What would you wanna know on the first date?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Ripe on Wednesday, May 20, 2020 and has 38 replies.

Key Questions to Ask on a First Date

On a first date, it is helpful to ask about their interests, values, and goals. These questions reveal compatibility and help build a connection. Focus on topics that encourage open conversation and mutual understanding to make a good impression and determine if there's potential for a future relationship.

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@Ripe
6 Years

Posted by Scheherazade

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Posted by Undine

His date of birth, lol

How would one casually go about asking that?

Asking for a friend.

Hey, I’m getting into Astro for fun, want me to read your chart?

Works like a charm. People like to be told about themselves.

Haven’t had anyone say no.

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From my experience, astrology, or the belief in it, tends to rub some people the wrong way.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Ripe

Posted by Undine

His date of birth, lol

How would one casually go about asking that?

Asking for a friend.

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Quite straightforward, lol:

How old are you? (you should know this even before the date)

When is your birthday?

Or, slightly indirect:

What's your sun sign? And what's your moon sign? You don't know....? Well, moon is very important. It's about your emotional life. I could find your moon, if you tell me your birthday.

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@Ripe
6 Years

Posted by Undine

Posted by Ripe

Posted by Scheherazade

Posted by Ripe

Posted by Undine

His date of birth, lol

How would one casually go about asking that?

Asking for a friend.

Hey, I’m getting into Astro for fun, want me to read your chart?

Works like a charm. People like to be told about themselves.

Haven’t had anyone say no.

From my experience, astrology, or the belief in it, tends to rub some people the wrong way.

Neeeeeext!

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Well, she's a psychiatrist. I'm assuming stuff.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Ripe

Posted by Undine

Posted by Ripe

Posted by Scheherazade

Posted by Ripe

Posted by Undine

His date of birth, lol

How would one casually go about asking that?

Asking for a friend.

Hey, I’m getting into Astro for fun, want me to read your chart?

Works like a charm. People like to be told about themselves.

Haven’t had anyone say no.

From my experience, astrology, or the belief in it, tends to rub some people the wrong way.

Neeeeeext!

Well, she's a psychiatrist. I'm assuming stuff.

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Well, I'm a scientist. Don't assume anything 🙂

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@Ripe
6 Years

How wrong would it be if I actually told her that I kind of turned her down 4-5 years ago?

She's a friend of a friend who really wanted to introduce us together cause she thought we're a great match. I turned the idea down when I found out that shes a psychiatrist. Kind of freaked me out... I mean, how would our arguments go?

Fast forward some years and my sister really wants to introduce me to someone cause she thinks that we're a great match. It's the same person...

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@Ripe
6 Years

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Posted by Marai

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If you had the choice of surviving on nothing but ketchup for one day, or being tortured to death this very moment.. which would you choose?

Ketchup obviously. You can go without food for a few days easily

NEXT!

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What kind of sadistic shit are you on, buddy?

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Ripe

How wrong would it be if I actually told her that I kind of turned her down 4-5 years ago?

She's a friend of a friend who really wanted to introduce us together cause she thought we're a great match. I turned the idea down when I found out that shes a psychiatrist. Kind of freaked me out... I mean, how would our arguments go?

Fast forward some years and my sister really wants to introduce me to someone cause she thinks that we're a great match. It's the same person...

But why...? She's not a psychologist!

She's used to really mad people! She may be the only one to consider you normal, by the sheer power of contrast 😄

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@Ripe
6 Years

Posted by Scheherazade

Posted by Ripe

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Marai

Posted by _Dazed

If you had the choice of surviving on nothing but ketchup for one day, or being tortured to death this very moment.. which would you choose?

Ketchup obviously. You can go without food for a few days easily

NEXT!

What kind of sadistic shit are you on, buddy?

You won’t understand, you aren’t a Scorpio

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Babe,

Sun in Cancer

Moon in Sag/Scorpio (Don't know my actual time of birth)

Venus in Cancer

Mars in Scorpio

Saturn in Scorpio

I think I know something about it...

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@sweetpea2977
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by MareInfame

I HATE going on dates... and hate the interview feeling of a date.

I prefer going out with people I’ve been observing for a while, so people from my environment.

If we do go on a date, I don’t want to know anything - I probably won’t believe you, anyway... so best just to let go of expectations and make the best of the moment. I’d rather focus on the present moment and having fun... see how we flow and keep it as natural as possible.

This is me! Questions are boring.

Let's go w the flow of a natural conversation splashed w some laughter.

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@pinkbird03
10 Years5,000+ Posts

I’ve been talking to a guy and we have a first date scheduled for Monday. I just wanna know if we have the same attraction and chemistry in person as we do on the phone.

I already know everything else cuz he texts me nonstop.