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Do Cancerian individuals prefer slow sensual sex or quickies?
Cancerian individuals typically favor slow, sensual sex that fosters emotional intimacy and connection. They value comfort and deeper bonds over quick encounters, often seeking a nurturing and meaningful experience with their partner.
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Lordt .... I've only been with one cancer and that man amazed me. It was like an outer body experience. I left him alone though because I can't and won't fall for anyone. Blame Capricorn for ruling my sun ! Lol but to answer your question ... (From my experience) they like it sensual ... But they'll speed it up just a bit. They'll do anything ... And I mean anything.
What tips would you give me with my cancer man for our first time together?
Is he gonna be shy with me or vava...voom and take the lead? 🙂
My cancer man took the lead... and I loved every minute of it... they love to please.. but they like to be pleased as well so make sure you put in some work as well. My advice is to have fun ! Don't be shy .. explore him! Shxt, explore each other. lol Start off sensual.. slow, but affective kissing. My cancer wasn't shy at all, he was the initiator actually.
What happens is going to depend on how he feels about you. Quickie is unlikely.
Contrived sex is irritating. For best results, be fully prepared at all times and let it happen.
Thanx 🙂 they love kissing...Lol the more the better.
What was his favourite position?
Kim30 are you saying they never say no if you initiate—
Very unlikely
I'm a cancer. I have lots of cancer friends male and female. No one has ever complained about lack of sex around us. Just the opposite.
Well every Cancer could have different favorites, but mine liked missionary.. a lot.
Okay! Is it true they like to keep it private, not ones for public displays of affection?
There is a promotional video out there of a Spanish bank and an "impromptu" rendition of "Ode to Joy".
Can't post the video atm, but do a web search and it will give you somewhat of an idea.
They definitely don't like public displays of affection .. well mine didn't. I don't like it either. It's too much for me. But ask him, girl ! I'm sure the answer is no though.. but it doesn't hurt to slide that question in though... when it comes to getting answers I want, but I know the person will lie or feel awkward, I ask without asking ... if that makes sense.
Posted by misbehavin
Okay! Is it true they like to keep it private, not ones for public displays of affection?
huh? m, that's a new one to me. Guess it varies.
You guys are cool...loving the info 🙂 sooooo many questions still to ask lol
What about phone sex..anyone done that with a cancer man and how was it?
I don't think that's a good idea. .considering you don't know what your dealing with.
I prefer long, sensual sex marathons to quickies, but sometimes quickies are fun, too....depends on the mood. I love public displays as long as they aren't over the top. Hand holding, a sweet, lingering kiss, touching are all great. When you're making out and should just get a room....that's too over the top, and so is groping. Sneaking in some naughty hotness when you think no one is looking (the back of the movie theater, etc) is also good, but not if it's obvious.
^^^ Yeah, you better hide that. >.
BWAHAHAHA....Touche in spades! 😄
Yes, you do have to keep bailing me out. You're my official bailer outer. I'm getting you a gold bucket to help in with the job.
Posted by xMoonMan
For all the newbies....MoonArtist is a female crab.
Dig it.Do i have to keep bailing you out, MA?
Give your opinion and experience already!!
Thank you MoonMan, but why do you sound like Dr. Suess?
So which sign has been your best sexual partner so far?
Scorpio
Give your opinion and experience already!!
Ok
SEX IS GOOD
SEX IS FUN
INDOORS, OUTDOORS, IN THE RAIN, IN THE CAR, ON A PARK BENCH
IN A TELEPHONE BOOTH, BY THE WATER COOLER, UNDER THE OFFICE DESK
ON A PLANE, IN A TENT, ON A SOFA, A SOFA AT THE LOCAL FURNITURE STORE, IN A BARN ON TOP OF A BALE OF HAY, IN A SWIMMING POOL, IN THE OCEAN, IN A SHED, IN A FIELD, ON A BEACH AT NIGHT, ON A BEACH DURING THE DAY, IN A CAR PARK, ON A TRAIN, IN A BATHTUB, IN A SPA, IN SAUNA.
HOT HARD AND SWEATY, SOFT AND SENSUAL, SMOTHERED IN JAM (OR PEANUT BUTTER), ON THE KITCHEN BENCH, ON THE KITCHEN TABLE.*It's all fun and games until somebody falls off the roof of the #29 bus and gets hurt*
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You forgot "on a horse, on a fence, in a cabin, under a pier, in the bushes, in front of a fireplace.."
I agree moonman..signs are a small part of relationships but thanks for your comments oh wise one 🙂
My cancer man is a slow burner and that's fine with me..see how it goes I guess!!
Ok...another question for you all..Well I'm virgo so I love to talk hahaha. Do cancers have a preferred type? You know...does personality come before looks for instance?
i like cake!!!! ah well i tried... but on a real though, i lead, i'll eat out ur pussy if it's the last thing on earth to survive. Sensual yes indeedy. I like to give massages, with or without oil, make you hot. Kiss ur neck,AHeeeeMMMMM!!! sorry got lost there. As for quickies ,yes i do that too.Fuck in public places etc etc.
Posted by xMoonMan
hahaha Lunar....good one. 😄seriously though
misbehaven,
Good sex is about the connection / chemistry between the people involved.
Sun sign has nothing to do with good sex.You might meet one Cancer guy and he rocks your world, a different Cancer guy and he does nothing for you.
Astrologically you can go really deep into a persons natal chart and uncover some interesting things, but I'm talking very experienced astrologers who know their stuff and can use it in combination with life experience.
Pop astrology is fun and can give you some insight but be mindful that you don't over cook it.
yup
One cancer man I knew had a 3sone with me on my bday; he was ok. Another tongued me down at a party; barely friends. Another, the sex was so bad neither one of us called the other.
synastry
Who in the hell uses the word "quickies" and expects a dignified response?
Give your opinion and experience already!!
Ok
SEX IS GOOD
SEX IS FUN
INDOORS, OUTDOORS, IN THE RAIN, IN THE CAR, ON A PARK BENCH
IN A TELEPHONE BOOTH, BY THE WATER COOLER, UNDER THE OFFICE DESK
ON A PLANE, IN A TENT, ON A SOFA, A SOFA AT THE LOCAL FURNITURE STORE, IN A BARN ON TOP OF A BALE OF HAY, IN A SWIMMING POOL, IN THE OCEAN, IN A SHED, IN A FIELD, ON A BEACH AT NIGHT, ON A BEACH DURING THE DAY, IN A CAR PARK, ON A TRAIN, IN A BATHTUB, IN A SPA, IN SAUNA.
HOT HARD AND SWEATY, SOFT AND SENSUAL, SMOTHERED IN JAM (OR PEANUT BUTTER), ON THE KITCHEN BENCH, ON THE KITCHEN TABLE.*It's all fun and games until somebody falls off the roof of the #29 bus and gets hurt*
You forgot "on a horse, on a fence, in a cabin, under a pier, in the bushes, in front of a fireplace.."
You and I should get together sometime and compare notes
LOL
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I think you're onto something! You also forgot "in a boat". lol
Posted by xMoonMan
LMAO @ in the bushes.By a fire, yeah, or a campfire under the stars 🙂
In the back of a pickup truck, the back of a car, the passenger seat...
I agree moonman..signs are a small part of relationships but thanks for your comments oh wise one 🙂
My cancer man is a slow burner and that's fine with me..see how it goes I guess!!Ok...another question for you all..Well I'm virgo so I love to talk hahaha. Do cancers have a preferred type? You know...does personality come before looks for instance?
My preferred "type" is "tall". Beyond that, yes, personality is a huge thing, but it's more than just personality. Lots of people I've met have a great personality but wouldn't be a good match for me. When I meet someone I read them. I instantly get a feel for the relationship potential. Personality AND chemistry have to be intertwined.
Posted by ScorpioFish
Who in the hell uses the word "quickies" and expects a dignified response?
someone who is more concerned with fucking their crab right than acting all uppity. For someone so determined to bag a crab for life, you should be more interested in taking notes...
Posted by ScorpioFish
Who in the hell uses the word "quickies" and expects a dignified response?someone who is more concerned with fucking their crab right than acting all uppity. For someone so determined to bag a crab for life, you should be more interested in taking notes...
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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
There is a promotional video out there of a Spanish bank and an "impromptu" rendition of "Ode to Joy".
Can't post the video atm, but do a web search and it will give you somewhat of an idea.
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eehmm... Yes, thats how its like 😄
Posted by ScorpioFish
Who in the hell uses the word "quickies" and expects a dignified response?For once we agree.
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Sheesh, get a room, you two.
*rolls eyes*
Well, there's a f***ing surprise. More student input. Pffft.
Posted by kim30
*rolls eyes*
Well, there's a f***ing surprise. More student input. Pffft.
Sssshhhhh, I'll get you!
Posted by ScorpioFish
Who in the hell uses the word "quickies" and expects a dignified response?For once we agree.
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Posted by ScorpioFish
Who in the hell uses the word "quickies" and expects a dignified response?
As you can see all the responses have been entirely undignified.........
Posted by ScorpioFish
Who in the hell uses the word "quickies" and expects a dignified response?As you can see all the responses have been entirely undignified.........
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I'll have you know I was wearing a formal gown and respectable heels when responding.
Posted by ScorpioFish
Who in the hell uses the word "quickies" and expects a dignified response?As you can see all the responses have been entirely undignified.........
I'll have you know I was wearing a formal gown and respectable heels when responding.
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Ah and no mention of underwear, you slutmuffin!
Hahahaha!!!!
Posted by ScorpioFish
Who in the hell uses the word "quickies" and expects a dignified response?As you can see all the responses have been entirely undignified.........
I'll have you know I was wearing a formal gown and respectable heels when responding.
Ah and no mention of underwear, you slutmuffin!
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MeeeoooooW! 😉
Posted by ScorpioFish
Who in the hell uses the word "quickies" and expects a dignified response?
For those of you I offended by using the word quickie let me 're-phrase....being in a room with someone where the air is sizzling with unbridled passion that you just can't ignore that you grab each other, rip clothes off in a frenzy and treetrunk each other's brains out with one common goal...to set those sparks alight and start a fire until neither of you cares who gets there first so long as you both orgasm like you never have before!!
For those who supported my use of the word quickie...I salute you...clearly you've experienced the above and would rather use your energy getting to last base rather than wasting your time on so many words 🙂
And for those who never replied...your indifference is important to as a debate would be no fun without you either 😉
Right then...who's up for another question?
What's the funniest thing that's ever happened to you during sex/passionate moment?
I'll give you a taster. My partner and I ripped off clothes and got down to it in a hurry and unbeknownst to me a few notes of money fell out my pocket as I threw my trousers behind me....while treetrunking my partner...my dog decided he was hungry and ate a week's pay leaving nothing but shreddings behind as evidence. I wasn't laughing but my partner was....until I pointed out he'd have to pay for our night out instead and then the joke was on him 🙂
Posted by ScorpioFish
Who in the hell uses the word "quickies" and expects a dignified response?For those of you I offended by using the word quickie let me 're-phrase....being in a room with someone where the air is sizzling with unbridled passion that you just can't ignore that you grab each other, rip clothes off in a frenzy and treetrunk each other's brains out with one common goal...to set those sparks alight and start a fire until neither of you cares who gets there first so long as you both orgasm like you never have before!!
For those who supported my use of the word quickie...I salute you...clearly you've experienced the above and would rather use your energy getting to last base rather than wasting your time on so many words 🙂
And for those who never replied...your indifference is important to as a debate would be no fun without you either 😉
What is your sign?
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Virgo baby....
Posted by CluelessCancer
Urrfff annoying virgos and their curiousity.
Awwww....you being shy little puddytat?
I prefer to start off slow and sensual, but it's gets more heated and passionate as we continue. Quickies are okay, but can be better when you're trying to sneak one in without the people around you finding out. Very exciting.
Posted by NCcrab89
I prefer to start off slow and sensual, but it's gets more heated and passionate as we continue. Quickies are okay, but can be better when you're trying to sneak one in without the people around you finding out. Very exciting.
🙂 like your style !!
Anything else you cancer men do that you're willing to share with us? Even better...what do you like your partner to do for you?
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Do cancerians prefer slow sensual sex or quickies best?