would you get upset....

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by agent006 on Monday, September 18, 2006 and has 12 replies.

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@cancimini
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Yes, I'd get upset. I would feel kinda dumb... But when that person says hi the next time, or tries to explain why (it seemed like) he/she didn't say hi, I'd forget about it real quickly! 🙂

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@agent006
20 Years500+ PostsVirgo

damn, so i guess he really is upset...well this bites. so how do you go about fixing this? i feel that if i approach him and start explaining myself i'd start feeling like a moron because we don't know each other at all. we would occasionally cross paths at work and never say hi, someitmes a nod and a slight smile if we meet eyes. but other than this, we act like the other is non-existent. cancimini, i'm praying he's like you, it would make it a lot easier on me if all i had to do was say hi to him next time to erase this tension.

MercInAries, i'm a virgo btw.

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@cancerLA
20 Years500+ Posts

I'd be only slightly annoyed....wouldn't make a big deal of it as far as getting angry........of course I'd never initiate conversation wtih them again.

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@agent006
20 Years500+ PostsVirgo

thank you for replying everyone, we'll see where this goes. guess i'll say hi the next time i see him...(then lure him into a corner and strip if he's still upset.....j/k.)

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@sweetbabes
19 Years

For me? nope! I don't care, if i say Hi! to a person and no reply. So?...With regards to his pouting, maybe he just want to get your attention.

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@NotYourTypicalCancer
20 Years

It does annoy me when I say Hi to people and they don't respond back. I wouldn't even try to greet them anymore, unless that person initiated the greeting. Then I would be all smiles and forget about the previous incident.

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@moonmaiden68
21 Years

Yup..It would hurt my feelings and I would pout I'm sure, but just as everyone else, the minute you came up to me to apologize or even just talk to me, I would forget all about it - especially if I like you 🙂

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@RainingPeanuts
19 Years500+ Posts

If I was you I'd just go up to him the next time I saw him and wave frantically infront of his face "Hellllooooooo, how do you like this? Better ey?" 😄 In a joking manner of course.

Then I'd say "Oh and by the way, how rude of you to not acknowledge my soft-spoken attempt at a sultry, sexy Hiiii last week LOL" Then I'd tone it down so he wouldn't freak out... I can be such a goof hahahahah haa

I get that complaint all the time "I saw you and waved and you didn't even say HI" I'm always too wrapped up with my thoughts to even see people talking to me that are sometimes RIGHT INFRONT OF ME! LOL And sometimes I'll just mutter something and keep doing what I'm doing... I'm like a robot sometimes, I don't even realize it until LATER, sometimes the next day! Then I'm like "Oh wow, I saw so and so!" hahahah haha

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@agent006
20 Years500+ PostsVirgo

"Then I'd say "Oh and by the way, how rude of you to not acknowledge my soft-spoken attempt at a sultry, sexy Hiiii last week LOL" Then I'd tone it down so he wouldn't freak out..."

roflmao, RainingPeanuts, this is so funny!

sigh, he's ignoring me now, even though i try to meet his eye and try to say hello. and he's making it obvious too...man, you guys can be such buttheads sometimes (curse me for having such a soft spot for you carbs!)

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@Alana
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Agent006 - I think you are thinking yourself into a crisis here.....

I would jokingly put him "on the spot"......you simply saunter over to his desk, or whatever, perch yourself on it and catch him by the tie or chin, looking into his eyes and in a sulty sexy voice, say, "hey big boy, why are you ignoring me— Ignore me at your peril!!!!"....then laugh and walk off.....he'll either collapse into a puddle:-) at your cheekiness and/or be very impressed with your attitude:-) One way or another, you're top cat:-) Be an actor - not an reactor:-)

Good luck.

Alana x