Scorpio man needs help with Cancer woman

I need some advice please!! All you cancer girls out there!

My Taurus friend (at the time) of 3 years had his eye on this Cancerian girl at my college for a while and one day we all sat down and started studying together. I knew it was wrong, and perhaps by fate but I also got along with her very well too. I told her the situation and thought she was nice to chill with but explained that he was also interested in her. I told her this straight up because he had fucked me over numerous time so this was my way of getting a sweet little revenge which backfired terribly haha. She loved that I was vegetarian, heavily into zodiacs and astrology, she also loved that I had travelled a lot and said "I've been seeing you around at college for 3 years now" which showed that she had had her eye on me for quite a while.

After work one day she came and visited me at college when I was studying one night (she came of her own accord) and we ended up talking for hours and she drove me home. She wanted me to kiss her quite obviously at the end of the night but I never ended up doing it because the situation with my friend was in the back of my mind and I wanted to get to know her better before I engaged in any physical contact. To this day I don't know whether I should have bit the bullet and kissed her or not. She told me at some point that she really liked me and being a scorpio I kind of got carried away when she said this in hindsight.

After some time I invited her to mine to spend some time and chill and she instantly said yes. Oddly enough after this she stopped all contact and said she couldn't come over because she wasn't feeling well. At the time she was seeing a counsellor and the other guy was involved too so I think this stopped her from diving head first into it. After she stopped contact I tried to chase but to no avail she stopped talking to me and that was the end of that.

Sometime later I told my taurus friend at the time she told me she liked me to be upfront and try and sort it out with him, it was on this faithful night we parted ways completely as friend never to speak again as he went crazy at me. Later on I had found out from a close friend that they had sex with each other and they were seeing each other, that is until she went to go and see her ex who had moved away earlier on. I'm not sure whether they had sex when she saw her ex but I knew my taurus friend hated her for that. They continued to see each other for sometime (cont below).

Eventually they had continued to bicker and argue more and more and it all dissipated.

Fast forward a year I apologised for everything that went down and for rushing her and being overbearing in the heat of the moment at the start she forgave me and thought there was a lot of tension between us because we never kissed or did anything. I agreed with her and saw her at college last monday (she wanted to chill and study together). On thursday I bit the bullet and asked her to buy her lunch and she never replied and realised she was still a confused individual and gave up completely on the whole idea. Strangely, after going out to dinner with a pisces friend i've known for 3 years which went terribly she started messaging me and we talked for a few hours. She asked to see me again on wednesday so I could see maybe a potential for something was growing again. She told me the last time her and the taurus spoke was in May and told me funny stories about him and her which we both laughed at and ridiculed him for.

Today I visited her in the library studying again and my intuition was telling me something was up, one of my friends I study Psychology with of 3 years was messaging the taurus guy on her iphone (i saw out of the corner of my eye) and could see the cancer girl messaging another taurus guy who was just a friend and they were giggling quietly to each other about something. I quickly lost patience and bailed out of the situation pretty frustrated at what went down. My intuition tells me something's up.

Bottom line TL;DR: I know we're attracted to each other but I don't know what the best course of action would be from here. For anyone interested I am a SCORPIO SUN, PISCES MOON, CANCER ASCENDANT. SHE IS A CANCER SUN, PISCES MOON, SCORPIO ASCENDANT. please help guys i can't get her off my mind 😢

Maybe, you just need to get her out of your system.

Its probably just sexual tension.

so I'm confused. This is a judgmental statement but I'm going to say it away. So you are obsessed over a female that played with both you and your friend's feelings. and you still respect her but not your friend——————————————————————??

My old friend messed me around a lot in our friendship, she's a cancer that's why I'm obsessed with her, she feels as deep as I feel. I should just be deep inside of her then leave *sigh

This all seems immature. You're both somewhat young, so you're both hoping the other makes the moves. Just make the moves! Other than that, I'd say you're both still learning boundaries, etc.

Cards on the table or GTFO.
You both seem very immature.
Stop mirroring and tell her what you want.

Posted by Arielle83
You just like her cuz she's a cancer. You've read too much astrology and think she's the only one who will eat your dick the way you want.

Most likely she will. But what will she get?