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Posted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
Who's the young blood? Ethereal? Isn't that a female who's dated a cap?
What
Even my profile said I'm a guy
I dated a Pisces woman last year
ššš sorry!!! Didn't look at your profile. I just thought I read you giving examples of how your cap had been "nagging" with wear warmer clothes, don't drink too much, but must have misunderstood something š
I nag my Pisces ex back then, it did happen... but instead I was the guy who nagged a woman instead of the other way around. Never dated a Cap woman before, never encountered one that doesn't intimidate me or disappoint me afaik, but hopefully it'll change. My Juno is in Cap after all! I'm destined to marry a Cap woman šš
Okay sorry for the misunderstandingš
How do you find out who you're destined to marry? Or if you are even destined to be married?š
Family traditions demand I must marry (Cap mom of mines insisted that if I don't marry by 30, she's gonna disown me š)
Also I looked at my descendant and stuff in the 7th house (my Descendant is in Cancer) and my Juno. My Vertex/North Node is in the 7th house in Leo, while my Juno is in Cap, 1st house.
Chances are I'm probably gonna marry someone that's Cancer/Leo/Cap dominant, mainly Cap and Leo though I'm guessing, and I feel like it's gonna suck since the Cap women I encountered thus far have already kind of scared me away, and I don't really like the Cancer/Leo folks I know either, particularly those pesky Cancer/Leo cusp people. Just imagine marrying your worst fear š
Ha ha at your mom! But as long as she is teaching you good things, I'm with her!
Marrying your worst fear could probably teach you a bunch. Maybe they are the only one to take away your self control.
I don't even have self control because of my other planetary placements, I'm just stubborn and emotionally driven to be a cut above the rest xd
I do want control though, and all those women I've been attracting seem to challenge or contest my ability to control the situation and wants to have a power struggle with me... Is this karma? Is my control and power destined to be taken away by a mere love interest?! š¢
Yeah I think love is supposed to challenge you!!!! Bring forth sides to you, you didn't know you had.
But all my fantasies about love! Now you just described love as a chore with people who are a drag but are attractive to you š¢
ššš a chore!!!!?!! To me it sounds exiting! What fantasies does a cap have about love? I'm sure there are a lot of people who want to know. I don't have any really. I'm a take it as it comes kind of person.click to expand
But I don't want love to be challenging in the form of my control being contested 24/7 š¢
My fantasies involve... well its a long list xd, but mainly stability and romantic gestures and allowing me to court my love interest while we support each other with me being in lead. But I'm 18 and thus what I said is basically what all people in my age range want.
I mean I just want to be seen as a priority and to feel useful and be able to achieve further and learn more and mature, you know?
Posted by EtherealTravelerPosted by pisceanloves
Why can't you make up your mind and give a clear answer as to WHAT DO YOU WANT , I'm just tired of that hot and cold behavior, let alone it's been a hella long time we have not gone anywhere and he ignores me time to time for days.
Get him on the chase, things that come too easily won't interest a Cap, keep him chasing you, else he goes hot and cold which means he probably only sees you as a casual flirt or fuck and nothing more.click to expand
Should I say push and pull instead of hot and cold? but yeah, I'm gonna ignore him for a few days, he is not treating me right. He's not getting laid anytime soon, unless his behavior changes
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by pisceanloves
Why can't you make up your mind and give a clear answer as to WHAT DO YOU WANT , I'm just tired of that hot and cold behavior, let alone it's been a hella long time we have not gone anywhere and he ignores me time to time for days.
Get him on the chase, things that come too easily won't interest a Cap, keep him chasing you, else he goes hot and cold which means he probably only sees you as a casual flirt or fuck and nothing more.
Should I say push and pull instead of hot and cold? but yeah, I'm gonna ignore him for a few days, he is not treating me right. He's not getting laid anytime soon, unless his behavior changesclick to expand
No I get what you mean
Just deny him of the things he want unless he actually works for it. Let him play into your hand, not the other way around. This takes patience, but if you really can move on without him, then you win. Just make sure he stays interested though
Posted by EtherealTravelerPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by pisceanloves
Why can't you make up your mind and give a clear answer as to WHAT DO YOU WANT , I'm just tired of that hot and cold behavior, let alone it's been a hella long time we have not gone anywhere and he ignores me time to time for days.
Get him on the chase, things that come too easily won't interest a Cap, keep him chasing you, else he goes hot and cold which means he probably only sees you as a casual flirt or fuck and nothing more.
Should I say push and pull instead of hot and cold? but yeah, I'm gonna ignore him for a few days, he is not treating me right. He's not getting laid anytime soon, unless his behavior changes
No I get what you mean
Just deny him of the things he want unless he actually works for it. Let him play into your hand, not the other way around. This takes patience, but if you really can move on without him, then you win. Just make sure he stays interested thoughclick to expand
I can yes, to be honest I'm on the edge, exhausted. I don't even care if he reaches out or not, it's been 2 days so far, I sent him a message, I had a court on Wednesday and wanted to share events with him, he opened right away, but left me on read. Recently I started using sweet words and calling him babe and fooling around, stroking his ego, it worked for a bit, then again ignoring. So far I have not ignored him and I'm gonna start doing it
Posted by fullmoongirlPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
Iāve come to terms that Cappys are very smart and
intellectual. They are to the point all emotions set aside. I am the same but my cancer emotions cloud my judgement.click to expand
Ahh Cancers. Y'all are so sweet and nurturing. We got what the other needs.
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by pisceanloves
Why can't you make up your mind and give a clear answer as to WHAT DO YOU WANT , I'm just tired of that hot and cold behavior, let alone it's been a hella long time we have not gone anywhere and he ignores me time to time for days.
Get him on the chase, things that come too easily won't interest a Cap, keep him chasing you, else he goes hot and cold which means he probably only sees you as a casual flirt or fuck and nothing more.
Should I say push and pull instead of hot and cold? but yeah, I'm gonna ignore him for a few days, he is not treating me right. He's not getting laid anytime soon, unless his behavior changes
No I get what you mean
Just deny him of the things he want unless he actually works for it. Let him play into your hand, not the other way around. This takes patience, but if you really can move on without him, then you win. Just make sure he stays interested though
I can yes, to be honest I'm on the edge, exhausted. I don't even care if he reaches out or not, it's been 2 days so far, I sent him a message, I had a court on Wednesday and wanted to share events with him, he opened right away, but left me on read. Recently I started using sweet words and calling him babe and fooling around, stroking his ego, it worked for a bit, then again ignoring. So far I have not ignored him and I'm gonna start doing itclick to expand
Good call, let him chase instead of you doing the chasing, the best things don't come by easily as they say š) Stroke his ego when you start to get super intimate and all, then he starts appreciating it.
Posted by GOATActionPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
Iāve come to terms that Cappys are very smart and
intellectual. They are to the point all emotions set aside. I am the same but my cancer emotions cloud my judgement.
Ahh Cancers. Y'all are so sweet and nurturing. We got what the other needs.click to expand
Lol now if we only knew what cappys really need
Posted by fullmoongirlPosted by GOATActionPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
Iāve come to terms that Cappys are very smart and
intellectual. They are to the point all emotions set aside. I am the same but my cancer emotions cloud my judgement.
Ahh Cancers. Y'all are so sweet and nurturing. We got what the other needs.
Lol now if we only knew what cappys really needclick to expand
Just gotta prod slowly.
Posted by fullmoongirlPosted by GOATActionPosted by fullmoongirlPosted by GOATAction
Not surprising that an 18 year old male is speaking well beyond his years.
28 yo Cap male here and I agree with just about everything this young blood has said.
Iāve come to terms that Cappys are very smart and
intellectual. They are to the point all emotions set aside. I am the same but my cancer emotions cloud my judgement.
Ahh Cancers. Y'all are so sweet and nurturing. We got what the other needs.
Lol now if we only knew what cappys really needclick to expand
Security, comfort, someone that can push us to be a better version of ourselves
Posted by ScorpioTruth
Would you pacify someone with promises in an effort to keep them near, even if you had no plans to deliver on those promises?
Yes
But that would be my Pisces self talking (I'm Pisces dominant)
Posted by starlord
Yeah I think love is supposed to challenge you!!!! Bring forth sides to you, you didn't know you had.
But all my fantasies about love! Now you just described love as a chore with people who are a drag but are attractive to you š¢
ššš a chore!!!!?!! To me it sounds exiting! What fantasies does a cap have about love? I'm sure there are a lot of people who want to know. I don't have any really. I'm a take it as it comes kind of person.
But I don't want love to be challenging in the form of my control being contested 24/7 š¢
My fantasies involve... well its a long list xd, but mainly stability and romantic gestures and allowing me to court my love interest while we support each other with me being in lead. But I'm 18 and thus what I said is basically what all people in my age range want.
I mean I just want to be seen as a priority and to feel useful and be able to achieve further and learn more and mature, you know?
I think what you dream of is pretty much what everybody dreams of. But I think that in reality, relationships will bring out sides to you, you didnĀ“t know you had, and you will have to do some struggling. But ofcours not all the time!! At all! š Love should make you feel overall good. But no oneĀ“s forcing you to marry anyone (I hope), so just marry the one who makes you happy š
Relationships make people mature yes and is a great learning experience, especially with the wholesome and worthwhile relationships with people that truly wish you sell š As long as I (and this goes out for everyone) stays faithful to myself and know exactly what and they seek in a partner and can work towards it, then I think I can find a suitable partner that makes me happy.
Relationships can bring out the best and worst in people though, but its all a learning experience and as long as the same mistake isn't made again, its fine. (I say this while thinking back at a disgusting event that happened because I can't control my Mars square Pluto rage... eek! Was disgusted at myself afterwards and still am.)
Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by ScorpioTruth
Would you pacify someone with promises in an effort to keep them near, even if you had no plans to deliver on those promises?
Yes
But that would be my Pisces self talking (I'm Pisces dominant)
Yeah I can definitely see a Pisces/pisces dominant doing that. Lol
My sons dad doesnāt have any Pisces in his chart. But Iāve wondered about this with him. We were together for 10 years. Still very good friends, love and mutual respect is still there. But a lot of reservations on my end.click to expand
As in you're reserved towards him? Is it because he makes promises he doesn't carry out just to keep you around?
My Cap mom always taught me to be able to carry out promises and be a responsible person though, but maybe that's more of a time thing (its the 21st century) than it is with one's natal chart placements.
Posted by starlordPosted by EtherealTraveler
Relationships make people mature yes and is a great learning experience, especially with the wholesome and worthwhile relationships with people that truly wish you sell š As long as I (and this goes out for everyone) stays faithful to myself and know exactly what and they seek in a partner and can work towards it, then I think I can find a suitable partner that makes me happy.
Relationships can bring out the best and worst in people though, but its all a learning experience and as long as the same mistake isn't made again, its fine. (I say this while thinking back at a disgusting event that happened because I can't control my Mars square Pluto rage... eek! Was disgusted at myself afterwards and still am.)
DonĀ“t just halfass say something here, when youĀ“re talking to a very very very curious person!!!! Now I GOTS TO KNOW!!! š
WeĀ“ve all done disgusting things. To others and to ourselves. Even hurt people we love. And hurt people we donĀ“t love and use them. Some more than others, I believe though.
I have no idea how I will act and/or be, if I would ever actually be in a loving relationship. Maybe that will turn me into the bad person. All of us constantly change when interacting with new or different people.click to expand
You know how I said I had Mars square Pluto and its known for sexual abuse and violence and shit?
Well... I might have cyber sexually abused (eg. Revenge porn) someone before. Not proud of it at all. I was 17 at the time and thinking back it still made me sick that it happened.
Since then, when I met my Pisces ex a few months later, I promised that I would treat her well and not hurt her, which left her confused for a good few months (until I told her about the incident), and she said she's glad that I decided to change and didn't try to hurt her at all (although I still carried out empty threats at times).
Really, I believe for a person to change, a drastically good or bad thing must happen to them first that involves other people, usually a bad thing, and if they have remorse and regret, they will sought to change and be a better person. I think.
Posted by EtherealTravelerPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by ScorpioTruth
Would you pacify someone with promises in an effort to keep them near, even if you had no plans to deliver on those promises?
Yes
But that would be my Pisces self talking (I'm Pisces dominant)
Yeah I can definitely see a Pisces/pisces dominant doing that. Lol
My sons dad doesnāt have any Pisces in his chart. But Iāve wondered about this with him. We were together for 10 years. Still very good friends, love and mutual respect is still there. But a lot of reservations on my end.
As in you're reserved towards him? Is it because he makes promises he doesn't carry out just to keep you around?
My Cap mom always taught me to be able to carry out promises and be a responsible person though, but maybe that's more of a time thing (its the 21st century) than it is with one's natal chart placements.click to expand
I think it's more of an upbringing thing first and natal placement thing second. For me, I've got so much Cap in my chart, and a Virgo moon. Rarely, if ever, do I have to modify a promise or duty. I'm driven to deliver upon anything and everything I commit to or give my word on. Super stable.
Posted by GOATActionPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by ScorpioTruth
Would you pacify someone with promises in an effort to keep them near, even if you had no plans to deliver on those promises?
Yes
But that would be my Pisces self talking (I'm Pisces dominant)
Yeah I can definitely see a Pisces/pisces dominant doing that. Lol
My sons dad doesnāt have any Pisces in his chart. But Iāve wondered about this with him. We were together for 10 years. Still very good friends, love and mutual respect is still there. But a lot of reservations on my end.
As in you're reserved towards him? Is it because he makes promises he doesn't carry out just to keep you around?
My Cap mom always taught me to be able to carry out promises and be a responsible person though, but maybe that's more of a time thing (its the 21st century) than it is with one's natal chart placements.
I think it's more of an upbringing thing first and natal placement thing second. For me, I've got so much Cap in my chart, and a Virgo moon. Rarely, if ever, do I have to modify a promise or duty. I'm driven to deliver upon anything and everything I commit to or give my word on. Super stable.click to expand
My mom has a Virgo moon too and that's what she taught me, but as a Pisces mooner... It's hard you know xd
Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by ScorpioTruth
Would you pacify someone with promises in an effort to keep them near, even if you had no plans to deliver on those promises?
Yes
But that would be my Pisces self talking (I'm Pisces dominant)
Yeah I can definitely see a Pisces/pisces dominant doing that. Lol
My sons dad doesnāt have any Pisces in his chart. But Iāve wondered about this with him. We were together for 10 years. Still very good friends, love and mutual respect is still there. But a lot of reservations on my end.
As in you're reserved towards him? Is it because he makes promises he doesn't carry out just to keep you around?
My Cap mom always taught me to be able to carry out promises and be a responsible person though, but maybe that's more of a time thing (its the 21st century) than it is with one's natal chart placements.
Thereās been betrayal in the past so even though we have 10 years history the betrayal set us behind quite a bit in the trust department. I moved out and weāve talked about reconciliating and he says he has dreams about us being married etc but I mean, we were ātalkingā about getting married for the past 6 years prior to me leaving but thatās all it was... talk. He knew that was what I wanted, he was the one who was always dragging his feet when it came to commitment. Sometimes I feel like all that ātalkā was just to pacify me. In all other areas, he has always delivered on his promises.
I think this Venus in retrograde just has me in my feelings. Smh I donāt know why Iām even entertaining these thoughts.click to expand
You know what, wait till the retrograde is over, then make a decision based on his actions and stuff. Let him play into your hand instead by not moving an inch unless he does things that proves to you that he wants to commit and get married, then see where it goes.
But to be fair it's better off not going back with an ex romantically, but what do I know.
Posted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by EtherealTraveler
Relationships make people mature yes and is a great learning experience, especially with the wholesome and worthwhile relationships with people that truly wish you sell š As long as I (and this goes out for everyone) stays faithful to myself and know exactly what and they seek in a partner and can work towards it, then I think I can find a suitable partner that makes me happy.
Relationships can bring out the best and worst in people though, but its all a learning experience and as long as the same mistake isn't made again, its fine. (I say this while thinking back at a disgusting event that happened because I can't control my Mars square Pluto rage... eek! Was disgusted at myself afterwards and still am.)
DonĀ“t just halfass say something here, when youĀ“re talking to a very very very curious person!!!! Now I GOTS TO KNOW!!! š
WeĀ“ve all done disgusting things. To others and to ourselves. Even hurt people we love. And hurt people we donĀ“t love and use them. Some more than others, I believe though.
I have no idea how I will act and/or be, if I would ever actually be in a loving relationship. Maybe that will turn me into the bad person. All of us constantly change when interacting with new or different people.
You know how I said I had Mars square Pluto and its known for sexual abuse and violence and shit?
Well... I might have cyber sexually abused (eg. Revenge porn) someone before. Not proud of it at all. I was 17 at the time and thinking back it still made me sick that it happened.
Since then, when I met my Pisces ex a few months later, I promised that I would treat her well and not hurt her, which left her confused for a good few months (until I told her about the incident), and she said she's glad that I decided to change and didn't try to hurt her at all (although I still carried out empty threats at times).
Really, I believe for a person to change, a drastically good or bad thing must happen to them first that involves other people, usually a bad thing, and if they have remorse and regret, they will sought to change and be a better person. I think.
Oh waow not many guys will admit do actually doing that - even though almost every girl has experienced either that or some kind of abuse involving sexual violations. Good for you for admitting and taking responsibility for it AND acknowledging how wrong it is and how damaging it can be. Ā“Cause the problem right now is that nobody will take responsibility for all the abuse going on, including the more "grey area" abuse like revenge porn.
Did you ever tell the girl you did it to? And apologize? Did she find out?click to expand
She knows because back then it was a last resort for me to regain control over her -- it was a brief romance gone wrong, and since she sent me a tease back then, I decided to use that against her by trying to blackmail her into talking to me and behaving the way I want her to behave (extremely bad move there vs a Taurus girl with Mars in 8th house). I apologised to her throughout the year since the separation and finally gave up this June, because she refuses to talk to me and kept twisting my intentions into me trying to mock her or jeer her.
Really, it's unfortunate. But one thing's for certain though at that point on, and that is to never conduct something as unethical as revenge porn ever. It's extremely sickening as an action.
Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by ScorpioTruth
Would you pacify someone with promises in an effort to keep them near, even if you had no plans to deliver on those promises?
Yes
But that would be my Pisces self talking (I'm Pisces dominant)
Yeah I can definitely see a Pisces/pisces dominant doing that. Lol
My sons dad doesnāt have any Pisces in his chart. But Iāve wondered about this with him. We were together for 10 years. Still very good friends, love and mutual respect is still there. But a lot of reservations on my end.
As in you're reserved towards him? Is it because he makes promises he doesn't carry out just to keep you around?
My Cap mom always taught me to be able to carry out promises and be a responsible person though, but maybe that's more of a time thing (its the 21st century) than it is with one's natal chart placements.
Thereās been betrayal in the past so even though we have 10 years history the betrayal set us behind quite a bit in the trust department. I moved out and weāve talked about reconciliating and he says he has dreams about us being married etc but I mean, we were ātalkingā about getting married for the past 6 years prior to me leaving but thatās all it was... talk. He knew that was what I wanted, he was the one who was always dragging his feet when it came to commitment. Sometimes I feel like all that ātalkā was just to pacify me. In all other areas, he has always delivered on his promises.
I think this Venus in retrograde just has me in my feelings. Smh I donāt know why Iām even entertaining these thoughts.
You know what, wait till the retrograde is over, then make a decision based on his actions and stuff. Let him play into your hand instead by not moving an inch unless he does things that proves to you that he wants to commit and get married, then see where it goes.
But to be fair it's better off not going back with an ex romantically, but what do I know.
I promise in any other situation I would agree with you. Heās certainly not the first man to cheat on me but heās the first Iāve had a child with and so much history. (And heās the only one Iāve considered taking back)
My logical Venus in virgo tells me to keep moving forward but I have a mushy cancer moon as well, and I just feel like I canāt shake him. ā¹ļø Hes the father of my son so I still see him regularly. But I agree. Will definitely be still until the retrograde is over.click to expand
He cheated on you even? Just run. Imo you're in love with the memories and idealisation of him since he fits into your perfect image "as long as he doesn't do this and that and I'll try to change him and convince him and he'll be good and change", which doesn't happen, since change is hard and can't be forced. That being said, try to distract yourself perhaps? You can stay as platonic friends but any more and you risk not only your mental health and time and psyche and money, but also your son's. The stakes are there, are you willing to bet and potentially lose out that much for a guy who cheated on you?
Here's a quote I posted before that might check out here:
"I always thought there was something romantic about fighting for someone, about winning them back. Eventual happiness. But as I sit here, with stones in my chest, where hope used to lie, I have come to realize that there is nothing lovely about having to continually convince someone to love you." -- Stuart Little
Not the best quote in this context but the point is that once it's over, it's really over, since there's no point on convincing someone to love you again, whether you are the one doing the convincing or being convinced.
But I'm being overly logical and cold hearted here since I'm not in your shoes. Best of luck though!
Edit: Noticed that you talked about him having childhood traumas hence you have a soft spot for him. It's fine to feel empathic towards him, but do not ever allow him to use that to his advantage to take advantage of you. Sad as it is, those are his issues that he needs to sort out by himself, and dragging someone down to the mud with him is not acceptable. You can assist him, but never solve the problem FOR him, else it's just emotional manipulation.
Posted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by EtherealTravelerPosted by starlordPosted by EtherealTraveler
Relationships make people mature yes and is a great learning experience, especially with the wholesome and worthwhile relationships with people that truly wish you sell š As long as I (and this goes out for everyone) stays faithful to myself and know exactly what and they seek in a partner and can work towards it, then I think I can find a suitable partner that makes me happy.
Relationships can bring out the best and worst in people though, but its all a learning experience and as long as the same mistake isn't made again, its fine. (I say this while thinking back at a disgusting event that happened because I can't control my Mars square Pluto rage... eek! Was disgusted at myself afterwards and still am.)
DonĀ“t just halfass say something here, when youĀ“re talking to a very very very curious person!!!! Now I GOTS TO KNOW!!! š
WeĀ“ve all done disgusting things. To others and to ourselves. Even hurt people we love. And hurt people we donĀ“t love and use them. Some more than others, I believe though.
I have no idea how I will act and/or be, if I would ever actually be in a loving relationship. Maybe that will turn me into the bad person. All of us constantly change when interacting with new or different people.
You know how I said I had Mars square Pluto and its known for sexual abuse and violence and shit?
Well... I might have cyber sexually abused (eg. Revenge porn) someone before. Not proud of it at all. I was 17 at the time and thinking back it still made me sick that it happened.
Since then, when I met my Pisces ex a few months later, I promised that I would treat her well and not hurt her, which left her confused for a good few months (until I told her about the incident), and she said she's glad that I decided to change and didn't try to hurt her at all (although I still carried out empty threats at times).
Really, I believe for a person to change, a drastically good or bad thing must happen to them first that involves other people, usually a bad thing, and if they have remorse and regret, they will sought to change and be a better person. I think.
Oh waow not many guys will admit do actually doing that - even though almost every girl has experienced either that or some kind of abuse involving sexual violations. Good for you for admitting and taking responsibility for it AND acknowledging how wrong it is and how damaging it can be. Ā“Cause the problem right now is that nobody will take responsibility for all the abuse going on, including the more "grey area" abuse like revenge porn.
Did you ever tell the girl you did it to? And apologize? Did she find out?
She knows because back then it was a last resort for me to regain control over her -- it was a brief romance gone wrong, and since she sent me a tease back then, I decided to use that against her by trying to blackmail her into talking to me and behaving the way I want her to behave (extremely bad move there vs a Taurus girl with Mars in 8th house). I apologised to her throughout the year since the separation and finally gave up this June, because she refuses to talk to me and kept twisting my intentions into me trying to mock her or jeer her.
Really, it's unfortunate. But one thing's for certain though at that point on, and that is to never conduct something as unethical as revenge porn ever. It's extremely sickening as an action.
So you shared it and threatened to and have threatened your new girl to share to have control over them?
So see, this is something romantic relationships have taught you, this side of yourself, that maybe you didnĀ“t know you had. ThatĀ“s what I mean. But also maybe learn the lesson of when relationships are good, it wonĀ“t go this far. If you have to do extreme things that are bad, itĀ“s not a good thing, a good relationship.
Good you see how bad it is and wonĀ“t ever do it again.click to expand
Nonono, I meant that I shared the tease publicly of the Taurus girl who I abused. I did that because I was gonna blackmail her to talk to me and listen to me and behave in a way I want to. That backfired.
After the incident, and a few months of depression, I met my Pisces ex, which as soon as I started dating her, I promised to not hurt her or do anything mean. Pisces didn't know about my history with Taurus yet, Pisces didn't even know Taurus existed. So in a confused manner she said okay. After a few months of dating and I confessed to Pisces about Taurus, she said she's glad that I changed and I never did something so disgusting ever again. That being said, the furthest I went in heated arguments with my Pisces ex is to threaten her, but nothing more than that (I never abused her or even tried to hurt her).
And yes, I learned my lesson, and I also learned not to push things if they are not going well, and really, just never hurt someone like this again. š¢
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Would you pacify someone with promises in an effort to keep them near, even if you had no plans to deliver on those promises?
Yes
But that would be my Pisces self talking (I'm Pisces dominant)
Yeah I can definitely see a Pisces/pisces dominant doing that. Lol
My sons dad doesnāt have any Pisces in his chart. But Iāve wondered about this with him. We were together for 10 years. Still very good friends, love and mutual respect is still there. But a lot of reservations on my end.
As in you're reserved towards him? Is it because he makes promises he doesn't carry out just to keep you around?
My Cap mom always taught me to be able to carry out promises and be a responsible person though, but maybe that's more of a time thing (its the 21st century) than it is with one's natal chart placements.
I think it's more of an upbringing thing first and natal placement thing second. For me, I've got so much Cap in my chart, and a Virgo moon. Rarely, if ever, do I have to modify a promise or duty. I'm driven to deliver upon anything and everything I commit to or give my word on. Super stable.
My sons dad is a cap with cancer moon, aqua Venus.. I feel like his aqua Venus might be part of the reason heās reluctant to marry. Maybe his cancer moon daydreams about but then his aqua venue shuts that shit down? Idk.
As far as his upbringing... well, thatās a whole other story. He has a lot of childhood trauma which is a big part of why I will always have a soft spot for him, aside from him being my sons father and the man Iāve loved the most in my life.click to expand
Your son's dad is me, minus the Cancer moon lol. I'm an Aqua Venus. I'm 28, never had a relationship. There are things that I'd like to do in one, but others, I'm deathly afraid of having all these images taken with a significant other, and committing that much to a person. I think part of it is also having a natal Venus retrograde. A very difficult retrograde placement.
I know I'll marry one day, but it may take some more time.
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Relationships make people mature yes and is a great learning experience, especially with the wholesome and worthwhile relationships with people that truly wish you sell š As long as I (and this goes out for everyone) stays faithful to myself and know exactly what and they seek in a partner and can work towards it, then I think I can find a suitable partner that makes me happy.
Relationships can bring out the best and worst in people though, but its all a learning experience and as long as the same mistake isn't made again, its fine. (I say this while thinking back at a disgusting event that happened because I can't control my Mars square Pluto rage... eek! Was disgusted at myself afterwards and still am.)
DonĀ“t just halfass say something here, when youĀ“re talking to a very very very curious person!!!! Now I GOTS TO KNOW!!! š
WeĀ“ve all done disgusting things. To others and to ourselves. Even hurt people we love. And hurt people we donĀ“t love and use them. Some more than others, I believe though.
I have no idea how I will act and/or be, if I would ever actually be in a loving relationship. Maybe that will turn me into the bad person. All of us constantly change when interacting with new or different people.
You know how I said I had Mars square Pluto and its known for sexual abuse and violence and shit?
Well... I might have cyber sexually abused (eg. Revenge porn) someone before. Not proud of it at all. I was 17 at the time and thinking back it still made me sick that it happened.
Since then, when I met my Pisces ex a few months later, I promised that I would treat her well and not hurt her, which left her confused for a good few months (until I told her about the incident), and she said she's glad that I decided to change and didn't try to hurt her at all (although I still carried out empty threats at times).
Really, I believe for a person to change, a drastically good or bad thing must happen to them first that involves other people, usually a bad thing, and if they have remorse and regret, they will sought to change and be a better person. I think.
Oh waow not many guys will admit do actually doing that - even though almost every girl has experienced either that or some kind of abuse involving sexual violations. Good for you for admitting and taking responsibility for it AND acknowledging how wrong it is and how damaging it can be. Ā“Cause the problem right now is that nobody will take responsibility for all the abuse going on, including the more "grey area" abuse like revenge porn.
Did you ever tell the girl you did it to? And apologize? Did she find out?
She knows because back then it was a last resort for me to regain control over her -- it was a brief romance gone wrong, and since she sent me a tease back then, I decided to use that against her by trying to blackmail her into talking to me and behaving the way I want her to behave (extremely bad move there vs a Taurus girl with Mars in 8th house). I apologised to her throughout the year since the separation and finally gave up this June, because she refuses to talk to me and kept twisting my intentions into me trying to mock her or jeer her.
Really, it's unfortunate. But one thing's for certain though at that point on, and that is to never conduct something as unethical as revenge porn ever. It's extremely sickening as an action.
So you shared it and threatened to and have threatened your new girl to share to have control over them?
So see, this is something romantic relationships have taught you, this side of yourself, that maybe you didnĀ“t know you had. ThatĀ“s what I mean. But also maybe learn the lesson of when relationships are good, it wonĀ“t go this far. If you have to do extreme things that are bad, itĀ“s not a good thing, a good relationship.
Good you see how bad it is and wonĀ“t ever do it again.
Nonono, I meant that I shared the tease publicly of the Taurus girl who I abused. I did that because I was gonna blackmail her to talk to me and listen to me and behave in a way I want to. That backfired.
After the incident, and a few months of depression, I met my Pisces ex, which as soon as I started dating her, I promised to not hurt her or do anything mean. Pisces didn't know about my history with Taurus yet, Pisces didn't even know Taurus existed. So in a confused manner she said okay. After a few months of dating and I confessed to Pisces about Taurus, she said she's glad that I changed and I never did something so disgusting ever again. That being said, the furthest I went in heated arguments with my Pisces ex is to threaten her, but nothing more than that (I never abused her or even tried to hurt her).
And yes, I learned my lesson, and I also learned not to push things if they are not going well, and really, just never hurt someone like this again. š¢
Yeah taurus sent you a teaser and then you shared that publicly to gain control over her, right?!
Yeah things like that will not in any way inspire anything positive. Only fear, rebellion, guilt, anger, revenge back, pain, yeah nothing good can come of this stuff. No real happyness.
DidnĀ“t know it went this far with control and caps. ItĀ“s just something IĀ“ve read, and itĀ“s also said about scorpios (me partly), and I guess in some ways, but I really donĀ“t see myself as controlling in any way. Only know cap women, and they are controlling in a completely different way if at all, and one cap guy, and heĀ“s not controlling at all. But maybe he and they will be if the "right" person comes along. I really hope not.click to expand
I doubt most Caps go far with control and all, but I have conflicting aspects to my moon and venus and pluto mainly, plus mars square pluto in my natal chart, hence my need for control in a situation like that. Its possessiveness too in a way.
My mom is controlling in her own ways with me, and I don't know my Cap male cousin enough to make a judgement on how controlling he is (only thing I know is that he can have heated arguments with his Aqua wife, because the both of them refuse to back down due to their egos and stubbornness).
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Relationships make people mature yes and is a great learning experience, especially with the wholesome and worthwhile relationships with people that truly wish you sell š As long as I (and this goes out for everyone) stays faithful to myself and know exactly what and they seek in a partner and can work towards it, then I think I can find a suitable partner that makes me happy.
Relationships can bring out the best and worst in people though, but its all a learning experience and as long as the same mistake isn't made again, its fine. (I say this while thinking back at a disgusting event that happened because I can't control my Mars square Pluto rage... eek! Was disgusted at myself afterwards and still am.)
DonĀ“t just halfass say something here, when youĀ“re talking to a very very very curious person!!!! Now I GOTS TO KNOW!!! š
WeĀ“ve all done disgusting things. To others and to ourselves. Even hurt people we love. And hurt people we donĀ“t love and use them. Some more than others, I believe though.
I have no idea how I will act and/or be, if I would ever actually be in a loving relationship. Maybe that will turn me into the bad person. All of us constantly change when interacting with new or different people.
You know how I said I had Mars square Pluto and its known for sexual abuse and violence and shit?
Well... I might have cyber sexually abused (eg. Revenge porn) someone before. Not proud of it at all. I was 17 at the time and thinking back it still made me sick that it happened.
Since then, when I met my Pisces ex a few months later, I promised that I would treat her well and not hurt her, which left her confused for a good few months (until I told her about the incident), and she said she's glad that I decided to change and didn't try to hurt her at all (although I still carried out empty threats at times).
Really, I believe for a person to change, a drastically good or bad thing must happen to them first that involves other people, usually a bad thing, and if they have remorse and regret, they will sought to change and be a better person. I think.
Oh waow not many guys will admit do actually doing that - even though almost every girl has experienced either that or some kind of abuse involving sexual violations. Good for you for admitting and taking responsibility for it AND acknowledging how wrong it is and how damaging it can be. Ā“Cause the problem right now is that nobody will take responsibility for all the abuse going on, including the more "grey area" abuse like revenge porn.
Did you ever tell the girl you did it to? And apologize? Did she find out?
She knows because back then it was a last resort for me to regain control over her -- it was a brief romance gone wrong, and since she sent me a tease back then, I decided to use that against her by trying to blackmail her into talking to me and behaving the way I want her to behave (extremely bad move there vs a Taurus girl with Mars in 8th house). I apologised to her throughout the year since the separation and finally gave up this June, because she refuses to talk to me and kept twisting my intentions into me trying to mock her or jeer her.
Really, it's unfortunate. But one thing's for certain though at that point on, and that is to never conduct something as unethical as revenge porn ever. It's extremely sickening as an action.
So you shared it and threatened to and have threatened your new girl to share to have control over them?
So see, this is something romantic relationships have taught you, this side of yourself, that maybe you didnĀ“t know you had. ThatĀ“s what I mean. But also maybe learn the lesson of when relationships are good, it wonĀ“t go this far. If you have to do extreme things that are bad, itĀ“s not a good thing, a good relationship.
Good you see how bad it is and wonĀ“t ever do it again.
Nonono, I meant that I shared the tease publicly of the Taurus girl who I abused. I did that because I was gonna blackmail her to talk to me and listen to me and behave in a way I want to. That backfired.
After the incident, and a few months of depression, I met my Pisces ex, which as soon as I started dating her, I promised to not hurt her or do anything mean. Pisces didn't know about my history with Taurus yet, Pisces didn't even know Taurus existed. So in a confused manner she said okay. After a few months of dating and I confessed to Pisces about Taurus, she said she's glad that I changed and I never did something so disgusting ever again. That being said, the furthest I went in heated arguments with my Pisces ex is to threaten her, but nothing more than that (I never abused her or even tried to hurt her).
And yes, I learned my lesson, and I also learned not to push things if they are not going well, and really, just never hurt someone like this again. š¢
Yeah taurus sent you a teaser and then you shared that publicly to gain control over her, right?!
Yeah things like that will not in any way inspire anything positive. Only fear, rebellion, guilt, anger, revenge back, pain, yeah nothing good can come of this stuff. No real happyness.
DidnĀ“t know it went this far with control and caps. ItĀ“s just something IĀ“ve read, and itĀ“s also said about scorpios (me partly), and I guess in some ways, but I really donĀ“t see myself as controlling in any way. Only know cap women, and they are controlling in a completely different way if at all, and one cap guy, and heĀ“s not controlling at all. But maybe he and they will be if the "right" person comes along. I really hope not.
I doubt most Caps go far with control and all, but I have conflicting aspects to my moon and venus and pluto mainly, plus mars square pluto in my natal chart, hence my need for control in a situation like that. Its possessiveness too in a way.
My mom is controlling in her own ways with me, and I don't know my Cap male cousin enough to make a judgement on how controlling he is (only thing I know is that he can have heated arguments with his Aqua wife, because the both of them refuse to back down due to their egos and stubbornness).
The sort of sad part about this is, that many times I THINK that guys do shit to me, because they are trying to control me or trying to convey this or that, but I honestly believe they just donĀ“t care. You sharing this story is making me doubt things. I have tons of planets in scorpio and am pretty dark in some ways myself, so I think I could handle a lot of shit, but turns out itĀ“s just guys that donĀ“t care. Whereas you "cared", and in your own destructive, wrong way. IĀ“m never condoning revenge porn or anything violating like that or violence, nothing. But on a smaller scale I would get it. But have never experienced it. Hope nobody is gonna read your story and find "love and care" behind very wrong actions of a cap in the future, like "oh heĀ“s abusing me because he loves me". And I hope IĀ“m not gonna do it either.click to expand
Sounds oddly like 50 shades of grey with the abusing = love thing
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Relationships make people mature yes and is a great learning experience, especially with the wholesome and worthwhile relationships with people that truly wish you sell š As long as I (and this goes out for everyone) stays faithful to myself and know exactly what and they seek in a partner and can work towards it, then I think I can find a suitable partner that makes me happy.
Relationships can bring out the best and worst in people though, but its all a learning experience and as long as the same mistake isn't made again, its fine. (I say this while thinking back at a disgusting event that happened because I can't control my Mars square Pluto rage... eek! Was disgusted at myself afterwards and still am.)
DonĀ“t just halfass say something here, when youĀ“re talking to a very very very curious person!!!! Now I GOTS TO KNOW!!! š
WeĀ“ve all done disgusting things. To others and to ourselves. Even hurt people we love. And hurt people we donĀ“t love and use them. Some more than others, I believe though.
I have no idea how I will act and/or be, if I would ever actually be in a loving relationship. Maybe that will turn me into the bad person. All of us constantly change when interacting with new or different people.
You know how I said I had Mars square Pluto and its known for sexual abuse and violence and shit?
Well... I might have cyber sexually abused (eg. Revenge porn) someone before. Not proud of it at all. I was 17 at the time and thinking back it still made me sick that it happened.
Since then, when I met my Pisces ex a few months later, I promised that I would treat her well and not hurt her, which left her confused for a good few months (until I told her about the incident), and she said she's glad that I decided to change and didn't try to hurt her at all (although I still carried out empty threats at times).
Really, I believe for a person to change, a drastically good or bad thing must happen to them first that involves other people, usually a bad thing, and if they have remorse and regret, they will sought to change and be a better person. I think.
Oh waow not many guys will admit do actually doing that - even though almost every girl has experienced either that or some kind of abuse involving sexual violations. Good for you for admitting and taking responsibility for it AND acknowledging how wrong it is and how damaging it can be. Ā“Cause the problem right now is that nobody will take responsibility for all the abuse going on, including the more "grey area" abuse like revenge porn.
Did you ever tell the girl you did it to? And apologize? Did she find out?
She knows because back then it was a last resort for me to regain control over her -- it was a brief romance gone wrong, and since she sent me a tease back then, I decided to use that against her by trying to blackmail her into talking to me and behaving the way I want her to behave (extremely bad move there vs a Taurus girl with Mars in 8th house). I apologised to her throughout the year since the separation and finally gave up this June, because she refuses to talk to me and kept twisting my intentions into me trying to mock her or jeer her.
Really, it's unfortunate. But one thing's for certain though at that point on, and that is to never conduct something as unethical as revenge porn ever. It's extremely sickening as an action.
So you shared it and threatened to and have threatened your new girl to share to have control over them?
So see, this is something romantic relationships have taught you, this side of yourself, that maybe you didnĀ“t know you had. ThatĀ“s what I mean. But also maybe learn the lesson of when relationships are good, it wonĀ“t go this far. If you have to do extreme things that are bad, itĀ“s not a good thing, a good relationship.
Good you see how bad it is and wonĀ“t ever do it again.
Nonono, I meant that I shared the tease publicly of the Taurus girl who I abused. I did that because I was gonna blackmail her to talk to me and listen to me and behave in a way I want to. That backfired.
After the incident, and a few months of depression, I met my Pisces ex, which as soon as I started dating her, I promised to not hurt her or do anything mean. Pisces didn't know about my history with Taurus yet, Pisces didn't even know Taurus existed. So in a confused manner she said okay. After a few months of dating and I confessed to Pisces about Taurus, she said she's glad that I changed and I never did something so disgusting ever again. That being said, the furthest I went in heated arguments with my Pisces ex is to threaten her, but nothing more than that (I never abused her or even tried to hurt her).
And yes, I learned my lesson, and I also learned not to push things if they are not going well, and really, just never hurt someone like this again. š¢
Yeah taurus sent you a teaser and then you shared that publicly to gain control over her, right?!
Yeah things like that will not in any way inspire anything positive. Only fear, rebellion, guilt, anger, revenge back, pain, yeah nothing good can come of this stuff. No real happyness.
DidnĀ“t know it went this far with control and caps. ItĀ“s just something IĀ“ve read, and itĀ“s also said about scorpios (me partly), and I guess in some ways, but I really donĀ“t see myself as controlling in any way. Only know cap women, and they are controlling in a completely different way if at all, and one cap guy, and heĀ“s not controlling at all. But maybe he and they will be if the "right" person comes along. I really hope not.
I doubt most Caps go far with control and all, but I have conflicting aspects to my moon and venus and pluto mainly, plus mars square pluto in my natal chart, hence my need for control in a situation like that. Its possessiveness too in a way.
My mom is controlling in her own ways with me, and I don't know my Cap male cousin enough to make a judgement on how controlling he is (only thing I know is that he can have heated arguments with his Aqua wife, because the both of them refuse to back down due to their egos and stubbornness).
The sort of sad part about this is, that many times I THINK that guys do shit to me, because they are trying to control me or trying to convey this or that, but I honestly believe they just donĀ“t care. You sharing this story is making me doubt things. I have tons of planets in scorpio and am pretty dark in some ways myself, so I think I could handle a lot of shit, but turns out itĀ“s just guys that donĀ“t care. Whereas you "cared", and in your own destructive, wrong way. IĀ“m never condoning revenge porn or anything violating like that or violence, nothing. But on a smaller scale I would get it. But have never experienced it. Hope nobody is gonna read your story and find "love and care" behind very wrong actions of a cap in the future, like "oh heĀ“s abusing me because he loves me". And I hope IĀ“m not gonna do it either.
Sounds oddly like 50 shades of grey with the abusing = love thing
Exactly. After those books and especially that movie, every girl out there is gonna chase basically a sociopath and think he loves her and that she can saaaaave him! All of us already did before, but not itĀ“s even worse! That+s why itĀ“s so important that you are saying, that it was completely wrong and it had nothing to do with love.click to expand
Yeah but eh things are strange
If I go out there and be myself amongst my classmates, most will just see me as a stalker or a creep or something, because I tend to exert that intense feel every now and then when I talk you know? But yet girls out there actively seek for this intensity and sociopathical tendencies its strange. But yes most of the abuse I did and other people did isn't love, but control over the situation. Actual love doesn't need control or doesn't require deliberate manipulation of control to gain the upper hand.
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Are you attracted to rbfās
No usually I'm intimidated by them
I like those polite with a sense of softness in expression in their faces and niceness, it's soothing and a bit disarming in a good way
Suddenly I feel like you're justifying my intensity that I exert when I pursue someone xd
Although I have to agree to some extent, though this goes out for guys as well, not just girls. What makes you (and other women) feel like you're looking for love instead of finding someone that treats you like trash? Shouldn't good guys be detectable from the beginning? Or are women attracted to the taboo?
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Would you pacify someone with promises in an effort to keep them near, even if you had no plans to deliver on those promises?
Yes
But that would be my Pisces self talking (I'm Pisces dominant)
Yeah I can definitely see a Pisces/pisces dominant doing that. Lol
My sons dad doesnāt have any Pisces in his chart. But Iāve wondered about this with him. We were together for 10 years. Still very good friends, love and mutual respect is still there. But a lot of reservations on my end.
As in you're reserved towards him? Is it because he makes promises he doesn't carry out just to keep you around?
My Cap mom always taught me to be able to carry out promises and be a responsible person though, but maybe that's more of a time thing (its the 21st century) than it is with one's natal chart placements.
I think it's more of an upbringing thing first and natal placement thing second. For me, I've got so much Cap in my chart, and a Virgo moon. Rarely, if ever, do I have to modify a promise or duty. I'm driven to deliver upon anything and everything I commit to or give my word on. Super stable.
My sons dad is a cap with cancer moon, aqua Venus.. I feel like his aqua Venus might be part of the reason heās reluctant to marry. Maybe his cancer moon daydreams about but then his aqua venue shuts that shit down? Idk.
As far as his upbringing... well, thatās a whole other story. He has a lot of childhood trauma which is a big part of why I will always have a soft spot for him, aside from him being my sons father and the man Iāve loved the most in my life.
Your son's dad is me, minus the Cancer moon lol. I'm an Aqua Venus. I'm 28, never had a relationship. There are things that I'd like to do in one, but others, I'm deathly afraid of having all these images taken with a significant other, and committing that much to a person. I think part of it is also having a natal Venus retrograde. A very difficult retrograde placement.
I know I'll marry one day, but it may take some more time.click to expand
Wow reading this makes me think that my cappy journey will be slow and long before any commitment can happen. Hes a venus aqua, pisces moon, whos ex wife left him for no reason. He must be very afraid of committing again.
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