:sigh: ...cancer guy, taurus girl

Hi guys, I'm new here but a longtime creeper lol an I finally decided to share my story in hopes of some insite. So the story goes like this:
My brothers and I are 2 years apart and live together. We're pretty close and my brothers, my brothers childhood bestfriend, myself and my best friend are all close.
I have a major crush on my brothers best friend :/
For a while, I thought he felt the same but didn't want to cross a line with my brothers. I told him how I felt after months of him disappearing and reappearing with me. Sadly, he's never had a crush on me and was just being his charming self 😢 he and I have only recently begun to be friends (June 2011) while we've lived across the street from each other since childhood. Is there any possibility that he can eventually fall for me or is that it? Am I doomed forever?

His birthday is july 6 1991 and my birthday is april 20 1988 if that helps any...

Thank you for the kind words :]
ive tried to get passed it since the beginning feeling that it would be inappropriate to feel that way for him to no avail. Ive dated other people and tried to preoccupy myself but its incredibly difficult to forget someone that i see on a daily basis. we attend the same university for the same major... i guess i'll just have to try a bit harder then huh lol
its hard to not be hopeful :]

Ahhhh, hello fellow Aries/Tau cusp. 🙂 Moon has the right of it. I understand absolutely where your mind is right now and in this scenario respect his wishes and be his friend. If you are like me, everything you are feeling vibrates and thrums around you; is reflected in your face and in your eyes. Your voice. I sincerely doubt your feelings were a secret in that regard, bouncing off him and he absorbing and noting it. It wouldn't take Fellini to pick up on that broadcast. Certainly not with Fire flanking Earth and having it cook eggs in a 5 block radius round you.
If you find being just his friend too painful, take a step back and reacquaint yourself with other activities. 'Doomed'? No.
I won't tell you what to feel or whom to crush on, that's silleh. Either he's with the program or he's not. He'd certainly let you know if he was. What's absolute worst case scenario here? You have a wonderful friend. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. Yes you may want more, and for quite a long time but if that is all that is extended to you find peace with that and be with someone who gives back just as hard as you do. Good luck. 🙂

Very true words indeed. I must say that i do feel rather pathetic lol although i'd love to have more, a friendship will do the problem is, we're both incredible flirtatious naturally. how would i know if he does begin to care? Would he just come right out and say it? I have a terrible tenancy to over-analyze and obsess and i would really like to avoid mistaking his friendliness for interest a second time... i think he'd probably cut me out to avoid anymore hurt feelings

I think since you told him how you feel that if he felt the same later he would just straight up tell you since the possibility of rejection has been cut down immensely by you confessing to him.

Is he much older than you?

3 years my junior actually

*tapping foot* Alright you two post hiders. Out with it.

...yeah. I'd really like to see them myself lol

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LOL Oh great, now a Pisces is in on it. That drives Earth craaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaazy. And if you dropped by to say Cancer is best with Pisces again I'll sock you in the shoulder. 🙂

It is true for you, true for he. I am thrilled to bits for each of you actually. 🙂 However, it's all independent of individual. Some Cancers pair best with Water, some pair best with Earth, etc. The same for Pisces. Some have had tremendously good experience, some not.

I'm still grinning that he typed that out. That's some smartaleck behavior that cracks me up.

Hahaha!!! My best friend is a pisces...

Probably won't ever work. You can't force it, chemistry is pretty instant. Sounds like you are stuck on safe mode and have let yourself idealize this idea into something that has you captivated. Don't get stuck on this if you can work your way out of it because you will get your wholeness from his acceptance but that is not true magic, just accomplishment. Everyone should experience intense passion from Natures chemistry. Work on your body and do what you love. You'll meet a great person doing great things.

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Probably won't ever work. You can't force it, chemistry is pretty instant. Sounds like you are stuck on safe mode and have let yourself idealize this idea into something that has you captivated. Don't get stuck on this if you can work your way out of it because you will get your wholeness from his acceptance but that is not true magic, just accomplishment. Everyone should experience intense passion from Natures chemistry. Work on your body and do what you love. You'll meet a great person doing great things.

Cancer and Taurus can be an incredible match...passionately great. There are many crabs in the sea. 😉

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And if you dropped by to say Cancer is best with Pisces again I'll sock you in the shoulder. 🙂

Ya sure we're not soul mates or sumfin?
😉





*yeah, it's the generalization of the comment, that's ________ !

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That's it EXACTLY. Two thumbs up for any two that truly work buuuuuuut. I can put cash money down that some Pisces drive Cancer up a flipping tree, and vice versa. And some Taus..ohhh I dunno..m'self comes to mind for no apparent reason.. ( sometimes it's a good thing being the human wedgie ). 😄

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Posted by Daljip69
Probably won't ever work. You can't force it, chemistry is pretty instant. Sounds like you are stuck on safe mode and have let yourself idealize this idea into something that has you captivated. Don't get stuck on this if you can work your way out of it because you will get your wholeness from his acceptance but that is not true magic, just accomplishment. Everyone should experience intense passion from Natures chemistry. Work on your body and do what you love. You'll meet a great person doing great things.

Cancer and Taurus can be an incredible match...passionately great. There are many crabs in the sea. 😉

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^ Truth.

All about being ready methinks. Mental mindset. Maturity level and knowing where you want to be. In each case you knew that you couldn't put forth in that regard. Not incapable by any means. At that particular point in time it wasn't right for you personally.
I am blessed to have Water in my life. Growing up, my Gran a Scorp, the other Pisces. My parents, Pisces/Aqua, Pisces. My mothers husband of over 30 years ( Daddy nummah 2 ) Cancer. My children; Cancer, Scorpio, eldest is Air. Aqua. More than a few of my dear friends are Piscean.
The man that understands me. Truly understands me. Cancer. The way we flow is like breathing. It's natural. I can't even begin to tell you my pride in him. You'd slide off your perch bored to tears while I nattered on bigging him up. I'd have to ring A&E, guilt would set in and I'd have to leave a "So Sorry" pie cooling on your front stoop. *grinning*
Now, hopefully that made a bit of sense. I've not had a coffee yet and that is certainly on the agenda. Suuuuuuper Cow..up up and awayyyyyyy.

Thank you, I'm glad. I am a dead lucky woman. I don't make much sense to myself before the mighty bean in the morning.

Hahahaha, shameless. Well..it IS pie. Thorry about the rambling. It's apple. 🙂