Telling a Cancer man you need time to re-evaluate your relationship when arguing....

hahahaha. Apparently, they REALLY don't like that. Totally different man for the last two days. Also told me if i ever said something like that again I'd never hear from him again. ANDDDDD had the audacity to tell me I had a lot of making up to do and to plan something. Is he fucking real?!?!. Crazy!!!! I'm not even mad. I'm just letting you ladies know dont ever say that! haha

I applaud that man for keeping you in check for saying that dumb shit LOL! 🙂

I had a girl say that to me once. In my mind, it meant that she wanted to break up with me. Because... that's usually what the fuck it means. It's usually like an extremely gentle way of saying it.

Oh, he checked my ass alright. I was actually really surprised by his strength in it. Was not fucking around.

In all seriousness. When I was with my Libra girl, she said that I just assumed it was over. I don't know if I just took it too seriously, but I tend to read between the lines alot. Even when there are no lines to read between.

So that's why he got super offended. He handled it better than I did actually. I didn't say anything when she told me. Needless to say, that didn't work out too well. But if I would have... I would have been an "asshole" right?

Posted by heliumfiasco
hahahaha. Apparently, they REALLY don't like that. Totally different man for the last two days. Also told me if i ever said something like that again I'd never hear from him again. ANDDDDD had the audacity to tell me I had a lot of making up to do and to plan something. Is he fucking real?!?!. Crazy!!!! I'm not even mad. I'm just letting you ladies know dont ever say that! haha

you like drama.

Posted by TeddyBearMD
In all seriousness. When I was with my Libra girl, she said that I just assumed it was over. I don't know if I just took it too seriously, but I tend to read between the lines alot. Even when there are no lines to read between.

Yep, you guys overthink yourself out of a relationship or a potential relationship.

He did!!! I said it out of frustration and I felt horrible by how he took it, and his reaction. He basically half-assed "broke up" with me, didn't speak to me for almost a day, and gave me a ration of shit when he finally did speak to me. I've said it to other men when arguing and they have NEVER taken it in such a way.

My Libra Sun, Gemini Moon just make me very flippant with stuff. I have to constantly remind myself that what i take very lightly, is very serious for him.

Posted by Canbullrius
The guy has an ego and is sensitive, you are basically using force on a person who can't handle it or at least not yet.

It takes a great deal of pain and tolerance for Cancers to not retaliate, in other words been through hell to become stronger, take it from me the only reason i said i would give you the space is because i would allow you to see what a devastating bitch you have been and will give you the cold shoulder until you sort your shit out.

I can use my Aquarius side well and my Taurus thick skin is hard to penetrate.

This is all very true of the situation! I definitely got a spanking and was for sure using force.

FYI... We are not broken up. We talked it out and I learned a hard lesson from my soft spoken Cancer man. Frankly, I respect him more for calling me on my shit. I just wanted to share with the board exactly what NOT to do! 🙂

At least he gave you a chance.

I had a female do that to me midday one day and I ended things that evening.