swagginpretty
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cancer woman confused about capricorn man
As hard as it is you need to let go. Him coming and leaving shows he has no respect for you and never will. If a cap truly cares for you he\she will remain loyal.
Good luck.
Good luck.
This isn't a Cap guy thing, this is a jerk guy thing...
He doesn't sound like a keeper, are you sure you need to resolve this? Maybe it's time to kick him to the kerb.
You're allowing this behaviour by the way, you could ask yourself why.
He doesn't sound like a keeper, are you sure you need to resolve this? Maybe it's time to kick him to the kerb.
You're allowing this behaviour by the way, you could ask yourself why.
+1 Clue
Your behavior points to being desperate or why else would you allow this man to play these head fuck games with you.
Age ain't nothing but a number IMHO but when you behave in a way that says "I'm desperate so I'll settle for your bullshit" it all leads into you being neglected, feeling neglected.
The day you allowed him back in after knowing he had a significant other and on top of that possibly married it all pointed to you having little to no standards which INVITED in neglect, mindfucking games, no way you're going to figure this out b/c it's not a Cap thing it's an asshole thing.
Do yourself a huge favor, slap yourself really hard across the forehead, have a V8 moment and ditch that zero, change phone number, change locks and never speak to his clown ass ever again....
You can do better and if you can't then maybe you should start by finding out why you can't do better and instead chose to settle in so quickly with a stranger.
Your behavior points to being desperate or why else would you allow this man to play these head fuck games with you.
Age ain't nothing but a number IMHO but when you behave in a way that says "I'm desperate so I'll settle for your bullshit" it all leads into you being neglected, feeling neglected.
The day you allowed him back in after knowing he had a significant other and on top of that possibly married it all pointed to you having little to no standards which INVITED in neglect, mindfucking games, no way you're going to figure this out b/c it's not a Cap thing it's an asshole thing.
Do yourself a huge favor, slap yourself really hard across the forehead, have a V8 moment and ditch that zero, change phone number, change locks and never speak to his clown ass ever again....
You can do better and if you can't then maybe you should start by finding out why you can't do better and instead chose to settle in so quickly with a stranger.
This guy seems to have deep-rooted issues involving stability and commitment. As soon as things get too mundane, he goes chasing after excitement and adventure. The sad part of the story is that he won't change unless *HE* wants to! You can't force him, nor can you make him "see the light".
If he's not ready to deal with his issues now, and it certainly seems this way from what you said in your OP, then you'll just have to take every ounce of your strength and move on as best you can. It won't be easy, Cap men have a way of getting under one's skin, but as it stands right now, you need to protect your own mental health and resources.
Most of all, don't blame yourself. Shit happens!
If he's not ready to deal with his issues now, and it certainly seems this way from what you said in your OP, then you'll just have to take every ounce of your strength and move on as best you can. It won't be easy, Cap men have a way of getting under one's skin, but as it stands right now, you need to protect your own mental health and resources.
Most of all, don't blame yourself. Shit happens!
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Story starts back in May. Met the cap fell for him instantly. Made a mistake by sleeping with him d 1st night though. Everything seemed ok, but no communication from him for 2 days. He finally called, apologized for his behavior, n explained that he really wasn't single and didn't think he would feel anything for me but did. He thought it would be a 1 night stand. He and his girl broke u (seemed to be a cycle for them) n we got together. Introduced him to d fam n everything. Everything was good. After a few weeks, he didn't come home one night out of d blue. He finally called saying "I'm still in love with my mf'n wife"...wut? Now she labeled as wife when ya'll jus broke up n couldn't stand each other, lol, smh. So, we went our separate ways, no contact for 6 months. Jus hi n bye towards d last few months.
So, October, he needs somewhere to go. I noticed him being away from home a lot. Come to find out, they broke up n had been for a while. I let him move in cuz d money helped a lot n he needed a place. No expectations to get back with him tho. He started treating me like his girl again tho, plus sex came into play as well. But everytime we get close n I'm "baby" again, he goes off for hours n I'm almost a stranger again. He started with being gone 3-4 hrs to 10 to 30 one time to recently 5 days...wtf! Wverything was great. Went to d movies, calling me baby, everthing. Now we're back to square 1.
I don't understand him. He keeps finding a way to keep me pulled in and hurting me over n over. And I know he sees it and he knows I care, but this doesn't stop him. He seems selfish and loving being single, having me play wife at home, and doing what he wants in d streets. Having his cake n eating it too. Can't tell if he really cares or jus using me. He says he cares n is attracted to me after I asked him did he think he was obligated to treat me d way he does jus to insure a place to stay.
Please Cap guys, help me read him. He's very unpredictable and I'm really fed up but can't let go. I'm miserable!!!