THOU HE IS BCK BUT IT SEAMS HE YET .........

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by coumari on Wednesday, October 19, 2011 and has 29 replies.

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@coumari
15 Years

NEEDS TO MARRY ME !!
I was happy he is bck but as a friend !!

When he once removed me from MSN, he said he dont feel good when he talk to me.i knew he was lying.
Now,i feel that he yet love me.I do adore him.but my love is different from his.
am 27 yrs and he is 23 yrs old.

I cant and wount marry him !! but i adore him.
i dont knw how to face such situation not to hurt him so he wount go bck !!!and am sure he is suffering for such love.

he told me to listen to song for eminem called Sopace bound

when am listening to that song,i got the feeling he is saying that words to me.

OMG !!can you help please —

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@coumari
15 Years

OMG !! NOOOOOOOO why to ? I lots adore him nd i prefer to hurt myself instead.i dont like 2 do anything that makes him feel bad or hurt him !!!!!

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@lildol
17 Years5,000+ Posts

coumari, you need to stop! You're pining over a man who is just not that into you. He says "go" and you jump, give it a rest. And calm that airy thing you got going on as well. It hurts my head to read your posts (no offense). Do you have any earth in your chart at all to ground you— There must be something somewhere, try to feed on that aspect!

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@iheartnerdyboyz
14 Years

Rejection hurts, and no matter how you reject someone it will hurt...

He will hurt, being a Cancer he will be hurt for a long time...Spacebound is a pretty intense song. I see how he feels about you.

He will be in pain....but he will get over it.

Tell him its over for good. Do not answer his calls anymore, do not contact him. DOn't be his friend. Let him move on, without you.

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@coumari
15 Years

@ lildol !!! please read whats written above and thank you ;D

@ iheartnerdyboyz

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@lildol
17 Years5,000+ Posts

Coumari, I've read all your posts about this guy... he doesn't want to marry you! He blocked you for how long and suddenly friends you again then wants to marry you? Open your eyes. He's tugging at your heart strings - stringing you along. He's getting needed attention that he desires at this point. Don't fall victim!!!

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@coumari
15 Years

He blocked me for a month and few days.thn accpted FR nd ask such.i adore him like afriend thou he is yet so young.But,i cant hurt him !! Thou,i went days so hurt bcs he blocked me.whn he is bck,i dont need to lose him again but as a FRIEND !!!

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@cokekitty
15 Years

Coumari - you are talking out of both sides of your mouth. You love him, you want him, you need him - you don't want to marry him, you just want to be his friend. You are extremely confusing and also VERY needy. It's understandable that he blocked you. Crabs don't like animated theatrics, in fact, they RUN from them. YOU sent him the friend request after HE blocked you. Just because he's being receptive doesn't mean that he feels all of the deep feelings that he previously had for you. And for the love of cheese and crackers, please calm down. You're scaring the crabs.

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@coumari
15 Years

:O no iam not scary.he is 23 years old and am 27 yrs.so thats my main reason :/
But at same time dunt need to lose him.i love him 🙂

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@cokekitty
15 Years

Posted by coumari
:O no iam not scary.he is 23 years old and am 27 yrs.so thats my main reason :/
But at same time dunt need to lose him.i love him 🙂

Huh? Point proven ^^. What does age have to do with anything? And I didn't say YOU were scary, I said you are scaring the crabs away with your dramatical posts.

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@coumari
15 Years

Hahaha !! I meant i hope no am not scaring them :/ aww he is yet a small kid >

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@littlearcher
15 Years

even if you don't mean to hurt him, if you communicate with him in a way that is stressful or dramatic, that will hurt him.

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@lildol
17 Years5,000+ Posts

air much?

Not possible, hurt him, it's ok, we all need a little pain in our lives. Your posts is mine currently... not that it in anyway is beneficial or helping me grow as pain should. *gets gun*

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@coumari
15 Years

Hahahahaha !! cant stop laughing guys 🙂

NO,i would never hurt him.he is so sweet,sensitive 🙂
dunno how to face such situation :/
and sure i adore him instead him loadssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss xDDD

@ lildol have pity please on him.nooo.U right we all need a little pain in our lives biu not from me lol xDD

@iwin32 🙂 hahahaha nah at all lol 🙂

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@virgodreamz
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Well wait till he proposes to you in person with a ring before busting out a thousand "what should I do" posts like a drama queen on meth. Cuz pretty much until then you got nothing. With a lot of Cancer guys it's not about whats being said it's about whats being done.
Also how do you know this guy? I'm starting to wonder if you met through your email's spam folder with a message that had "Urgent your help needed in exchange for 7million USD from your Nigerian fairy god friend" as the subject heading.

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@virgodreamz
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Oops sorry I wasn't trying to be a b*tch. I just thought because of the language barrier with Coumari the more blunt the better.

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@nimbue
15 Years1,000+ Posts

nah don't worry, it was typical virgo wit. the 'drama queen on meth' part killed me xD

i like coumari though! i guess she'll keep us posted for the next development 😉