Want to know if he's interested?

For all of you ladies who have recendly been posting, asking for advice on weather or not the male crab in your life is interested...

I was reading this book tonight that a friend let me borrow, it's called The Astrolotwin's Love Zodiac: The Essential Astrology Guide For Women by Tali and Ophira Edut and I stumbled across this section under the male crab that I found to be essentially 100% true (in my case & I'm sure many other women who've dated crabs will agree)

So if you're wonderfing if he's interested, according to this book...

. Het gets physical, touching your arm or wrist while he talks.
. He puts his arm around you, hugs you, or pulls you close.
. He hangs on every word you say and gets really involved in he conversation.
. He calls you to "see how you're doing" -- a gentle, well-being check-up.
. He gets all gentlemanly--opening doors, kissing your hand, walking you home.
. He offers to help you with an issue or household project.
. He listens to you vent about your loser ex (he's competitive and loves to one-up other men)
. He asks your freinds about you behind your back (his "rejection protection" strategy)
. He asks deliberate questions designed to help him figure you out.
. He invites you to join him for a cultural event or a well planned date.
. He offers to bring lunch over to your home or office.

My crab did all (in exception of maybe one or two) of these things when he was courting me.
If the male cancer in question does more than a few of these listed above, I'd say--he's more than likely very interested in you.

Let me shave your head and torture you. 🙂

My crab didn't, and still doesn't, do half the things listed. He's a guy. I have to be direct with my needs and wants or he's oblivious. He's definitely not chivalrous by nature but is accommodating when I request anything. He also did, and still does, his own "dirty work" (meaning he pursues what he wants assertively and independently).

Posted by PixieDust
For all of you ladies who have recendly been posting, asking for advice on weather or not the male crab in your life is interested...

... if you look like PixieDust's picture

ALL guys will be interested
...even if they only want to do your hair.

". He asks deliberate questions designed to help him figure you out"

^ ^ ^ This I actually found to be mildly disturbing after a while. My crabby asked me TONS of questions, and I thought they were all just for fun, but he was actually DEAD serious about them... like, make or break it serious. He asked me questions like "Do you believe people have a soul/spirit?" and, "Would you ever live far out in the country?", it seemed like the more I talked, the more he tried to draw out information from me. But stupid me, I'm sitting here jabbering away, freely throwing out personal information while he just soaks it all in.

I felt like he was soaking up all of my words like a spunge, just sitting back and casually commiting it all to memory. So ladies, be careful what you let fly off your tongue!

I dunno about them being selfish or stengy with their money because my Dad is a cancer, and he's that way with everyone else, but not his immidiate family. Well now that my brother and sister are grown and living on there own he doesn't just willingly give them any money, they have to absolutely NEED it. When he and my mom were married he spoiled her rotten. And if he didnt give what she wanted she'd write a check out of the joint acct and he'd put the money back anyway. With me i always get what i want from my Dad if he has it. Now Cancer guys i think if they are in love they will have no problem spoiling the woman they love, but it is true they have their limits. But if you have access to his funds, do your thing, he may fuss but he's as soft as mush, he has more anyway or has already made moves to get more. So no worries.

Posted by pinklibra
I dunno about them being selfish or stengy with their money because my Dad is a cancer, and he's that way with everyone else, but not his immidiate family. Well now that my brother and sister are grown and living on there own he doesn't just willingly give them any money, they have to absolutely NEED it. When he and my mom were married he spoiled her rotten. And if he didnt give what she wanted she'd write a check out of the joint acct and he'd put the money back anyway. With me i always get what i want from my Dad if he has it. Now Cancer guys i think if they are in love they will have no problem spoiling the woman they love, but it is true they have their limits. But if you have access to his funds, do your thing, he may fuss but he's as soft as mush, he has more anyway or has already made moves to get more. So no worries.

If you have access to our funds, rest assured our real bank account is hidden far away from you.

lol. If he's married he can hide them all he wants. Thats why its called joint acct. At least thats what my parenst had. Mom didnt care bout him saying no, she'd just write a ck, and my dad hated when she did that, so he'd give up the loot. But with my cancer dates, they've never been selfish with the loot with me. They actually spoil me, but both were head over heels for me so...mayb i jus have that effect...lol