libralotus
@libralotus
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Whats your opinion of my ex?
Avoid temptation.
Nothing more dangerous than a man/woman who does not know what they want.
Best to keep your distance and move on and let him figure it out.
Best to keep your distance and move on and let him figure it out.
Posted by leowww
You should ask yourself why do you keep going back to someone who treats you poorly like that. Even now you're questioning if you should go back for more heartbreak...
You should love yourself more. He dumps you and you're the on who chases after him... Doesn't that hurt your pride? Maybe you believe you deserve to be treated this way.
A lot of it's because I betrayed him and was the reason why we broke up the first time. I guess the guilt and the need for redemption is why I go back.
You should focus more on accountability for your own actions. Most of your posts come across as whiny, and are phrased as you being a helpless victim of circumstances beyond your control, despite your insistence of being grown up.
Time to grow up, honey.
Posted by bumboklattHe definetely knows he has the upper hand. I'm just bait and I'm so damn bad at letting people go so its even worse >.
I used to be in a relationship like that. I was just like him.
She kept coming back and we got along as friends so we just kept trying to make it work, but the whole time I knew she had that guilt so I had the upper hand.
After that I vowed to never take advantage like that cause it just drains both people (even if he doesent see it that way)
Posted by bumboklattShe can't. Libras are notorious for sticking around in shitty situations. They seem to practically get off on this shit, which is sad. :/Posted by libralotusyou libras make up for the rest of the worlds shittiness. You guys really balance out everything lolPosted by bumboklattHe definetely knows he has the upper hand. I'm just bait and I'm so damn bad at letting people go so its even worse >.<
I used to be in a relationship like that. I was just like him.
She kept coming back and we got along as friends so we just kept trying to make it work, but the whole time I knew she had that guilt so I had the upper hand.
After that I vowed to never take advantage like that cause it just drains both people (even if he doesent see it that way)
use your LIBRA love on someone who will give it back
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Posted by rockyroadicecreambasically :') i can always depend on you for brutally honest advice thoughPosted by bumboklattShe can't. Libras are notorious for sticking around in shitty situations. They seem to practically get off on this shit, which is sad. :/Posted by libralotusyou libras make up for the rest of the worlds shittiness. You guys really balance out everything lolPosted by bumboklattHe definetely knows he has the upper hand. I'm just bait and I'm so damn bad at letting people go so its even worse >.<
I used to be in a relationship like that. I was just like him.
She kept coming back and we got along as friends so we just kept trying to make it work, but the whole time I knew she had that guilt so I had the upper hand.
After that I vowed to never take advantage like that cause it just drains both people (even if he doesent see it that way)
use your LIBRA love on someone who will give it back
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Posted by bumboklattDon't start that lying on the Cancer board now.
you libras make up for the rest of the worlds shittiness. You guys really balance out everything lol
use your LIBRA love on someone who will give it back
Libras are good at playing victim.
That is all.
You can fall for it on the Aqua board and feed her ego there but don't spread that mess this way.
That's why there's everything but Cancers replying to her. That's like Scorpios come here saying their Cancer left them and they didn't do anything - I'm suuure. &I'm pretty sure she doesn't care for us Cancers either, she's just coming around here because she wants something - validation saying he's the bad guy.
Posted by libralotusPosted by leowww
You should ask yourself why do you keep going back to someone who treats you poorly like that. Even now you're questioning if you should go back for more heartbreak...
You should love yourself more. He dumps you and you're the on who chases after him... Doesn't that hurt your pride? Maybe you believe you deserve to be treated this way.
A lot of it's because I betrayed him and was the reason why we broke up the first time. I guess the guilt and the need for redemption is why I go back.click to expand
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You can work out feelings of redemption and guilt in a therapist office where the feelings can be resolved not acted out. It is apparent that your relationships issues require the assistance of a professional. Regardless of your reasons for returning, or his dysfunction, you are just as sick as he is for participating in this situation.
I betrayed my Aquarius in the beginning and he still pursues me. Your guy doesn't want you, and you are having a hard time accepting his rejection or ambivalence. It sound like you are acting out some childhood issue. It sounds to me like you are in the throes of love addiction and you two are going around and around in the love addiction cycle. Read Facing Love Addiction - Pia Mellody. Also check out this spiritual fellowship - https://slaafws.org
Posted by PearlsCompletely agree but this shit won't even stick in the Aqua board. We see through them as well.Posted by bumboklattDon't start that lying on the Cancer board now.
you libras make up for the rest of the worlds shittiness. You guys really balance out everything lol
use your LIBRA love on someone who will give it back
Libras are good at playing victim.
That is all.
You can fall for it on the Aqua board and feed her ego there but don't spread that mess this way.
That's why there's everything but Cancers replying to her. That's like Scorpios come here saying their Cancer left them and they didn't do anything - I'm suuure. &I'm pretty sure she doesn't care for us Cancers either, she's just coming around here because she wants something - validation saying he's the bad guy.click to expand
What I wanna know from the OP is, is this the same cancer guy she was dating just recently who was a total homebody and didn't go out much? Or is this an ex from the past who also happens to be cancer?
Only advice that never fails-dont listen to what he says, this is how women get sucked back in. Judge him by his actions. Think out of the situation-your daughter/friend/sister going through it. Do you see this guy as being good for her? Her wellbeing? Is she happy?
Trust yourself. You know what you deserve. Maybe its not what you need/ready for right now and subconsciously it "suits" you to be in an on/off type of thing?
Trust yourself. You know what you deserve. Maybe its not what you need/ready for right now and subconsciously it "suits" you to be in an on/off type of thing?
I don't really understand what's going on here. Are you sure he's not just coming back every once in a while just for the intimacy?
Sorry to answer the original Q, personally it seems like he is still emotionally immature. Maybe he wants a fwb type of thing? Maybe not ready for commitment and he needs an "out" every now and then. Or he could just be an asshole and using you for when he needs his needs met. Think about yourself! Selfish words from a Libra 😉
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