So I'm an aqua. I've had several cap girlfriends in the past but we've fallen out cause they make everything into a competition. Like something was off with their energy. I recently met another Cap woman at work and we hit it off except she'll say semi catty things and is a bit shallow. It bugs me sometimes cause she seems like she could be a really cool person but something about her makes me feel like I can't fully trust her or if she's competing with me. Is it all in my head or are most Cap women naturally competitive with their friends.
Are Capricorn women naturally catty?

No, not naturally catty or competitive. Perhaps they see a competitive spirit in you. Maybe there is something that you said or have done that inclines them to act that way towards you.

Yes - take it as a good sign in this context.
Competitiveness is manifested either with friends,lovers and those you feel comfortable enough around them or with those you totally dislike/hate - no in between.
But it's not a secret that caps (men&women) are in general competitive people.
Competitiveness is manifested either with friends,lovers and those you feel comfortable enough around them or with those you totally dislike/hate - no in between.
But it's not a secret that caps (men&women) are in general competitive people.

Posted by justlikeheavenThe "Yes" was for competitiveness, about her being catty ; no, that's not a good sign at all, she mighe not trust you for some reason, or maybe you seem a bit arrogant and full of yourself, these are some reasons that could make her to have that kind of attitude.
Yes - take it as a good sign in this context.
Competitiveness is manifested either with friends,lovers and those you feel comfortable enough around them or with those you totally dislike/hate - no in between.
But it's not a secret that caps (men&women) are in general competitive people.

Hey Airyfairy215.
I would say that my 3 cap friends are more possessive over me than competitive.
Although two of them told me that they get jealous of me sometimes, but it never lasts. They don't do anything vindictive towards me, so I just talk it over with them. I appreciate them being comfortable enough to talk to me about it.
The one I'm least closest with became a little competitive with me. She wanted this Virgo guy that liked me, so she would do things to get his attention. She liked him years before I ever met him. When she found out she told me he was so sexy and she wanted him for a long time. I just told her. Please take him off my hands, but he didn't like her.
Overall they usually aren't catty or competitive with me.
I would say that my 3 cap friends are more possessive over me than competitive.
Although two of them told me that they get jealous of me sometimes, but it never lasts. They don't do anything vindictive towards me, so I just talk it over with them. I appreciate them being comfortable enough to talk to me about it.
The one I'm least closest with became a little competitive with me. She wanted this Virgo guy that liked me, so she would do things to get his attention. She liked him years before I ever met him. When she found out she told me he was so sexy and she wanted him for a long time. I just told her. Please take him off my hands, but he didn't like her.
Overall they usually aren't catty or competitive with me.
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