Confused by this Capricorn Man

I am a Leo-Virgo Cusp (born August 22, at noon). I met this Cap man ( January 10th) about a month ago and we just clicked.

We kept up in communication by texting, phone calls and FaceTime. We talked every single day pretty much all day everyday and each day we saw we had more and more in common, and were vocal about liking one another. Originally I told him I was hesistant about relationship for being lied to and cheated before. In such a short time he'd gained my trust.

Last week we were on FaceTime per usual and in the middle of our conversation we got disconnected. I thought it'd been the wifi, but he hadn't texted me back after. That was a Tuesday and the days continued to where I didn't talk to him. My messages stopped showing as delivered so I thought his phone might've died so I got worried..

By Sunday I decided to FaceTime his number and it rung and rung with no answer. Then I called and it went straight to voicemail without a ring, therefore thinking I'm blocked. My cousin decided to text him from her phone to see the case, and her message was quickly delivered. He'd texted her unknown number back at 2am, when I still hadn't heard from him.

The next day, he texted me around 12 saying that his phone had overcharged and overheated while we were on FaceTime and he said that he had just picked up his new phone. I know it all was a lie because of his text message to my cousin in the middle of the night but I can't tell him I know that. So I just decided to rock with it.

It has been a week since all of this happened and he seems so distracted. We've probably sent about 6 messages in the span of the week, talking about nothing. It's not the same and he's been extremely distant.

What should I do? Should I tell him I know he's lying, try to find why he's so distant, or just let it go altogether?

This makes me sad. In all honesty it all depends on what you want. Never be afraid of making a man mad if you have questions because the ones who are quick to leave didn't really want to be their anyway. There are ways to tactfully ask. I have an iPhone and it is known to overheat sometimes like every 6 months and it will be dead for hours but if you can already tell something in his personality is off don't ignore that. If you are that afraid of asking maybe pull back and preoccupy your time that ways you arent crushed if he leaves you should be doing that anyway you have accidentally become dependent on his conversation and attention.

I'd personally call him out on it so he knows it hurt you and then I'd let it go.

I would outright ask him in a calm manner. Doesn't matter what other lie he came up with or if he told the truth, I would just let it go ,but after I let him know he's a liar lol

Let it go

Moving forward try not to make the guy you're actually into....into an instant relationship/instant boyfriend type of situation or you will most likely continue to see this pattern with other men where initially he's into you only to feel the pressure of gaining your trust and not hurting you like the last guy.

We women (some) can be exhausting with our quest for love and connection, some of us wear men out without realizing it.