You cancer guys are weird :P

My cancer friend came up to visit fri and before he left he gave me his pants lol.
Mind you these are his comfy fleece pants that he constantly when wearing says how much he loves them. I dont need pants specially his...they dont fit me anyway. Literally I can pull them over my head ...he is 6'3 and I'm 5'6 lol. I told him no take his damn pants and he kept insisting that I keep them for winter. So I took them and put them in my closest...i'm sure once he visits again he will want them back lol.

I just wanted to share this with you all...I thought it was funny!

you bunch of weirdos you 😛

p.s.
what do the pants symbolize? do you think he loves me? is this like giving me a ring and wanting to marry me?

hehehe just kidding

Posted by LostinmyMind11
My cancer friend came up to visit fri and before he left he gave me his pants lol.
Mind you these are his comfy fleece pants that he constantly when wearing says how much he loves them. I dont need pants specially his...they dont fit me anyway. Literally I can pull them over my head ...he is 6'3 and I'm 5'6 lol. I told him no take his damn pants and he kept insisting that I keep them for winter. So I took them and put them in my closest...i'm sure once he visits again he will want them back lol.

I just wanted to share this with you all...I thought it was funny!

you bunch of weirdos you 😛

p.s.
what do the pants symbolize? do you think he loves me? is this like giving me a ring and wanting to marry me?

hehehe just kidding

He wants to get into yours? 😛

Ahhhh I think thats sooo sweet. I remember one time I forgot my night clothes and my bf pulled out his clothes to let me sleep in. That was the same day he asked me to be his gf....later that night. I think its sooooo sweeeettt. He wants to make sure your taken care of. Ahhh he likes you.

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by LostinmyMind11
My cancer friend came up to visit fri and before he left he gave me his pants lol.
Mind you these are his comfy fleece pants that he constantly when wearing says how much he loves them. I dont need pants specially his...they dont fit me anyway. Literally I can pull them over my head ...he is 6'3 and I'm 5'6 lol. I told him no take his damn pants and he kept insisting that I keep them for winter. So I took them and put them in my closest...i'm sure once he visits again he will want them back lol.

I just wanted to share this with you all...I thought it was funny!

you bunch of weirdos you 😛

p.s.
what do the pants symbolize? do you think he loves me? is this like giving me a ring and wanting to marry me?

hehehe just kidding

He wants to get into yours? 😛

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How did I know you were gonna say that lol

Posted by coldwater
Ahhhh I think thats sooo sweet. I remember one time I forgot my night clothes and my bf pulled out his clothes to let me sleep in. That was the same day he asked me to be his gf....later that night. I think its sooooo sweeeettt. He wants to make sure your taken care of. Ahhh he likes you.

awww your bf sounds very sweet!


He does take really good care of me!

He recently bought me perfume too...I must stink lol 😛
He does a lot for me...im not financially able to do these types of things for him (id like too) I just hope he doesnt think I take it for granted (yes ive told him this) but I know how you cancer internalize some things when they bother you.

He tells me some things over and over again...like how he is more responsible with his money. Ex: he said on the way home he was going to stop and get him a ps3 but changed his mind, then said "see I've gotten better" also that he paid all his bills and will be making extra payments. Also he names off all his bills and when they are due and how much lol
I dont know why he tells me this...I've even asked him and he just laughed about it and then says idk why lol

He can be a very odd duck at times

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by LostinmyMind11
My cancer friend came up to visit fri and before he left he gave me his pants lol.
Mind you these are his comfy fleece pants that he constantly when wearing says how much he loves them. I dont need pants specially his...they dont fit me anyway. Literally I can pull them over my head ...he is 6'3 and I'm 5'6 lol. I told him no take his damn pants and he kept insisting that I keep them for winter. So I took them and put them in my closest...i'm sure once he visits again he will want them back lol.

I just wanted to share this with you all...I thought it was funny!

you bunch of weirdos you 😛

p.s.
what do the pants symbolize? do you think he loves me? is this like giving me a ring and wanting to marry me?

hehehe just kidding

He wants to get into yours? 😛

How did I know you were gonna say that lol

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He probably just wants to come to your place often, his way of saying your house is my house 😛

Posted by LostinmyMind11
He recently bought me perfume too...I must stink lol 😛
He does a lot for me...im not financially able to do these types of things for him (id like too) I just hope he doesnt think I take it for granted (yes ive told him this) but I know how you cancer internalize some things when they bother you.

He tells me some things over and over again...like how he is more responsible with his money. Ex: he said on the way home he was going to stop and get him a ps3 but changed his mind, then said "see I've gotten better" also that he paid all his bills and will be making extra payments. Also he names off all his bills and when they are due and how much lol
I dont know why he tells me this...I've even asked him and he just laughed about it and then says idk why lol

He can be a very odd duck at times

Lol...that one is simple, he is telling you he is very responsible and will take good solid care of you financially...

Yeah hes told me before that my tiny midget apt is like his second home...meaning he feels very comfortable and safe there...which I pride myself with (Leo moon 😛)

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by LostinmyMind11
He recently bought me perfume too...I must stink lol 😛
He does a lot for me...im not financially able to do these types of things for him (id like too) I just hope he doesnt think I take it for granted (yes ive told him this) but I know how you cancer internalize some things when they bother you.

He tells me some things over and over again...like how he is more responsible with his money. Ex: he said on the way home he was going to stop and get him a ps3 but changed his mind, then said "see I've gotten better" also that he paid all his bills and will be making extra payments. Also he names off all his bills and when they are due and how much lol
I dont know why he tells me this...I've even asked him and he just laughed about it and then says idk why lol

He can be a very odd duck at times

Lol...that one is simple, he is telling you he is very responsible and will take good solid care of you financially...

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See thats what I was getting out of it....like he sees me being financially responsible and trying to show me he can be also...but then again I think he may just be going over all of it...talking out loud more or less

Posted by LostinmyMind11

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
He recently bought me perfume too...I must stink lol 😛
He does a lot for me...im not financially able to do these types of things for him (id like too) I just hope he doesnt think I take it for granted (yes ive told him this) but I know how you cancer internalize some things when they bother you.

He tells me some things over and over again...like how he is more responsible with his money. Ex: he said on the way home he was going to stop and get him a ps3 but changed his mind, then said "see I've gotten better" also that he paid all his bills and will be making extra payments. Also he names off all his bills and when they are due and how much lol
I dont know why he tells me this...I've even asked him and he just laughed about it and then says idk why lol

He can be a very odd duck at times

Lol...that one is simple, he is telling you he is very responsible and will take good solid care of you financially...

See thats what I was getting out of it....like he sees me being financially responsible and trying to show me he can be also...but then again I think he may just be going over all of it...talking out loud more or less

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Nah, your first assumption was correct. Don't overanalyze 😛

Aww 😄

New? Who r u talking to?

What was ur previous username?

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
He recently bought me perfume too...I must stink lol 😛
He does a lot for me...im not financially able to do these types of things for him (id like too) I just hope he doesnt think I take it for granted (yes ive told him this) but I know how you cancer internalize some things when they bother you.

He tells me some things over and over again...like how he is more responsible with his money. Ex: he said on the way home he was going to stop and get him a ps3 but changed his mind, then said "see I've gotten better" also that he paid all his bills and will be making extra payments. Also he names off all his bills and when they are due and how much lol
I dont know why he tells me this...I've even asked him and he just laughed about it and then says idk why lol

He can be a very odd duck at times

Lol...that one is simple, he is telling you he is very responsible and will take good solid care of you financially...

See thats what I was getting out of it....like he sees me being financially responsible and trying to show me he can be also...but then again I think he may just be going over all of it...talking out loud more or less

Nah, your first assumption was correct. Don't overanalyze 😛

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Im not trying to be with him like that...were just friends...I just find it weird is all lol

Posted by Acrab
..who the hell are these new people.. WHO ARER OYU?!?

Who you talking too crab? Im not new ...either is anybody in the thread ...calm it down there :p

Posted by Maddy

Posted by Acrab
..who the hell are these new people.. WHO ARER OYU?!?

What was your previous screen name?

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Jynx yo.

Fleece pants sound pretty hideous , but thats a nice gesture! lol
I'm not a cancer nor a man, but my guess is he's giving you the pants so you can have something to remember him by. He wants to make sure you think of him often. I would have preferred a Tshirt but the pants are ok I guess. Maybe he's trying to slowly move in, so make room for his tooth brush next visit 😛

Posted by LostinmyMind11
He recently bought me perfume too...I must stink lol 😛
He does a lot for me...im not financially able to do these types of things for him (id like too) I just hope he doesnt think I take it for granted (yes ive told him this) but I know how you cancer internalize some things when they bother you.

He tells me some things over and over again...like how he is more responsible with his money. Ex: he said on the way home he was going to stop and get him a ps3 but changed his mind, then said "see I've gotten better" also that he paid all his bills and will be making extra payments. Also he names off all his bills and when they are due and how much lol
I dont know why he tells me this...I've even asked him and he just laughed about it and then says idk why lol

He can be a very odd duck at times

My Cancer guy does the same thing!! At first I felt flattered because he was opening up and talking about his finances and stuff so I thought he felt comfortable and valued my trust and opinion. Now it can be a bit annoying though. He can be pretty weird!! Sometimes I think maybe he;s not really a cancer cuz people here are always talking about how intuitive and psychic crabs can be. But he displays no intellect sometimes... lol ouchhh i know. Idk what the hell he's talking about and when I ask him why he's even telling me these things and why he repeats them his answer is "Idk why, you just make me want to talk about everything." :-/

Who cares if someone is new here? Do you think DXP is going to issue you a pension some day for being old here?

*waves to Purr* —
Ninja you remind me of Angelina 🙂

Also @Lost, yeah I agree with Purr and he acts so cute. I would totally make out with him later on if I was you lol

Posted by Gemsandsugar
Fleece pants sound pretty hideous , but thats a nice gesture! lol
I'm not a cancer nor a man, but my guess is he's giving you the pants so you can have something to remember him by. He wants to make sure you think of him often. I would have preferred a Tshirt but the pants are ok I guess. Maybe he's trying to slowly move in, so make room for his tooth brush next visit 😛

Fleece pants are hideous lol. I tried to get his hoody but before I got the words out, he says "you will not get my carhartt hoody" I said Oh but I will ...after all I'm Mrs. "insert his last name" It was based on a joke when we ordered food and they asked for my name...I knew he was going to go get it, so i just said his last name and they go ok Mrs so and so, it will be ready in 10-15 mins. Then to not make it so awkward...I said boy are they gonna get a surprise when you walk in 😛...he laughed and said I was stupid lol.

I doubt hes trying to move in....my place is wayyyy to small for him

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
He recently bought me perfume too...I must stink lol 😛
He does a lot for me...im not financially able to do these types of things for him (id like too) I just hope he doesnt think I take it for granted (yes ive told him this) but I know how you cancer internalize some things when they bother you.

He tells me some things over and over again...like how he is more responsible with his money. Ex: he said on the way home he was going to stop and get him a ps3 but changed his mind, then said "see I've gotten better" also that he paid all his bills and will be making extra payments. Also he names off all his bills and when they are due and how much lol
I dont know why he tells me this...I've even asked him and he just laughed about it and then says idk why lol

He can be a very odd duck at times

My Cancer guy does the same thing!! At first I felt flattered because he was opening up and talking about his finances and stuff so I thought he felt comfortable and valued my trust and opinion. Now it can be a bit annoying though. He can be pretty weird!! Sometimes I think maybe he;s not really a cancer cuz people here are always talking about how intuitive and psychic crabs can be. But he displays no intellect sometimes... lol ouchhh i know. Idk what the hell he's talking about and when I ask him why he's even telling me these things and why he repeats them his answer is "Idk why, you just make me want to talk about everything." :-/

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Friends dont share what their finances are...I mean you talk about some things but not the run down of it all.
If he doesnt stop...when I'm mentally going thru my list, I'm gonna end up putting some of his with mine and get all confused lol

He shares a lot with me...he recently said I was the only girl that he has completely trusted 100% and felt comfortable with. I dont feel hes blowing smoke...it felt genuine...even though I know that nobody trust anybody 100% . It was very sweet of him to say....and he should be able to trust me...been friends long enough now lol.

but with that said....I know for a fact we are not trying to be with each other like that....too much time has went by and nothing has been said about it....and I think we both know we are better as friends...which is fine with me 🙂

Friends w/ bennies??

Posted by Peanutbutter
Friends w/ bennies??

Nahhh We've tried that on and off for years...its just not me. I get bored if a relationship doesnt go somewhere...move forward and fwb just stands still...if that makes sense lol

I love it that girls from all the other signs gather here to talk about the Cancer man's legendary skills....I love to be loved, I can almost here my name being chanted in a stadium of 100K (all women of course). Please go on, love mayyyy.....😄

Posted by Maddy

Posted by incandescentcancer
I love it that girls from all the other signs gather here to talk about the Cancer man's legendary skills....I love to be loved, I can almost here my name being chanted in a stadium of 100K (all women of course). Please go on, love mayyyy.....😄

Crabs like attention 😉

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This crab with Venus in Leo and sun in the 10th house particularly digs it...😉.

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by Maddy

Posted by incandescentcancer
I love it that girls from all the other signs gather here to talk about the Cancer man's legendary skills....I love to be loved, I can almost here my name being chanted in a stadium of 100K (all women of course). Please go on, love mayyyy.....😄

Crabs like attention 😉

This crab with Venus in Leo and sun in the 10th house particularly digs it...😉.

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My friends venus is in Leo ....he lovvvvvvvvves attention...seeks it out. not just from girls but from everybody lol

Posted by LostinmyMind11

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Posted by Maddy

Posted by incandescentcancer
I love it that girls from all the other signs gather here to talk about the Cancer man's legendary skills....I love to be loved, I can almost here my name being chanted in a stadium of 100K (all women of course). Please go on, love mayyyy.....😄

Crabs like attention 😉

This crab with Venus in Leo and sun in the 10th house particularly digs it...😉.

My friends venus is in Leo ....he lovvvvvvvvves attention...seeks it out. not just from girls but from everybody lol

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Yeah I am kinda like that too....I am a very dominant force in most meetings, gatherings, parties etc...It's important for us to feel loved, there is also this sense of being a dark knight...with all the moodiness combined with a mercurial energy. Can't really explain it properly without coming across as a twat 😛

Posted by Purr

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*waves to Purr* —

*waves back* — How've you been, sweetie?

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Hey Pretty Purr I recognize you now that you have your little one back in the avatar 🙂 I've been good. I miss you and VV we will have to find another show to gossip about!

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Posted by Maddy

Posted by incandescentcancer
I love it that girls from all the other signs gather here to talk about the Cancer man's legendary skills....I love to be loved, I can almost here my name being chanted in a stadium of 100K (all women of course). Please go on, love mayyyy.....😄

Crabs like attention 😉

This crab with Venus in Leo and sun in the 10th house particularly digs it...😉.

My friends venus is in Leo ....he lovvvvvvvvves attention...seeks it out. not just from girls but from everybody lol

Yeah I am kinda like that too....I am a very dominant force in most meetings, gatherings, parties etc...It's important for us to feel loved, there is also this sense of being a dark knight...with all the moodiness combined with a mercurial energy. Can't really explain it properly without coming across as a twat 😛

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I get it 🙂

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by Peanutbutter
Friends w/ bennies??

Nahhh We've tried that on and off for years...its just not me. I get bored if a relationship doesnt go somewhere...move forward and fwb just stands still...if that makes sense lol

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No yeah, I completely understand.

Now hes giving me his xbox...which is his world lol. Granted hes going to buy a new one but still ...he could sell the old one but no he wants me to have it instead ....along with all the stuff to go with it. And hes so excited to set it up for me this weekend ...even though im perfectly capable of doing that myself lol. But ill let him have this cause I know you guys like to help in any way you can 🙂

Im thinking of making him dinner...like pot roast and potatoes and carrots to thank him...do you think thats good? Im really bad at knowing what people want in that kinda sense...im selfish and trapped sometimes in my own world...something im working on. :/ sometimes I wonder why I deserve some one like him in my life...he really is an amazing person 🙂 (and no not because he gives me stuff...its hard enough for me to accept anything from not only him but from anybody)

Posted by LostinmyMind11
Now hes giving me his xbox...which is his world lol. Granted hes going to buy a new one but still ...he could sell the old one but no he wants me to have it instead ....along with all the stuff to go with it. And hes so excited to set it up for me this weekend ...even though im perfectly capable of doing that myself lol. But ill let him have this cause I know you guys like to help in any way you can 🙂

Im thinking of making him dinner...like pot roast and potatoes and carrots to thank him...do you think thats good? Im really bad at knowing what people want in that kinda sense...im selfish and trapped sometimes in my own world...something im working on. :/ sometimes I wonder why I deserve some one like him in my life...he really is an amazing person 🙂 (and no not because he gives me stuff...its hard enough for me to accept anything from not only him but from anybody)

Dinner is an excellent idea. For heavens sake please tell me you're only planning dinner because I took another chick at face value on another thread and now everyone is blaming me for her having slept with that guy. So if this is only a thank you dinner please go ahead, Cancer men love homecooked food and will appreciate it deeply.

Oh yeah its a thank you dinner only. He does so much for me and I'd like to do something nice for him....so he knows that I appreciate everything and dont take him for granted

Aww, I only give my valuables away to my loved ones.. Yall are friends for life yo!

Plus... when he comes over (yes, he's planning on coming over frequently) he will feel comfy cus his beloved Xbox that he has grown so close to is now at ur place so he will feel at home at ur place now too :-).