@OceanOfEmotion
12 Years
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Dude just forget her lol. There's wayyy better women out there who will treat you better than she ever could. Don't waste your energy on this BS. Let her be, & get on with your life. Don't make this complicated like algebra, because it's not
You know what keeps you from moving on & getting to better people & things? Dead weight. You can't go on forever with all her dead weight on you like that. Who says she even deserves a damn email from you. She certainly doesn't shit from you. She hasn't earned nothing but slap in the teeth, & if anything, you should be the one blocking her punk azz lol. But you do what is best for you & it's ok by us.
I'm certain it's twin flame. All of the signs are there. The history of bad relationships, instant connection upon meeting, mystifying similarities, even this very separation is described under the runner-chaser dynamic. I can't forget her because she is my other half. Search and read some of the articles about twin flames. It's exactly what I am experiencing.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Please send the EMAIL. I hate plots without conclusions, sex without orgasms, this ongoing debate with yourself is just annoying as hell. I mean i like things to either be done or not done.Do it so we have a story we can sink our teeth in.
Even if I send the email it's still the summer. No guarantee she's even using the account now unless she's doing summer classes. Fall semester doesn't start until late August, so she may not log in till then.
So we got to wait 3 months. You're joking right. Didn't she unblock you on FB before, get her to do that, then send it.
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I didn't do anything to make her unblock me. I wanted to message her, but the block was still up, then it came down like the next day for no apparent reason. I don't think she was expecting me to contact her.
Posted by xtina
Just because you were nice to her doesn't make her any more obligated to you. If that were the case a lot of people would owe. If you were genuinely nice then it wouldn't have meant a thing. I'm nice because that is who I am not because I expect anything from it.
Exactly.
Posted by OceanOfEmotion
I'm certain it's twin flame. All of the signs are there. The history of bad relationships, instant connection upon meeting, mystifying similarities, even this very separation is described under the runner-chaser dynamic. I can't forget her because she is my other half. Search and read some of the articles about twin flames. It's exactly what I am experiencing.
you're fooling yourself...told you...send that mail...do all the things which will show you she doesn't care/isn't worth your efforts till the moment your mind understands you're better...otherwise you'll go on like this forever and won't be able to move on...
send that mail...call her...do all the foolish things you need to get the point and your closure...
OceanOfEmotion "That's why I'm confused about what to do"
When you are confunsion about of the silent of a person regard you , then you remain silent.
Just in case you have confusion about action of someone you make something. In this case, remain silent about her. Don't send.When someone treat you with silent return silent- Whatever it is the motivation for her silent.
Only if you make something , that only you know and think that she don't know..
I dont think the Virgo is comfortable expressing her emotions to you and vice versa. You both probably have hurt feelings but they never get talked about. instead, people get blocked on fb yadda yadda yadda.
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