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eastwest
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Seriously, this is getting to the point where i am just gonna explode, he is a cap,i am leo, and she is a cap. now i hope it is only my imagination, but there is this HUGE intuition that tells me smth just ISNT right.... pls help me fellow caps!!!.................

we've been together for 5years, now he's known her for even longer, maybe 6 or 7years.

he is a mature guy. In our relationship, my side has always been a romantic one, and since the very beginning i made it clear to him (so not a secret crush or other bs), now his side officially had changed from flirt>friendship>intimate relationship (god it took LOOOOOONG)>labelled relationship as such (this took even longer). we live close to each other, see each other frequently, go on the trips and and all that bla bla, there is my kid involved (strongly) and some of our businesses. he does provide for me as well (partly, not entirely)

now, she and him have always been long-distance friends, they are in different continents. he's seen her only once in person, and that happened maybe after 4 yrs of friendship. still, they msg each other every day, do skype calls a few times a week, he's sort of involved in her project, he's also recently been supporting her financially too, as she is in a difficult position (different race and religion and issues related w that) and he calls her sweetie and dearest, wishes her good night almost every night. AND NONE OF THIS SWEETNESS HE DOES TO ME!!!!!! (or way less!!!!) she, on the other hand, no way acts more than a friend to him, but daily requires his attention, like sending him short texts, or asking advices on project, or sharing her emotions (often sad, or lonely, and thus - my cap is soooo into empathizing and all that stuff, i am sickkkk of it)

what stroke me hard, she has known way before i knew, the fact that me and him are actually together (meaning he'd told her long before he would tell me about our status, -such a torturing creature!)

i know this all well, we have also talked about it with him, i was almost like openly telling him that i think he loves her, and no way he would admit it, he would just say that they are good friends, she is a very nice and cool girl, and she needs his help, and stuff like that. and that she would've laughed hard if she knew we were talking about such a nonsense.

AM I CRAZY thinking this—?
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justlikeheaven
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Caps are closer to their friends than they are with their partner.I think you are jealous (which is normal) for nothing.They are best friends.Nothing more.

Keep an eye on their friendship just in case, but don't take everything so personally, it is his right to have friends (no matter if they are men or women) and to help them.What you're doing here is called self-sabotaging your relationship.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
I wouldn't even begin to get invovled with any man that had another woman in the background

Yes you're crazy for sure
FWB as long distance FriendsOnFinanxialSupport!

He sends her money? I would be his friend forever!!! Few texts and Skype...it’s going to be $ 100 per week honey! I am your friend...is it troll post—

And you say I am out of my mind!!!

Apologize! Now!!! ROFLMAO!

❤️DXP!
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
I wouldn't even begin to get invovled with any man that had another woman in the background

Yes you're crazy for sure
FWB as long distance FriendsOnFinanxialSupport!

He sends her money? I would be his friend forever!!! Few texts and Skype...it’s going to be $ 100 per week honey! I am your friend...is it troll post—

And you say I am out of my mind!!!

Apologize! Now!!! ROFLMAO!

❤️DXP!
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She’s making it her mission to get in between them, i know how cap girls are.

Op, i wouldn’t let it bother you because that’s what she wants.
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
Okay so the other girl is a cap? And she knows he is taken?!?

Wasn’t there a story about a cap girl who wanted someone who was married?!

Why do cap girls to this to themselves?! And she’s sending him stuff daily, kind of desperate don’t you think?

Pitty her.
Nooooo! He pays her! She must or money flow will be cut and she apparently used to it by now...
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Okay so the other girl is a cap? And she knows he is taken?!?

Wasn’t there a story about a cap girl who wanted someone who was married?!

Why do cap girls to this to themselves?! And she’s sending him stuff daily, kind of desperate don’t you think?

Pitty her.
Nooooo! He pays her! She must or money flow will be cut and she apparently used to it by now...
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I would go ape shit if that was my cap
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
I wouldn't even begin to get invovled with any man that had another woman in the background

Yes you're crazy for sure
FWB as long distance FriendsOnFinanxialSupport!

He sends her money? I would be his friend forever!!! Few texts and Skype...it’s going to be $ 100 per week honey! I am your friend...is it troll post—

And you say I am out of my mind!!!

Apologize! Now!!! ROFLMAO!

❤️DXP!

She’s making it her mission to get in between them, i know how cap girls are.

Op, i wouldn’t let it bother you because that’s what she wants.

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For 7 years? She probably married and used his money for the wedding!

Also if she had a mission - she would fly in to break them up!

She apparently wasn’t all thrilled after their only meeting...but money curing all!
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
I wouldn't even begin to get invovled with any man that had another woman in the background

Yes you're crazy for sure
FWB as long distance FriendsOnFinanxialSupport!

He sends her money? I would be his friend forever!!! Few texts and Skype...it’s going to be $ 100 per week honey! I am your friend...is it troll post—

And you say I am out of my mind!!!

Apologize! Now!!! ROFLMAO!

❤️DXP!

She’s making it her mission to get in between them, i know how cap girls are.

Op, i wouldn’t let it bother you because that’s what she wants.


For 7 years? She probably married and used his money for the wedding!

Also if she had a mission - she would fly in to break them up!

She apparently wasn’t all thrilled after their only meeting...but money curing all!
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I’m sure she’s already flown out there!! There’s more to this story and her cap isn’t telling her everything. SMFH
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Okay so the other girl is a cap? And she knows he is taken?!?

Wasn’t there a story about a cap girl who wanted someone who was married?!

Why do cap girls to this to themselves?! And she’s sending him stuff daily, kind of desperate don’t you think?

Pitty her.
Nooooo! He pays her! She must or money flow will be cut and she apparently used to it by now...

I would go ape shit if that was my cap

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What if he was a...letsnsay...Scorpio? Lol

Just wanted to type ‘Scorpio’...Nevermind! Lol
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He’s with you for all the physical aspects because she lives far away, and it seems like he’s too emotionally invested with her. Substitution at its finest here.

Just kill her.
Will he pay for the trip? Lmao
Lmfao!!!!

Fly overseas for a bum

Good times
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He is no bum! He supports 2 women!

And I meant should he pay for her going on killing spree? And weapon?
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Okay so the other girl is a cap? And she knows he is taken?!?

Wasn’t there a story about a cap girl who wanted someone who was married?!

Why do cap girls to this to themselves?! And she’s sending him stuff daily, kind of desperate don’t you think?

Pitty her.
Nooooo! He pays her! She must or money flow will be cut and she apparently used to it by now...

I would go ape shit if that was my cap


What if he was a...letsnsay...Scorpio? Lol

Just wanted to type ‘Scorpio’...Nevermind! Lol
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If he was a Scorpio he would of already killed her
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
I wouldn't even begin to get invovled with any man that had another woman in the background

Yes you're crazy for sure
FWB as long distance FriendsOnFinanxialSupport!

He sends her money? I would be his friend forever!!! Few texts and Skype...it’s going to be $ 100 per week honey! I am your friend...is it troll post—

And you say I am out of my mind!!!

Apologize! Now!!! ROFLMAO!

❤️DXP!

She’s making it her mission to get in between them, i know how cap girls are.

Op, i wouldn’t let it bother you because that’s what she wants.


For 7 years? She probably married and used his money for the wedding!

Also if she had a mission - she would fly in to break them up!

She apparently wasn’t all thrilled after their only meeting...but money curing all!
I’m sure she’s already flown out there!! There’s more to this story and her cap isn’t telling her everything. SMFH
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You mean she took Topazes post to the heart and went to the Cap like - give me the money! I’ll kill that bitch! And he just asked how much...and there she is. In airport...hope she smart enough to get weapons over THERE! Not boarding with it...watch the news!!!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Okay so the other girl is a cap? And she knows he is taken?!?

Wasn’t there a story about a cap girl who wanted someone who was married?!

Why do cap girls to this to themselves?! And she’s sending him stuff daily, kind of desperate don’t you think?

Pitty her.
Nooooo! He pays her! She must or money flow will be cut and she apparently used to it by now...

I would go ape shit if that was my cap


What if he was a...letsnsay...Scorpio? Lol

Just wanted to type ‘Scorpio’...Nevermind! Lol

If he was a Scorpio he would of already killed her

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What for? He has it all and being able to afford it...chilling enjoying his life...Naaah
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Posted by justlikeheaven
Caps are closer to their friends than they are with their partner.I think you are jealous (which is normal) for nothing.They are best friends.Nothing more.

Keep an eye on their friendship just in case, but don't take everything so personally, it is his right to have friends (no matter if they are men or women) and to help them.What you're doing here is called self-sabotaging your relationship.
THATS the stupidest thing I’ve ever read yet! 👎
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by justlikeheaven
Caps are closer to their friends than they are with their partner.I think you are jealous (which is normal) for nothing.They are best friends.Nothing more.

Keep an eye on their friendship just in case, but don't take everything so personally, it is his right to have friends (no matter if they are men or women) and to help them.What you're doing here is called self-sabotaging your relationship.
THATS the stupidest thing I’ve ever read yet! 👎

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Omg, you're so right, my mistake, I've wrote it just for those who possess a brain and know how to use it.sorry
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First things first, you have been with this guy for 5 years and how come you don't live together? Maybe it's time for big changes, you gotta move in with him. Good part is she might not be emotionally invested at all and using him only for money. What is he wants the most but doesn't have? maybe you can give him a child? or I don't know, find out more about that girl and manage to push her into something unpleasant. You said something about religion and stuff, if she's from middle east, she shouldn't be skyping strangers and if you can access her surroundings and family members I believe they will take care of her.
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Posted by pisceanloves
First things first, you have been with this guy for 5 years and how come you don't live together? Maybe it's time for big changes, you gotta move in with him. Good part is she might not be emotionally invested at all and using him only for money. What is he wants the most but doesn't have? maybe you can give him a child? or I don't know, find out more about that girl and manage to push her into something unpleasant. You said something about religion and stuff, if she's from middle east, she shouldn't be skyping strangers and if you can access her surroundings and family members I believe they will take care of her.


This is so evil .



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He will fall for her even more, cuz men love when they save their lover
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Posted by Gemitati
Great! I’ll go dind some slow releasing poison and call THE MAN about it...

What if he won’t come to save me and instead just breathe out with release ‘yessss’...lmao
Do it



Hurry up !
I am afraid YOU will come to my rescue and there is going to be THE END!


I will come and save your ass

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That’s why you don’t have my address!

From poisoning to heart attack...no thank you...
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
Okay so the other girl is a cap? And she knows he is taken?!?

Wasn’t there a story about a cap girl who wanted someone who was married?!

Why do cap girls to this to themselves?! And she’s sending him stuff daily, kind of desperate don’t you think?

Pitty her.
Why are DXPer so good at assuming? Didn't she say that she treats him like a friend. smh. You guy should write novels with that kind of imagination.
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Posted by justlikeheaven
Caps are closer to their friends than they are with their partner.I think you are jealous (which is normal) for nothing.They are best friends.Nothing more.

Keep an eye on their friendship just in case, but don't take everything so personally, it is his right to have friends (no matter if they are men or women) and to help them.What you're doing here is called self-sabotaging your relationship.
OP, I also agree with this. I'm a Cap as well. It seems like they're really good friends and have history. They're a little too close for any woman to be comfortable but that cna change if you put yourself more into the picture. If you want the same emotional intimacy then I would try to find out what he likes about his friendship with her and then see if it's something you guys can work on having in yours.

The drama queens here will tell fuel your understandable insecurity but if you logically put the pieces together then you will realize that they're just friends. If they would be more than they'd make more effort to see each other in person especially since he partly supports her financially. I'd definitely keep an eye out for anything suspicious but wouldn't let those jealous emotions get out of hand. 🙂
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Posted by pisceanloves
First things first, you have been with this guy for 5 years and how come you don't live together? Maybe it's time for big changes, you gotta move in with him. Good part is she might not be emotionally invested at all and using him only for money. What is he wants the most but doesn't have? maybe you can give him a child? or I don't know, find out more about that girl and manage to push her into something unpleasant. You said something about religion and stuff, if she's from middle east, she shouldn't be skyping strangers and if you can access her surroundings and family members I believe they will take care of her.
wtf evil kind of shit is this. lmao.
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Gemitati
Great! I’ll go dind some slow releasing poison and call THE MAN about it...

What if he won’t come to save me and instead just breathe out with release ‘yessss’...lmao
Do it



Hurry up !
I am afraid YOU will come to my rescue and there is going to be THE END!


I will come and save your ass


That’s why you don’t have my address!

From poisoning to heart attack...no thank you...
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Did u ever loved the cap?
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Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Gemitati
Great! I’ll go dind some slow releasing poison and call THE MAN about it...

What if he won’t come to save me and instead just breathe out with release ‘yessss’...lmao
Do it



Hurry up !
I am afraid YOU will come to my rescue and there is going to be THE END!


I will come and save your ass


That’s why you don’t have my address!

From poisoning to heart attack...no thank you...
Did u ever loved the cap?

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Madly! From 26. Adored him!
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Gemitati
Great! I’ll go dind some slow releasing poison and call THE MAN about it...

What if he won’t come to save me and instead just breathe out with release ‘yessss’...lmao
Do it



Hurry up !
I am afraid YOU will come to my rescue and there is going to be THE END!


I will come and save your ass


That’s why you don’t have my address!

From poisoning to heart attack...no thank you...
Did u ever loved the cap?


Madly! From 26. Adored him!
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You just needed a scorpio venus shyt to your crazy cancer venus

I know cuz the gemini I know always come back to me because I’m crazy

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I would love to find any sign to pay my mortgage! As a friend...
ikr
You are next in line!

I said it first!

Where is sign up shit? Lmao
lol you crack me uppp
Wait...I haven’t hit you with a hammer yet!

What kind of nut are you! Wulnut or almond? Lol
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im allergic😢
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Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Haruuka
Posted by Gemitati
Great! I’ll go dind some slow releasing poison and call THE MAN about it...

What if he won’t come to save me and instead just breathe out with release ‘yessss’...lmao
Do it



Hurry up !
I am afraid YOU will come to my rescue and there is going to be THE END!


I will come and save your ass


That’s why you don’t have my address!

From poisoning to heart attack...no thank you...
Did u ever loved the cap?


Madly! From 26. Adored him!


You just needed a scorpio venus shyt to your crazy cancer venus

I know cuz the gemini I know always come back to me because I’m crazy

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I would be happy with simply a Scorpio penis!! Whatever Venus he is - fuck it!

Mine is Scorpio Venus...awesome right?
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