brezbeautiful88
@brezbeautiful88
12 Years
Comments: 2 · Posts: 62 · Topics: 1
crazy confused capricorn crap tell me what you think
I need understanding. I want him to give me more communication and time. I would like him to let me know that we are on the same page and that eventually wasting my time. That's the biggest thing I don't want our time knowing each other to be a waste
Hm Capricorn are earth Cardinals he can bend but not when you demand communication and time. They are hard workers. You have to compromise the both of you to make it work.
A few things stuck out when I was reading your post.
It's too soon to be pushing for marriage and a child. That conversation shouldn't come until 1-2 years into the relationship. You're pushing him away with that.
Another thing that I caught on to is that you distanced and wouldn't give him a reason. He probably feels confused as well. When our partner distances, so do we and a shield goes up. So, now it's going to take even longer for him to come around.
The third thing - his work will always come first. It's the bread and butter that holds the world together for a cap. You know how tired he is if he's falling asleep on you. He's always going to have work and he's always going to be dedicated to it. It doesn't mean he can't be dedicated to you, too. But, if you're having problems accepting his work, then it's not going to work out between you.
It's too soon to be pushing for marriage and a child. That conversation shouldn't come until 1-2 years into the relationship. You're pushing him away with that.
Another thing that I caught on to is that you distanced and wouldn't give him a reason. He probably feels confused as well. When our partner distances, so do we and a shield goes up. So, now it's going to take even longer for him to come around.
The third thing - his work will always come first. It's the bread and butter that holds the world together for a cap. You know how tired he is if he's falling asleep on you. He's always going to have work and he's always going to be dedicated to it. It doesn't mean he can't be dedicated to you, too. But, if you're having problems accepting his work, then it's not going to work out between you.
You want more communication from him, but you change your number?
You want more communication from him, but you turn your phone off to avoid talking to him?
Really? What part of that makes sense?
You want more communication from him, but you turn your phone off to avoid talking to him?
Really? What part of that makes sense?
Vixen2... I know this I try to have a lot of patience maybe it's not enough. I would think by now if he didn't want anything with me he would of accepted one of the many cop out I've offered
Please don't be playing games like that.
You can NEVER break a Cap. It will NEVER be all about you.
FirstDecan.... I totally agree. I just figured it wouldn't be so much like game and more like a true solution to my problem because he is mostly unresponsive. That hurts. I don't wanna be all serious I just don't want to waste my effort and time.
Ctfu.. can't possibly be friends with benefits. When the benefit is sex.. thats not happening it's rare. And if I was bipolar what would that have to do with the question that I'm asking or what would make you feel as if you needed to point out my disorders
Posted by brezbeautiful88You had changed your number, then you avoided his calls.....he DID try to make effort. After all that you did, you finally call him.....and you're upset that he didn't answer your call? Can you really blame him?
FirstDecan.... I totally agree. I just figured it wouldn't be so much like game and more like a true solution to my problem because he is mostly unresponsive. That hurts. I don't wanna be all serious I just don't want to waste my effort and time.
Try to put yourself in his situation as well.
Posted by CTFUShe's not miss innocent here. I get the impression that she's wishy washy and flaky. Caps don't like that - not at all.
Caps want someone who is stable and reliable.
Do you follow through?
Do your actions match your words?
If I've ready you all wrong, OP, I apologize. It's just the impression you give.
You should just smile and blow him. He deserves it.
Posted by brezbeautiful88Here's a prime example.
FirstDecan.... I totally agree. I just figured it wouldn't be so much like game and more like a true solution to my problem because he is mostly unresponsive. That hurts. I don't wanna be all serious I just don't want to waste my effort and time.
In your first post you talked about you wanted marriage and another kid pretty soon.
Now, you say you don't want to be all serious.
So, which is it? You looking for marriage or a play thing?
No wonder, he's not responding anymore.
Posted by brezbeautiful88Here's a prime example.
FirstDecan.... I totally agree. I just figured it wouldn't be so much like game and more like a true solution to my problem because he is mostly unresponsive. That hurts. I don't wanna be all serious I just don't want to waste my effort and time.
In your first post you talked about you wanted marriage and another kid pretty soon.
Now, you say you don't want to be all serious.
So, which is it? You looking for marriage or a play thing?
No wonder, he's not responding anymore.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428no shit, I'm a Cap moon and she is making me want to run away from her LOL !
Please don't be playing games like that.
Ctfu and tru cap.. when I say "all serious" I mean so serious on pushing him on what I want so soon.. he is the only guy I'm pursuing he knows exactly where to find me. He can count on me no matter what.. I always follow through I always check on him, make sure he eats make sure he's not as stressed.. I can promise you I'm not into playing any games with him I really adore him and he knows that. He counts on me and I deliver 100 percent
Posted by tctaPosted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428no shit, I'm a Cap moon and she is making me want to run away from her LOL !
Please don't be playing games like that.click to expand
crazy chicks are the best in bed
"it hurts because in the back of my mind we are falling apart.."
---that's you falling apart, all bcuz he's put a little more focus back into his work.
"I fully accept changes" .... this is bs.
Then, "he assures me" .... reassuring you he's still into you.
Then the rest is you playing games. I'd drop you too.
---that's you falling apart, all bcuz he's put a little more focus back into his work.
"I fully accept changes" .... this is bs.
Then, "he assures me" .... reassuring you he's still into you.
Then the rest is you playing games. I'd drop you too.
Posted by _you can have them allPosted by tctaPosted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428no shit, I'm a Cap moon and she is making me want to run away from her LOL !
Please don't be playing games like that.
crazy chicks are the best in bedclick to expand
Posted by brezbeautiful88then stop being so obsessed and flakey at the same time - caps are driven by their work and will not always be up your crack just because that is what you want 150% of the time - don't consume him or it will push him away
Ctfu and tru cap.. when I say "all serious" I mean so serious on pushing him on what I want so soon.. he is the only guy I'm pursuing he knows exactly where to find me. He can count on me no matter what.. I always follow through I always check on him, make sure he eats make sure he's not as stressed.. I can promise you I'm not into playing any games with him I really adore him and he knows that. He counts on me and I deliver 100 percent
Ctfu.. I think your being a little narrow as to how your trying to solve my issue.. breathe and expand your mind..
Now in my opinion fwb should have some type of consistency.. there is none
Secondly he is gentle with me and I know sex was cut back to make it known that it's not the only thing he wanted from me.. we have talked about this throughly. What I have told you in my original post was just an insight into my relationship with this particular cap. I asked the question in statement of how can I get him back preferably without that wall being put back up between us.. because I know I over react a little.. I openly admit that. However I feel as if it's his fault because a relationship does deserve some type of reassurance of its status.. he just expects me to know and I obviously don't I'm confused.
Now in my opinion fwb should have some type of consistency.. there is none
Secondly he is gentle with me and I know sex was cut back to make it known that it's not the only thing he wanted from me.. we have talked about this throughly. What I have told you in my original post was just an insight into my relationship with this particular cap. I asked the question in statement of how can I get him back preferably without that wall being put back up between us.. because I know I over react a little.. I openly admit that. However I feel as if it's his fault because a relationship does deserve some type of reassurance of its status.. he just expects me to know and I obviously don't I'm confused.
Posted by brezbeautiful88How can he count on you when you don't answer his calls?
Ctfu and tru cap.. when I say "all serious" I mean so serious on pushing him on what I want so soon.. he is the only guy I'm pursuing he knows exactly where to find me. He can count on me no matter what.. I always follow through I always check on him, make sure he eats make sure he's not as stressed.. I can promise you I'm not into playing any games with him I really adore him and he knows that. He counts on me and I deliver 100 percent
How is that delivering 100% ?
^^ from a capricorn point of view. That is not being there for me.
Posted by brezbeautiful88How can he count on you when you don't answer his calls?
Ctfu and tru cap.. when I say "all serious" I mean so serious on pushing him on what I want so soon.. he is the only guy I'm pursuing he knows exactly where to find me. He can count on me no matter what.. I always follow through I always check on him, make sure he eats make sure he's not as stressed.. I can promise you I'm not into playing any games with him I really adore him and he knows that. He counts on me and I deliver 100 percent
How is that delivering 100% ?
^^ from a capricorn point of view. That is not being there for me.
Lol @ an aqua complaining about not getting enough reassurance. Oh, the irony.
😄
😄
you know, you can't be all that anyway - sorry but that is my opinion after reading what you write
you can't hold a gun to Caps head, taking away when he doesn't give you what you want - sorry it doesn't work that way and that is retarded and crazy and immature and you will lose him because no one is worth that shit
you can't hold a gun to Caps head, taking away when he doesn't give you what you want - sorry it doesn't work that way and that is retarded and crazy and immature and you will lose him because no one is worth that shit
Ok understood... it can never be all about me.. to those of you that say I'm too young to be thinking about marriage and another child. He has no kids. He wants kids he wants marriage just as I do.. maybe it is too young but the litter of his friends are married. That is just the direction he wants to go in.. and I'm all for that because it seems suitable
Trucap . . I changed my number 2 days ago.. and I didn't want to pick up the phone for him last night. So I cut it off because I didn't wanna talk to him.... mainly because I realized I was over reacting... it has not been an expansion of time..
Yes of course he is reassuring in actions I clearly see that.. but words come from the heart.. I have broken it off with him and he insisted that it wasn't the right thing to do... so I have told him in order to keep me I need words... that mute stuff is eerie.. he has improved I will say that but only about his where abouts.. as if I don't trust him.. thats not it I don't trust my heart in his hands so technically I don't trust myself and how deeply I can possibly fall in love with him
If he was serious about you he'd have locked u down in the meantime. Keep your head up and look for a guy who gives you 100% .
tcta... I'm sorry that you don't feel your worth it.. but i am.. nothing real ever comes easy... know that. I'll make sure I keep an update of our relationship in this thread ‰
Thank you foreverloveme I really need that clear sound insight you make a lot of sense..
Aquanextdoor that's exactly how I'm feeling
Posted by brezbeautiful88Your story is inconsistent.
Trucap . . I changed my number 2 days ago.. and I didn't want to pick up the phone for him last night. So I cut it off because I didn't wanna talk to him.... mainly because I realized I was over reacting... it has not been an expansion of time..
I changed my number and I'm just giving it to him.
Two days ago and you're JUST giving him your number. You should have done this immediately.
I've been cutting my phone off to avoid talking to him. I finally called him and he didn't pick up..
This reads as if you've been cutting your phone off multiple times. Now you're saying it was last night.
- Just trying to clarify the inconsistencies.
Posted by brezbeautiful88Words are nothing.
Yes of course he is reassuring in actions I clearly see that.. but words come from the heart.. I have broken it off with him and he insisted that it wasn't the right thing to do... so I have told him in order to keep me I need words... that mute stuff is eerie.. he has improved I will say that but only about his where abouts.. as if I don't trust him.. thats not it I don't trust my heart in his hands so technically I don't trust myself and how deeply I can possibly fall in love with him
I'm not really trying to be mean. I think you have probably confused him, too. And no, he's not going to put in words and effort into a relationship where he doesn't know where he stands either.
My suggestion. Caps like directness. So, put it out there. Tell him "I want _____". Tell him you want to be exclusive. Tell him you want him to be your boyfriend. Tell him you don't want just FWB.
Don't ask him where you stand. That's weak. Tell him what YOU want and see what he has to say. Don't demand. Just tell him what you want. If you're feeling confused. Tell him you're feeling confused and you don't like feeling this way. Just be honest, calm and direct.
My suggestion. Caps like directness. So, put it out there. Tell him "I want _____". Tell him you want to be exclusive. Tell him you want him to be your boyfriend. Tell him you don't want just FWB.
Don't ask him where you stand. That's weak. Tell him what YOU want and see what he has to say. Don't demand. Just tell him what you want. If you're feeling confused. Tell him you're feeling confused and you don't like feeling this way. Just be honest, calm and direct.
Lol supermercurial why would you say I should've moved in with him ? I would love to know
Tieshab I do live in the south.. and I'm sure it's not your cap lol. Nor do you know him
****update***** we have talked since this post I sense that he doesn't trust me to the same extent. He came over last night and we made dinner together and talked but not much of it. He told me how bummed he was that I changed my number he showed me text messages that he sent me which were never received because of what I did. I can accept that totally my fault.. I'm happy that we were able to reconcile and I believe we made it over a hump in our relationship. Took 2 steps back to take 5 steps forward.
Thanks
You just screwed that up. Expect him to be really distant.
What's his moon and Venus?
What's his moon and Venus?
slowly slowly catch a cappy...and why are you playing games. Dont test them like that by cutting them off, it will only backfire. There are signs you can do this to, not that id want to as a grown woman now but i prob did when i was younger to know where i stand. But with a cap it will backfire. He will come back, when HE wants to. Leave him be. Id say if he hasnt blocked you or anything you still have a chance but the balls in his court.
Capricorn sun Leo moon venus in aquarius
Me: Jan 20th cusp cappy/aqua moon in aquarius venus in pisces..
Yeah I understand I messed up big time.. however we did talk last night to an extent. He was waiting for a real solid answer as to why I did what I did. But last night I found myself speechless. Maybe a real apology will make things a little better..
Me: Jan 20th cusp cappy/aqua moon in aquarius venus in pisces..
Yeah I understand I messed up big time.. however we did talk last night to an extent. He was waiting for a real solid answer as to why I did what I did. But last night I found myself speechless. Maybe a real apology will make things a little better..
Piso I think I have finally came to grasps with that
I'm afraid of being honest because I have been honest with him so much before! He never gives me a true answer. This shit is frustrating! He eithers say nothing at all or he changes the subject ughhhhh.. last night he asked me was I being timid I said yes. And he did say that he's very timid his self.. like that's new to me because he never talks about his feelings.. or what he's thinking..
But the amount of pressure that I have put on him is the only reason why he's speaking...
So instead of pressuring him I'm just gonna let it be... and allow him to come to me..
This man makes me crave his attention and I don't like that it shouldn't be like that with anyone if you love and care for someone then it should be just that.
It makes no sense for me to be in a relationship and still want to feel wanted and loved... I'm sure cappy men run through women or they get cheated on the most ijsðŸ'”ðŸ'”£ ¢
But the amount of pressure that I have put on him is the only reason why he's speaking...
So instead of pressuring him I'm just gonna let it be... and allow him to come to me..
This man makes me crave his attention and I don't like that it shouldn't be like that with anyone if you love and care for someone then it should be just that.
It makes no sense for me to be in a relationship and still want to feel wanted and loved... I'm sure cappy men run through women or they get cheated on the most ijsðŸ'”ðŸ'”£ ¢
Posted by brezbeautiful88You should tell him everything you're telling us tbh. Us Capricorns are slow, we need you to just tell us EVERYTHING on your mind so we can really get how you feel.
I'm afraid of being honest because I have been honest with him so much before! He never gives me a true answer. This shit is frustrating! He eithers say nothing at all or he changes the subject ughhhhh.. last night he asked me was I being timid I said yes. And he did say that he's very timid his self.. like that's new to me because he never talks about his feelings.. or what he's thinking..
But the amount of pressure that I have put on him is the only reason why he's speaking...
So instead of pressuring him I'm just gonna let it be... and allow him to come to me..
This man makes me crave his attention and I don't like that it shouldn't be like that with anyone if you love and care for someone then it should be just that.
It makes no sense for me to be in a relationship and still want to feel wanted and loved... I'm sure cappy men run through women or they get cheated on the most ijs��'���'�£ ¢
We're also blunt so I have no idea why he's not being 100% with you. Maybe he's hiding something? Maybe he doesn't wanna hurt your feelings? I honestly get the feeling that you're turning him off. Cap men won't make you come to them, if they want you they'll tell you. Maybe he doesn't feel the same way. Capricorns are honestly clingy too... So... Idk
Capricorns want long term relationships, not bootycalls especially the older we get.
Btw he sounds like a Scorpio, you sure he didn't lie about his bday?
UPDATE******my cappy and I are coasting as of right now.. I didn't get a chance to tell him how I feel about him our situation and alk. Because I wanna do it face to face.. and when he's around were having so much fun I just don't want to turn the mood sour ya know!... but i promise the next time I see him in which will be sat and Sunday I'm gonna let em know... it been close to a year and I've noticed I have expressed things but nothing of this nature I feel like it's time.. also he is testing me idk what to think because I'm not the type to pay attention or get offended by him doing this.. it doesn't bother me.. so I don't know why he keeps doing it maybe it's to not get so emotionally close with me... lol... if that's the case then he has already failed because I consider him an extremely emotional person that's part of why he hides so much... it's a shame how cappies go in hiding practing how not to be emotional when they really are emotional.. thats like a lost identity to me... they should just be their selves
I'm mean testing me by in example. The other day we were on the phone having conversation and I asked him was he off work yet... he said yes and why... I said nothing I was just asking. Then he said oh I thought you were asking for a reason.. I said well it's not as if I would of ask you to come over you would have... then he said no....!!!
I'm like wtf I'm my mind.. I actually laughed in my head.. because he turned me down.. I felt as though with the way the conversation went we were both on the same page.... and then I realized that for some reason he had to be testing me is this not —
He doesn't want me to leave but he clearly is purposely turning me off.. am I missing something..
I'm like wtf I'm my mind.. I actually laughed in my head.. because he turned me down.. I felt as though with the way the conversation went we were both on the same page.... and then I realized that for some reason he had to be testing me is this not —
He doesn't want me to leave but he clearly is purposely turning me off.. am I missing something..
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
Hey caps, its been a while! Just wanted to pop in, share a story, and ask if I’m not at a misunderstanding concerning the behavior of one of your fellow goats. About three years ago I made a post here about someone I met who had me basically smitten wi
So, I met this Capricorn a few weeks ago, I was living in a sort of hippy commune type thing for a month with him. He had the most amazing blue eyes that were almost hypnotic. He was extremely good looking, but not typically, he was very extravagant in pe
Which color should I Choose
What you guys think about? I found some interesting reading
Since I'm writing a story involving astrology, there is something I want to have a super solid grasp on. Capricorns. My questions to you fair-women are the following: -Do you feel you're an exception to the general trend of women being more emotio
Like do you like someone to call or text you first?
Im a cap female and have a cap male interested in me. First cap ever romatically interested in me. Thing is I dont feel the same way back. Im not attracted to him while he is very attracted to me and I feel he has nothing to offer me that will help us gro
Soooo i have a coworker. He is a capricorn. I cannot tell you how much i have googled about capricorn, and im still confused about him. Weve known each other for over a year and have become close friends. I have visited his family, as his siblings work
Do you caps get angry if your partner,in my case,a wife,can't find a job,and all the finance depends on you??I really am trying hard,but can't find nothing...in the meantime,we are trying to have a baby..so I'm sometimes worried that he is going to reject
So since this Capricorn guy is so hard to read I'm looking for signals from his friends. I haven't spoken to the cap since December. But recently I added him on social media because I want to reconnect with him since I am moving to the same city to be
Aries, Cancer, Libra
So, I noticed that ya'll LOVE to live in the past. I mean, always talking about past flings and exes. My ex wife would do this and the new GF has been doing this non-stop. What's up with that?
what is the thing that pisses caps the most?
I'm interested how caps express love? In the beginning our relationship he told me that he loves meand that he wants to marry me.We got married,but he stopped saying that he loves me.In the meantime,he is still as sweet as in the beginning:full of care,ge
I've done a topic on "Beautiful fire men/women" almost a year ago on my old account, which went viral to other elements. And you guys inspired me to re-create. Would be nice to see representatives of each sign, and come on. Can't leave the ladies behind.
Hi caps, i want to forget a girl. these days i forcing myself to go to party to working more, i even installed tinder ! do you have other advice for me, i need to brainwash myself. Cordially -
Has anyone felt like its soooo hard for them to express their emotions?? I seriously have the hardest time with it and wanna know how other caps are... I honestly have been called a robot/cold/cruel before and its not that I don't have emotions its just
Has anyone ever met one?
Lesson the stress or lighten up? what do you prefer from ur close ones when u r under going alot of stress? what did they do that make you feel better apart from giving you some space? do caring words help? Thank you
I love how they work hard in reaching their goals and how successful they usually are at it.
I have a huge confused story I wanna share with you guys and get some sound advice about.
I met this guy 8 months ago. I just simply wasn't looking for anything. His approach was strong so I gave in and finally started conversation with him.. we talked and talked and talk for literally hours and days and nights even until new days.. we would be on our last string of energy but we could never seem to wanna leave one another.. then came sex (a maze ing ! ) by the way.. we still had fun.. we still made each other laugh. We just naturally clung to each other.. then he started giving me his emotions. Omg I was so in heaven.. I reciprocated. We felt the same way.. fast forward he has been through a lot of drama not including me and he's relied on me to be there and I have always been their. Hugging him kissing him tell him the truth through his emotions and most of all standing up for him.. now he can't seem to make time me for me as much as he used to.. it hurts because in the back of my mind we are falling apart.. I have asked him and let him know (non emotionally ) that I wouldn't or couldn't possibly be hurt by his detachment to me.. it's apart of life I fully accept changes but he assures me that it's nothing of the sort.. I have blew him off asking him to just leave me alone.. he refuses he wants an explanation he thinks it's another guy...WHAT ARE WE DOING WRONG HERE! It seems as if we want the same things but can't seem to reach these things. Also we are not making love to the point of getting played out we barely have those type of relations. But I'm fine with that.. What I think it may be is that he is afraid of moving forward with me.. he knows my demeanor about life right now it is progression.. I have a child I wanna have another one because I don't want them far apart.. I wanna marry and be happy for once in my life. I want to have happiness with him..
He is so sweet and caring and loving and considerate strong and helpful.... I couldn't think of anyone else to move forward in life with. He works so hard most times lately he comes over and sleeps in my arms.. I get the short end of the stick and it shouldn't be like this.. so I've been forced to push him and everyone knows that's a no no with capricorn. I told him I wanted to date and I was confused as to if I should let him know... you know A CAPRICORN BREAK UP TYPE THINGY..... because it's not like we're dating he's a capricorn.. lol!
I changed my number and I'm just giving it to him. I've been cutting my phone off to avoid talking to him. I finally called him and he didn't pick up.. now I'm trying to figure out how and will I get him back