Capricorn girl kissed me now she's being weird/ ignoring me

was she sober when she kissed you? serious question lol





maybe she regretted being impulsive given that you work together

As a capri girl, i have done that before and it was because I did not want to seem desperate and I was unsure if he liked me or not. I waited for him to take the lead in whether we were going to move forward or remain as friends.

Posted by mer-eye-uh
As a capri girl, i have done that before and it was because I did not want to seem desperate and I was unsure if he liked me or not. I waited for him to take the lead in whether we were going to move forward or remain as friends.

Here is my interpretation as a cap woman:

From what you are describing it would be fair to say she has some 'kind' of feelings for you, otherwise she would not have kissed you but it may be worth considering how she was interacting with other (male) colleagues during your holiday party. Could you have been an easy target during a moment of weakness?

There are many reasons why caps ignore people, it doesn't necessarily mean they have a crush on you. You also said that you had only had a few conversations in over a years time, so it's a bit hard to derive a crush from that.

I question why your interest in her has now peaked, when you were happy to ignore her before? This is the key to understanding why she has now gone back to ignoring you imho. She is probably entirely uncertain about how you feel about her, so as a result unsure about where to take it from here. How you two relate to each other will determine where you go from here.

If you sensed she had a crush on you for some time, why did you play this game of ignoring her back? That doesn't make a lot of sense. Regardless of it being immature, to me it would indicate someone who is not altogether certain about their own feelings (sorry), and capricorns generally find that very confusing as we're very sure about how we feel most of the time. This may be how the confusion started in the first place.

You ask how you should go about pursuing her, but first I would advise you to work out how you genuinely feel about her (outside of this drunken incident) because it reads a little like you are willing to take advantage of that moment of weakness on her part...?