want to take all her time.
Posted by FearlessScorpio
Those are the texts. My Aquarius friend knows I'm crazy about her but he said why do you want to be with a liar. She is lying to you.She invited me to an event on Sunday with her room mates, but I refused because I want to meet her alone.
Meet her alone? her inviting you out with friends was the gateway you have been looking for! Have you not read anything I have posted about Cancer women? We like to observe, and get to know someone without pressure. Hence, inviting you out with her friends. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't see you hanging out with just her anytime soon.
Posted by FearlessScorpio
Those are the texts. My Aquarius friend knows I'm crazy about her but he said why do you want to be with a liar. She is lying to you.She invited me to an event on Sunday with her room mates, but I refused because I want to meet her alone.
Meet her alone? her inviting you out with friends was the gateway you have been looking for! Have you not read anything I have posted about Cancer women? We like to observe, and get to know someone without pressure. Hence, inviting you out with her friends. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't see you hanging out with just her anytime soon.
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THIS!!! ^^^
Dude, you fucked up. You fucked up bad. She's being cautious and was going to see if you pass her friends judgement.
You are 23 and i am guessing your friend is around the same age.
DO NOT take advice about women from him or any guy your age.
Please talk to an older male 40 and up to get advice.
You don't know if she is lying. I just got a new phone and haven't updated all the numbers yet.
Because I just started a 2nd job and kinda feeling lazy, not because I lost it though.
Now to address your declining her offer. I feel that was a mistake.
However, I understand why you wouldn't want to hang out with her friends when you barely know her.
I would have declined too but for different reasons.
I think she is very cautious and is thinking of the last time you two were together alone.
Intense, passionate and almost having sex sooner than she was ready.
I think you should reconsider because you get to know her better though seeing her with her friends.
Did you set a private date with her yet?
Posted by LunarMaiden
You are 23 and i am guessing your friend is around the same age.
DO NOT take advice about women from him or any guy your age.
Please talk to an older male 40 and up to get advice.You don't know if she is lying. I just got a new phone and haven't updated all the numbers yet.
Because I just started a 2nd job and kinda feeling lazy, not because I lost it though.Now to address your declining her offer. I feel that was a mistake.
However, I understand why you wouldn't want to hang out with her friends when you barely know her.
I would have declined too but for different reasons.I think she is very cautious and is thinking of the last time you two were together alone.
Intense, passionate and almost having sex sooner than she was ready.
I think you should reconsider because you get to know her better though seeing her with her friends.Did you set a private date with her yet?
Not yet, I'm too busy this weekend. And I don't want all her friends judging me. I just want to be with her.
Posted by FearlessScorpio
Those are the texts. My Aquarius friend knows I'm crazy about her but he said why do you want to be with a liar. She is lying to you.She invited me to an event on Sunday with her room mates, but I refused because I want to meet her alone.
Meet her alone? her inviting you out with friends was the gateway you have been looking for! Have you not read anything I have posted about Cancer women? We like to observe, and get to know someone without pressure. Hence, inviting you out with her friends. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't see you hanging out with just her anytime soon.
THIS!!! ^^^
Dude, you fucked up. You fucked up bad. She's being cautious and was going to see if you pass her friends judgement.
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I don't need the judgment. I can do it without that stuff.
Posted by FearlessScorpio
Those are the texts. My Aquarius friend knows I'm crazy about her but he said why do you want to be with a liar. She is lying to you.She invited me to an event on Sunday with her room mates, but I refused because I want to meet her alone.
Meet her alone? her inviting you out with friends was the gateway you have been looking for! Have you not read anything I have posted about Cancer women? We like to observe, and get to know someone without pressure. Hence, inviting you out with her friends. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't see you hanging out with just her anytime soon.
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I'll invite her to the movies. I know she won't say no to that. I know her.
Her friends are probably whispering in her ear that she can't go to my apartment since she is so inexperienced.
Posted by FearlessScorpio
Those are the texts. My Aquarius friend knows I'm crazy about her but he said why do you want to be with a liar. She is lying to you.She invited me to an event on Sunday with her room mates, but I refused because I want to meet her alone.
Meet her alone? her inviting you out with friends was the gateway you have been looking for! Have you not read anything I have posted about Cancer women? We like to observe, and get to know someone without pressure. Hence, inviting you out with her friends. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't see you hanging out with just her anytime soon.
I'll invite her to the movies. I know she won't say no to that. I know her.
Her friends are probably whispering in her ear that she can't go to my apartment since she is so inexperienced.
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Is she still living at home with parents?
I don't think she should go to your apartment.
Posted by LunarMaiden
You are 23 and i am guessing your friend is around the same age.
DO NOT take advice about women from him or any guy your age.
Please talk to an older male 40 and up to get advice.You don't know if she is lying. I just got a new phone and haven't updated all the numbers yet.
Because I just started a 2nd job and kinda feeling lazy, not because I lost it though.Now to address your declining her offer. I feel that was a mistake.
However, I understand why you wouldn't want to hang out with her friends when you barely know her.
I would have declined too but for different reasons.I think she is very cautious and is thinking of the last time you two were together alone.
Intense, passionate and almost having sex sooner than she was ready.
I think you should reconsider because you get to know her better though seeing her with her friends.Did you set a private date with her yet?
Not yet, I'm too busy this weekend. And I don't want all her friends judging me. I just want to be with her.
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What do you like about this girl?
Is she shy?
Posted by FearlessScorpio
Those are the texts. My Aquarius friend knows I'm crazy about her but he said why do you want to be with a liar. She is lying to you.She invited me to an event on Sunday with her room mates, but I refused because I want to meet her alone.
Meet her alone? her inviting you out with friends was the gateway you have been looking for! Have you not read anything I have posted about Cancer women? We like to observe, and get to know someone without pressure. Hence, inviting you out with her friends. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't see you hanging out with just her anytime soon.
THIS!!! ^^^
Dude, you fucked up. You fucked up bad. She's being cautious and was going to see if you pass her friends judgement.
I don't need the judgment. I can do it without that stuff.
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That's where you're wrong. Her friends' opinion of you matters to HER. I already made the mistake of marrying someone that none of my friends and family liked that much. Turns out they were right all along. From now on, I'm paying attention to their thoughts on a man I'm interested in, because they aren't having their thoughts get clouded by the attraction and will see things I might overlook.
I think he should go on the group date.
Even if its to put her mind at ease.
I agree! It's also a red flag when a person can't handle themselves in a social setting like that. I really should have paid attention to that with my ex. Lessons learned that I get to apply and use. 🙂
MoonArtist is right, She will want her friends to notice any "red flags" that she may be potentially missing, or just to even see if you guys are compatible. It is not like they will interrogate you, need to relax and not be so concerned. Also you seeing her while she is with her friends takes pressure off her being alone with you and she can comfortably observe you/relax which will build the attraction even more for her. Her friends ARE the gateway to her. Just like in all other things, you must pass through security first 😛
Posted by Moonbutter
MoonArtist is right, She will want her friends to notice any "red flags" that she may be potentially missing, or just to even see if you guys are compatible. It is not like they will interrogate you, need to relax and not be so concerned. Also you seeing her while she is with her friends takes pressure off her being alone with you and she can comfortably observe you/relax which will build the attraction even more for her. Her friends ARE the gateway to her. Just like in all other things, you must pass through security first 😛
I guess her friends are important. First date she asked for a picture of me so she could show her friends.
Posted by LunarMaiden
I think he should go on the group date.
Even if its to put her mind at ease.
I don't know if I want to. I don't like the event more than anything else. Are all Crabs like this? Do you need protection and input from friends?
Posted by FearlessScorpio
Those are the texts. My Aquarius friend knows I'm crazy about her but he said why do you want to be with a liar. She is lying to you.She invited me to an event on Sunday with her room mates, but I refused because I want to meet her alone.
Meet her alone? her inviting you out with friends was the gateway you have been looking for! Have you not read anything I have posted about Cancer women? We like to observe, and get to know someone without pressure. Hence, inviting you out with her friends. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't see you hanging out with just her anytime soon.
THIS!!! ^^^
Dude, you fucked up. You fucked up bad. She's being cautious and was going to see if you pass her friends judgement.
I don't need the judgment. I can do it without that stuff.
That's where you're wrong. Her friends' opinion of you matters to HER. I already made the mistake of marrying someone that none of my friends and family liked that much. Turns out they were right all along. From now on, I'm paying attention to their thoughts on a man I'm interested in, because they aren't having their thoughts get clouded by the attraction and will see things I might overlook.
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Okay thank you.
Posted by FearlessScorpio
Those are the texts. My Aquarius friend knows I'm crazy about her but he said why do you want to be with a liar. She is lying to you.She invited me to an event on Sunday with her room mates, but I refused because I want to meet her alone.
Meet her alone? her inviting you out with friends was the gateway you have been looking for! Have you not read anything I have posted about Cancer women? We like to observe, and get to know someone without pressure. Hence, inviting you out with her friends. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't see you hanging out with just her anytime soon.
I'll invite her to the movies. I know she won't say no to that. I know her.
Her friends are probably whispering in her ear that she can't go to my apartment since she is so inexperienced.
Is she still living at home with parents?
I don't think she should go to your apartment.click to expand
Why not? I think she should. She lives on campus with room mates.
Posted by LunarMaiden
You are 23 and i am guessing your friend is around the same age.
DO NOT take advice about women from him or any guy your age.
Please talk to an older male 40 and up to get advice.You don't know if she is lying. I just got a new phone and haven't updated all the numbers yet.
Because I just started a 2nd job and kinda feeling lazy, not because I lost it though.Now to address your declining her offer. I feel that was a mistake.
However, I understand why you wouldn't want to hang out with her friends when you barely know her.
I would have declined too but for different reasons.I think she is very cautious and is thinking of the last time you two were together alone.
Intense, passionate and almost having sex sooner than she was ready.
I think you should reconsider because you get to know her better though seeing her with her friends.Did you set a private date with her yet?
Not yet, I'm too busy this weekend. And I don't want all her friends judging me. I just want to be with her.
What do you like about this girl?
Is she shy?click to expand
Everything. Yes that too.
Posted by FearlessScorpio
Those are the texts. My Aquarius friend knows I'm crazy about her but he said why do you want to be with a liar. She is lying to you.She invited me to an event on Sunday with her room mates, but I refused because I want to meet her alone.
Meet her alone? her inviting you out with friends was the gateway you have been looking for! Have you not read anything I have posted about Cancer women? We like to observe, and get to know someone without pressure. Hence, inviting you out with her friends. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't see you hanging out with just her anytime soon.
I'll invite her to the movies. I know she won't say no to that. I know her.
Her friends are probably whispering in her ear that she can't go to my apartment since she is so inexperienced.
Is she still living at home with parents?
I don't think she should go to your apartment.Why not? I think she should. She lives on campus with room mates.
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You are still not getting it FearlessScorpio, if she wanted to be alone with you, it would happen. Be a gentleman and respect the fact she wants to take things slow. Going to your apartment doesn't necessarily scream "turtle pace" you are rushing to the finish line, however when you get there she will still be back at the starting gate!
Posted by Moonbutter
MoonArtist is right, She will want her friends to notice any "red flags" that she may be potentially missing, or just to even see if you guys are compatible. It is not like they will interrogate you, need to relax and not be so concerned. Also you seeing her while she is with her friends takes pressure off her being alone with you and she can comfortably observe you/relax which will build the attraction even more for her. Her friends ARE the gateway to her. Just like in all other things, you must pass through security first 😛I guess her friends are important. First date she asked for a picture of me so she could show her friends.
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Cancer: all things friend/family related are important, and friends are considered family. They are our posse. If you get accepted into her circle by her it's a huge honor and a huge trust placed on you (or anyone).
Posted by FearlessScorpio
Those are the texts. My Aquarius friend knows I'm crazy about her but he said why do you want to be with a liar. She is lying to you.She invited me to an event on Sunday with her room mates, but I refused because I want to meet her alone.
Meet her alone? her inviting you out with friends was the gateway you have been looking for! Have you not read anything I have posted about Cancer women? We like to observe, and get to know someone without pressure. Hence, inviting you out with her friends. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't see you hanging out with just her anytime soon.
I'll invite her to the movies. I know she won't say no to that. I know her.
Her friends are probably whispering in her ear that she can't go to my apartment since she is so inexperienced.
Is she still living at home with parents?
I don't think she should go to your apartment.Why not? I think she should. She lives on campus with room mates.
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Because you're too keen on moving in on her sexually too fast. Now she's put up a little wall and is avoiding being alone with you until you can prove you're worth it.
Posted by LunarMaiden
I think he should go on the group date.
Even if its to put her mind at ease.I don't know if I want to. I don't like the event more than anything else. Are all Crabs like this? Do you need protection and input from friends?
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Ha I barely have friends. 😆
Yes we need protection, particularly from our men.
FS, you are dealing with a shy, reluctant Crab.
Start acting like a boyfriend and she will believe you.
She probably already sees you as a strong potential.
This is your IN. Take it. Stop kicking yourself out.
Go charm them all.
Show up with flowers, hug her and kiss her on the cheek; right in front of all her friends.
Don't let pride and fear of vulnerability get in the way of getting the girl you want.
Based on what I have read and heard, Cancer woman is your strong match maybe even the best.
All you need do is act like you want her for more than just sex.
In fact if I were you, don't make any sexy moves on her for a while.
Build trust between you.
Please go read up on Cancer woman and Scorpio man.
Your dilemma is covered.
I fear you are not mature enough to deal with this connection yet. 😢
Honestly, I am surprised an Aries or Aqua guy hasn't scooped her up yet.
We often get involved with them early on.
She sounds like me at her age, waiting for the right guy.
I was surrounded by Aries males.
Posted by FearlessScorpio
Those are the texts. My Aquarius friend knows I'm crazy about her but he said why do you want to be with a liar. She is lying to you.She invited me to an event on Sunday with her room mates, but I refused because I want to meet her alone.
Meet her alone? her inviting you out with friends was the gateway you have been looking for! Have you not read anything I have posted about Cancer women? We like to observe, and get to know someone without pressure. Hence, inviting you out with her friends. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't see you hanging out with just her anytime soon.
THIS!!! ^^^
Dude, you fucked up. You fucked up bad. She's being cautious and was going to see if you pass her friends judgement.
I don't need the judgment. I can do it without that stuff.
That's where you're wrong. Her friends' opinion of you matters to HER. I already made the mistake of marrying someone that none of my friends and family liked that much. Turns out they were right all along. From now on, I'm paying attention to their thoughts on a man I'm interested in, because they aren't having their thoughts get clouded by the attraction and will see things I might overlook.
I went on a date with a Cancer a long time ago when I was single and her cousin was there - much to my dismay.
I guess some Crabs like that stuff. I did not.
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Well, it isn't fair to not give you a heads up on something like a dinner date. Personally, I don't dump those sorts of surprises on people. Also, I wouldn't have anyone meet my friends and family unless I was serious about him and wanted to see how my loved ones get along with him and how they like him.
Posted by LunarMaiden
I think he should go on the group date.
Even if its to put her mind at ease.I don't know if I want to. I don't like the event more than anything else. Are all Crabs like this? Do you need protection and input from friends?
I fear you are not mature enough to deal with this connection yet. 😢
Honestly, I am surprised an Aries or Aqua guy hasn't scooped her up yet.
We often get involved with them early on.She sounds like me at her age, waiting for the right guy.
I was surrounded by Aries males.Why Aries and Aquarius?
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I think it may be a karmic relationship because it's pretty common for Cancer women to have early experiences with Aries and/or Aqua males.
Like Scorpio and Gemini.
There is a natural attraction of masculine vs feminine and many Cancer girls tend to be very shy which ignites the aggressive knight in shinning armor.
As a teenager I dated this Aqua, he cheated and I dumped him for an Aries who was pursing me.
I think the Scorpio/Cancer combo is oftentimes better when the two have matured.
I think a relationship early on between a Crab and Scorpio cannot withstand the mood swings, emotions and shells of both. Remember the Crab is considered the baby water. There is a lot of growth needed on both sides. You can tell by the response by FS. A much more mature Scorpio would have met her people already and she would have felt more confident and comfortable giving herself to him.
Cancer women need reassurances and understanding that a Scorpio male should be able to provided but that has never been my experience with them. Even though astrologers say so.
Perhaps the male vs female differences are just stronger than trine astro coupling.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Aquas have massive patience and are very practical, they can detach their emotions, which helps the Crab because aquas can work around it...instead of inflaming it.Aquas can be calming to Crabs.
Soo tru CC! I love Aquas, I think because of the "detachment" factor they can leave me the f alone when I need space! And my recent ex of 3 years had Moon Aqua which I loved because he allowed me to take my time "getting to know him" I didn't feel pressure, and yet he didn't end up in the friend zone, so that was a win, win 😉You reading this Scorpio "lover boy"?!
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We haven't spent that much time yet (total of 10 hours maybe). She's always busy with school. It was just a couple of dates. And she's 20.