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why the inconsistency in dating? perfectly okay with acting as the boyfriend through text message and reaching out but when it comes to the part of going on dates, why the aloofness and hot and cold?
sometimes i wonder if capricorns desire to be wanted outweighs any other aspect in the situation-ship
sometimes i wonder if capricorns desire to be wanted outweighs any other aspect in the situation-ship
Posted by rejuvenatedheart
Can you guys stop shying away from mushy emotions thanks
Nah it makes us seem weak and toxic masculinity is just everywhere nowadays so we gotta act strong and stuff
Also it's embarrassing, I try to look away from things that make me express facial expressions in a positive way so my entire hand isn't shown on my face (doesn't help when I have 1st house stellium yo)
Posted by MoonyEYES88
why the inconsistency in dating? perfectly okay with acting as the boyfriend through text message and reaching out but when it comes to the part of going on dates, why the aloofness and hot and cold?
sometimes i wonder if capricorns desire to be wanted outweighs any other aspect in the situation-ship
Commitment is scary and we're just as scared as everyone else, maybe even more
Also this is known as "letting them play into your hand", another subtle power trick that keeps us in control and protected
But we love you deep down (I liked my Pisces crush into gf back then at least for 4 months before I can say I love you and mean it)
Posted by AneemA04
What can a person do to ease your mind?
Depends on the person's relations with me
If its a normal friend or stranger they should fuck off
If its a good friend they could stay a little and let me naturally pour out what's on my mind
If its a love interest they could hold my hand and lean towards me and do what a good friend does
Exceptions may happen but yeah
Posted by WarDogPosted by EtherealTraveler
Counterpart to the thread "Ask a Capricorn female"
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why Pisces men so emo?click to expand
Because fishes spend too much time on tumblr
Posted by GobbyPosted by MoonyEYES88
why the inconsistency in dating? perfectly okay with acting as the boyfriend through text message and reaching out but when it comes to the part of going on dates, why the aloofness and hot and cold?
sometimes i wonder if capricorns desire to be wanted outweighs any other aspect in the situation-ship
Let's get this straight...
You may be a woman but you are also under scrutiny. Just because you were born with a vagina, doesn't make you the holy grail.
Just like men, you can also come up short, and Cap men need to be sure that you're worthy of their attention and affections.
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Yeh what about the good old „he‘s not that into you“
Posted by GobbyPosted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by MoonyEYES88
why the inconsistency in dating? perfectly okay with acting as the boyfriend through text message and reaching out but when it comes to the part of going on dates, why the aloofness and hot and cold?
sometimes i wonder if capricorns desire to be wanted outweighs any other aspect in the situation-ship
Let's get this straight...
You may be a woman but you are also under scrutiny. Just because you were born with a vagina, doesn't make you the holy grail.
Just like men, you can also come up short, and Cap men need to be sure that you're worthy of their attention and affections.
Are you married or in a relationship Gobby?
I don't believe in marriage. As for my relationship status, I have chosen to remain single instead of wasting my time on the dating circuit...
Ok. Not sure I believe in it either. Just thought you were tied up due to the tone in your posts.
Dating is the worst.
Nah, just disillusioned with potential candidates and modern dating attitudes. It's the first time I've voluntary taken time-out from all that relationship crap and, to some extent, feel all the better for it.
Nowadays, instead of pushing for it, I'd rather let love find me. I'm sick and tired of chasing after women I hardly know, based solely on blind faith, only for them to turn out to be less-than-desirable creatures...
I feel exactly the same! I'm not gonna chase anything and try to male thinga happen through datingapps or anything, and I'm not gonna look for anyone. If I meet someone and we get on, fine. If not, well then what can you do?! You can't force these things.
But how old are you?🤔🤔 too young maybe to give up on the whole thing? ... ir too old to hold on😂
Somewhere between 21 and 90. Take your pick. 😄
But seriously, I'm tired of the superficiality of dating. I prefer something more genuine and organic.
I've been asked, countless times, when am I going to 'settle down'. It's not that I don't want to, it's more the fact that I haven't come across a candidate suitable enough, for the long haul, who doesn't feel an inexplicable urge to sabotage everything before we've even begun...
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Try online dating instead
RL life people are indeed so mundane they won't serve as anything beyond an one night stand
Imho and in my school anyways
Posted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by MoonyEYES88
why the inconsistency in dating? perfectly okay with acting as the boyfriend through text message and reaching out but when it comes to the part of going on dates, why the aloofness and hot and cold?
sometimes i wonder if capricorns desire to be wanted outweighs any other aspect in the situation-ship
Let's get this straight...
You may be a woman but you are also under scrutiny. Just because you were born with a vagina, doesn't make you the holy grail.
Just like men, you can also come up short, and Cap men need to be sure that you're worthy of their attention and affections.
Are you married or in a relationship Gobby?
I don't believe in marriage. As for my relationship status, I have chosen to remain single instead of wasting my time on the dating circuit...
Ok. Not sure I believe in it either. Just thought you were tied up due to the tone in your posts.
Dating is the worst.
Nah, just disillusioned with potential candidates and modern dating attitudes. It's the first time I've voluntary taken time-out from all that relationship crap and, to some extent, feel all the better for it.
Nowadays, instead of pushing for it, I'd rather let love find me. I'm sick and tired of chasing after women I hardly know, based solely on blind faith, only for them to turn out to be less-than-desirable creatures...
I feel exactly the same! I'm not gonna chase anything and try to male thinga happen through datingapps or anything, and I'm not gonna look for anyone. If I meet someone and we get on, fine. If not, well then what can you do?! You can't force these things.
But how old are you?🤔🤔 too young maybe to give up on the whole thing? ... ir too old to hold on😂
Somewhere between 21 and 90. Take your pick. 😄
But seriously, I'm tired of the superficiality of dating. I prefer something more genuine and organic.
I've been asked, countless times, when am I going to 'settle down'. It's not that I don't want to, it's more the fact that I haven't come across a candidate suitable enough, for the long haul, who doesn't feel an inexplicable urge to sabotage everything before we've even begun...
Feel like that age range goes for all caps. Even the young ones. 😄 at least with women, not sure about you guys.
But I know what you mean by inexplicablr urge to sabotage everything before we've even begun. .... because I think that's me😂😂😂😂 it's almost always insecurity that's the reason for this. So many ways to get played and lied to and all that these days.click to expand
Everyone seems to have more intentions and plans behind getting into a relationship these days other than to commit and settle down
Posted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by MoonyEYES88
why the inconsistency in dating? perfectly okay with acting as the boyfriend through text message and reaching out but when it comes to the part of going on dates, why the aloofness and hot and cold?
sometimes i wonder if capricorns desire to be wanted outweighs any other aspect in the situation-ship
Let's get this straight...
You may be a woman but you are also under scrutiny. Just because you were born with a vagina, doesn't make you the holy grail.
Just like men, you can also come up short, and Cap men need to be sure that you're worthy of their attention and affections.
Are you married or in a relationship Gobby?
I don't believe in marriage. As for my relationship status, I have chosen to remain single instead of wasting my time on the dating circuit...
Ok. Not sure I believe in it either. Just thought you were tied up due to the tone in your posts.
Dating is the worst.
Nah, just disillusioned with potential candidates and modern dating attitudes. It's the first time I've voluntary taken time-out from all that relationship crap and, to some extent, feel all the better for it.
Nowadays, instead of pushing for it, I'd rather let love find me. I'm sick and tired of chasing after women I hardly know, based solely on blind faith, only for them to turn out to be less-than-desirable creatures...
I feel exactly the same! I'm not gonna chase anything and try to male thinga happen through datingapps or anything, and I'm not gonna look for anyone. If I meet someone and we get on, fine. If not, well then what can you do?! You can't force these things.
But how old are you?🤔🤔 too young maybe to give up on the whole thing? ... ir too old to hold on😂
Somewhere between 21 and 90. Take your pick. 😄
But seriously, I'm tired of the superficiality of dating. I prefer something more genuine and organic.
I've been asked, countless times, when am I going to 'settle down'. It's not that I don't want to, it's more the fact that I haven't come across a candidate suitable enough, for the long haul, who doesn't feel an inexplicable urge to sabotage everything before we've even begun...
Feel like that age range goes for all caps. Even the young ones. 😄 at least with women, not sure about you guys.
But I know what you mean by inexplicablr urge to sabotage everything before we've even begun. .... because I think that's me😂😂😂😂 it's almost always insecurity that's the reason for this. So many ways to get played and lied to and all that these days.
Everyone seems to have more intentions and plans behind getting into a relationship these days other than to commit and settle down
What do you mean?🤔 players and liars?click to expand
Basically that, and as I said everyone has different intentions.
Some might want a punching bag, some are narcissists who just want to have someone to show off to, some are obsessed with the idea of love and not actually liking the person, some want money, some want fame and reputation, some sociopaths might straight up want to hurt people, others might be in for the sex and that's it.
Etc etc
And they call us Caps cynical! I say we all have reasons to not commit.
Posted by ArkansassyPosted by EtherealTraveler
Counterpart to the thread "Ask a Capricorn female"
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finger in the butt yay or nayclick to expand
Nah fuck the concept of anal
All those germs and bateria on your finger afterwards 🤮
Posted by GobbyPosted by MoonyEYES88
why the inconsistency in dating? perfectly okay with acting as the boyfriend through text message and reaching out but when it comes to the part of going on dates, why the aloofness and hot and cold?
sometimes i wonder if capricorns desire to be wanted outweighs any other aspect in the situation-ship
Let's get this straight...
You may be a woman but you are also under scrutiny. Just because you were born with a vagina, doesn't make you the holy grail.
Just like men, you can also come up short, and Cap men need to be sure that you're worthy of their attention and affections.
click to expand
no ones claiming entitlement... so please dont get your boxers tangled up
i agree and understand someone being worthy of attention and affection however my issue is the consistency of talking the talk and walking the walk, met a lot of cappies that talk the talk ..."lets do this lets do that" ...and then just dont ever walk that walk, even when the opportunity presents itself. ive always seen this with cappy men and women, okay minus one cappy guy that definitely did both though.
Posted by MoonyEYES88
why the inconsistency in dating? perfectly okay with acting as the boyfriend through text message and reaching out but when it comes to the part of going on dates, why the aloofness and hot and cold?
sometimes i wonder if capricorns desire to be wanted outweighs any other aspect in the situation-ship
What does the text message boyfriend act look like? Asking for science.
checking in quite often, telling me all the details of his day " you are so cute" "oh your hurt? now i get to take care of you" " behave yourself out there" "please be safe and dont drink too much" "i like the idea of the 2 of us cooking together"....all nice things to hear but theres no actions behind these
Posted by MoonyEYES88
checking in quite often, telling me all the details of his day " you are so cute" "oh your hurt? now i get to take care of you" " behave yourself out there" "please be safe and dont drink too much" "i like the idea of the 2 of us cooking together"....all nice things to hear but theres no actions behind these
That's just basic courtesy and trying to be friendly?? Flirty in a sense even but no romantic stuff behind all that, this Cap (assuming he's one) cares about you as a person but that's it
Granted you have to like someone to care for them, I only do those things when I'm dating my ex, but that's because I care a lot, and I doubt other Caps only care for people they're dating, so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Posted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by starlordPosted by GobbyPosted by MoonyEYES88
why the inconsistency in dating? perfectly okay with acting as the boyfriend through text message and reaching out but when it comes to the part of going on dates, why the aloofness and hot and cold?
sometimes i wonder if capricorns desire to be wanted outweighs any other aspect in the situation-ship
Let's get this straight...
You may be a woman but you are also under scrutiny. Just because you were born with a vagina, doesn't make you the holy grail.
Just like men, you can also come up short, and Cap men need to be sure that you're worthy of their attention and affections.
Are you married or in a relationship Gobby?
I don't believe in marriage. As for my relationship status, I have chosen to remain single instead of wasting my time on the dating circuit...
Ok. Not sure I believe in it either. Just thought you were tied up due to the tone in your posts.
Dating is the worst.
Nah, just disillusioned with potential candidates and modern dating attitudes. It's the first time I've voluntary taken time-out from all that relationship crap and, to some extent, feel all the better for it.
Nowadays, instead of pushing for it, I'd rather let love find me. I'm sick and tired of chasing after women I hardly know, based solely on blind faith, only for them to turn out to be less-than-desirable creatures...
I feel exactly the same! I'm not gonna chase anything and try to male thinga happen through datingapps or anything, and I'm not gonna look for anyone. If I meet someone and we get on, fine. If not, well then what can you do?! You can't force these things.
But how old are you?🤔🤔 too young maybe to give up on the whole thing? ... ir too old to hold on😂
Somewhere between 21 and 90. Take your pick. 😄
But seriously, I'm tired of the superficiality of dating. I prefer something more genuine and organic.
I've been asked, countless times, when am I going to 'settle down'. It's not that I don't want to, it's more the fact that I haven't come across a candidate suitable enough, for the long haul, who doesn't feel an inexplicable urge to sabotage everything before we've even begun...
Feel like that age range goes for all caps. Even the young ones. 😄 at least with women, not sure about you guys.
But I know what you mean by inexplicablr urge to sabotage everything before we've even begun. .... because I think that's me😂😂😂😂 it's almost always insecurity that's the reason for this. So many ways to get played and lied to and all that these days.
Everyone seems to have more intentions and plans behind getting into a relationship these days other than to commit and settle down
What do you mean?🤔 players and liars?
Basically that, and as I said everyone has different intentions.
Some might want a punching bag, some are narcissists who just want to have someone to show off to, some are obsessed with the idea of love and not actually liking the person, some want money, some want fame and reputation, some sociopaths might straight up want to hurt people, others might be in for the sex and that's it.
Etc etc
And they call us Caps cynical! I say we all have reasons to not commit.
Hmm but people that are like this rarely want to be in relationships do they?🤔 I guess I should be happy, that at least none od the guys I have been into said yes to being in a relationship. They dangled it infront of me though. Masauve egos. Or insecure guys and I make them feel good, while they get annoyed at me.
But yeah, why should anyone trust anyone really?click to expand
Well no, they still get into relationships because social norms has evolved into which you are encouraged to get in a relationship with someone, otherwise you get associated with being not as desirable in the mating game out there.
Words like cuck, beta male, incel, nice guy, etc etc... They all begin to appear and see more usage in modern conversation because of the change I mentioned above. Everyone is pressured to be in a relationship, otherwise they get fit into these categories, and humans crave acceptation by nature yet are distrustful, hence it's a giant paradox.
And as a result, everyone's pressed into a relationship, even the crazy people that shouldn't date in the first place get affected by it too, and as a consequence, stuff like divorce or domestic abuse or negative things like that related to relationships also increase. Commitment is scary, and with everyone having different intentions, it's hard to trust. Yet society pushes us forward into a relationship, and with no trust and fear for commitment, relationships come as fast as they go, ultimately creating a disaster.
Just my 2 cents on all this. I despise this generation to some extent and the influential people that shape up the 21st century. But then again I'm cynical as most Caps are.
Posted by EtherealTravelerPosted by MoonyEYES88
checking in quite often, telling me all the details of his day " you are so cute" "oh your hurt? now i get to take care of you" " behave yourself out there" "please be safe and dont drink too much" "i like the idea of the 2 of us cooking together"....all nice things to hear but theres no actions behind these
That's just basic courtesy and trying to be friendly?? Flirty in a sense even but no romantic stuff behind all that, this Cap (assuming he's one) cares about you as a person but that's it
Granted you have to like someone to care for them, I only do those things when I'm dating my ex, but that's because I care a lot, and I doubt other Caps only care for people they're dating, so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯click to expand
awww its endearing to hear how much you guys care, i like him too but weve only been on one date ...
Posted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by MoonyEYES88
checking in quite often, telling me all the details of his day " you are so cute" "oh your hurt? now i get to take care of you" " behave yourself out there" "please be safe and dont drink too much" "i like the idea of the 2 of us cooking together"....all nice things to hear but theres no actions behind these
That's just basic courtesy and trying to be friendly?? Flirty in a sense even but no romantic stuff behind all that, this Cap (assuming he's one) cares about you as a person but that's it
Granted you have to like someone to care for them, I only do those things when I'm dating my ex, but that's because I care a lot, and I doubt other Caps only care for people they're dating, so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
No no this is not jut bsic friendship stuff. I know exactly what she means.
Cap guy at my work does the same, I know because all the girls independebt of each other has thought he was really vibing on them, and then when they got together real life, he did nothing. It's all talk no action.
He probably sees it as innocent flirting, but none the less still flirting. And most likely flirting for attention. It's a sort of way of catfishing. Lots of cafish has the same online relationship, but totally different story in real life and almost all of them do it for attention and validation. Same goes for a guy like this.click to expand
That's not catfishing... Catfishing is when you're pretending to be someone you're not online in order to pursue a superficial relationship. He's flirting but definitely not catfishing, because he's still him and he's not acting to be anyone else.
Posted by WarDogPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by WarDogPosted by EtherealTraveler
Counterpart to the thread "Ask a Capricorn female"
Ask us everything
why Pisces men so emo?
Because fishes spend too much time on tumblr
nice
what makes cap men the best providers?click to expand
Responsibility, grounded, able to work hard for stuff they want, sense of ambition.
They're designed almost to take care of people, but unlike a Cancer where it's internal providing with emotional talks and moments, Caps fulfil the material sense of providing.
Posted by WarDogPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by WarDogPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by WarDogPosted by EtherealTraveler
Counterpart to the thread "Ask a Capricorn female"
Ask us everything
why Pisces men so emo?
Because fishes spend too much time on tumblr
nice
what makes cap men the best providers?
Responsibility, grounded, able to work hard for stuff they want, sense of ambition.
They're designed almost to take care of people, but unlike a Cancer where it's internal providing with emotional talks and moments, Caps fulfil the material sense of providing.
agree with this, caps and virgo men make great providers, they are the best husband material too. you guys keep giving so much to your family, does it ever bother you how hard you work to give your blood and sweat to others and stay stoic?click to expand
I'm a Pisces moon and lots of Pisces influences so don't quote me entirely on this but basically I see sacrifice and martyrdom as a way for greater pleasure, like I want to feel valued and useful to people I love in order to have a more secure sense of self worth and purpose and I do that by being able to provide (in my case I plan to provide, I'm still really young). But the martyrdom has already surfaced a bit and I suppose I enjoy it, other Caps might have different objectives and thought processes though but yeah.
Posted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by MoonyEYES88
checking in quite often, telling me all the details of his day " you are so cute" "oh your hurt? now i get to take care of you" " behave yourself out there" "please be safe and dont drink too much" "i like the idea of the 2 of us cooking together"....all nice things to hear but theres no actions behind these
That's just basic courtesy and trying to be friendly?? Flirty in a sense even but no romantic stuff behind all that, this Cap (assuming he's one) cares about you as a person but that's it
Granted you have to like someone to care for them, I only do those things when I'm dating my ex, but that's because I care a lot, and I doubt other Caps only care for people they're dating, so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
No no this is not jut bsic friendship stuff. I know exactly what she means.
Cap guy at my work does the same, I know because all the girls independebt of each other has thought he was really vibing on them, and then when they got together real life, he did nothing. It's all talk no action.
He probably sees it as innocent flirting, but none the less still flirting. And most likely flirting for attention. It's a sort of way of catfishing. Lots of cafish has the same online relationship, but totally different story in real life and almost all of them do it for attention and validation. Same goes for a guy like this.
That's not catfishing... Catfishing is when you're pretending to be someone you're not online in order to pursue a superficial relationship. He's flirting but definitely not catfishing, because he's still him and he's not acting to be anyone else.
I know I know but there are certain huge similarities; guy is one person online, another in real life. Talks mad flirty and sweet stuff online, that means nothing in real life. All for attention and affection without having to put himself out there really.click to expand
Similar but not similar enough to be a proper catfish, how bout that? xd
Thank You Starlord!
I've seen that behavior before with capricorn man in others as well. This one is probably the same, I told him that I like him but I don't think we would make each other happy (we wouldnt because I will not settle for someone who pulls the dip every time plans are talked about). He countered me with "i really like you and want to see you, we can find the time, lets finish the conversation tomorrow because he's not letting either of us walk away from this that easily"....he never reached out about finishing the conversation.
This is a perfect example of not walking the walk...he just likes attention
I've seen that behavior before with capricorn man in others as well. This one is probably the same, I told him that I like him but I don't think we would make each other happy (we wouldnt because I will not settle for someone who pulls the dip every time plans are talked about). He countered me with "i really like you and want to see you, we can find the time, lets finish the conversation tomorrow because he's not letting either of us walk away from this that easily"....he never reached out about finishing the conversation.
This is a perfect example of not walking the walk...he just likes attention
What are subtle changes or things Cappys do when they care for you while dating and are slowly deciding to have a relationship with you?
Posted by fullmoongirl
What are subtle changes or things Cappys do when they care for you while dating and are slowly deciding to have a relationship with you?
Nag you a little, be a bit more critical but ultimately accepting you for being you, always worried about you in some form or the other, might get jealous, might be a bit more showoffish than to other people, making bolder moves, being sly with words to get what they want (like giving you a bunch of carrots if you mentioned that you like carrots as a food and is allergic to roses for V day)
Posted by Chesh
My Cap dude's birthday is in January; do I paint him a Xenomorph and bake him a cake or should I just go practical and buy him a shaving kit and a store cake...cause he's kinda OCD, I'm really thinking he's got a Virgo Rising( He's not about to drop those time digits though, he's not gonnna fuel my astrological mumbo jumbo lol).
The latter
Posted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirl
What are subtle changes or things Cappys do when they care for you while dating and are slowly deciding to have a relationship with you?
Nag you a little, be a bit more critical but ultimately accepting you for being you, always worried about you in some form or the other, might get jealous, might be a bit more showoffish than to other people, making bolder moves, being sly with words to get what they want (like giving you a bunch of carrots if you mentioned that you like carrots as a food and is allergic to roses for V day)click to expand
Im getting the naggin critical mode about my fashion style and the “cheap” brands i wear but when i say hes being mean he says hes not that hes joking. Hes always questioning if im dating or sleeping with someone else. We’ve been on and off for a year now. Hes recently shown alot of change and wants to please me more sexualy and a bit with spending time together because i gave him shit about it one time. Hes told me in the past he wasnt ready for a relationship (past heartache) but hes being diffrent I can tell. He always makes me text him when i get home too. If i dont he follows up with me. What do you think?
Posted by fullmoongirlPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirl
What are subtle changes or things Cappys do when they care for you while dating and are slowly deciding to have a relationship with you?
Nag you a little, be a bit more critical but ultimately accepting you for being you, always worried about you in some form or the other, might get jealous, might be a bit more showoffish than to other people, making bolder moves, being sly with words to get what they want (like giving you a bunch of carrots if you mentioned that you like carrots as a food and is allergic to roses for V day)
Im getting the naggin critical mode about my fashion style and the “cheap” brands i wear but when i say hes being mean he says hes not that hes joking. Hes always questioning if im dating or sleeping with someone else. We’ve been on and off for a year now. Hes recently shown alot of change and wants to please me more sexualy and a bit with spending time together because i gave him shit about it one time. Hes told me in the past he wasnt ready for a relationship (past heartache) but hes being diffrent I can tell. He always makes me text him when i get home too. If i dont he follows up with me. What do you think?click to expand
I mean by nagging I meant stuff like, and I quote on quote do this with my ex
"Don't drink too much", "Wear warmer clothes", "Stay safe outside", "Don't smoke too much", "Be careful with your driving", etc etc. Never said anything about fashion sense and at that point the entire fashion sense thing might lean more towards what a Virgo will do than a Cap (they really don't care as long as you aren't wearing PJs or overly skimpy clothing to a restaurant, I don't care at least)
It seems like he wants you to himself (most Caps will towards a woman he's planning to chase or be invested in) hence the questions, but really if he's following up and tries to be responsible with the text messages and acts like a parent, he might just be willing to push it to the next stage. Are you fwbs before that?
Posted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirl
What are subtle changes or things Cappys do when they care for you while dating and are slowly deciding to have a relationship with you?
Nag you a little, be a bit more critical but ultimately accepting you for being you, always worried about you in some form or the other, might get jealous, might be a bit more showoffish than to other people, making bolder moves, being sly with words to get what they want (like giving you a bunch of carrots if you mentioned that you like carrots as a food and is allergic to roses for V day)
Im getting the naggin critical mode about my fashion style and the “cheap” brands i wear but when i say hes being mean he says hes not that hes joking. Hes always questioning if im dating or sleeping with someone else. We’ve been on and off for a year now. Hes recently shown alot of change and wants to please me more sexualy and a bit with spending time together because i gave him shit about it one time. Hes told me in the past he wasnt ready for a relationship (past heartache) but hes being diffrent I can tell. He always makes me text him when i get home too. If i dont he follows up with me. What do you think?
I mean by nagging I meant stuff like, and I quote on quote do this with my ex
"Don't drink too much", "Wear warmer clothes", "Stay safe outside", "Don't smoke too much", "Be careful with your driving", etc etc. Never said anything about fashion sense and at that point the entire fashion sense thing might lean more towards what a Virgo will do than a Cap (they really don't care as long as you aren't wearing PJs or overly skimpy clothing to a restaurant, I don't care at least)
It seems like he wants you to himself (most Caps will towards a woman he's planning to chase or be invested in) hence the questions, but really if he's following up and tries to be responsible with the text messages and acts like a parent, he might just be willing to push it to the next stage. Are you fwbs before that?click to expand
I guess you can call it fwb. He told me 3 months into what i thought was us dating that he was not ready for a relationship. He ghosted me for 31/2 months and then came back around. Hes always told me hes not sleeping with anyone else. Made me promise on day one that i wouldnt sleep with anyone else. 3 months ago we had our first big fight, i kinda ended it, and since then hes been diffrent with me in a good way.
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
Posted by MissKrabsPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirl
What are subtle changes or things Cappys do when they care for you while dating and are slowly deciding to have a relationship with you?
Nag you a little, be a bit more critical but ultimately accepting you for being you, always worried about you in some form or the other, might get jealous, might be a bit more showoffish than to other people, making bolder moves, being sly with words to get what they want (like giving you a bunch of carrots if you mentioned that you like carrots as a food and is allergic to roses for V day)
Im getting the naggin critical mode about my fashion style and the “cheap” brands i wear but when i say hes being mean he says hes not that hes joking. Hes always questioning if im dating or sleeping with someone else. We’ve been on and off for a year now. Hes recently shown alot of change and wants to please me more sexualy and a bit with spending time together because i gave him shit about it one time. Hes told me in the past he wasnt ready for a relationship (past heartache) but hes being diffrent I can tell. He always makes me text him when i get home too. If i dont he follows up with me. What do you think?
I mean by nagging I meant stuff like, and I quote on quote do this with my ex
"Don't drink too much", "Wear warmer clothes", "Stay safe outside", "Don't smoke too much", "Be careful with your driving", etc etc. Never said anything about fashion sense and at that point the entire fashion sense thing might lean more towards what a Virgo will do than a Cap (they really don't care as long as you aren't wearing PJs or overly skimpy clothing to a restaurant, I don't care at least)
It seems like he wants you to himself (most Caps will towards a woman he's planning to chase or be invested in) hence the questions, but really if he's following up and tries to be responsible with the text messages and acts like a parent, he might just be willing to push it to the next stage. Are you fwbs before that?
I guess you can call it fwb. He told me 3 months into what i thought was us dating that he was not ready for a relationship. He ghosted me for 31/2 months and then came back around. Hes always told me hes not sleeping with anyone else. Made me promise on day one that i wouldnt sleep with anyone else. 3 months ago we had our first big fight, i kinda ended it, and since then hes been diffrent with me in a good way.
31 months? man, you are a patient one.click to expand
3 1/2 months... i dont think any cancer can be in limbo for 31 months lol... but i actually have been really patient with him.
Posted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
I’ve come to terms that Cappys are very smart and
intellectual. They are to the point all emotions set aside. I am the same but my cancer emotions cloud my judgement.
Posted by starlordPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
Who's the young blood? Ethereal? Isn't that a female who's dated a cap?click to expand
What
Even my profile said I'm a guy
I dated a Pisces woman last year
Posted by DamousPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirl
What are subtle changes or things Cappys do when they care for you while dating and are slowly deciding to have a relationship with you?
Nag you a little, be a bit more critical but ultimately accepting you for being you, always worried about you in some form or the other, might get jealous, might be a bit more showoffish than to other people, making bolder moves, being sly with words to get what they want (like giving you a bunch of carrots if you mentioned that you like carrots as a food and is allergic to roses for V day)
Im getting the naggin critical mode about my fashion style and the “cheap” brands i wear but when i say hes being mean he says hes not that hes joking. Hes always questioning if im dating or sleeping with someone else. We’ve been on and off for a year now. Hes recently shown alot of change and wants to please me more sexualy and a bit with spending time together because i gave him shit about it one time. Hes told me in the past he wasnt ready for a relationship (past heartache) but hes being diffrent I can tell. He always makes me text him when i get home too. If i dont he follows up with me. What do you think?
I mean by nagging I meant stuff like, and I quote on quote do this with my ex
"Don't drink too much", "Wear warmer clothes", "Stay safe outside", "Don't smoke too much", "Be careful with your driving", etc etc. Never said anything about fashion sense and at that point the entire fashion sense thing might lean more towards what a Virgo will do than a Cap (they really don't care as long as you aren't wearing PJs or overly skimpy clothing to a restaurant, I don't care at least)
It seems like he wants you to himself (most Caps will towards a woman he's planning to chase or be invested in) hence the questions, but really if he's following up and tries to be responsible with the text messages and acts like a parent, he might just be willing to push it to the next stage. Are you fwbs before that?
I'm a Cap(tain) with Virgo rising. Clothing is something I'd pick on you about. If I'm not taking care of myself tho, then I don't really care about what either of us look like lmao ._.
It sounds like you two are making some type of progress, at any rateclick to expand
@fullmoongirl
Posted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
There are still many instances where I'm still acting like a child (Aries influences mostly) xd
Really, the random instances of my maturity came from spending time with my ex when we were still dating, who would have known that a Cap moon could teach a Cap sun lots of lessons?
Posted by fullmoongirlPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
I’ve come to terms that Cappys are very smart and
intellectual. They are to the point all emotions set aside. I am the same but my cancer emotions cloud my judgement.click to expand
I'm Pisces dominant and sometimes (used to be most of the time) my own emotions cloud my judgement and analyzing abilities
Posted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
Who's the young blood? Ethereal? Isn't that a female who's dated a cap?
What
Even my profile said I'm a guy
I dated a Pisces woman last year
😂😂😂 sorry!!! Didn't look at your profile. I just thought I read you giving examples of how your cap had been "nagging" with wear warmer clothes, don't drink too much, but must have misunderstood something 😄click to expand
I nag my Pisces ex back then, it did happen... but instead I was the guy who nagged a woman instead of the other way around. Never dated a Cap woman before, never encountered one that doesn't intimidate me or disappoint me afaik, but hopefully it'll change. My Juno is in Cap after all! I'm destined to marry a Cap woman 😂😭
Posted by Black-Mamba
This thread is great by the way. You are very mature for your age
Nope I'm still a kid xd Too much to learn still
Posted by Black-Mamba
If a cap doesn't show interest he's not into you?
Like texts etc
Not necessarily since it might be just mind games and being in the initial stage of denying feelings, encouragement and nudging is needed for a Cap to show his real colors, even if its just a little
I deny my feelings regularly towards people
Posted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
I’ve come to terms that Cappys are very smart and
intellectual. They are to the point all emotions set aside. I am the same but my cancer emotions cloud my judgement.
I'm Pisces dominant and sometimes (used to be most of the time) my own emotions cloud my judgement and analyzing abilitiesclick to expand
In the natal charts my cappy has a pisces moon or an aries moon. Im sure its a pisces moon. I think he is holding back a lot because of his ex-wife (Aqua), she up and left him randomly when they were in a different country with his child. Once he came back (2yrs later) and while he was away she would consistently yo-yo him every six months. Their relationship became explosive everytime. Another change in him is that he no longer speaks of her in a negative manner or at all in front of me. I think this has to do with me throwing it in his face that he might still want her back (when i kinda dumped him) which he replied with that he’s working on movin on from her. they’ve been separated for more than 3 yrs.
Posted by EtherealTravelerPosted by Black-Mamba
If a cap doesn't show interest he's not into you?
Like texts etc
Not necessarily since it might be just mind games and being in the initial stage of denying feelings, encouragement and nudging is needed for a Cap to show his real colors, even if its just a little
I deny my feelings regularly towards peopleclick to expand
How can we encourage or nudge these feelings to show?
Posted by fullmoongirlPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
I’ve come to terms that Cappys are very smart and
intellectual. They are to the point all emotions set aside. I am the same but my cancer emotions cloud my judgement.
I'm Pisces dominant and sometimes (used to be most of the time) my own emotions cloud my judgement and analyzing abilities
In the natal charts my cappy has a pisces moon or an aries moon. Im sure its a pisces moon. I think he is holding back a lot because of his ex-wife (Aqua), she up and left him randomly when they were in a different country with his child. Once he came back (2yrs later) and while he was away she would consistently yo-yo him every six months. Their relationship became explosive everytime. Another change in him is that he no longer speaks of her in a negative manner or at all in front of me. I think this has to do with me throwing it in his face that he might still want her back (when i kinda dumped him) which he replied with that he’s working on movin on from her. they’ve been separated for more than 3 yrs.click to expand
Interesting, same moon sign as me (if he is a Pisces moon)! Yeah that would scare anyone off let alone the cap, although he might just be in for the kid or maybe there's resentment held inside him towards her hence the obsession (I resonate with this as someone that has a ton of Pluto aspects negatively), either way stick around him, you waited for2 years and a half now, just stay by his side and such and it'll go well, don't rush things, and he'll eventually find a solution. You can even help him or assist him in finding a solution too if you manage to find out the entire story and his complications and plans, because Caps are kinda narrow minded and might need a refresher on knowing other possibilities.
Also imo, every Cap has a secret requirement or series of tests that isn't official and such. What he tells everyone he seeks in a partner might not be completely true, especially if he has a Pisces moon, since there are certain traits that is too personal to be announced in public, yet must be passed by the potential love interest of the Cap in order for things to go one step further. I said I love you and meant it to my Pisces ex after spending 4 months together with her initially and kinda dating, my pessimistic thoughts were mostly cleared up as soon as she passed my test which I nudged on her one day in random talks. As for what my requirements are, that'd be a secret 😛 But every Cap has different requirements, and if you manage to pass it, he's all yours.
But for starters, make him feel secure and give him the feeling that someone's behind his back to support him?
Posted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
Who's the young blood? Ethereal? Isn't that a female who's dated a cap?
What
Even my profile said I'm a guy
I dated a Pisces woman last year
😂😂😂 sorry!!! Didn't look at your profile. I just thought I read you giving examples of how your cap had been "nagging" with wear warmer clothes, don't drink too much, but must have misunderstood something 😄
I nag my Pisces ex back then, it did happen... but instead I was the guy who nagged a woman instead of the other way around. Never dated a Cap woman before, never encountered one that doesn't intimidate me or disappoint me afaik, but hopefully it'll change. My Juno is in Cap after all! I'm destined to marry a Cap woman 😂😭
Okay sorry for the misunderstanding😄
How do you find out who you're destined to marry? Or if you are even destined to be married?😅click to expand
Family traditions demand I must marry (Cap mom of mines insisted that if I don't marry by 30, she's gonna disown me 😂)
Also I looked at my descendant and stuff in the 7th house (my Descendant is in Cancer) and my Juno. My Vertex/North Node is in the 7th house in Leo, while my Juno is in Cap, 1st house.
Chances are I'm probably gonna marry someone that's Cancer/Leo/Cap dominant, mainly Cap and Leo though I'm guessing, and I feel like it's gonna suck since the Cap women I encountered thus far have already kind of scared me away, and I don't really like the Cancer/Leo folks I know either, particularly those pesky Cancer/Leo cusp people. Just imagine marrying your worst fear 😭
Posted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
I’ve come to terms that Cappys are very smart and
intellectual. They are to the point all emotions set aside. I am the same but my cancer emotions cloud my judgement.
I'm Pisces dominant and sometimes (used to be most of the time) my own emotions cloud my judgement and analyzing abilities
In the natal charts my cappy has a pisces moon or an aries moon. Im sure its a pisces moon. I think he is holding back a lot because of his ex-wife (Aqua), she up and left him randomly when they were in a different country with his child. Once he came back (2yrs later) and while he was away she would consistently yo-yo him every six months. Their relationship became explosive everytime. Another change in him is that he no longer speaks of her in a negative manner or at all in front of me. I think this has to do with me throwing it in his face that he might still want her back (when i kinda dumped him) which he replied with that he’s working on movin on from her. they’ve been separated for more than 3 yrs.
Interesting, same moon sign as me (if he is a Pisces moon)! Yeah that would scare anyone off let alone the cap, although he might just be in for the kid or maybe there's resentment held inside him towards her hence the obsession (I resonate with this as someone that has a ton of Pluto aspects negatively), either way stick around him, you waited for2 years and a half now, just stay by his side and such and it'll go well, don't rush things, and he'll eventually find a solution. You can even help him or assist him in finding a solution too if you manage to find out the entire story and his complications and plans, because Caps are kinda narrow minded and might need a refresher on knowing other possibilities.
Also imo, every Cap has a secret requirement or series of tests that isn't official and such. What he tells everyone he seeks in a partner might not be completely true, especially if he has a Pisces moon, since there are certain traits that is too personal to be announced in public, yet must be passed by the potential love interest of the Cap in order for things to go one step further. I said I love you and meant it to my Pisces ex after spending 4 months together with her initially and kinda dating, my pessimistic thoughts were mostly cleared up as soon as she passed my test which I nudged on her one day in random talks. As for what my requirements are, that'd be a secret 😛 But every Cap has different requirements, and if you manage to pass it, he's all yours.
But for starters, make him feel secure and give him the feeling that someone's behind his back to support him?click to expand
I feel like it is all a test. And to clarify its only been a year since we’ve been at this. I notice that when i stand up for what i like and or stand up for myself he changes things he does. Again the whole please me thing. I just went on a trip and got him a rare gift of a new hobby of his that he recently mentioned and he was so happy and surprised. He told me he really loved it and that whole night he was funnier and more passionate with me. Showed off his new wardrobe purchase. He even told me he missed me, which is a first. He usually masks his i missed you with i missed it (sex). Im going to be real patient for him till hes ready. He is very much worth it. Patience with emotions is not a great Cancer trait but I am trying my hardest.
Posted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
I’ve come to terms that Cappys are very smart and
intellectual. They are to the point all emotions set aside. I am the same but my cancer emotions cloud my judgement.
I'm Pisces dominant and sometimes (used to be most of the time) my own emotions cloud my judgement and analyzing abilities
In the natal charts my cappy has a pisces moon or an aries moon. Im sure its a pisces moon. I think he is holding back a lot because of his ex-wife (Aqua), she up and left him randomly when they were in a different country with his child. Once he came back (2yrs later) and while he was away she would consistently yo-yo him every six months. Their relationship became explosive everytime. Another change in him is that he no longer speaks of her in a negative manner or at all in front of me. I think this has to do with me throwing it in his face that he might still want her back (when i kinda dumped him) which he replied with that he’s working on movin on from her. they’ve been separated for more than 3 yrs.
Interesting, same moon sign as me (if he is a Pisces moon)! Yeah that would scare anyone off let alone the cap, although he might just be in for the kid or maybe there's resentment held inside him towards her hence the obsession (I resonate with this as someone that has a ton of Pluto aspects negatively), either way stick around him, you waited for2 years and a half now, just stay by his side and such and it'll go well, don't rush things, and he'll eventually find a solution. You can even help him or assist him in finding a solution too if you manage to find out the entire story and his complications and plans, because Caps are kinda narrow minded and might need a refresher on knowing other possibilities.
Also imo, every Cap has a secret requirement or series of tests that isn't official and such. What he tells everyone he seeks in a partner might not be completely true, especially if he has a Pisces moon, since there are certain traits that is too personal to be announced in public, yet must be passed by the potential love interest of the Cap in order for things to go one step further. I said I love you and meant it to my Pisces ex after spending 4 months together with her initially and kinda dating, my pessimistic thoughts were mostly cleared up as soon as she passed my test which I nudged on her one day in random talks. As for what my requirements are, that'd be a secret 😛 But every Cap has different requirements, and if you manage to pass it, he's all yours.
But for starters, make him feel secure and give him the feeling that someone's behind his back to support him?
I have noooooo idea what the requirements are, so no help there, but it is true though: cap guy I used to know has said, that he wants a girl to be a certain way, and if she is not, he won't want her or to be with her.
Me I'm opposite, I'm like surprise me!!! Weird when I am supposed to be the fixed one and he/caps are not.
Also I think the testing this is true too, but for everyone. But I think it's a little harsh being judged and tested when you are not even trying to date but are just friends who hooked up. I for one feel wrongfully judged. Or misunderstood. But eh it's for the best.click to expand
I'm a bit less narrow minded on that one, since I can be with most people too, but nothing more than friends really, and I won't really avoid them like the plague, maybe the occasional hookup at most if I ever get to that stage, but it'd be hard pressed to call it anything more than an one night stand.
Caps test every single person and decide how worthy they are of being close to them. Those that fail kinda stay as acquaintances or strangers, while those that pass advance through. I treat most of my peers like acquaintances anyways, and I don't necessarily need friends (Pisces influences there of wanting isolation, and deserving isolation). And yes Caps can misjudge too, that's why first impressions are important, or just make up for it later on! Things can change 😄
Posted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
Who's the young blood? Ethereal? Isn't that a female who's dated a cap?
What
Even my profile said I'm a guy
I dated a Pisces woman last year
😂😂😂 sorry!!! Didn't look at your profile. I just thought I read you giving examples of how your cap had been "nagging" with wear warmer clothes, don't drink too much, but must have misunderstood something 😄
I nag my Pisces ex back then, it did happen... but instead I was the guy who nagged a woman instead of the other way around. Never dated a Cap woman before, never encountered one that doesn't intimidate me or disappoint me afaik, but hopefully it'll change. My Juno is in Cap after all! I'm destined to marry a Cap woman 😂😭
Okay sorry for the misunderstanding😄
How do you find out who you're destined to marry? Or if you are even destined to be married?😅
Family traditions demand I must marry (Cap mom of mines insisted that if I don't marry by 30, she's gonna disown me 😂)
Also I looked at my descendant and stuff in the 7th house (my Descendant is in Cancer) and my Juno. My Vertex/North Node is in the 7th house in Leo, while my Juno is in Cap, 1st house.
Chances are I'm probably gonna marry someone that's Cancer/Leo/Cap dominant, mainly Cap and Leo though I'm guessing, and I feel like it's gonna suck since the Cap women I encountered thus far have already kind of scared me away, and I don't really like the Cancer/Leo folks I know either, particularly those pesky Cancer/Leo cusp people. Just imagine marrying your worst fear 😭
Ha ha at your mom! But as long as she is teaching you good things, I'm with her!
Marrying your worst fear could probably teach you a bunch. Maybe they are the only one to take away your self control.click to expand
I don't even have self control because of my other planetary placements, I'm just stubborn and emotionally driven to be a cut above the rest xd
I do want control though, and all those women I've been attracting seem to challenge or contest my ability to control the situation and wants to have a power struggle with me... Is this karma? Is my control and power destined to be taken away by a mere love interest?! 😢
Posted by fullmoongirlPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
I’ve come to terms that Cappys are very smart and
intellectual. They are to the point all emotions set aside. I am the same but my cancer emotions cloud my judgement.
I'm Pisces dominant and sometimes (used to be most of the time) my own emotions cloud my judgement and analyzing abilities
In the natal charts my cappy has a pisces moon or an aries moon. Im sure its a pisces moon. I think he is holding back a lot because of his ex-wife (Aqua), she up and left him randomly when they were in a different country with his child. Once he came back (2yrs later) and while he was away she would consistently yo-yo him every six months. Their relationship became explosive everytime. Another change in him is that he no longer speaks of her in a negative manner or at all in front of me. I think this has to do with me throwing it in his face that he might still want her back (when i kinda dumped him) which he replied with that he’s working on movin on from her. they’ve been separated for more than 3 yrs.
Interesting, same moon sign as me (if he is a Pisces moon)! Yeah that would scare anyone off let alone the cap, although he might just be in for the kid or maybe there's resentment held inside him towards her hence the obsession (I resonate with this as someone that has a ton of Pluto aspects negatively), either way stick around him, you waited for2 years and a half now, just stay by his side and such and it'll go well, don't rush things, and he'll eventually find a solution. You can even help him or assist him in finding a solution too if you manage to find out the entire story and his complications and plans, because Caps are kinda narrow minded and might need a refresher on knowing other possibilities.
Also imo, every Cap has a secret requirement or series of tests that isn't official and such. What he tells everyone he seeks in a partner might not be completely true, especially if he has a Pisces moon, since there are certain traits that is too personal to be announced in public, yet must be passed by the potential love interest of the Cap in order for things to go one step further. I said I love you and meant it to my Pisces ex after spending 4 months together with her initially and kinda dating, my pessimistic thoughts were mostly cleared up as soon as she passed my test which I nudged on her one day in random talks. As for what my requirements are, that'd be a secret 😛 But every Cap has different requirements, and if you manage to pass it, he's all yours.
But for starters, make him feel secure and give him the feeling that someone's behind his back to support him?
I feel like it is all a test. And to clarify its only been a year since we’ve been at this. I notice that when i stand up for what i like and or stand up for myself he changes things he does. Again the whole please me thing. I just went on a trip and got him a rare gift of a new hobby of his that he recently mentioned and he was so happy and surprised. He told me he really loved it and that whole night he was funnier and more passionate with me. Showed off his new wardrobe purchase. He even told me he missed me, which is a first. He usually masks his i missed you with i missed it (sex). Im going to be real patient for him till hes ready. He is very much worth it. Patience with emotions is not a great Cancer trait but I am trying my hardest.click to expand
Good luck!! Caps will please people, because for Caps, love is appreciation towards another person, and mimicry is the best form of flattery they said, hence he wants to flatter you. He's getting more ready, but if you can manage to find the hidden test he has for you and pass it, then he's truthfully yours completely, he won't hesitate anymore and will jump straight into something even more intimate.
Posted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
I’ve come to terms that Cappys are very smart and
intellectual. They are to the point all emotions set aside. I am the same but my cancer emotions cloud my judgement.
I'm Pisces dominant and sometimes (used to be most of the time) my own emotions cloud my judgement and analyzing abilities
In the natal charts my cappy has a pisces moon or an aries moon. Im sure its a pisces moon. I think he is holding back a lot because of his ex-wife (Aqua), she up and left him randomly when they were in a different country with his child. Once he came back (2yrs later) and while he was away she would consistently yo-yo him every six months. Their relationship became explosive everytime. Another change in him is that he no longer speaks of her in a negative manner or at all in front of me. I think this has to do with me throwing it in his face that he might still want her back (when i kinda dumped him) which he replied with that he’s working on movin on from her. they’ve been separated for more than 3 yrs.
Interesting, same moon sign as me (if he is a Pisces moon)! Yeah that would scare anyone off let alone the cap, although he might just be in for the kid or maybe there's resentment held inside him towards her hence the obsession (I resonate with this as someone that has a ton of Pluto aspects negatively), either way stick around him, you waited for2 years and a half now, just stay by his side and such and it'll go well, don't rush things, and he'll eventually find a solution. You can even help him or assist him in finding a solution too if you manage to find out the entire story and his complications and plans, because Caps are kinda narrow minded and might need a refresher on knowing other possibilities.
Also imo, every Cap has a secret requirement or series of tests that isn't official and such. What he tells everyone he seeks in a partner might not be completely true, especially if he has a Pisces moon, since there are certain traits that is too personal to be announced in public, yet must be passed by the potential love interest of the Cap in order for things to go one step further. I said I love you and meant it to my Pisces ex after spending 4 months together with her initially and kinda dating, my pessimistic thoughts were mostly cleared up as soon as she passed my test which I nudged on her one day in random talks. As for what my requirements are, that'd be a secret 😛 But every Cap has different requirements, and if you manage to pass it, he's all yours.
But for starters, make him feel secure and give him the feeling that someone's behind his back to support him?
I have noooooo idea what the requirements are, so no help there, but it is true though: cap guy I used to know has said, that he wants a girl to be a certain way, and if she is not, he won't want her or to be with her.
Me I'm opposite, I'm like surprise me!!! Weird when I am supposed to be the fixed one and he/caps are not.
Also I think the testing this is true too, but for everyone. But I think it's a little harsh being judged and tested when you are not even trying to date but are just friends who hooked up. I for one feel wrongfully judged. Or misunderstood. But eh it's for the best.
I'm a bit less narrow minded on that one, since I can be with most people too, but nothing more than friends really, and I won't really avoid them like the plague, maybe the occasional hookup at most if I ever get to that stage, but it'd be hard pressed to call it anything more than an one night stand.
Caps test every single person and decide how worthy they are of being close to them. Those that fail kinda stay as acquaintances or strangers, while those that pass advance through. I treat most of my peers like acquaintances anyways, and I don't necessarily need friends (Pisces influences there of wanting isolation, and deserving isolation). And yes Caps can misjudge too, that's why first impressions are important, or just make up for it later on! Things can change 😄
I'm just hurt and my pride is hurt because I thought I was friends with this guy, and then we hooked up, and he changed completely after and the friendship turned into nothing and now he's a gonnar. It hurts to be seen as just sex by someone you thought actually was your friend. It will def. take me a while to get over that. That's just how it is.click to expand
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This is why being cynical and keeping everyone at arm's length's a good idea! What I told myself anyways. Caps can be brutal, especially those with Sag influences who can't shut up and is blunt to a fault.
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Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
Who's the young blood? Ethereal? Isn't that a female who's dated a cap?
What
Even my profile said I'm a guy
I dated a Pisces woman last year
😂😂😂 sorry!!! Didn't look at your profile. I just thought I read you giving examples of how your cap had been "nagging" with wear warmer clothes, don't drink too much, but must have misunderstood something 😄
I nag my Pisces ex back then, it did happen... but instead I was the guy who nagged a woman instead of the other way around. Never dated a Cap woman before, never encountered one that doesn't intimidate me or disappoint me afaik, but hopefully it'll change. My Juno is in Cap after all! I'm destined to marry a Cap woman 😂😭
Okay sorry for the misunderstanding😄
How do you find out who you're destined to marry? Or if you are even destined to be married?😅
Family traditions demand I must marry (Cap mom of mines insisted that if I don't marry by 30, she's gonna disown me 😂)
Also I looked at my descendant and stuff in the 7th house (my Descendant is in Cancer) and my Juno. My Vertex/North Node is in the 7th house in Leo, while my Juno is in Cap, 1st house.
Chances are I'm probably gonna marry someone that's Cancer/Leo/Cap dominant, mainly Cap and Leo though I'm guessing, and I feel like it's gonna suck since the Cap women I encountered thus far have already kind of scared me away, and I don't really like the Cancer/Leo folks I know either, particularly those pesky Cancer/Leo cusp people. Just imagine marrying your worst fear 😭
Ha ha at your mom! But as long as she is teaching you good things, I'm with her!
Marrying your worst fear could probably teach you a bunch. Maybe they are the only one to take away your self control.
I don't even have self control because of my other planetary placements, I'm just stubborn and emotionally driven to be a cut above the rest xd
I do want control though, and all those women I've been attracting seem to challenge or contest my ability to control the situation and wants to have a power struggle with me... Is this karma? Is my control and power destined to be taken away by a mere love interest?! 😢
Yeah I think love is supposed to challenge you!!!! Bring forth sides to you, you didn't know you had.click to expand
But all my fantasies about love! Now you just described love as a chore with people who are a drag but are attractive to you 😢
Why can't you make up your mind and give a clear answer as to WHAT DO YOU WANT , I'm just tired of that hot and cold behavior, let alone it's been a hella long time we have not gone anywhere and he ignores me time to time for days.
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