Hello fellow Caps! i'm just wondering how are your experiences with Taurus men? I am currently seeing one but we're both very cautious lol i am having a hard time reading this guy. It's a roller coaster ride!
Capricorn women with Taurus men experiences
Posted by Caramel_Princessi love your comment lol we are moving soo slowwwww..literally, we've been seeing each other for almost a year but still progressing slowly hahaPosted by edgelordOh I mean it’d be the most boring relationship possible so I may as well grab a seat and popcorn lol.Posted by Caramel_PrincessTaurus men LOVE, and are faithful to, earth sign bishes.
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Posted by edgelordWe've been seeing each other for almost a year now but still progressing really slow. I feel in my heart that there's really a strong connection between us. I know that he feels it too. The Taurus guy i'm seeing doesn't really open up that much but he knows how i feel about him. He told me that he is crazy about me and that he is not in it for a short run. He said that he wants to know me for a very long time. He also told me that he likes spending time with me and whenever we part he can't wait to see me again. The thing is he still disappears all the time and ignores my txts so i'm confused.. lol i just let him be though coz i'm also busy with my own thing then after few days he'll be the one to initiate text..lolPosted by Caramel_PrincessTaurus men LOVE, and are faithful to, earth sign bishes.
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I don't know of any Cap female/Taurus male couples that have lasted.
It seems Cap male/Taurus female works better.
I had a situation with a Taurus and it was a long drawn out ride to no where. Before me, he dated another Cap and that didn't work either. Chemistry and feelings are there, but it doesn't grow to anything forever lasting lol, from what I've seen anyway.
It seems Cap male/Taurus female works better.
I had a situation with a Taurus and it was a long drawn out ride to no where. Before me, he dated another Cap and that didn't work either. Chemistry and feelings are there, but it doesn't grow to anything forever lasting lol, from what I've seen anyway.
Posted by Caramel_PrincessI've been through his disappearing acts, ignoring texts, leaving me hanging and guessing so after 5 months i decided to tell him that i like him. I told him that i don't want to play games like other people. And that i am looking for something important and my intentions are genuine. I want to get to know him more and spend more quality time with him. I also told him that i respect him as a person and i respect his feelings and his time. No rush, no pressure and i just want him to know how i feel. He texted me after a few days and asked me out. He stood me up then he ghosted me for 6 weeks, i was hurt and thought that he will never come back but after christmas day, he contacted me again. I was upset and i have low tolerance for BS so explained to him what he did to me in a nice but logical way, told him that i value myself and i strongly believe that the man i am going to be with should respect and value me as well. After that he started acting he's into me again..he wanted to see me but i refused but after a week, i decided to text him and give it a go. Since then, he is being consistent and didn't disappear yet. He is initiating contact now unlike before and it's increasing as well. He keep on asking me to go on dates with him. He also keep on asking me to have sex with him. I told him i don't wanna do it just for the sake of sex. I am looking for something real. Then he texted me that he understands and he said that he is crazy about me, that he likes spending time with me and he is not in it for the short run. He said that he'd love to know everything about me and want to know me for a very long time. When we part, he also said that he cant wait til the next time to see me..He said that he cant compare his value of me to something coz it's unexplainable.Posted by CapricornWoman13You can do it! You’ve it in you to go slow. I wish I had any advice other than don’t let him string you along, I’ve noticed these guys will see you for 5 years then still say “we are friends!”.Posted by Caramel_Princessi love your comment lol we are moving soo slowwwww..literally, we've been seeing each other for almost a year but still progressing slowly hahaPosted by edgelordOh I mean it’d be the most boring relationship possible so I may as well grab a seat and popcorn lol.Posted by Caramel_PrincessTaurus men LOVE, and are faithful to, earth sign bishes.
Omg.
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I am confused coz i feel like he is playing games with me and i hate that, left me guessing for a month then this happened all of a sudden. Is he really being sincere or just testing me? I just wanna make sure that i am not being blinded of my feelings for him.
Right now, i am taking it slower than he wants lol i call the shots and i dont make myself available all the time. Before i used to prioritize him then i realized that i shouldn't commit myself to him yet. I just let our feelings grow naturally.
Posted by CapricornWoman13Posted by Caramel_PrincessI've been through his disappearing acts, ignoring texts, leaving me hanging and guessing so after 5 months i decided to tell him that i like him. I told him that i don't want to play games like other people. And that i am looking for something important and my intentions are genuine. I want to get to know him more and spend more quality time with him. I also told him that i respect him as a person and i respect his feelings and his time. No rush, no pressure and i just want him to know how i feel. He texted me after a few days and asked me out. He stood me up then he ghosted me for 6 weeks, i was hurt and thought that he will never come back but after christmas day, he contacted me again. I was upset and i have low tolerance for BS so explained to him what he did to me in a nice but logical way, told him that i value myself and i strongly believe that the man i am going to be with should respect and value me as well. After that he started acting he's into me again..he wanted to see me but i refused but after a week, i decided to text him and give it a go. Since then, he is being consistent and didn't disappear yet. He is initiating contact now unlike before and it's increasing as well. He keep on asking me to go on dates with him. He also keep on asking me to have sex with him. I told him i don't wanna do it just for the sake of sex. I am looking for something real. Then he texted me that he understands and he said that he is crazy about me, that he likes spending time with me and he is not in it for the short run. He said that he'd love to know everything about me and want to know me for a very long time. When we part, he also said that he cant wait til the next time to see me..He said that he cant compare his value of me to something coz it's unexplainable.Posted by CapricornWoman13You can do it! You’ve it in you to go slow. I wish I had any advice other than don’t let him string you along, I’ve noticed these guys will see you for 5 years then still say “we are friends!”.Posted by Caramel_Princessi love your comment lol we are moving soo slowwwww..literally, we've been seeing each other for almost a year but still progressing slowly hahaPosted by edgelordOh I mean it’d be the most boring relationship possible so I may as well grab a seat and popcorn lol.Posted by Caramel_PrincessTaurus men LOVE, and are faithful to, earth sign bishes.
Omg.
*grabs popcorn*
I am confused coz i feel like he is playing games with me and i hate that, left me guessing for a month then this happened all of a sudden. Is he really being sincere or just testing me? I just wanna make sure that i am not being blinded of my feelings for him.
Right now, i am taking it slower than he wants lol i call the shots and i dont make myself available all the time. Before i used to prioritize him then i realized that i shouldn't commit myself to him yet. I just let our feelings grow naturally.
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Good luck. If he told you he wanted sex, trust and believe he's going to say whatever he needs to get it. Fixed and persistence is what Taurus are known for. You think he's playing games because he is.
I don't know why we cap ladies don't trust our 100% correct instincts lol.
Posted by lnana04I used to date one as well and it didn't last either. He took me for granted so i let him go. When I decided to move on, that's when he realized his real feelings for me. Now after many years, he says that i'm still his one true love but i moved on. He still waiting and hoping that i will love him again but it just won't happen anymore.
I don't know of any Cap female/Taurus male couples that have lasted.
It seems Cap male/Taurus female works better.
I had a situation with a Taurus and it was a long drawn out ride to no where. Before me, he dated another Cap and that didn't work either. Chemistry and feelings are there, but it doesn't grow to anything forever lasting lol, from what I've seen anyway.
The guy i'm seeing now is the 2nd bull i dated, but i am hoping that this time will be different..
Posted by lnana04I totally agree with what you've said.. My instincts telling me that "not yet".."test him" haha that's true, i don't understand why we don't trust our intuitions even if we can strongly feel it. I want to believe what he's telling me but at the same time, i don't trust easily so even if i feel something for him, I am not that easy to persuade. I don't want to make mistakes. I'm still trying to figure him out.Posted by CapricornWoman13Posted by Caramel_PrincessI've been through his disappearing acts, ignoring texts, leaving me hanging and guessing so after 5 months i decided to tell him that i like him. I told him that i don't want to play games like other people. And that i am looking for something important and my intentions are genuine. I want to get to know him more and spend more quality time with him. I also told him that i respect him as a person and i respect his feelings and his time. No rush, no pressure and i just want him to know how i feel. He texted me after a few days and asked me out. He stood me up then he ghosted me for 6 weeks, i was hurt and thought that he will never come back but after christmas day, he contacted me again. I was upset and i have low tolerance for BS so explained to him what he did to me in a nice but logical way, told him that i value myself and i strongly believe that the man i am going to be with should respect and value me as well. After that he started acting he's into me again..he wanted to see me but i refused but after a week, i decided to text him and give it a go. Since then, he is being consistent and didn't disappear yet. He is initiating contact now unlike before and it's increasing as well. He keep on asking me to go on dates with him. He also keep on asking me to have sex with him. I told him i don't wanna do it just for the sake of sex. I am looking for something real. Then he texted me that he understands and he said that he is crazy about me, that he likes spending time with me and he is not in it for the short run. He said that he'd love to know everything about me and want to know me for a very long time. When we part, he also said that he cant wait til the next time to see me..He said that he cant compare his value of me to something coz it's unexplainable.Posted by CapricornWoman13You can do it! You’ve it in you to go slow. I wish I had any advice other than don’t let him string you along, I’ve noticed these guys will see you for 5 years then still say “we are friends!”.Posted by Caramel_Princessi love your comment lol we are moving soo slowwwww..literally, we've been seeing each other for almost a year but still progressing slowly hahaPosted by edgelordOh I mean it’d be the most boring relationship possible so I may as well grab a seat and popcorn lol.Posted by Caramel_PrincessTaurus men LOVE, and are faithful to, earth sign bishes.
Omg.
*grabs popcorn*
I am confused coz i feel like he is playing games with me and i hate that, left me guessing for a month then this happened all of a sudden. Is he really being sincere or just testing me? I just wanna make sure that i am not being blinded of my feelings for him.
Right now, i am taking it slower than he wants lol i call the shots and i dont make myself available all the time. Before i used to prioritize him then i realized that i shouldn't commit myself to him yet. I just let our feelings grow naturally.
Good luck. If he told you he wanted sex, trust and believe he's going to say whatever he needs to get it. Fixed and persistence is what Taurus are known for. You think he's playing games because he is.
I don't know why we cap ladies don't trust our 100% correct instincts lol.
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Posted by edgelordI really hope so..I like this taurus guy i am seeing but still i'm still unsure of where i stand with him. Been seeing him almost a year. He always asks me out to go on dates but i'm afraid that he only wants me for sex that's why i am being cautious.Posted by Caramel_PrincessTaurus men LOVE, and are faithful to, earth sign bishes.
Omg.
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Posted by Caramel_PrincessExactly! I would only have sex in a COMMITED relationship! I already told him that i am looking for serious relationship and i don't play games. I've always been honest with him. Too honest actually and i'm straightforward. That's another reason i don't wanna sex with him yet bec i feel like he is talking to other girls. He always diappears and only gonna text me once in a blue moon. I'm not stupid and our instincts are telling that something is fishy. There are times i feel that he is being true to me but there are also times that i feel that he is hiding something. And he knows i hate people who lies.Posted by CapricornWoman13Ugh I really feel for you! They all do this! They’re really not all that emotionally stable for an earth sign and some of the men are insecure and a big mess! I’m glad you stepped up for yourself and showed him you’ll take no shit from him.Posted by Caramel_PrincessI've been through his disappearing acts, ignoring texts, leaving me hanging and guessing so after 5 months i decided to tell him that i like him. I told him that i don't want to play games like other people. And that i am looking for something important and my intentions are genuine. I want to get to know him more and spend more quality time with him. I also told him that i respect him as a person and i respect his feelings and his time. No rush, no pressure and i just want him to know how i feel. He texted me after a few days and asked me out. He stood me up then he ghosted me for 6 weeks, i was hurt and thought that he will never come back but after christmas day, he contacted me again. I was upset and i have low tolerance for BS so explained to him what he did to me in a nice but logical way, told him that i value myself and i strongly believe that the man i am going to be with should respect and value me as well. After that he started acting he's into me again..he wanted to see me but i refused but after a week, i decided to text him and give it a go. Since then, he is being consistent and didn't disappear yet. He is initiating contact now unlike before and it's increasing as well. He keep on asking me to go on dates with him. He also keep on asking me to have sex with him. I told him i don't wanna do it just for the sake of sex. I am looking for something real. Then he texted me that he understands and he said that he is crazy about me, that he likes spending time with me and he is not in it for the short run. He said that he'd love to know everything about me and want to know me for a very long time. When we part, he also said that he cant wait til the next time to see me..He said that he cant compare his value of me to something coz it's unexplainable.Posted by CapricornWoman13You can do it! You’ve it in you to go slow. I wish I had any advice other than don’t let him string you along, I’ve noticed these guys will see you for 5 years then still say “we are friends!”.Posted by Caramel_Princessi love your comment lol we are moving soo slowwwww..literally, we've been seeing each other for almost a year but still progressing slowly hahaPosted by edgelordOh I mean it’d be the most boring relationship possible so I may as well grab a seat and popcorn lol.Posted by Caramel_PrincessTaurus men LOVE, and are faithful to, earth sign bishes.
Omg.
*grabs popcorn*
I am confused coz i feel like he is playing games with me and i hate that, left me guessing for a month then this happened all of a sudden. Is he really being sincere or just testing me? I just wanna make sure that i am not being blinded of my feelings for him.
Right now, i am taking it slower than he wants lol i call the shots and i dont make myself available all the time. Before i used to prioritize him then i realized that i shouldn't commit myself to him yet. I just let our feelings grow naturally.
Tell him you want a serious relationship and you don’t want to waste more time or invest in something with no future. Tell him that you only have sex in COMMITTED relationships.
Do you think he could be talking to or seeing any other girls? These guys LOVE feminine attention and usually have a harem around them. The ex bull would tell me he felt random connections with ANY woman around him. They’re just so insecure and want to be adored so badly.
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Posted by CapricornWoman13The thing is i don't have any proof to say that he is seeing or talking to other women. I can't ask him about it without having any proof.Posted by Caramel_PrincessExactly! I would only have sex in a COMMITED relationship! I already told him that i am looking for serious relationship and i don't play games. I've always been honest with him. Too honest actually and i'm straightforward. That's another reason i don't wanna sex with him yet bec i feel like he is talking to other girls. He always diappears and only gonna text me once in a blue moon. I'm not stupid and our instincts are telling that something is fishy. There are times i feel that he is being true to me but there are also times that i feel that he is hiding something. And he knows i hate people who lies.Posted by CapricornWoman13Ugh I really feel for you! They all do this! They’re really not all that emotionally stable for an earth sign and some of the men are insecure and a big mess! I’m glad you stepped up for yourself and showed him you’ll take no shit from him.Posted by Caramel_PrincessI've been through his disappearing acts, ignoring texts, leaving me hanging and guessing so after 5 months i decided to tell him that i like him. I told him that i don't want to play games like other people. And that i am looking for something important and my intentions are genuine. I want to get to know him more and spend more quality time with him. I also told him that i respect him as a person and i respect his feelings and his time. No rush, no pressure and i just want him to know how i feel. He texted me after a few days and asked me out. He stood me up then he ghosted me for 6 weeks, i was hurt and thought that he will never come back but after christmas day, he contacted me again. I was upset and i have low tolerance for BS so explained to him what he did to me in a nice but logical way, told him that i value myself and i strongly believe that the man i am going to be with should respect and value me as well. After that he started acting he's into me again..he wanted to see me but i refused but after a week, i decided to text him and give it a go. Since then, he is being consistent and didn't disappear yet. He is initiating contact now unlike before and it's increasing as well. He keep on asking me to go on dates with him. He also keep on asking me to have sex with him. I told him i don't wanna do it just for the sake of sex. I am looking for something real. Then he texted me that he understands and he said that he is crazy about me, that he likes spending time with me and he is not in it for the short run. He said that he'd love to know everything about me and want to know me for a very long time. When we part, he also said that he cant wait til the next time to see me..He said that he cant compare his value of me to something coz it's unexplainable.Posted by CapricornWoman13You can do it! You’ve it in you to go slow. I wish I had any advice other than don’t let him string you along, I’ve noticed these guys will see you for 5 years then still say “we are friends!”.Posted by Caramel_Princessi love your comment lol we are moving soo slowwwww..literally, we've been seeing each other for almost a year but still progressing slowly hahaPosted by edgelordOh I mean it’d be the most boring relationship possible so I may as well grab a seat and popcorn lol.Posted by Caramel_PrincessTaurus men LOVE, and are faithful to, earth sign bishes.
Omg.
*grabs popcorn*
I am confused coz i feel like he is playing games with me and i hate that, left me guessing for a month then this happened all of a sudden. Is he really being sincere or just testing me? I just wanna make sure that i am not being blinded of my feelings for him.
Right now, i am taking it slower than he wants lol i call the shots and i dont make myself available all the time. Before i used to prioritize him then i realized that i shouldn't commit myself to him yet. I just let our feelings grow naturally.
Tell him you want a serious relationship and you don’t want to waste more time or invest in something with no future. Tell him that you only have sex in COMMITTED relationships.
Do you think he could be talking to or seeing any other girls? These guys LOVE feminine attention and usually have a harem around them. The ex bull would tell me he felt random connections with ANY woman around him. They’re just so insecure and want to be adored so badly.
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Posted by edgelordYou're right. He is still disappearing and i feel like he is entertaining someone else. I don't have any proof so i don't want to look like i'm accusing him without evidence. He texts me but when i reply he ignores me. Sometimes it will take him days to reply. I don't play that BS. That's why i slowed down. I noticed that he only texts a lot when he wants to see me but besides that, he doesn't even bother to see how am i doing. I need to protect my heart. He knows how i feel about him, i really do like him but there something inside me that telling me there's something wrong. I was hoping that he also wants the same things i do. A committed and faithful relationship.Posted by CapricornWoman13Posted by edgelordI really hope so..I like this taurus guy i am seeing but still i'm still unsure of where i stand with him. Been seeing him almost a year. He always asks me out to go on dates but i'm afraid that he only wants me for sex that's why i am being cautious.Posted by Caramel_PrincessTaurus men LOVE, and are faithful to, earth sign bishes.
Omg.
*grabs popcorn*
A Taurus is the most obvious person in the world when it comes to dating and interest. We are 100% there and ready to commit and don’t disappear. If he’s disappearing AND talking about sex then that’s all he wants. He’s telling you. Believe him.
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Posted by Caramel_PrincessI agree, if he really wants me to be with me. He will choose me now. No BS. If he still can't decide, then that's it. I don't want to waste my time and invest in something that don't go anywhere.Posted by CapricornWoman13You’re doing exactly what you should be doing. They want to have their cake and eat it too, they want it ALL. Make him choose, if he can’t choose you now then that means you’ll end up heartbroken in the end. You’ve said your peace and now he needs to man up and make a decision. Life will go on with or without him.Posted by Caramel_PrincessExactly! I would only have sex in a COMMITED relationship! I already told him that i am looking for serious relationship and i don't play games. I've always been honest with him. Too honest actually and i'm straightforward. That's another reason i don't wanna sex with him yet bec i feel like he is talking to other girls. He always diappears and only gonna text me once in a blue moon. I'm not stupid and our instincts are telling that something is fishy. There are times i feel that he is being true to me but there are also times that i feel that he is hiding something. And he knows i hate people who lies.Posted by CapricornWoman13Ugh I really feel for you! They all do this! They’re really not all that emotionally stable for an earth sign and some of the men are insecure and a big mess! I’m glad you stepped up for yourself and showed him you’ll take no shit from him.Posted by Caramel_PrincessI've been through his disappearing acts, ignoring texts, leaving me hanging and guessing so after 5 months i decided to tell him that i like him. I told him that i don't want to play games like other people. And that i am looking for something important and my intentions are genuine. I want to get to know him more and spend more quality time with him. I also told him that i respect him as a person and i respect his feelings and his time. No rush, no pressure and i just want him to know how i feel. He texted me after a few days and asked me out. He stood me up then he ghosted me for 6 weeks, i was hurt and thought that he will never come back but after christmas day, he contacted me again. I was upset and i have low tolerance for BS so explained to him what he did to me in a nice but logical way, told him that i value myself and i strongly believe that the man i am going to be with should respect and value me as well. After that he started acting he's into me again..he wanted to see me but i refused but after a week, i decided to text him and give it a go. Since then, he is being consistent and didn't disappear yet. He is initiating contact now unlike before and it's increasing as well. He keep on asking me to go on dates with him. He also keep on asking me to have sex with him. I told him i don't wanna do it just for the sake of sex. I am looking for something real. Then he texted me that he understands and he said that he is crazy about me, that he likes spending time with me and he is not in it for the short run. He said that he'd love to know everything about me and want to know me for a very long time. When we part, he also said that he cant wait til the next time to see me..He said that he cant compare his value of me to something coz it's unexplainable.Posted by CapricornWoman13You can do it! You’ve it in you to go slow. I wish I had any advice other than don’t let him string you along, I’ve noticed these guys will see you for 5 years then still say “we are friends!”.Posted by Caramel_Princessi love your comment lol we are moving soo slowwwww..literally, we've been seeing each other for almost a year but still progressing slowly hahaPosted by edgelordOh I mean it’d be the most boring relationship possible so I may as well grab a seat and popcorn lol.Posted by Caramel_PrincessTaurus men LOVE, and are faithful to, earth sign bishes.
Omg.
*grabs popcorn*
I am confused coz i feel like he is playing games with me and i hate that, left me guessing for a month then this happened all of a sudden. Is he really being sincere or just testing me? I just wanna make sure that i am not being blinded of my feelings for him.
Right now, i am taking it slower than he wants lol i call the shots and i dont make myself available all the time. Before i used to prioritize him then i realized that i shouldn't commit myself to him yet. I just let our feelings grow naturally.
Tell him you want a serious relationship and you don’t want to waste more time or invest in something with no future. Tell him that you only have sex in COMMITTED relationships.
Do you think he could be talking to or seeing any other girls? These guys LOVE feminine attention and usually have a harem around them. The ex bull would tell me he felt random connections with ANY woman around him. They’re just so insecure and want to be adored so badly.
Keep your options open too, don’t cut out all other men for him, don’t tell him that though since they’re so possessive (it’s okay if they behave like fuckbags but not their women.)
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Posted by edgelordThank you, Yes, NO SEX until he commits.Posted by CapricornWoman13Posted by edgelordYou're right. He is still disappearing and i feel like he is entertaining someone else. I don't have any proof so i don't want to look like i'm accusing him without evidence. He texts me but when i reply he ignores me. Sometimes it will take him days to reply. I don't play that BS. That's why i slowed down. I noticed that he only texts a lot when he wants to see me but besides that, he doesn't even bother to see how am i doing. I need to protect my heart. He knows how i feel about him, i really do like him but there something inside me that telling me there's something wrong. I was hoping that he also wants the same things i do. A committed and faithful relationship.Posted by CapricornWoman13Posted by edgelordI really hope so..I like this taurus guy i am seeing but still i'm still unsure of where i stand with him. Been seeing him almost a year. He always asks me out to go on dates but i'm afraid that he only wants me for sex that's why i am being cautious.Posted by Caramel_PrincessTaurus men LOVE, and are faithful to, earth sign bishes.
Omg.
*grabs popcorn*
A Taurus is the most obvious person in the world when it comes to dating and interest. We are 100% there and ready to commit and don’t disappear. If he’s disappearing AND talking about sex then that’s all he wants. He’s telling you. Believe him.
I’m a Taurus/cap fan obviously. But in this be cautious and protect your heart: NO SEX unless he commits if that’s all he wants he’ll eventually lose interest.
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Posted by El_toro_locoThank you so much. I really appreciate your explanation. I'm always being real to him and i try to do my own thing.
I've been reading all these posts about Taurus guys and there have been some complaints that I have seen that were pretty common and I can admit I was guilty of myself. Maybe it'll give a little insight, maybe, not everyone is the same. I always broke relationships down into categories 1) FWB
2) Wife material
Where we fell depended on their responses to how I am (as a fixed sign we really don't change much) I've seen it called a "test" but it wasn't really a test. I would do the same things over and over and look for consistency in their response, that's it. I look at it as 2 gears coming together: does it appear they will mesh and roll along smoothly? Sometimes I'd do stupid stuff to see if they were just doing what they thought I wanted, not interested in fake. If I thought it was fake it fell to FWB.
I too ran off for long periods of time and wasn't heard from. Honestly, that was for me to get my head right. It's kinda weird, but it was a sorta blow to my stability even considering a relationship - that's a serious change in routine. I wanted to consider every angle before I committed. I don't consider myself a prize or anything, but I didn't want to be wasting time with someone I knew wasn't going to last.
My best advice is for you to do you. Don't stray from your principles, just be real with him and not what you think he wants, build a friendship. Invite him to do things you like to do and you think he'd enjoy. If you guys gel, apply pressure but be patient at the same time, a relationship is big deal.
Like I said I know everyone is different. I had just seen the same themes over and over that I was also guilty of, and try to give some insight into my reasoning behind it, maybe it will translate into your Taurus as well.
Posted by Caramel_PrincessThis is exactly how i am feeling. The ghosting and ignoring text are red flags for me, at first i try to understand it but after a while, i started doubting what he says. Even if I want to believe him, sometimes his actions and words don't match so i am forced to put my walls up coz I am scared that he might be only stringing me along.Posted by El_toro_locoMaybe the problem is that you (I don’t mean YOU) don’t explain, all we see is only your actions/behavior and that can come off confusing or even cold. Like the ghosting or not texting back is a clear red flag and once you give a few red flags we start doubting everything you do say cause your actions and words don’t match. Women are extremely intuitive and very sensitive to these small changes.Posted by Caramel_PrincessI do try. We really are simple people. We just don't explain alot. We try to handle it in our heads and sometimes that works against us. Meanwhile everyone around us are jumping to conclusions and changing the dynamics.Posted by El_toro_locoI appreciate this explanation. Thank you. You seem like to be one of the few direct honest ones.
I've been reading all these posts about Taurus guys and there have been some complaints that I have seen that were pretty common and I can admit I was guilty of myself. Maybe it'll give a little insight, maybe, not everyone is the same. I always broke relationships down into categories 1) FWB
2) Wife material
Where we fell depended on their responses to how I am (as a fixed sign we really don't change much) I've seen it called a "test" but it wasn't really a test. I would do the same things over and over and look for consistency in their response, that's it. I look at it as 2 gears coming together: does it appear they will mesh and roll along smoothly? Sometimes I'd do stupid stuff to see if they were just doing what they thought I wanted, not interested in fake. If I thought it was fake it fell to FWB.
I too ran off for long periods of time and wasn't heard from. Honestly, that was for me to get my head right. It's kinda weird, but it was a sorta blow to my stability even considering a relationship - that's a serious change in routine. I wanted to consider every angle before I committed. I don't consider myself a prize or anything, but I didn't want to be wasting time with someone I knew wasn't going to last.
My best advice is for you to do you. Don't stray from your principles, just be real with him and not what you think he wants, build a friendship. Invite him to do things you like to do and you think he'd enjoy. If you guys gel, apply pressure but be patient at the same time, a relationship is big deal.
Like I said I know everyone is different. I had just seen the same themes over and over that I was also guilty of, and try to give some insight into my reasoning behind it, maybe it will translate into your Taurus as well.
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Posted by El_toro_locoAfter a month of ghosting, he initiated contact. He actually ghosted me when i told him i like him and i am looking for a serious relationship. I told him that my feelings are genuine and i want to get to know him more and i want him to get to know me as well. No rush, no pressure or anything. I said that we should just take things and i just want him to know how i feel. He said he understands, asks me on a date then stood me up. I asked him what happened to him but then no reply since then. I was upset when he came back since he left me guessing and i felt abandoned. I explained to him how i felt and i told him that i don't play games. After that, he didn't disappear yet. He initiates texts now, unlike before it was always me reaching out to him. He asks me to go out with him either to eat, watch a movie and he also brought me to one of his hobbies and taught me how to play it. He wanted to have sex with me but I told him that i don't wanna do it just for the sake of sex. I told him that we are only gonna do it when he sure of how he feels about me. When I asked him that i need to know where i stand with him, he told me that he is crazy about me, that he likes spending time with me and he sees me in his dreams. He said that whenever we part, he can't wait to see me again. He told me that he is not in it for the short run, he wants to know me for a very long time and he would love to know everything about me. He also said that he can't compare his value of me to anything coz it's unexplainable. I want to believe what he said but he still ignores my texts, takes him days to reply then he tells me he thinks of me all the time. It's confusing me.
If he initiates contact after a period of time, it's a good sign he's into you. He's been thinking about you.. his mind may have ran across another "test" he wants to try, but that's a good sign, cause he still thinks there may be a reason to continue to test. If you feel like it's becoming a booty call, bail.
Posted by Caramel_PrincessThis is soo weird lol i also noticed that when it comes to my bull, he seems to take me for granted when i'm being nice. That's when i started to stand my ground. I let him know when he did something wrong and i make it clear i don't tolerate BS. When i do that, i am not expecting him to want to see me again or even talk to me. But the thing is, he still wants to see me. But there are just times that he makes me really confuse. He says that he always thinking about me but then can go for days without replying to me..Posted by CapricornWoman13I’m guessing things aren’t going well between the two of you? When things were going south with mine I took it upon me to test my theory (that they comply when you push them.) I let him know very CLEARLY that I was upset (and I got a bit mean.) and then I was like this no longer means anything to me. I deleted his number and thought well that’s that.. I didn’t think he’d ever reply nor did I care and guess what? He texted back apologizing.Posted by Caramel_PrincessThis is exactly how i am feeling. The ghosting and ignoring text are red flags for me, at first i try to understand it but after a while, i started doubting what he says. Even if I want to believe him, sometimes his actions and words don't match so i am forced to put my walls up coz I am scared that he might be only stringing me along.Posted by El_toro_locoMaybe the problem is that you (I don’t mean YOU) don’t explain, all we see is only your actions/behavior and that can come off confusing or even cold. Like the ghosting or not texting back is a clear red flag and once you give a few red flags we start doubting everything you do say cause your actions and words don’t match. Women are extremely intuitive and very sensitive to these small changes.Posted by Caramel_PrincessI do try. We really are simple people. We just don't explain alot. We try to handle it in our heads and sometimes that works against us. Meanwhile everyone around us are jumping to conclusions and changing the dynamics.Posted by El_toro_locoI appreciate this explanation. Thank you. You seem like to be one of the few direct honest ones.
I've been reading all these posts about Taurus guys and there have been some complaints that I have seen that were pretty common and I can admit I was guilty of myself. Maybe it'll give a little insight, maybe, not everyone is the same. I always broke relationships down into categories 1) FWB
2) Wife material
Where we fell depended on their responses to how I am (as a fixed sign we really don't change much) I've seen it called a "test" but it wasn't really a test. I would do the same things over and over and look for consistency in their response, that's it. I look at it as 2 gears coming together: does it appear they will mesh and roll along smoothly? Sometimes I'd do stupid stuff to see if they were just doing what they thought I wanted, not interested in fake. If I thought it was fake it fell to FWB.
I too ran off for long periods of time and wasn't heard from. Honestly, that was for me to get my head right. It's kinda weird, but it was a sorta blow to my stability even considering a relationship - that's a serious change in routine. I wanted to consider every angle before I committed. I don't consider myself a prize or anything, but I didn't want to be wasting time with someone I knew wasn't going to last.
My best advice is for you to do you. Don't stray from your principles, just be real with him and not what you think he wants, build a friendship. Invite him to do things you like to do and you think he'd enjoy. If you guys gel, apply pressure but be patient at the same time, a relationship is big deal.
Like I said I know everyone is different. I had just seen the same themes over and over that I was also guilty of, and try to give some insight into my reasoning behind it, maybe it will translate into your Taurus as well.
Things were already too late to be salvaged though so it ended, but that’s just what I noticed. DO NOT let them think they’ve total control or that you’re weak. When I’d be nice and understanding he’d blow cold air.click to expand
Virgos are strong women in relationships. They can take and handle some ish, plus they will fight for the relationship. My Virgo sisters ex Taurus is trying to get back with her.
I think Caps a little mushier inside, so the whole standing your ground thing doesn't work as well. Our feelings get hurt more easily...egos get bruised, and we go to through more extremes in our feelings about the whole relationship. A taurus looking for consistency in a Cap...its going to take him a while to find it, especially if the Taurus isnt being consistent. We are consistent people as long as no feelings are involved.
I thinik Cap women at least should stay away from Taurus, Scorpios and Virgos lol.
I think Caps a little mushier inside, so the whole standing your ground thing doesn't work as well. Our feelings get hurt more easily...egos get bruised, and we go to through more extremes in our feelings about the whole relationship. A taurus looking for consistency in a Cap...its going to take him a while to find it, especially if the Taurus isnt being consistent. We are consistent people as long as no feelings are involved.
I thinik Cap women at least should stay away from Taurus, Scorpios and Virgos lol.
Posted by El_toro_locoYou basically nailed it.Posted by lnana04
Virgos are strong women in relationships. They can take and handle some ish, plus they will fight for the relationship. My Virgo sisters ex Taurus is trying to get back with her.
I think Caps a little mushier inside, so the whole standing your ground thing doesn't work as well. Our feelings get hurt more easily...egos get bruised, and we go to through more extremes in our feelings about the whole relationship. A taurus looking for consistency in a Cap...its going to take him a while to find it, especially if the Taurus isnt being consistent. We are consistent people as long as no feelings are involved.
I thinik Cap women at least should stay away from Taurus, Scorpios and Virgos lol.
The thing I have noticed with all my Cap friends and family members is that they are impatient when it comes to unknowns. If they aren't sure about something they seem to always want to rush in and get going, rather they decide to abruptly end things in fruatration or rush things to their desired outcome. They have a hard time just letting things develop, they see what they want and try to rush the process.
Most of the Caps I know are more rigid than I am, and stubborn over some weird things.
They are a little more emotional and sentimental I think, than Taurus. Or at least they will let you know those things anyway. They are quick to express anger, you piss one off and you'll know it immediately. Taurus usually try to stay calm ( at least I know I do) so people don't feel like they have an impact on us, though we have taken a mental note and may burn your house down in a year or two if you really posed us off.
I think all earth signs are similar and operate in a similar manner, they just have different speeds and methods on obtaining the same results. Virgo and Cap are far better at communication though.
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Posted by CapricornWoman13A year holy shit...when they said Taurus men are slow with romance, they meant it 😂 I mean if you guys are still having good chemistry and times together, then I would be patient. But also you should probably bring up being official if you guys have been seeing each other for that long and you really want to be with him. Like think about what YOU are feeling about him and what you wantPosted by Caramel_Princessi love your comment lol we are moving soo slowwwww..literally, we've been seeing each other for almost a year but still progressing slowly hahaPosted by edgelordOh I mean it’d be the most boring relationship possible so I may as well grab a seat and popcorn lol.Posted by Caramel_PrincessTaurus men LOVE, and are faithful to, earth sign bishes.
Omg.
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I'm a cap woman and I have dated a few Taurus men, they weren't relationships though. One thing most of them had in common was the slowness part. Except for this one Taurus who had an Aries venus, he wanted to be in a relationship with me after 3 times of hanging out lol. Another long-time Taurus friend of mine liked me, or so he told me, and that was after knowing each other for quite a few years.
A lot of Taurus men tend to get into relationships with someone they've known for a really long time or a previous good friend of their's. It's a security thing, because they value secureness and stableness, and don't want to invest into something they can't see lasting.
Posted by El_toro_loco"Virgo and Cap are far better at communication though."Posted by lnana04
Virgos are strong women in relationships. They can take and handle some ish, plus they will fight for the relationship. My Virgo sisters ex Taurus is trying to get back with her.
I think Caps a little mushier inside, so the whole standing your ground thing doesn't work as well. Our feelings get hurt more easily...egos get bruised, and we go to through more extremes in our feelings about the whole relationship. A taurus looking for consistency in a Cap...its going to take him a while to find it, especially if the Taurus isnt being consistent. We are consistent people as long as no feelings are involved.
I thinik Cap women at least should stay away from Taurus, Scorpios and Virgos lol.
The thing I have noticed with all my Cap friends and family members is that they are impatient when it comes to unknowns. If they aren't sure about something they seem to always want to rush in and get going, rather they decide to abruptly end things in fruatration or rush things to their desired outcome. They have a hard time just letting things develop, they see what they want and try to rush the process.
Most of the Caps I know are more rigid than I am, and stubborn over some weird things.
They are a little more emotional and sentimental I think, than Taurus. Or at least they will let you know those things anyway. They are quick to express anger, you piss one off and you'll know it immediately. Taurus usually try to stay calm ( at least I know I do) so people don't feel like they have an impact on us, though we have taken a mental note and may burn your house down in a year or two if you really posed us off.
I think all earth signs are similar and operate in a similar manner, they just have different speeds and methods on obtaining the same results. Virgo and Cap are far better at communication though.
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omg I always thought Tauruses were so bad at communication, even when you straight up ask them an important question. But Tauruses I find, at least most female ones, are a lot warmer and outgoing than Capricorns. I like that about them
Posted by CapricornWoman13A year holy shit...when they said Taurus men are slow with romance, they meant it 😂 I mean if you guys are still having good chemistry and times together, then I would be patient. But also you should probably bring up being official if you guys have been seeing each other for that long and you really want to be with him. Like think about what YOU are feeling about him and what you wantPosted by Caramel_Princessi love your comment lol we are moving soo slowwwww..literally, we've been seeing each other for almost a year but still progressing slowly hahaPosted by edgelordOh I mean it’d be the most boring relationship possible so I may as well grab a seat and popcorn lol.Posted by Caramel_PrincessTaurus men LOVE, and are faithful to, earth sign bishes.
Omg.
*grabs popcorn*click to expand
I'm a cap woman and I have dated a few Taurus men, they weren't relationships though. One thing most of them had in common was the slowness part. Except for this one Taurus who had an Aries venus, he wanted to be in a relationship with me after 3 times of hanging out lol. Another long-time Taurus friend of mine liked me, or so he told me, and that was after knowing each other for quite a few years.
A lot of Taurus men tend to get into relationships with someone they've known for a really long time or a previous good friend of their's. It's a security thing, because they value secureness and stableness, and don't want to invest into something they can't see lasting.
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