should I?

My Cancer "friend" of 3 years, and I got together last month .... just a good time, a few drinks and lots of good conversation... and laughs along with his best friends. When he was taking me back to the hotel we had a good laugh about not being able to find a nice place to grab something to eat. We ended up going through the drive-thru at McD... and eating our food in the parking garage. A good bye hug ended up in a very passionate and heated kissing session...with an invitation to go to his house, by the way... I declined..... He called the next morning to wish me a safe trip, called that night to see if I made it home ok.. and has called a couple of times since then. Now the question.. (sorry this is so long)... by the way.. he is 64 and I will be 51 in a couple of weeks). I am going to be back in his hometown in a couple of weeks.. I have let him know that.. when I was there before he told me I was welcome to stay at his place.. no need to get a hotel... should I just play it cool... or let this great guy know that this Leo gal really wants to spend time with him while I am there. To be honest... I have had very very deep feelings for him ever since we met..but this is the first chance we have had to actually have some private time together.. and guess what... I liked it.. I love it.. .I want some more of it. (ha ha)... Just don't know how to play this hand.. Should I just lay it on the line.. let him know what I want... or wait for him to approach me?

lol eww....i wish u would have left your ages out. i just keep thinking of my parents! gross