Anyone who has Cancer placements.. Do you do this sideways shuffle when comes to new love interests? Please state your placement, what do you do and how do you want the other person to respond?
The infamous "crab dance" anyone with Cancer placements who does this?
Seriously?
Posted by cIoudyLol isn't that more like a Libra or Pisces dance of indecision? ?
Seriously?
Posted by everlynnOh pretty please, with a ? On top share?
😆 with all the cancer placements I got, 😆 ??oh gee I just can't
Cancer sun ☀️
All the time. Last night for example. Met a guy at my brothers work party and was friendly at first. Some of us went out for more drinks at a bar. Then he showed too much interest and I tried to hide as much as I could. He kept popping up.
I like to chase, not be chased. So I like it when guys more slow.
Hope that's what you're talking about lol
All the time. Last night for example. Met a guy at my brothers work party and was friendly at first. Some of us went out for more drinks at a bar. Then he showed too much interest and I tried to hide as much as I could. He kept popping up.
I like to chase, not be chased. So I like it when guys more slow.
Hope that's what you're talking about lol
Posted by pinkbird03Yes I completely agree! Which is backward unfortunately since guys like to pursue and then feel shunned when we run away lol
Cancer sun ☀️
All the time. Last night for example. Met a guy at my brothers work party and was friendly at first. Some of us went out for more drinks at a bar. Then he showed too much interest and I tried to hide as much as I could. He kept popping up.
I like to chase, not be chased. So I like it when guys more slow.
Hope that's what you're talking about lol
Posted by MoonbutterYep. And I always feel bad because I'm not trying to hurt any feelings. I am just uncomfortable in that type of situation. That's why I really like this Capricorn. He's the only guy who moves slower than me ?Posted by pinkbird03Yes I completely agree! Which is backward unfortunately since guys like to pursue and then feel shunned when we run away lol
Cancer sun ☀️
All the time. Last night for example. Met a guy at my brothers work party and was friendly at first. Some of us went out for more drinks at a bar. Then he showed too much interest and I tried to hide as much as I could. He kept popping up.
I like to chase, not be chased. So I like it when guys more slow.
Hope that's what you're talking about lolclick to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Awe yup! Well I wish you and your cap the best ?Posted by MoonbutterYep. And I always feel bad because I'm not trying to hurt any feelings. I am just uncomfortable in that type of situation. That's why I really like this Capricorn. He's the only guy who moves slower than me ?Posted by pinkbird03Yes I completely agree! Which is backward unfortunately since guys like to pursue and then feel shunned when we run away lol
Cancer sun ☀️
All the time. Last night for example. Met a guy at my brothers work party and was friendly at first. Some of us went out for more drinks at a bar. Then he showed too much interest and I tried to hide as much as I could. He kept popping up.
I like to chase, not be chased. So I like it when guys more slow.
Hope that's what you're talking about lolclick to expand
Posted by MoonbutterThanks! ?♥️Posted by pinkbird03Awe yup! Well I wish you and your cap the best ?Posted by MoonbutterYep. And I always feel bad because I'm not trying to hurt any feelings. I am just uncomfortable in that type of situation. That's why I really like this Capricorn. He's the only guy who moves slower than me ?Posted by pinkbird03Yes I completely agree! Which is backward unfortunately since guys like to pursue and then feel shunned when we run away lol
Cancer sun ☀️
All the time. Last night for example. Met a guy at my brothers work party and was friendly at first. Some of us went out for more drinks at a bar. Then he showed too much interest and I tried to hide as much as I could. He kept popping up.
I like to chase, not be chased. So I like it when guys more slow.
Hope that's what you're talking about lolclick to expand
Posted by everlynnBut you do know the dance in talking about right? About not being straightforward about your interest in someone, running away, etc?Posted by MoonbutterIt's not that I do that. It's just that I of all people in this world can't actually see myself dancing at all. That's why I laughed. It'll be funny me doing a side step crab dance.Posted by everlynnOh pretty please, with a ? On top share?
😆 with all the cancer placements I got, 😆 ??oh gee I just can't
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You mean this?! ?
Posted by DivaCanLeoWhat are your placements? And do you like the other person to "chase" once you are interested?
I do this. Especially in relationships that I deem serious. I hate rejection so I'll side step and do a dance about hard topics
Posted by nevesWtf that is freaky lol
You mean this?! ?
Posted by DivaCanLeoYes lol exactly ??Posted by MoonbutterYes I think so. Funny. I also like the chase and can play coy when being chased.Posted by DivaCanLeoWhat are your placements? And do you like the other person to "chase" once you are interested?
I do this. Especially in relationships that I deem serious. I hate rejection so I'll side step and do a dance about hard topics
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I've just realized I'm doing the crab walk a lot lately. Like almost as if it's my New Years resolution. I'm just so tired of guys trying to control me and the relationship by trying to pressure me more or less to move faster than I want to. In the past, I've gone along with it just to keep them happy, but not anymore.
Posted by MoonbutterNot for someone at that age - who has some practice (either she increased the mobility of her ligaments by doing moves like that or it could be a case double-jointedness). ^^Posted by nevesWtf that is freaky lol
You mean this?! ?click to expand
Can't say that i'm familiar with the crab dance (despite of having the ASC in Crab), but... i do know another famous dance - where people imitate a water creature - "the Penguin Dance (quite popular at weddings - at least in some parts of Europe)":
😄!
I know this dance all too well because I'm an expert at it unfortunately 😄 If I feel a man in hot pursuit of me I run: avoid him by being on my phone more when in his presence and being quick in conversation with him. A capricorn called me out on it once "I know you running from me".....gasp i became a sprinter after that. unfortunately this is something that is so hard to overcome, like am i supposed to just stand there and let his man prowess trump all over me?!
I'm cancer sun, merc, mars so yeah
Posted by whateverthemoonsaysDo you like the girl to pursue and if she does do you still run the other way?
I'm cancer sun, merc, mars so yeah
Posted by MoonbutterNope, I prefer to pursue at my own crabby pace. Could never stand aggressive women.Posted by whateverthemoonsaysDo you like the girl to pursue and if she does do you still run the other way?
I'm cancer sun, merc, mars so yeahclick to expand
Posted by whateverthemoonsaysHaha I see... Do you like to go slow start out friends first?Posted by MoonbutterNope, I prefer to pursue at my own crabby pace. Could never stand aggressive women.Posted by whateverthemoonsaysDo you like the girl to pursue and if she does do you still run the other way?
I'm cancer sun, merc, mars so yeahclick to expand
Posted by MoonbutterDon't think I'm the best subject for this topic (little relationship experience), but I'm very slow.Posted by whateverthemoonsaysHaha I see... Do you like to go slow start out friends first?Posted by MoonbutterNope, I prefer to pursue at my own crabby pace. Could never stand aggressive women.Posted by whateverthemoonsaysDo you like the girl to pursue and if she does do you still run the other way?
I'm cancer sun, merc, mars so yeahclick to expand
Posted by MoonbutterDon't think I'm the best subject for this topic (little relationship experience), but I'm very slow.Posted by whateverthemoonsaysHaha I see... Do you like to go slow start out friends first?Posted by MoonbutterNope, I prefer to pursue at my own crabby pace. Could never stand aggressive women.Posted by whateverthemoonsaysDo you like the girl to pursue and if she does do you still run the other way?
I'm cancer sun, merc, mars so yeahclick to expand
Posted by whateverthemoonsaysOk, well thanks anyway ?Posted by MoonbutterDon't think I'm the best subject for this topic (little relationship experience), but I'm very slow.Posted by whateverthemoonsaysHaha I see... Do you like to go slow start out friends first?Posted by MoonbutterNope, I prefer to pursue at my own crabby pace. Could never stand aggressive women.Posted by whateverthemoonsaysDo you like the girl to pursue and if she does do you still run the other way?
I'm cancer sun, merc, mars so yeah
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Posted by cIoudyLooks like fun
Seriously?
Posted by whateverthemoonsayslike 6-7 months? at least? 🙂Posted by MoonbutterDon't think I'm the best subject for this topic (little relationship experience), but I'm very slow.Posted by whateverthemoonsaysHaha I see... Do you like to go slow start out friends first?Posted by MoonbutterNope, I prefer to pursue at my own crabby pace. Could never stand aggressive women.Posted by whateverthemoonsaysDo you like the girl to pursue and if she does do you still run the other way?
I'm cancer sun, merc, mars so yeah
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So wait a second, I don't get it. Cancers don't like to pursue (as they want to move to their own pace) and yet they don't make a move/ show interest easily because they fear rejection.
What the hell? I mean how are you even supposed to deal with a Cancer? Damned if you chase, damned if you wait..
What the hell? I mean how are you even supposed to deal with a Cancer? Damned if you chase, damned if you wait..
I am a cancer Sun and Mercury and I definitely do the sidestep.
If a guy comes on too strong and makes it super obvious that he's interested before I know for sure that I am interested I will sidestep - until I make a decision one way or another.
If I am in the beginning stages of a relationship where it has been determined that there is a mutual interest and then I start to feel that his signals are inconsistent I will sidestep - until I see consistency or walk away.
If I am in a long term relationship and start to question feelings on either side I will sidestep - at least long enough to think things through at my own pace.
If a guy comes on too strong and makes it super obvious that he's interested before I know for sure that I am interested I will sidestep - until I make a decision one way or another.
If I am in the beginning stages of a relationship where it has been determined that there is a mutual interest and then I start to feel that his signals are inconsistent I will sidestep - until I see consistency or walk away.
If I am in a long term relationship and start to question feelings on either side I will sidestep - at least long enough to think things through at my own pace.
Posted by CybeleRisingYup^^^ and I have Mercury cancer and sun as well ?
I am a cancer Sun and Mercury and I definitely do the sidestep.
If a guy comes on too strong and makes it super obvious that he's interested before I know for sure that I am interested I will sidestep - until I make a decision one way or another.
If I am in the beginning stages of a relationship where it has been determined that there is a mutual interest and then I start to feel that his signals are inconsistent I will sidestep - until I see consistency or walk away.
If I am in a long term relationship and start to question feelings on either side I will sidestep - at least long enough to think things through at my own pace.
Posted by ondaspYes, your best bet is to be around and "grow on them" good luck! Hahahaha
So wait a second, I don't get it. Cancers don't like to pursue (as they want to move to their own pace) and yet they don't make a move/ show interest easily because they fear rejection.
What the hell? I mean how are you even supposed to deal with a Cancer? Damned if you chase, damned if you wait..
Lol I would say I am pretty back and forth with my emotions even after a year of dating someone! I never know how I will feel the next day and if I still even want to be with them. I'm still working stuff out but I can agree with "crab dancing" that Cancers tend to do 😆
Posted by ondaspFor me personally I am most comfortable if a guy shows interest and then steps back to give me time to think things through, if I am even remotely interested in him and the situation permits I will likely pursue to see where it could go. From there my best relationships were formed out of communication and reciprocation. I never felt like anyone was doing the pursuing.
So wait a second, I don't get it. Cancers don't like to pursue (as they want to move to their own pace) and yet they don't make a move/ show interest easily because they fear rejection.
What the hell? I mean how are you even supposed to deal with a Cancer? Damned if you chase, damned if you wait..
I've been interested in a Virgo guy for years but we can never get on the same page. He pursues, steps back...I pursue, he hides...I disappear, he pursues. We never seem to be able to get on the same page.
Posted by CybeleRisingUgh I completely understand, unfortunately ?Posted by ondaspFor me personally I am most comfortable if a guy shows interest and then steps back to give me time to think things through, if I am even remotely interested in him and the situation permits I will likely pursue to see where it could go. From there my best relationships were formed out of communication and reciprocation. I never felt like anyone was doing the pursuing.
So wait a second, I don't get it. Cancers don't like to pursue (as they want to move to their own pace) and yet they don't make a move/ show interest easily because they fear rejection.
What the hell? I mean how are you even supposed to deal with a Cancer? Damned if you chase, damned if you wait..
I've been interested in a Virgo guy for years but we can never get on the same page. He pursues, steps back...I pursue, he hides...I disappear, he pursues. We never seem to be able to get on the same page.click to expand
Posted by blackphaseNot being straightforward with your feelings... Waiting to see interest from the other person, and if not confirmed then exhibiting some hot/cold behaviour as you try to "get over it" but still like the person so you flirt and well it's a mess lol.
What do you mean exactly by sideways shuffle?
Cancer Mars & Venus here.
Posted by blackphaseI'm actually not surprised with your placements though... You have the same Mars and Venusian energy.Posted by MoonbutterI am very straight forward with my feelings and I make it obvious when I am interested so that no one is left guessing.. And I am a Gemini Sun even 😛Posted by blackphaseNot being straightforward with your feelings... Waiting to see interest from the other person, and if not confirmed then exhibiting some hot/cold behaviour as you try to "get over it" but still like the person so you flirt and well it's a mess lol.
What do you mean exactly by sideways shuffle?
Cancer Mars & Venus here.
We can maybe thank all my Scorp bits for that though. Hahaclick to expand
Having been dealing with a Cancer lately, I noticed that I ended up doing the Crab dance myself! I am Taurus sun, Gemini ascendent and normally I would be quite straightforward and open about my feelings. Definitely not a Crab dance type of woman!
This time around though, since the Cancer guy is most definitely doing a Crab dance, I feel like not showing my interest openly and pulling back, because I am afraid not to be reciprocated. It is retarded!
This guy is turning me into a Crab!
This time around though, since the Cancer guy is most definitely doing a Crab dance, I feel like not showing my interest openly and pulling back, because I am afraid not to be reciprocated. It is retarded!
This guy is turning me into a Crab!
Posted by ondaspHaha awe...how long have you guys been doing this?
Having been dealing with a Cancer lately, I noticed that I ended up doing the Crab dance myself! I am Taurus sun, Gemini ascendent and normally I would be quite straightforward and open about my feelings. Definitely not a Crab dance type of woman!
This time around though, since the Cancer guy is most definitely doing a Crab dance, I feel like not showing my interest openly and pulling back, because I am afraid not to be reciprocated. It is retarded!
This guy is turning me into a Crab!
Posted by MoonbutterThree months, with breaks forced by this guy's frequent business trips. Now we are back at the office after the Christmas break and the Crab-dance is on again.Posted by ondaspHaha awe...how long have you guys been doing this?
Having been dealing with a Cancer lately, I noticed that I ended up doing the Crab dance myself! I am Taurus sun, Gemini ascendent and normally I would be quite straightforward and open about my feelings. Definitely not a Crab dance type of woman!
This time around though, since the Cancer guy is most definitely doing a Crab dance, I feel like not showing my interest openly and pulling back, because I am afraid not to be reciprocated. It is retarded!
This guy is turning me into a Crab!click to expand
He stares at me, hangs out around my desk for no reason (but generally does not dare to speak directly to me) and he awkwardly waited for me in front of the elevator to ask me how I was and inform me that he really liked all the pics I posted on social media during the holidays (stalker much..?).
I predict he'll message me again within a couple of days.
I told myself no more Crab dancing in 2017 but I just can't resist..
Posted by ondaspHaha yup! Well he likes you so whatcha waiting for?Posted by MoonbutterThree months, with breaks forced by this guy's frequent business trips. Now we are back at the office after the Christmas break and the Crab-dance is on again.Posted by ondaspHaha awe...how long have you guys been doing this?
Having been dealing with a Cancer lately, I noticed that I ended up doing the Crab dance myself! I am Taurus sun, Gemini ascendent and normally I would be quite straightforward and open about my feelings. Definitely not a Crab dance type of woman!
This time around though, since the Cancer guy is most definitely doing a Crab dance, I feel like not showing my interest openly and pulling back, because I am afraid not to be reciprocated. It is retarded!
This guy is turning me into a Crab!
He stares at me, hangs out around my desk for no reason (but generally does not dare to speak directly to me) and he awkwardly waited for me in front of the elevator to ask me how I was and inform me that he really liked all the pics I posted on social media during the holidays (stalker much..?).
I predict he'll message me again within a couple of days.
I told myself no more Crab dancing in 2017 but I just can't resist..
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I don't know, I am scared I guess. I am afraid that what I call "Crab dance" is actually just a lack of real interest.
I am a bit old school and I tend to assume that if a guy is into you he'll come get you, and if he does not come get you that means he does not want to.
I am a bit old school and I tend to assume that if a guy is into you he'll come get you, and if he does not come get you that means he does not want to.
Posted by ondaspI get it... But the whole reason for the crab dance is to protect our feelings so he is scared as well. Someone will have to brave through this...
I don't know, I am scared I guess. I am afraid that what I call "Crab dance" is actually just a lack of real interest.
I am a bit old school and I tend to assume that if a guy is into you he'll come get you, and if he does not come get you that means he does not want to.
I'm currently talking to a guy who is a cancer moon and I think he is doing this crab dance. How do you think you can give a cancer enough confidence to stop going back and forth?
The side step waltz? You becha. I am never direct with a romantic interest. I flirt by doing nice things and using playful sarcasm, and using any windows of opportunity to give them a compliment. It is actually really quite easy to know I am interested without me having to spell it out. I simply act in a way towards her that I do not towards anybody else.
Now getting the ones that I am interested in to be interested in me? When I figure that out, I'll let you know.
Now getting the ones that I am interested in to be interested in me? When I figure that out, I'll let you know.
Posted by ondasp"... I tend to assume that if a guy is into you he'll come get you, and if he does not come get you that means he does not want to."
I don't know, I am scared I guess. I am afraid that what I call "Crab dance" is actually just a lack of real interest.
I am a bit old school and I tend to assume that if a guy is into you he'll come get you, and if he does not come get you that means he does not want to.
Remember, cancer guys work other way around. The more he likes you, the weirder and more insecure he becomes, and the less direct he will be. Nice, isn't it. I love it.
Posted by MissMBe consistent and try not to go cold when they do... Stay warm and responsive.
I'm currently talking to a guy who is a cancer moon and I think he is doing this crab dance. How do you think you can give a cancer enough confidence to stop going back and forth?
Posted by Moonbutter^^ Yep, don't go cold when he does and it won't take long to see how he feels. If you stay consistent and we like you, we will stop going cold. If you stay consistent and we don't like you we will avoid you completely.Posted by MissMBe consistent and try not to go cold when they do... Stay warm and responsive.
I'm currently talking to a guy who is a cancer moon and I think he is doing this crab dance. How do you think you can give a cancer enough confidence to stop going back and forth?click to expand
Posted by mariannlittlebeHaha yes....Posted by ondasp"... I tend to assume that if a guy is into you he'll come get you, and if he does not come get you that means he does not want to."
I don't know, I am scared I guess. I am afraid that what I call "Crab dance" is actually just a lack of real interest.
I am a bit old school and I tend to assume that if a guy is into you he'll come get you, and if he does not come get you that means he does not want to.
Remember, cancer guys work other way around. The more he likes you, the weirder and more insecure he becomes, and the less direct he will be. Nice, isn't it. I love it.click to expand
Posted by CybeleRisingPosted by Moonbutter^^ Yep, don't go cold when he does and it won't take long to see how he feels. If you stay consistent and we like you, we will stop going cold. If you stay consistent and we don't like you we will avoid you completely.Posted by MissMBe consistent and try not to go cold when they do... Stay warm and responsive.
I'm currently talking to a guy who is a cancer moon and I think he is doing this crab dance. How do you think you can give a cancer enough confidence to stop going back and forth?click to expand
Ohh good one! Yes I suppose that is a good way to gauge interest from us. Imagine a Cancer trying to get with a Venus in Cancer ... Venus in Cancer acts the same as a Cancer sun in terms of love, right?
I'm a mars in cancer, venus in gemini....
Well this guy txts me practically everyday, good morning and stuff like that but he just doesn't ask me out. He told me he was usually really shy so maybe thats why..
Well this guy txts me practically everyday, good morning and stuff like that but he just doesn't ask me out. He told me he was usually really shy so maybe thats why..
Posted by MissMI've got mars in cancer and venus in gemini as well..
I'm a mars in cancer, venus in gemini....
Well this guy txts me practically everyday, good morning and stuff like that but he just doesn't ask me out. He told me he was usually really shy so maybe thats why..
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