signs of cancer man in love (Page 2)

Yeah... I can't help but to feel sorry too. But everyone should know that is the reason why those who are struggling should come across more humble to others. That way we will have pity on their unfortunate situation.

Krobe is a true case that empty barrals make the most noise.

Besides... after 12 years... I would hope that the dating stage is over. 12 years should be enough time to know your partner inside out and should therefore leave no room for insecurities and bad treatment to gain control.

12 years should be the love stage where you all enjoy EACHOTHER, where you should have no problem cooking or cleaning for your man because you know he is yours. Shiat! After 12 years... there is no need for marriage. You've already got everything, all these years, a piece of paper should mean nothing.

12 years is comfortable enough for ME! I want you too see how ready I am NOW for this. No, it won't be on DXP! You don't have to get a hotel or anything. YOU can stay at ONE of my TWO houses. I keep them VERY nice and clean. Come, come swimming in my back yard in the house that my MAN is buying us. Come on up-I want you to see how INDEPENDENT I am. I work a couple jobs- I am VERY INDEPENDENT!

Come on I WANT YOU to come! YOU are solely invited. COME be prepared to get away! I WANT YOU to come then you can come back on the boards and tell everyone how you just "thought" I was a big liar and so unworthy of myself that you just had to come back and tell DXP- Krobe MUST be doing something right!

Come FOLLOW me in happiness my dear! I am SERIOUS!

Scorp Queen I have NO desire to argue with you, I will continue to let the CANCER MEN themselves put you down.

Lady_Taurus DATING has BEEN over, come, we don't have to be internet rivals. INDEPENDANCE-I want you to just come and follow with me for a few days! I have am very close with a TAURUS female and we have NEVER gotten into an arguement!

Krobe... you just send me your address. If I am invited to a party... I make sure to go and I'll even bring a bottle of wine.

lol... yeah I was thinking the same thing... but I know that she is not having a wedding and that she has no intentions of sending out invites. So I'd have to get the invite first before I can actually go. LOL... her eagerness just proves how fake her whole story is. You know like a commercial, until you read the fine print and realise that you didn't get what you thought you were paying for.

"sounds like you're moving on to a very happy life, but if you didn't catch the cancer man you really shouldn't be giving anyone advice on this board."

That's what I'm saying... preach about your victories and not of the way in which you made your mistakes.

"I don't think any cancer man will agree to treat them like shit."

Nope... nope nope nope! That's why not many women can keep Cancer men.

lol... yeah I was thinking the same thing... but I know that she is not having a wedding and that she has no intentions of sending out invites. So I'd have to get the invite first before I can actually go. LOL... her eagerness just proves how fake her whole story is. You know like a commercial, until you read the fine print and realise that you didn't get what you thought you were paying for.

"sounds like you're moving on to a very happy life, but if you didn't catch the cancer man you really shouldn't be giving anyone advice on this board."

That's what I'm saying... preach about your victories and not of the way in which you made your mistakes.

"I don't think any cancer man will agree to treat them like butter."

Nope... nope nope nope! That's why not many women can keep Cancer men.

I will CONTINUE to say, I will LET THE CANCER MEN treat you the way they do, I have no intentions on lower your self esteem no more than it already it. It is OBVIOUS you probably can't keep a CANCER MAN who is ALREADY MARRIED.

Oh let me straighten you out again cookiemonster- I see you clearly cannot read-I don't do anything to try and keep ANY man. LOL! That is proabably the reason why you are lonely, depressed and it is SELF EVIDENT you are miserable.

Um, now let me belittle you a little-Where is your CANCER MAN that you are solely in love with right now-WITH HIS WIFE! yeah, I guess ANY one can be BITTER towards a woman who clearly wants someone elses man.

Krobe... that's just low. Because as far as I can recall your Cancer man had a woma too!

And like Scorp said... if it was all good and you know how to keep a man... why are you not with him?

*woman

lol... yeah I was thinking the same thing... but I know that she is not having a wedding and that she has no intentions of sending out invites. So I'd have to get the invite first before I can actually go. LOL... her eagerness just proves how fake her whole story is. You know like a commercial, until you read the fine print and realise that you didn't get what you thought you were paying for.

So, Lady_Taurus, I have clearly stated that YOU are invited. The reason BEING is because you and I want to invite some other rivals on this board want to know about me and MY life so bad, I want to invite you in.

You are not the only one invited, don't think you are THAT special but since you clearly come on the boards like you just KNOW the whole truth about everyone's life and you KNOW them so good and they are lying so much, you are invited to join. I WANT you to make yourself look like a fool when you obviously will see, IF you come-that I have a very happy life, I have an abundance of independence, I live in two houses, I have two cars and I can BRAG that no matter how much money I MAKE, my man is VERY happy to do for me.

Um, yeah, I guess literally any woman who has to get everything on her own and call herself independent will say that is putting the next woman DOWN!

Come join- I made my peace with YOU!

Oh, and Leokitten is a very successful defense lawyer-she probably doesn't want YOU to KNOW that but I doubt very seriously if you make in 1 year income wise as much as she makes PER case! LOL!

Krobe... that's just low. Because as far as I can recall your Cancer man had a woma too!

And like Scorp said... if it was all good and you know how to keep a man... why are you not with him?

Learn to spell WOMAN! Um, I really don't care what he had, LOL! He was not my man, he was only a DATE-something you obviously don't understand about MEN, anything up until the proposal to I DO is nothing more than a date! Until he tells you, I love you and you are the only woman I want in my life- YOU ARE NOTHING TO HIM!

Research!

Krobe... that's just low. Because as far as I can recall your Cancer man had a woma too!

And like Scorp said... if it was all good and you know how to keep a man... why are you not with him?

What did I tell you about asking me questions about my life, come you are invited to join me. I INVITE you into my life-Just like I INVITE my man into my life.

It is called and invitation of LOVE! Quit questioning me and come join since YOU claim everyone in living in la la dream world land.

YOU have no NEED to ask more questions-YOU are invited. That should settle peace with you, if it doesn't I know it is just BEYOND LOINESS!

"So, Lady_Taurus, I have clearly stated that YOU are invited."

Invited to where?! Can you answer that? Where the eff do you want me to go if I am invited?

"since you clearly come on the boards like you just KNOW the whole truth about everyone's life"

I have never come on here on told anyone about their lives. You are talking about yourself, with your "reading other people" shiat.

"I WANT you to make yourself look like a fool when you obviously will see, IF you come-that I have a very happy life, I have an abundance of independence, I live in two houses, I have two cars"

You are not making a fool of me. Anything you have is for the benefit of you and your man, not me. What you have won't make nor break me. Isn't that kind of childish of you to be bragging about your houses like a school kid?

"Oh, and Leokitten is a very successful defense lawyer-she probably doesn't want YOU to KNOW that but I doubt very seriously if you make in 1 year income wise as much as she makes PER case! LOL!"

Who cares about LK... did anybody bring up anything about what she does and does not do.
Neither of you seem very educated. Spelling errors can tell that. Plus what is a defence lawyer doing on these boards... shouldn't she be preparing for her next case and researching laws? I went to law school and that's why my Ts are crossed and my I(s) are dotted? you losers can't tell me nothing about school? I can tell when someone has a higher education.

Girl you know nothing about me! You don't know how I am living or eating and I couldn't care less about you. I know where I rest my head at night and that is all that matters I don't need to come on here and flash it around for people on here to see. Where I live, you would have to save a year just to buy the plane ticket... so don't start with me about that. You couldn't buy a house here, a car here or get a good job here without a Bachelors degree at the least, and I possess all those things so don't talk to me about standards.

You hold down more than one job... good for you! And I am not knocking it... but if you are getting so much from your man, why the need to have "a couple jobs".

Girl you're not talking to a fool... a can smell BS a mile away! Your two houses don't faze me! You think you made it because some man bought you a house.... come on here and brag that you bought your own house... then we can talk!

You're very immature and I pity you!

"If you are truly happy you do not need to prove this to anyone because only you are living your life. For your sake, I really hope this is true because I do not wish unhappiness for anyone. Stop trying to prove anything & live for this moment you're so happy with."

Exactly!

"Come join- I made my peace with YOU!"

You made no peace with me! You still continue to attack.

i am new this thread has been cracking me up
i had to sign on lol

lady u r funny! i love taurus women my girlfriend is a turus and she is the the only one who understands me. i agree with everyting u r saying about us cancer men.

Krob u r wrong wen u say that cancer men want to be treated bad. i do not like women who like to control me by doin the things you said. a woman who does that will be alone and she wont be with me

taurus and scorp women are the best match for me as a cancer.

lady i am sure you cancer man loves u alot you are the only ones that show us real love 🙂

actually when scorpqueen first came on here she made it very clear that she was NOT pursuing this cancer because he was married.....and that she just wanted to understand what it was he was trying to do......
and as for the comment about him being off with his wife right now.... she just said a couple posts back that they are sperated.....

LT has had nothing but good to say about her cancer man and their relationship - the only problem she ever expressed was her insecurity over his recently changed behavior and whether it was anything to worry about - which it wasn't.

And here you have it a cancer man telling YOU that you are wrong krobe.... not the other way around like you had hoped - but in general the cancer men stay away from these arguments because they don't like confrontation - don't think for one second they aren't reading this - they just don't want to jump into the melee.

By the way, LT, ever get that invitation? no... I thought not.....

Wow this board is a bunch of petty women who like to bicker. It is so unbecoming. I read the first 3 pages to get any descent insight and I noticed that not one cancer man has made a comment I wonder why.... Probably to avoid this scathing bunch of women who have nothing better to do than argue.. Lol

Pd

awwww CancerPrince! Thank you. I guess many people do not understand you Cancer guys and your sensitivity. I am glad that you confirmed that bad treatment would not get a woman anywhere with you Cancer guys!

Thanks Angel! I know how Krobe is... she likes to hit low blows to get you thinking and doubting your relationship. However, she or no one else has that power over my life. Invite? You and I both know better than that! Invite to what? Now all of a sudden she is getting married? Ha!

Take care Angel!

"but in general the cancer men stay away from these arguments because they don't like confrontation - don't think for one second they aren't reading this"

I agree! I wish I could show my guy... but he would just kiss his teeth and walk off. The things Krobe are saying would make him shake his head.

SweetestFatale I agree with you completely... this is how Cancer Men are when they love you. I've been dealign with a cancer guy for 3 years and just in the pass month he has been calling and checking up on me. We have become close friends and he trusts me 100% I've learned to just keep the friend card with him and let him take the steps he needs and then if he changes his mind my world doesn't stop spinning. He calls just to sit on the phone and listen to me ramble on and on and they do beat around the bush like instead of saying "can i come see you and spend time with you" he will say "Man, I wish I could just see you right now and we could cuddle up and watch a movie together" and I'll have to say "do you want to come see me, why don't you come over" then he will hall ass over to see me. SOmetimes they act like they are just playing when they say things but really they aren't. Like he joke around and say " I don't want you around any other dudes" then he'll say "I know you will be but i'm just saying...i'm just playing" but i know he isn't.

P.S. I'm from Fayetteville too i went to Westover. I'm in Houston now though..

when i was in luv i always cheeze when my bf came around and always have butterflies but thats just me if he doesnt sum a little corney at things or silly he may not be that much in luv becuz i always say the corniest things when i am in luv lol

I've been dating a cancer man for about eight months now. How can you tell your cancer man is in love? Well from my experience, it would seem they are generally very expressive. Everyday he calls, and if he's not calling, he's sending text messages. He's a very good cook so I'll be at work, and he'll something for me, something he's made, cookies, breakfast. I buy plants, he arranges them. He hasn't said he loves me yet, but is constantly telling me the reasons why he "likes" me. He originally came off as a very sexual man, asking for sex all the time, and originally our relationship was very highly sexed, when that took a dip, he still stuck around, now he's a big cuddler, always wants to be hugging and kissing, and is very interested in pleasing me sexually over himself. I suppose all in all, a cancer man in love is very selfless, very demonstrative, but somewhat needy. He needs what I think is constant reassurance that he is truly loved and his efforts are not going unnoticed.

This weekend he over did his self. He picked me up and had a dozen roses on the car seat when I got into the car and took me out to a nice dinner and we road the Farris wheel and the train. He when to the prize booth and played basketball a prize for each one of my children. He took me out for drinks and then topped the night off with a romantic carriage ride through downtown.... man... it was Perfect, I couldn't have asked for more!!

Cancer men like woman who give them their space but are also there when they need you! Let him share his feelings and emotions first! You have to just kind of go with the flow with him! Or should I say his flow... Almost like you have to give him the control without actually giving them control... Because you control your own emotions... I was with a cancer man for a long time and we have a baby together... Our problem is we can't do enough for eachother on an emotional level because when one of us is stressing so is the other almost like we don't know how to be there for eachother because we are both stubborn... But he still wants to marry me! Too much water under the bridge for me... But they just like to know that you will do anything in your power to keep them happy! You have to show him your emotions and not tell him!

Wow...it is amazing reading all these posts. I am also a scorpio who has been hurt in the past who has recently gone out a few times with a cancer male...I was attracted to him right away, and usually don't get that way with people. He was kind of passive and a couple dates he was friendly, but didn't touch me or walk me to my car or open doors, which kind of irked me. Then the third date he came at me with the most passionate and best kiss in my entire life and we made out some at his place...it was heaven...how he touched me...then he disappeared! I emailed and he called later and we went out again, but I was tired and feeling awkward and again, I didn't feel like I meant anything to him or that I was attractive to him because he didn't kiss me. Like the other people posting, it has somewhat been driving me nuts as I don't understand him and maybe he isn't good for me as he did talk about himself a lot...I just don't know if we are all having dating jitters or if he just isn't in to me. I just have not felt like myself, but for a minute before, I was like, this is amazing, but the confusion on my part makes me feel more insecure and less interested. I am 31, he is 32, so it isn't like I want to play games and have been hurt enough and just want a good man.

Although I will say on our last date we had somewhat said we both weren't feeling good/tired and we should reschedule, but I told him if he was feeling better to let me know if not, no biggie, we'd find another time, but here I was expecting to not see him then he suggests going to get a bite to eat. At least before I was all stressed about things, I totally wanted to do do nice things for him and be supportive...I am just a little gived out with other issues going on, and tired, and he knows I don't want to go to fast, but I really don't understand him and if I need to say what I need...as I want to feel loved and protected and adored, but don't know if he is just clueless or uninterested. The mixed signals are driving me batty...and not sure I have the strength right now with other stresses I have going on. Anyway, that is my situation, and it seems if he is truly a cancer, which he seems to be from all the descriptions I read (and his birthday is July 22) that maybe he is just being indirect and I don't know if I need to say something to him or just let him take his time. I really loved being in his arms and being held like that and feeling so erotic and want that again, but he seems a

Posted by scorpiogemini


ALSO, they put us in touch with our hearts, which makes us vulnerable, which turns them on. Ever cry to one? Foreplay...

I totally agree with this statement...and it scares me to have felt so vulnerable with him.

Totally agree "Let.It.Be.", as i said in other threads, i don't like playing games and the other things they have listed was wrong IMO.

Awesome thread!

I need help please..In November I started talking to a cancer man who i knew over 10 years ago. We tried to mess around back then but because of the person he is, he stopped it because he had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend. We both ended up getting married the same year (2001) After more then ten years we talk again and find out we are both divorced. He has two boys 6 & 9 and I have two girls 7 & 10. He lives in Tyler Texas. He came down to spend Thankgiving with me which was the following week after we started talking. He also came the following week which was on Dec 3th, and after that, I haven't seen him. We found out we had a lot of things in common and have the same dreams, and same taste. Well here goes the story, He was suppose to come down for Christmas but because he's kids wanted to stay with him, he canceled. His kids don't live with him but they see him everyday. He picks them up from school and drops them off at night. Well,this is on Dec 24 when he told me that and I got so angry and I showed my temper. I didn't talk bad about the kids but did tell him that they saw him everyday and I didn't. He said he would call me at night and I told him not to but i did send a text message at 12:00 am saying Merry christmas and he did reply. I did feel so bad afterward but appologized till the next morning but ever since things are so bad. We had kind of broke it off. Can't say broke up he it wasn't nothing serious but he made me feel like he wanted that way by the way he was with with me. I was falling inlove with him because he was just a charm. The way he would take care of me and everyday, everyday he would text me and call me. We talked on Dec 31 and decided to give each other another chance but he wanted to take things very slow. He did say no more talking everyday for now, and of course he hasn't text or called me. He said he promised himself that if he dated again and they hurt him with his kids, there was no second chance. So that makes me feel as if he kind of feels something for me since he's giving me a second chance but on after that last talk, he is very cold and distant from me. I told him I missed the guy that i started talking to and said just to give him time but that he couldn't promise anything. I am just so worried and scared that he wont call me ever again. I though that confessing to him how i felt was going to help but he said i kind of scared him off. Do you think he'll get over it and things can be back to normal like

Posted by mrscepeda
I got so angry and I showed my temper. I didn't talk bad about the kids but did tell him that they saw him everyday and I didn't.

He said he promised himself that if he dated again and they hurt him with his kids, there was no second chance. So that makes me feel as if he kind of feels something for me since he's giving me a second chance but on after that last talk, he is very cold and distant from me.

I though that confessing to him how i felt was going to help but he said i kind of scared him off. Do you think he'll get over it and things can be back to normal like

Read Cancers and... "The Switch"

I'm sorry, but your true colors and desperation have turned him off. You better just ween yourself off now and not suffer the long, drawn out emotional heartache.
He may string you along until you get the hint.

Regardless... it will never be the way it was again

I have to say I feel your desperation too. I assumed most women with children would NEVER, EVER criticize a man for putting his children first, at least in the early stages of dating, when they are young AND at Christmas.

I dont know about the *switch* but I would say you had better start becoming more self assured, confident and less needy yourself. It is not attractive to a man at all. I do wish you good luck, thought.

PS..pls use paragraphs, wall o text is hard to read. 🙂