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I will start out light ...
whats your favorite color?
whats your favorite color?
Lol, mine is Red
why are cap male obsessive
so who is capricorn favorite sign?
Posted by leowwwno... I guess it was clear I had moved onPosted by aquapiscescuspAre you still in contact with the cap?
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Posted by sakuraflowersWell for me, that used to happen when I was busy or needed to work on some personal issues. Now that I am older, I know better than to just up and disappear- I'll let my partner know what I need to work and the space I'll need to do it.Posted by daron76Woohoo. I'll go with the most common one. 😛
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo. 🙂
Why do Cap male go silent or disappear?click to expand
The other reason this happens is that there is either something I realized or something she did that made me lose interest and/or respect. Loss of interest would generate distance. Loss of respect would generate a disappearing act- cause I couldn't care less about that persons feelings at that point.
Posted by UndauntedSoul88Oh sure you are my dear 😉
Would you think less of a woman if she initiated physical contact first? I'm asking for a friend's cousin.
No, not at all. I prefer it actually. My goal is to please her (especially in that department) and getting a feel for her pace is really helpful I have found.
Posted by aquapiscescuspUmmm that only happens when I love someone. I don't obsess over women I don't love. I don't obsess over the women I have had crushes on either.
why are cap male obsessive
Posted by Cancan26For me it goes like this; 1 Scorpio, 2 Cancer, 3 Taurus. I wish I had met a virgo to see what they are like ( I hear they are awesome) but it hasn't happened yet.
so who is capricorn favorite sign?
Posted by leowwwouiii écoute it was great to hear from him even if it was after so many years, the reminiscing and all but quite strange at the same timePosted by aquapiscescuspTu fais bien !!Posted by leowwwno... I guess it was clear I had moved onPosted by aquapiscescuspAre you still in contact with the cap?
why are cap male obsessive
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do you have a cap in your life?
Posted by daron76and when you love them, you tell them ? or you make them wait forever??Posted by aquapiscescuspUmmm that only happens when I love someone. I don't obsess over women I don't love. I don't obsess over the women I have had crushes on either.
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Posted by aquapiscescuspWell, there is two parts to this. My heart will fall in love before my brain figures out what's going on. So the actions will be there before I verbalize it. But once my brain catches up, I will definitely let her know. I'm not scared to go first.Posted by daron76and when you love them, you tell them ? or you make them wait forever??Posted by aquapiscescuspUmmm that only happens when I love someone. I don't obsess over women I don't love. I don't obsess over the women I have had crushes on either.
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Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeActually yes, there is. You're a scorpio if I remember correctly, right? Anyway, I actually would suggest meeting up for a drink and talking to him in person. There is probably a lot that needs to be said between you two. And lets be honest, Cap males aren't the best at informal communication so if you really want to get through to each other I would say meet up. Alternatively, you could just tell him to tag along to something you already planned on doing- it doesn't have to be a formal date or anything.
The Cap (who I thought was a lost cause) msgd me last night saying some excuse about how he thought he had replied to my last msg instead of leaving me hanging bla anyways idc if he was just covering his ass because I don't hav expectations nor care really... I know he's just making sure I know he exists etc... But the question is:
Is there anything I can do to get this ball rolling?
I'm not going to chase him or ask him out btw
Remember- your goal is to get the ball rolling. Does it really matter who gives it the first push?
Posted by Capri-sunOk so let me break this down.
Are cap men capable of compartmentalizing?
Say some for sex? Fwb? Or do you only pursue serious relationships?
In simpler terms do you sex without feelings? Just for the physical aspect?
1. I compartmentalize. Often.
2. Do I have sex without feelings? Yes particularly if I am single.
There are some women I meet and sex is the only thing I want from them and I know it right away. However, most I meet with an eye for something more but, either through conversation or behavior (or both) I realize we wouldn't work long term. But, if she is really attractive, I'll still give her the business-- as often as she will let me!!! hahaa And, no, there won't be any feelings attached in that scenario.
Are caps possessive ?
Because I lowkey like possessiveness.
... Lowkey ofcourse
... Lowkey ofcourse
Posted by SunsetvirgoIf I love you I will be possessive... low key of course 😉
Because I lowkey like possessiveness.
... Lowkey ofcourse
Posted by Arielle83LMAO!
Why do cap men act so above everyone, but then you catch them in the back of some millenial's panel van, getting his divk wet?
While his wife is at home with his children making casserole.
We don't put ourselves on pedestals, other people tend to just see us that way. Maybe its because we tend to have strong opinions?
Anyway, assholes come in all shapes, colors, sizes and stars. Interestingly, the same applies to hypocrites.
Posted by daron76Ohhhh good. Good. As a virgal I have to know these things ya know ??Posted by SunsetvirgoIf I love you I will be possessive... low key of course 😉
Because I lowkey like possessiveness.
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Also if you're a cap w fire and a few Scorpio placements hmu 😏
Posted by Capri-sunCause you like to help 🙂
I have no idea why I'm posting here, I feel like we are one in the same (male & female caps)
and your answers always tend to be pretty good
Posted by SunsetvirgoNo fire, Pretty much all earth and water.
Also if you're a cap w fire and a few Scorpio placements hmu 😏
Posted by daron76Oh 😢 wellPosted by SunsetvirgoNo fire, Pretty much all earth and water.
Also if you're a cap w fire and a few Scorpio placements hmu 😏click to expand
Future reference I suppose
Posted by Capri-sunSun- Cap,Posted by daron76Posted by SunsetvirgoNo fire, Pretty much all earth and water.
Also if you're a cap w fire and a few Scorpio placements hmu 😏
What are your major placements? 😕
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Moon- Cancer,
Ascendant- Cap
Merc- Cap
Venus- Virgo
How do you as a cappy guy would show her that she is " the one?" Is it true that if a cappy guy did not fall in love with you in 3-6 months, he probably will not?
Posted by Capri-sunOh my lol. Well let me pull up a chair....
1. What's the most important quality in a woman?
2. How do you define love? And at what point do you know you're there?
3. Capricorn male deal breakers?
4. What should a woman do if you're angry?
5. What makes you smile?
6. How and/or what can a woman do to get you to open up?
7. What are your ideal gifts to receive from a s/o?
1. What's the most important quality in a woman?
I'll break this down in to two categories; aesthetics and personality.
Aesthetically- the most important thing for me is that she keeps herself well. She doesn't have to be in amazing shape but she needs to dress well and carry her self in a confident manner. Having nice hips/ thighs is also a must.
Personality wise, I would say smart, confident and a bit mysterious. I don't like pushovers and I can't stand women I have to explain everything to. It gets old. fast. I'm pretty sure it was for this reason google was invented lol.
2. How do you define love? And at what point do you know you're there?
Love for me is about endurance, vulnerability and acceptance. I'm going to give you all of me and I want the same from you. Add to that this feeling of home- the place you can't wait to get to at the end of the day.. When its just you and I in our space/place it should feel like home. Also, my boundaries no longer exist for the person i am in love with. My space is their space. That's usually what triggers my brain to go "oh shit, I'm in love"
3. Capricorn male deal breakers?
Hmmm. If I don't feel respected or valued then I'm going to leave. I can tolerate it for a while, but once I start second guessing myself as a result, then I'm out. Also, rash out bursts. You get one. It happens again, I'm out- and I have to love you for you to get the second chance.
4. What should a woman do if you're angry?
If I'm angry at her? be physical- kisses, hugs... sex lol. I can't stay mad when that stuff happens.
If I'm angry about/with someone/thing else? If I'm talking let me vent, then do something from the previous answer. If I'm not talking- don't talk either. Just hold me.
5. What makes you smile?
My friends laugh at me cause when the woman I love texts me, I wear the biggest smile (I have huge dimples) on my face as I text her back. So basically any attention or affection from the woman I love. Other than that... its probably the same as most people.. good news, good jokes etc.
6. How and/or what can a woman do to get you to open up?
Don't ask me to. The less you pry, the more comfortable I will feel. The more comfortable I feel, the faster I open up.
7. What are your ideal gifts to receive from a s/o
Practical stuff. Watches, grooming equip etc. Or tickets to an event or a game. If you want to go romantic- include chocolate and you should also wear lingerie lol
Posted by Capri-sunWhere we spend time together or how we spend it. If we just eat and have sex= we are fwb. If we go on dates that involve more than eating, if i let you sleep over without trying to have sex, then= we are more than fwb.
How does a woman tell whether she is a friend, fwb, or girlfriend without having the "what is this talk?"
Posted by sakuraflowersBe reliable. And always produce good quality. That goes for both the boss and the co-worker. As for the crush... drop it.
How to make a good impression on a Cap boss? How to work best with a Cap coworker? What would you suggestion for someone, if they have a crush on a Cap coworker or vice versa?
I've never had either. Just hypothetical questions for future reference. 😄
Posted by Capri-sunYes. Unless we have "that" connection. Then i'll just have to figure that shit out lol
Do you consider women at work off limits?
Posted by sakuraflowersNo, you can ask all the surface level questions you want. If you ask deep questions about me and I avoid them or don't answer at all, don't keep trying.
What do you think of someone, who asks a lot of general questions about you? Would you think they are prying? What do you suggest as ways in getting to know a Cap?
What do you think of someone who likes to talk about themselves?
If you want to get know a cap, just spend time with them. The more you are around, the more comfortable they will get with you.
As long as they are answering questions that I asked its fine. If they keep going and ramble on, I'll eventually tune out. No big deal.
Posted by Capri-sunHow do you define success?
How do you define success?
Will you date or entertain the idea of a relationship if you aren't financially stable?
Will you call your romantic interest everyday?
Short answer- for me its 2 things, 1) be a good father to my children (when/ if I have any), 2) be a good husband to my wife (if i ever find one). Everything else is a bonus. Career goals come and go, but family is the most important for me.
Will you date or entertain the idea of a relationship if you aren't financially stable?
No, unless we have "that" connection.
Will you call your romantic interest everyday?
Yes, but I am a bit greedy. I want to see her everyday.
Posted by Virgiene
How do you as a cappy guy would show her that she is " the one?" Is it true that if a cappy guy did not fall in love with you in 3-6 months, he probably will not?
I don't believe in "the one". But if you play a starring role in my plan for the future, then I will definitely let you know that.
Is it true that if a cappy guy did not fall in love with you in 3-6 months, he probably will not?
Not true at all. Some times it takes longer. Sometimes it takes less. Again, especially for me, my actions will tell you where my heart is long before my mouth will.
Posted by JumpingpancakeYes, very serious.
Is it serious when he starts making future plans with you? I.e traveling the world together, moving in together, etc.
What is your favorite sign and why?
Posted by Rosaknowsya1.Do you go out of your way to help people in need?
1.Do you go out of your way to help people in need?
2.can you like a woman whose opinion differs from your own?
Yes, that is very important to me.
2.can you like a woman whose opinion differs from your own?
I love that, actually. I love it when isn't afraid or apologetic about being different. Just be willing to debate it openly and honestly.
Posted by Sunsetvirgo1. Scorpio
What is your favorite sign and why?
I feel drawn to them even before I find out their sun sign. We both don't like people to pry, so our pace at opening up seems to mesh really well. Maybe its my cancer moon but we just click on a level that is magnetic. They are also mysterious (which I love). So damn sexy.
2. Cancer
I just get this feeling that I am in good hands with them. I also feel protective of them for some reason. Great kissers.
3. Taurus-
They are adorable. A bit strong willed, but always a great package. But we are often too similar and that can tend to get boring.
Posted by daron76You should get a girl that's like Scorp sun cancer rising and Taurus moon 🙂Posted by Sunsetvirgo1. Scorpio
What is your favorite sign and why?
I feel drawn to them even before I find out their sun sign. We both don't like people to pry, so our pace at opening up seems to mesh really well. Maybe its my cancer moon but we just click on a level that is magnetic. They are also mysterious (which I love). So damn sexy.
2. Cancer
I just get this feeling that I am in good hands with them. I also feel protective of them for some reason. Great kissers.
3. Taurus-
They are adorable. A bit strong willed, but always a great package. But we are often too similar and that can tend to get boring.click to expand
Posted by SunsetvirgoSigh. The last woman I feel in love with was a Scorp-Sun, Taurus-Moon and Leo-risingPosted by daron76You should get a girl that's like Scorp sun cancer rising and Taurus moon 🙂Posted by Sunsetvirgo
What is your favorite sign and why?click to expand
Posted by UndauntedSoul88Depends on how you bring it up. If you keep him a secret or never bring him around to hang out with us, then yes this is a problem. And it could kill the relationship. If you are upfront and honest about it, and make efforts to have him engage with us, then there is no problem.
If you're in a relationship with a woman and her best friend is a male, is this an issue for you?
How long does it take you to introduce a new girlfriend or crush to your friends? Is this very important to you?
My cappy guy calls every night , text me several times in a day , ccoks for me, we see each other once or twice a week but we go to church every Sunday. It is been like this for more than a year already but he doesn't say anything about the future, did not meet his friends and family yet . My question is , IN YOUR OPINION... what am I to him?
This thread is awesome!!
Posted by daron76Posted by SunsetvirgoSigh. The last woman I feel in love with was a Scorp-Sun, Taurus-Moon and Leo-risingPosted by daron76You should get a girl that's like Scorp sun cancer rising and Taurus moon 🙂Posted by Sunsetvirgo
What is your favorite sign and why?click to expand
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Posted by pinkbird03Depends on our connection. If it is strong and I feel this is definitely going somewhere hen that will happen pretty quick. Meeting friends isn't that big of a deal though. If I let you meet my mom, or the rest of my family-- then its serious. Only 3 women I have dated have met my mother.
How long does it take you to introduce a new girlfriend or crush to your friends? Is this very important to you?
Posted by Capri-sunI actually don't have one. I just trough on my old school mix with El Debarge, Jodeci, Toni, Tony Tone etc.
What are the top 3-5 songs on your sex playlist?
Posted by daron76Posted by pinkbird03Depends on our connection. If it is strong and I feel this is definitely going somewhere hen that will happen pretty quick. Meeting friends isn't that big of a deal though. If I let you meet my mom, or the rest of my family-- then its serious. Only 3 women I have dated have met my mother.
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I'm the same way about family! I've never met this caps friends though. We've known each other since April. He wants us to organize a group outing. I'm a little nervous!!
Posted by VirgieneBest case scenario- he feels you are important but is still working through his feelings. He may also have other stuff he is focused on. Or he could think you are good with the way things are. Hard to say really.
My cappy guy calls every night , text me several times in a day , ccoks for me, we see each other once or twice a week but we go to church every Sunday. It is been like this for more than a year already but he doesn't say anything about the future, did not meet his friends and family yet . My question is , IN YOUR OPINION... what am I to him?
Worst case- You are comfortable. I have been guilty of staying with someone just because the situation was comfortable and reliable. Don't get me wrong, comfort and reliability are very important. But there needs to be that spark. Without that spark, I'm just wasting your time and mine.
Posted by LiveAndLoveI would do it because you hurt me and you keep hurting me. If I explain that to you and it keeps happening, then i need to get away from you to heal and recharge. We can talk about it again AFTER that. This also prevents me from losing it and saying some really mean shit to you.Posted by daron76Why would you block someone you love? And out of nowhere? Has the feeling been building up and you take the opportunity? You all are so reliable and consistent.. then you're not. The frustration is real.
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